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Are you deeply caring & highly sensitive… but exhausted from holding everything together for everyone else? Maybe you overthink, struggle to say no, feel anxious when others are upset, or quietly wonder “who am I now?” I help women gently untangle patterns of people-pleasing, self-doubt & emotional exhaustion through online somatic and arts therapy. Together we work beyond the thinking mind, helping you reconnect with yourself, create inner safety & respond to life in a way that feels steadier, freer & more true to who you are.
I specialise in ‘Good Girl Syndrome’—a pattern many women learned early in life where being helpful, agreeable or “easy” became the safest way to feel accepted or loved. Over time, this can leave you burnt out, disconnected from yourself & constantly looking outside yourself for reassurance or permission.
If you’re curious about this work, Inner Compass is a gentle, low cost place to begin. It’s a reflective self-guided starting point designed to help you better understand your patterns, reconnect with yourself & begin responding to life with more clarity, self-trust & ease. Read more or purchase at: www.reconnectme.nz/inner-compass
Take the first step to help. Call or Joanne Deaker now - 0800 468 212 x36

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Motueka 7120

0800 468 212 x36
My website
Start with 'Inner Compass' or book a 30-min intro zoom for 1:1 therapy at www.reconnectme.nz
I specialize in Nervous System Regulation, Good Girl Syndrome and Divorce 
$140 Per Session  
Drowning in a whirlwind of doing? I help deeply caring, highly sensitive women reclaim their lives.
Joanne Deaker
Let's Connect 0800 468 212 x36
Photo of Joanne Deaker

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Motueka 7120

0800 468 212 x36
My website
Start with 'Inner Compass' or book a 30-min intro zoom for 1:1 therapy at www.reconnectme.nz
I specialize in Nervous System Regulation, Good Girl Syndrome and Divorce 
$140 Per Session  
Drowning in a whirlwind of doing? I help deeply caring, highly sensitive women reclaim their lives.
Joanne Deaker

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $140

Payment Methods

Bank transfer, Mastercard, Visa
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Inner Compass $99. 30min Intro Consult $75. Single 1:1 60min therapy session $140 or 8xsession 1:1 therapy packages $999. Payment via credit card (stripe invoicing) or for NZ only - direct bank transfer.
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Joanne Deaker
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Inner Compass $99. 30min Intro Consult $75. Single 1:1 60min therapy session $140 or 8xsession 1:1 therapy packages $999. Payment via credit card (stripe invoicing) or for NZ only - direct bank transfer.
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Joanne Deaker
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Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Diploma from Whitecliffe College Joanne Deaker
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 5 years
  • Attended Postgraduate Arts Therapy / Cert Somatic Therapy , PGDipAT, Graduated 2020
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from The Centre for Healing, Australia Embodied Processing Practitioner / 2023
  • Certificate from The Centre for Healing Australia Trauma Informed / 2023
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I have lived experience of good girl syndrome, codependency, parenting, divorce, empty nest, worldview shifts and more. So when we work together, you'll get someone who truly understands.
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Joanne Deaker
or call with questions - 0800 468 212 x36
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I have lived experience of good girl syndrome, codependency, parenting, divorce, empty nest, worldview shifts and more. So when we work together, you'll get someone who truly understands.
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Joanne Deaker
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Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Nervous System Regulation
  • Good Girl Syndrome
  • Divorce

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Coping Skills
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
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I specialize in 'good girl syndrome', nervous system regulation and divorce recovery in adults. I offer 1:1 online therapy where we work together to create safety within the nervous system before diving deep to the root cause of your challenge and/or patterns. I also offer a small group coaching program for 'good girl syndrome'. I now offer Inner Compass (see website) as a gentle starting point.
Photo of Joanne Deaker
Joanne Deaker
or call with questions - 0800 468 212 x36
"
I specialize in 'good girl syndrome', nervous system regulation and divorce recovery in adults. I offer 1:1 online therapy where we work together to create safety within the nervous system before diving deep to the root cause of your challenge and/or patterns. I also offer a small group coaching program for 'good girl syndrome'. I now offer Inner Compass (see website) as a gentle starting point.
Photo of Joanne Deaker
Joanne Deaker
or call with questions - 0800 468 212 x36

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Art Therapy
  • Coaching
  • Embodied Processing
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Expressive Arts
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Somatic
  • Trauma Focused
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I use a somatic technique called Embodied Processing to tap into the wisdom of your body and create a safe container to access the root of your issues & too allow the associated emotions to slowly surface and be processed. Arts therapy is used alongside this because of its gentleness and additional ability to bypass the mind so new insights and ways of seeing things can be created.
Photo of Joanne Deaker
Joanne Deaker
or call with questions - 0800 468 212 x36
"
I use a somatic technique called Embodied Processing to tap into the wisdom of your body and create a safe container to access the root of your issues & too allow the associated emotions to slowly surface and be processed. Arts therapy is used alongside this because of its gentleness and additional ability to bypass the mind so new insights and ways of seeing things can be created.
Photo of Joanne Deaker
Joanne Deaker
or call with questions - 0800 468 212 x36

Location

Primary Location

Motueka 7120

0800 468 212 x36
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Start with 'Inner Compass' or book a 30-min intro zoom for 1:1 therapy at www.reconnectme.nz
Photo of Joanne Deaker
Joanne Deaker
Take the first step to help. Call now - 0800 468 212 x36
"
Start with 'Inner Compass' or book a 30-min intro zoom for 1:1 therapy at www.reconnectme.nz
Photo of Joanne Deaker
Joanne Deaker
Take the first step to help. Call now - 0800 468 212 x36