Relationship Issues Therapists in Tauranga

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Rosemary A White
Counsellor, MNZCCA
Tauranga 3112
I have been trained in Narrative, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Child Play Therapy, EMDR, Domestic Violence, Depression, Eating Disorders, Addiction Recovery, Dream Therapy, Suicide, Grief, Post Abortion Therapy, Sexual Abuse and Trauma Therapy, Couple and Family Therapy, Grief Therapy.
Hi there - my background includes working as a Registered Nurse for 6 years, and then as an Independant Midwife for 10 years. I paused to raise and home-educate my 4 children (all adults now, and I'm now enjoying being a Grandma. I then retrained to gain a Batchelor in Counselling 13 years ago and have really enjoyed for the past 13 years working with children through to the elderly. I can see you face to face, or via zoom. I work in a number of different modalities to suit your needs. I work with all ethnicities.
I have been trained in Narrative, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Child Play Therapy, EMDR, Domestic Violence, Depression, Eating Disorders, Addiction Recovery, Dream Therapy, Suicide, Grief, Post Abortion Therapy, Sexual Abuse and Trauma Therapy, Couple and Family Therapy, Grief Therapy.
Hi there - my background includes working as a Registered Nurse for 6 years, and then as an Independant Midwife for 10 years. I paused to raise and home-educate my 4 children (all adults now, and I'm now enjoying being a Grandma. I then retrained to gain a Batchelor in Counselling 13 years ago and have really enjoyed for the past 13 years working with children through to the elderly. I can see you face to face, or via zoom. I work in a number of different modalities to suit your needs. I work with all ethnicities.
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Sofia Antonella Scozzafava
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Tauranga 3110
I support children, teens, adults and families navigating trauma, grief, sexual violence, domestic abuse, and relationship challenges.
I specialize in empowering clients to reclaim their sense of agency, guiding them to recognize their role in shaping their lives. By fostering self-understanding and collaboration, I help clients connect with their own histories and explore new perspectives through the integration of tales, books, archetypes, and movies.
I support children, teens, adults and families navigating trauma, grief, sexual violence, domestic abuse, and relationship challenges.
I specialize in empowering clients to reclaim their sense of agency, guiding them to recognize their role in shaping their lives. By fostering self-understanding and collaboration, I help clients connect with their own histories and explore new perspectives through the integration of tales, books, archetypes, and movies.
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Bergen Gell
Counsellor, MNZAC
Tauranga 3110
I work strongly with couples, family harm, grief and loss and mental health issues.
Hi I'm Bergen, I've been a counsellor for 16 years. I have a vast range of knowledge and experience and it would be my pleasure to work with you and support you in whatever way you need. My approach is eclectic, using a range of modalities' and resources. I come from a direct, empathic, genuine position when dealing with my clients. As I get to know you , you get to know me. I do this professional because I car and have a heart for people. I work with many different clients and their different needs.
I work strongly with couples, family harm, grief and loss and mental health issues.
Hi I'm Bergen, I've been a counsellor for 16 years. I have a vast range of knowledge and experience and it would be my pleasure to work with you and support you in whatever way you need. My approach is eclectic, using a range of modalities' and resources. I come from a direct, empathic, genuine position when dealing with my clients. As I get to know you , you get to know me. I do this professional because I car and have a heart for people. I work with many different clients and their different needs.
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Steve Gore
Counsellor, MNZAC
Tauranga 3110
I see individuals over the age of 18 for a wide number of needs. People come to counselling because they want changes in their lives and are unsure how to make those changes. Often they are stuck in stories or habits of the past , or traumas have locked them into unhelpful ways of being. People use therapy to achieve those goals and then move on.
I see individuals over the age of 18 for a wide number of needs. People come to counselling because they want changes in their lives and are unsure how to make those changes. Often they are stuck in stories or habits of the past , or traumas have locked them into unhelpful ways of being. People use therapy to achieve those goals and then move on.
