Relationship Issues Therapists in Tauranga

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Many successful professionals struggle with relationship issues like broken communication, constant conflicts, lost intimacy, or trust rebuilding.
Grant has helped thousands of couples go from loneliness to a warm, intimate connection as best friends and lovers—often in less than 60 days. With over 40 years of experience, he provides practical innovative tools for resolving conflicts, rebuilding trust, restoring intimacy, and creating the loving relationship you deserve.
Many successful professionals struggle with relationship issues like broken communication, constant conflicts, lost intimacy, or trust rebuilding.
Grant has helped thousands of couples go from loneliness to a warm, intimate connection as best friends and lovers—often in less than 60 days. With over 40 years of experience, he provides practical innovative tools for resolving conflicts, rebuilding trust, restoring intimacy, and creating the loving relationship you deserve.

Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.

She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.

I ensure that each person is listened to with the greatest care and believe that the therapeutic relationship is an important catalyst for change.
My name is Sandy Laurenson, I am a Clinical Psychologist who offers online appointments to adolescents and adults. I have more than 10 years experience in both public and private sectors and support people with a range of difficulties (i.e., anxiety, OCD, stress, low mood, emotion dysregulation, relational difficulties, trauma and eating disorders), as well as those pursuing performance optimisation goals. I am trained in evidence-based therapies such as CBT, ACT, DBT, EMDR, and Mindfulness.
I ensure that each person is listened to with the greatest care and believe that the therapeutic relationship is an important catalyst for change.
My name is Sandy Laurenson, I am a Clinical Psychologist who offers online appointments to adolescents and adults. I have more than 10 years experience in both public and private sectors and support people with a range of difficulties (i.e., anxiety, OCD, stress, low mood, emotion dysregulation, relational difficulties, trauma and eating disorders), as well as those pursuing performance optimisation goals. I am trained in evidence-based therapies such as CBT, ACT, DBT, EMDR, and Mindfulness.

As a qualified and registered counsellor, I have the privilege of working with individuals facing a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual addiction, relationship issues, workplace issues and many other difficulties that become apparent in people’s lives.
My approach is client-centered, meaning that your unique needs guide our sessions. I draw from a variety of therapeutic techniques, including cognitive-behavioural strategies, narrative therapy, always tailoring our work to resonate with your personal needs. I'm here to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore, express, and evolve.
As a qualified and registered counsellor, I have the privilege of working with individuals facing a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, sexual addiction, relationship issues, workplace issues and many other difficulties that become apparent in people’s lives.
My approach is client-centered, meaning that your unique needs guide our sessions. I draw from a variety of therapeutic techniques, including cognitive-behavioural strategies, narrative therapy, always tailoring our work to resonate with your personal needs. I'm here to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore, express, and evolve.

Chrysalis Infant - Child - Family Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Tauranga 3110
I also specialise in supporting parents who experience their child as demanding or clingy, to shift focus from behaviour management to enhancing the quality of relationship.
I use a play based approach with children, including sand play and art. Circle of Security Parent Programme is offered for parents seeking understanding of their child’s emotional needs which may lie behind problematic behaviours. Watch Wait and Wonder is a child-led infant-parent psychotherapy that strengthens the parent/child relationship.
I also specialise in supporting parents who experience their child as demanding or clingy, to shift focus from behaviour management to enhancing the quality of relationship.
I use a play based approach with children, including sand play and art. Circle of Security Parent Programme is offered for parents seeking understanding of their child’s emotional needs which may lie behind problematic behaviours. Watch Wait and Wonder is a child-led infant-parent psychotherapy that strengthens the parent/child relationship.

The therapeutic relationship is an important catalyst for change that allows clients to explore in therapy and feel supported in that process.
My name is Rebecca Thurlow, I am a registered Psychologist with an interest in working with adolescents and adults. I have experience working in the public sector. I support people with a wide range of mental health difficulties including anxiety, low mood, emotional dysregulation, personality disorders, OCD, eating disorders, and trauma. I am trained in a range of evidence-based therapies such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Compassion-Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness. I use an integrative approach which helps to tailor therapy to each individual client.
The therapeutic relationship is an important catalyst for change that allows clients to explore in therapy and feel supported in that process.
My name is Rebecca Thurlow, I am a registered Psychologist with an interest in working with adolescents and adults. I have experience working in the public sector. I support people with a wide range of mental health difficulties including anxiety, low mood, emotional dysregulation, personality disorders, OCD, eating disorders, and trauma. I am trained in a range of evidence-based therapies such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Compassion-Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness. I use an integrative approach which helps to tailor therapy to each individual client.