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Kushlani Munasinghe
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Tauranga 3112
You might be dealing with stress, anxiety or low mood, carrying the effects of trauma, struggling with relationships or attachment, finding it hard to manage emotions, exploring your identity, or navigating migration and life transitions.
I'm mindful of how our past shapes how we feel and respond today, and we’ll work together to understand what’s holding you back and strengthen the resources that help you feel more steady and connected. I draw on evidence-based approaches ACT, DBT-informed therapy, CBT, EMDR, SFT, Narrative, Gestalt, and Family Systems Therapy, and tailor therapy to you.
You might be dealing with stress, anxiety or low mood, carrying the effects of trauma, struggling with relationships or attachment, finding it hard to manage emotions, exploring your identity, or navigating migration and life transitions.
I'm mindful of how our past shapes how we feel and respond today, and we’ll work together to understand what’s holding you back and strengthen the resources that help you feel more steady and connected. I draw on evidence-based approaches ACT, DBT-informed therapy, CBT, EMDR, SFT, Narrative, Gestalt, and Family Systems Therapy, and tailor therapy to you.
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Sarel du Plessis
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
1 Endorsed
Tauranga 3112
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck—overwhelmed by anxiety, relationship strain, unresolved trauma, or the weight of past experiences.
I support adults navigating ADHD, relationships, grief, trauma and life transitions. Using a warm, person-centred and trauma-informed approach, I offer practical tools, clarity and emotional support to help you heal, grow and build a more grounded, empowered life.
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck—overwhelmed by anxiety, relationship strain, unresolved trauma, or the weight of past experiences.
I support adults navigating ADHD, relationships, grief, trauma and life transitions. Using a warm, person-centred and trauma-informed approach, I offer practical tools, clarity and emotional support to help you heal, grow and build a more grounded, empowered life.
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Anna Spencer
Counsellor, MNZCCA
1 Endorsed
Tauranga 3112
If you are struggling with a personal or relational issue or maybe you are facing an obstacle for the first time, having the space to breathe & to be deeply heard is like receiving one of life's greatest gifts.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues & my counselling practice is deeply compassionate & encouraging. I mainly use talking therapy techniques & I offer Art Therapy which can be particularly useful to gain a deeper understanding of your emotions & experiences.
If you are struggling with a personal or relational issue or maybe you are facing an obstacle for the first time, having the space to breathe & to be deeply heard is like receiving one of life's greatest gifts.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues & my counselling practice is deeply compassionate & encouraging. I mainly use talking therapy techniques & I offer Art Therapy which can be particularly useful to gain a deeper understanding of your emotions & experiences.
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Grant Wattie, Marriage & Couples Counsellor, MNZAC
Counsellor, MNZAC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership.
With 40+ years experience, advanced training in Gottman, EFT, Imago, and our transformation model, I work with executives, founders, and entrepreneurial couples rebuilding connection—often in days not months. Unlike traditional therapy, I integrate mentoring, leadership principles, and therapeutic tools delivering rapid results in both relationships and life
Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership.
With 40+ years experience, advanced training in Gottman, EFT, Imago, and our transformation model, I work with executives, founders, and entrepreneurial couples rebuilding connection—often in days not months. Unlike traditional therapy, I integrate mentoring, leadership principles, and therapeutic tools delivering rapid results in both relationships and life
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Becky Bradley
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/intrusive thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/intrusive thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
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Meagan Goodman
Psychologist, MPsych
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities.
I take a collaborative, strength-based approach to therapy. I utilise evidence-based best-practice modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Dialectical Behaviour skills. I also teach emotion regulation skills, self-compassion practices, and utilise the Imago Dialogue to enhance communication skills.
I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities.
I take a collaborative, strength-based approach to therapy. I utilise evidence-based best-practice modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Dialectical Behaviour skills. I also teach emotion regulation skills, self-compassion practices, and utilise the Imago Dialogue to enhance communication skills.
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Shelley Harvill - Rainbow Consulting
Psychologist, PhD
Online Only
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
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Anihera Tahu-Hepworth
Counsellor, MNZAC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
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Glenda Irwin
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
I help individuals to thrive - predominately in relationship.
I'll take a Case Formation from you - to be aware of your generic journey. The current issue will be discussed and an intervention will be offered at that first session. Thereafter I follow the Treatment Plan I have written for you - however, I will deviate in accordance with your session needs. Call for an outline of my approach.
I help individuals to thrive - predominately in relationship.
I'll take a Case Formation from you - to be aware of your generic journey. The current issue will be discussed and an intervention will be offered at that first session. Thereafter I follow the Treatment Plan I have written for you - however, I will deviate in accordance with your session needs. Call for an outline of my approach.
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Serafin Upton
Counsellor
Serves Area
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
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Haley Farrar
Counsellor
Serves Area
Your relationships may be suffering, and want more peace and connection in your lives.
With individuals, I tailor our work to what best supports you, primarily using weekly psychodynamic talk therapy to help you explore how past experiences may be influencing your present. For couples, I offer both traditional weekly sessions or weekend intensives designed for couples who want to do in a weekend what might otherwise take months.
Your relationships may be suffering, and want more peace and connection in your lives.
With individuals, I tailor our work to what best supports you, primarily using weekly psychodynamic talk therapy to help you explore how past experiences may be influencing your present. For couples, I offer both traditional weekly sessions or weekend intensives designed for couples who want to do in a weekend what might otherwise take months.
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Gold Tree Therapy
Psychologist
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work online with adults (age 18+) and have a special interest in anxiety, OCD, depression, self-esteem, relationships, health conditions, grief and loss, and life transitions.
I take a client-centered integrative approach, drawing from a range of evidence-based interventions, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT). I also integrate Psychodynamic Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT) where appropriate.
I work online with adults (age 18+) and have a special interest in anxiety, OCD, depression, self-esteem, relationships, health conditions, grief and loss, and life transitions.
I take a client-centered integrative approach, drawing from a range of evidence-based interventions, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT). I also integrate Psychodynamic Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT) where appropriate.
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Aysegul Aktalay
Counsellor, MCouns, MNZAC
Tauranga 3112
Together, we can identify and implement strategies tailored to your needs, whether it’s healing from trauma, managing anxiety and depression, enhancing relationships, building self-esteem and confidence, or addressing other difficulties you are facing.
I use a comprehensive and eclectic approach to therapy, specializing in trauma, anxiety, and depression. My therapeutic methods include EMDR, CBT, DBT, ACT, SFT, and MI. I provide customized support to address your unique needs, focusing on building resilience and helping you achieve your personal goals.
Together, we can identify and implement strategies tailored to your needs, whether it’s healing from trauma, managing anxiety and depression, enhancing relationships, building self-esteem and confidence, or addressing other difficulties you are facing.
I use a comprehensive and eclectic approach to therapy, specializing in trauma, anxiety, and depression. My therapeutic methods include EMDR, CBT, DBT, ACT, SFT, and MI. I provide customized support to address your unique needs, focusing on building resilience and helping you achieve your personal goals.
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Colum Minnock
Counsellor
Tauranga 3112
I am a skilled and compassionate therapist, experienced in working with a whole range of concerns. If there is an issue getting in the way of you living the life you want to live, or from achieving what you want to achieve, then therapy can help. I work with people both short and long term. With over 20 years’ experience working in the mental health field, I have a wide variety of experience. Before starting in private practice, I worked for many years in various mental health roles, which has given me an excellent grounding in ensuring my practice is based on the best available evidence, and is both ethical and effective.
I am a skilled and compassionate therapist, experienced in working with a whole range of concerns. If there is an issue getting in the way of you living the life you want to live, or from achieving what you want to achieve, then therapy can help. I work with people both short and long term. With over 20 years’ experience working in the mental health field, I have a wide variety of experience. Before starting in private practice, I worked for many years in various mental health roles, which has given me an excellent grounding in ensuring my practice is based on the best available evidence, and is both ethical and effective.