I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, identity, stress, separation & divorce, relationship & family difficulties, trauma, & perinatal mental health.
As a counsellor, I provide a safe, warm, confidential, & non-judgmental environment for you to process difficult emotions. My commitment is to create a supportive & attentive space where you can work through your troubles, ultimately enhancing self-awareness, personal strength, & resilience.
I work with clients who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, identity, stress, separation & divorce, relationship & family difficulties, trauma, & perinatal mental health.
As a counsellor, I provide a safe, warm, confidential, & non-judgmental environment for you to process difficult emotions. My commitment is to create a supportive & attentive space where you can work through your troubles, ultimately enhancing self-awareness, personal strength, & resilience.

I have experience working with many kinds of issues and challenges but specialize in trauma, anxiety, addictions, and relationship issues.
I offer a safe place for individuals and couples to feel heard and validated while working through issues. I provide a non-judgmental and confidential environment to process hard things, improve communication, reduce conflict, and gain a new perspective. I offer strategies and tools to move forward, set goals, and plan for the future.
I have experience working with many kinds of issues and challenges but specialize in trauma, anxiety, addictions, and relationship issues.
I offer a safe place for individuals and couples to feel heard and validated while working through issues. I provide a non-judgmental and confidential environment to process hard things, improve communication, reduce conflict, and gain a new perspective. I offer strategies and tools to move forward, set goals, and plan for the future.

This may come as a result of a big shock, the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job or some other trauma that shakes us to our very core.
Working gently and with no judgement, I provide a safe space for my clients to explore their thoughts, feelings and sensations as they arise. As they reconnect with their inner wisdom they find they are able to experience life with less struggle and more flow. Inner peace returns along with a sense of being alive to every moment.
This may come as a result of a big shock, the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job or some other trauma that shakes us to our very core.
Working gently and with no judgement, I provide a safe space for my clients to explore their thoughts, feelings and sensations as they arise. As they reconnect with their inner wisdom they find they are able to experience life with less struggle and more flow. Inner peace returns along with a sense of being alive to every moment.

I specialise in supporting clients struggling with relationship or family-related trauma.
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
I specialise in supporting clients struggling with relationship or family-related trauma.
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
Meet Our Relationship Issues Counsellors

I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and OCD.
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/intrusive thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and OCD.
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/intrusive thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.

I can assist individual clients and couples with problems such as feeling overwhelmed, experiencing grief & loss, current difficulties, chronic and acute stress, work-related stress, mental, physical & sexual abuse, anxiety, depression and relationship difficulties including poor communication.
I use specific modalities best suited to my clients needs. Everyone is different therefore It’s important to ensure clients receive the type of therapy that works for them and not a ‘one shoe fits all’ attitude. I’ve worked with many male clients successfully, and my ability to form a trusting relationship with them has helped with relationship Counselling.
I can assist individual clients and couples with problems such as feeling overwhelmed, experiencing grief & loss, current difficulties, chronic and acute stress, work-related stress, mental, physical & sexual abuse, anxiety, depression and relationship difficulties including poor communication.
I use specific modalities best suited to my clients needs. Everyone is different therefore It’s important to ensure clients receive the type of therapy that works for them and not a ‘one shoe fits all’ attitude. I’ve worked with many male clients successfully, and my ability to form a trusting relationship with them has helped with relationship Counselling.

Dr. Hayley Walker-Williams (Bwrt Practitioner)
Psychologist, PhD, MNZCCP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Her clinical expertise include psychological disorders and specifically trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues.
Her therapeutic approach is eclectic and trauma-informed and draws on evidence-based modalities like CBT, Psychodynamic, DBT, and TF-CBT as well as the new promising practice of Brain-Working Recursive Therapy (BWRT) a short-term therapy designed to quickly and permanently rewire the way your brain reacts to stressors to reduce anxiety responses.
Her clinical expertise include psychological disorders and specifically trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues.
Her therapeutic approach is eclectic and trauma-informed and draws on evidence-based modalities like CBT, Psychodynamic, DBT, and TF-CBT as well as the new promising practice of Brain-Working Recursive Therapy (BWRT) a short-term therapy designed to quickly and permanently rewire the way your brain reacts to stressors to reduce anxiety responses.