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Nicole Andersen
Psychologist, PsychD
Online Only
Life doesn’t always unfold as we expect, and there are times when challenges or unhelpful patterns can leave us feeling stuck. I offer a safe, compassionate, and collaborative space to explore what’s going on and support you in moving toward meaningful change, drawing on evidence-based approaches tailored to your needs. Together, we can build understanding, develop effective coping strategies, and work towards meaningful and lasting growth.
Life doesn’t always unfold as we expect, and there are times when challenges or unhelpful patterns can leave us feeling stuck. I offer a safe, compassionate, and collaborative space to explore what’s going on and support you in moving toward meaningful change, drawing on evidence-based approaches tailored to your needs. Together, we can build understanding, develop effective coping strategies, and work towards meaningful and lasting growth.
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Meghan O'Sullivan
Psychologist
Online Only
I am dedicated to supporting adults to gain deeper insight into their cognitive and emotional profile, and how it influences their daily life, work, and relationships.
I am a warm and compassionate Clinical Psychologist registered with the New Zealand Psychologists Board, offering comprehensive adult assessments for those wondering about ADHD, autism, or other neurodivergent traits. I work exclusively in assessment, creating a safe, professional, and non-judgmental space where people can explore their experiences and gain deeper understanding — with or without a formal diagnosis.
I am dedicated to supporting adults to gain deeper insight into their cognitive and emotional profile, and how it influences their daily life, work, and relationships.
I am a warm and compassionate Clinical Psychologist registered with the New Zealand Psychologists Board, offering comprehensive adult assessments for those wondering about ADHD, autism, or other neurodivergent traits. I work exclusively in assessment, creating a safe, professional, and non-judgmental space where people can explore their experiences and gain deeper understanding — with or without a formal diagnosis.
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What types of relationship issues can therapists help with?
Therapists who specialise in relationships work with individuals, couples, and families on a wide range of issues. Common concerns include communication problems, infidelity, intimacy difficulties, and navigating major life transitions such as marriage, parenthood, or caregiving. Family therapists may also address parent–child conflict, sibling rivalry, or other complex family dynamics.

What are the different types of therapy for relationship issues?
Relationship issues can be addressed through different types of therapy depending on whether you’re seeking help as an individual, couple, or family. In individual therapy, the focus is often on helping an individual understand how their own patterns, attachment style, and past experiences may be shaping their current relationships. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), attachment therapy, and Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) are three common forms of individual treatment that can help individuals understand their current relationship dynamics and improve their relationship quality. Couples therapy often uses other forms of evidence-based treatment, such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) or the Gottman Method. Rather than focusing on the individual, these approaches focus on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional bonds between individuals in a relationship. Similarly, family therapy often focuses on communication but also examines how larger-scale dynamics—such as how parenting styles, generational differences, or sibling roles—may shape family relationships.

What actually happens in a therapy session for relationship issues?
The structure of a session depends on whether therapy involves one person or multiple people. In individual sessions, the focus may be on exploring personal patterns, role-playing difficult conversations, practicing listening skills, or setting goals for handling conflict. In couples or family sessions, each person is encouraged to share their perspective while the therapist helps uncover underlying emotions, highlight unhelpful interaction patterns, and guide more constructive communication.

How can I find an effective relationship therapist?
Finding a therapist who is a good fit for your needs, either for individual, couples, or family therapy, is critical to ensure effective therapy. Psychology Today’s online directory makes it easy to search for therapists who specialise in relationship issues, as well as related topics like marriage counselling. The platform offers filters to help you find a provider who fits your needs, such as gender, location, and fees. While the Psychology Today directory also offers the ability to filter by insurance type, it’s important to note that insurance may not cover many types of relationship therapy, such as couples counselling, so it’s important to inquire with your insurance plan about specific coverage details if intending to use insurance for therapy.