My whole-person, evidence-based approach is effective for anxiety, depression, self-worth and people-pleasing, and work and relationship stress.
Life can be hard, but hope and healing are within reach. Whether you’re struggling with your emotions, wanting to understand yourself better, or wish to transform your life, I can help. Together, we'll process how your past has shaped you, uncover the root causes of your current struggles, and equip you with practical tools to create a more fulfilling life. If you choose to work with me, you can expect an experience grounded in empathy, respect and hope.
My whole-person, evidence-based approach is effective for anxiety, depression, self-worth and people-pleasing, and work and relationship stress.
Life can be hard, but hope and healing are within reach. Whether you’re struggling with your emotions, wanting to understand yourself better, or wish to transform your life, I can help. Together, we'll process how your past has shaped you, uncover the root causes of your current struggles, and equip you with practical tools to create a more fulfilling life. If you choose to work with me, you can expect an experience grounded in empathy, respect and hope.

I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.

My Special Clients are Clients seeking Help for Anxiety/Depression, Stress, Work & Relationship Difficulties, Alcohol, Gambling, Grief/Bereavement & Other Issues.
I am a Registered Psychologist (New Zealand) with over 30 years experience in working with a variety of clients from many different Nationalities and Ethnicities using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Data-Driven approaches that provide results for individuals.
My Special Clients are Clients seeking Help for Anxiety/Depression, Stress, Work & Relationship Difficulties, Alcohol, Gambling, Grief/Bereavement & Other Issues.
I am a Registered Psychologist (New Zealand) with over 30 years experience in working with a variety of clients from many different Nationalities and Ethnicities using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Data-Driven approaches that provide results for individuals.

Hi I'm Bergen, I've been a counsellor for 16 years. I have a vast range of knowledge and experience and it would be my pleasure to work with you and support you in whatever way you need. My approach is eclectic, using a range of modalities' and resources. I come from a direct, empathic, genuine position when dealing with my clients. As I get to know you , you get to know me. I do this professional because I car and have a heart for people. I work with many different clients and their different needs.
Hi I'm Bergen, I've been a counsellor for 16 years. I have a vast range of knowledge and experience and it would be my pleasure to work with you and support you in whatever way you need. My approach is eclectic, using a range of modalities' and resources. I come from a direct, empathic, genuine position when dealing with my clients. As I get to know you , you get to know me. I do this professional because I car and have a heart for people. I work with many different clients and their different needs.

Kia Ora katou. My name is Sofia, from Argentina but calling New Zealand my home for the past six years. With a background in handling high-complex trauma, grief, sexual violence, domestic abuse, children and adolescent mental health, and family dynamics. My professional journey encompasses a holistic approach, integrating various modalities such as Theraplay, Gottman's Couple Therapy, TFCBT, along with mindfulness, IFS, IST, transgenerational trauma, and narrative therapy.
Kia Ora katou. My name is Sofia, from Argentina but calling New Zealand my home for the past six years. With a background in handling high-complex trauma, grief, sexual violence, domestic abuse, children and adolescent mental health, and family dynamics. My professional journey encompasses a holistic approach, integrating various modalities such as Theraplay, Gottman's Couple Therapy, TFCBT, along with mindfulness, IFS, IST, transgenerational trauma, and narrative therapy.

Hi there - my background includes working as a Registered Nurse for 6 years, and then as an Independant Midwife for 10 years. I paused to raise and home-educate my 4 children (all adults now, and I'm now enjoying being a Grandma. I then retrained to gain a Batchelor in Counselling 13 years ago and have really enjoyed for the past 13 years working with children through to the elderly. I can see you face to face, or via zoom. I work in a number of different modalities to suit your needs. I work with all ethnicities.
Hi there - my background includes working as a Registered Nurse for 6 years, and then as an Independant Midwife for 10 years. I paused to raise and home-educate my 4 children (all adults now, and I'm now enjoying being a Grandma. I then retrained to gain a Batchelor in Counselling 13 years ago and have really enjoyed for the past 13 years working with children through to the elderly. I can see you face to face, or via zoom. I work in a number of different modalities to suit your needs. I work with all ethnicities.
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While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.