Sex Therapists in Auckland, AU

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Jenny Smith
Counsellor, MNZCCA
Verified Verified
Auckland 1061
My work background has been highly varied and I have specialised training in addiction, sex therapy, trauma work and couples work.
Welcome! My name is Jen and I am a registered counsellor specialising in relationship work, sexual issues, addiction and trauma. I primarily work with adults and couples with a range of complex issues. I offer a non-judgmental environment and a relational approach with the hope that you and I can work together in order to find answers or solutions that you may be seeking. I am psychodynamically trained and enjoy the explorative process of therapy. I have been a therapist for several years and enjoy my work immensely. I approach each new client with curiosity, compassion and a hope for resolution. I look forward to hearing from you!
My work background has been highly varied and I have specialised training in addiction, sex therapy, trauma work and couples work.
Welcome! My name is Jen and I am a registered counsellor specialising in relationship work, sexual issues, addiction and trauma. I primarily work with adults and couples with a range of complex issues. I offer a non-judgmental environment and a relational approach with the hope that you and I can work together in order to find answers or solutions that you may be seeking. I am psychodynamically trained and enjoy the explorative process of therapy. I have been a therapist for several years and enjoy my work immensely. I approach each new client with curiosity, compassion and a hope for resolution. I look forward to hearing from you!
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Margo Regan
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011
Specialised in Relationship Couples Counselling Intensives and EMDR Therap in Auckland. MNZAC Registered with NZAC, specialising in relationships and areas that frequently impact relationships such as conflict, addiction, pornography addiction, anxiety, and sexuality. . Having trained with world-renowned teachers and worked in international world-leading addiction residential treatment centres, facilitated relationship workshops, designed and led corporate programmes and speaks on communication, emotional intelligence, relationships and resilience at conferences. Regularly asked for media commentary on national print, radio and tv.
Specialised in Relationship Couples Counselling Intensives and EMDR Therap in Auckland. MNZAC Registered with NZAC, specialising in relationships and areas that frequently impact relationships such as conflict, addiction, pornography addiction, anxiety, and sexuality. . Having trained with world-renowned teachers and worked in international world-leading addiction residential treatment centres, facilitated relationship workshops, designed and led corporate programmes and speaks on communication, emotional intelligence, relationships and resilience at conferences. Regularly asked for media commentary on national print, radio and tv.
0800 627 004 x30 View 0800 627 004 x30
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Gabriela Mercado
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0627
I am currently taking clients and supervisees for general clinical practice and/or specifically for sex therapy.
I am a psychotherapist, a supervisor, and a sex therapist; these disciplines intertwine and inform my clinical practice every day. My approach is psychodynamic, which means that you and I will work together, which will help us to unravel the meanings and interpretations that sometimes are affecting the way we see our life and the patterns we find ourselves in. When psychotherapy meets sex therapy, this tool encompasses all and every aspect of a person’s expressions of life.
I am currently taking clients and supervisees for general clinical practice and/or specifically for sex therapy.
I am a psychotherapist, a supervisor, and a sex therapist; these disciplines intertwine and inform my clinical practice every day. My approach is psychodynamic, which means that you and I will work together, which will help us to unravel the meanings and interpretations that sometimes are affecting the way we see our life and the patterns we find ourselves in. When psychotherapy meets sex therapy, this tool encompasses all and every aspect of a person’s expressions of life.
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Muhammad Waqar Ashraf Bhatti
Psychologist, MSc
Verified Verified
Auckland 2104
My ideal client is someone navigating the complexities of their mental health, often struggling with issues related to anxiety, depression, or addiction. They may also face challenges in their sexuality or relationships, seeking a safe space to explore these aspects of their identity. Their primary need is effective, evidence-based therapy tailored to their unique experiences. Their goal is to achieve emotional resilience, better coping strategies, and improved relationships. Ultimately, they want a deeper understanding of themselves to lead a fulfilling, authentic life free from stigma and fear.
My ideal client is someone navigating the complexities of their mental health, often struggling with issues related to anxiety, depression, or addiction. They may also face challenges in their sexuality or relationships, seeking a safe space to explore these aspects of their identity. Their primary need is effective, evidence-based therapy tailored to their unique experiences. Their goal is to achieve emotional resilience, better coping strategies, and improved relationships. Ultimately, they want a deeper understanding of themselves to lead a fulfilling, authentic life free from stigma and fear.
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Serafin Upton
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Auckland 1050
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex & relationship therapist. Qualified child and adolescent mental health clinician.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex & relationship therapist. Qualified child and adolescent mental health clinician.
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Melisa Cane-Franzetti
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1021  (Online Only)
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
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Ria Tsai
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011  (Online Only)
I am a Counselling Psychologist with over 10 years of practice experience. I work primarily with adults (18yr & over) specializing in depression, anxiety, addictions, sexual abuse and harm, trauma/PTSD, relationship and sexuality issues. I have a special interest in healthy relationships and self-growth.
I am a Counselling Psychologist with over 10 years of practice experience. I work primarily with adults (18yr & over) specializing in depression, anxiety, addictions, sexual abuse and harm, trauma/PTSD, relationship and sexuality issues. I have a special interest in healthy relationships and self-growth.
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Megan Daube
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011
Welcome, I have experience working with a wide range of people. Perhaps you have a mental health diagnosis, unsatisfying relationships, issues around sex and sexuality, anxiety, depression, trauma, separation or maybe a yearning to live a more authentic, pleasurable and peaceful life. Relationships are challenging and require skills which are rarely taught and life brings struggle to us all. Psychotherapy can help you move through your challenges consciously with intent. Let's start with a conversation about your needs and if my skills and style are a good fit for you. For more information please see my website www.megandaube.com
Welcome, I have experience working with a wide range of people. Perhaps you have a mental health diagnosis, unsatisfying relationships, issues around sex and sexuality, anxiety, depression, trauma, separation or maybe a yearning to live a more authentic, pleasurable and peaceful life. Relationships are challenging and require skills which are rarely taught and life brings struggle to us all. Psychotherapy can help you move through your challenges consciously with intent. Let's start with a conversation about your needs and if my skills and style are a good fit for you. For more information please see my website www.megandaube.com
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Lineé Van der Meer
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Auckland 1051
Welcome to my practice. I am a registered clinical psychologist, offering long and short-term psychotherapy to adults and couples. I view issues and challenges brought to therapy through a holistic lens and believe that body, mind and spirit are all equally important for optimal well-being. I have a special interest in working with couples and individuals dealing with issues related to relationships and sex. When it comes to couples therapy, areas that I have a particular interest in include sexual issues like desire discrepancy and loss of sexual pleasure and enjoyment, lack of emotional intimacy, infidelity and affairs.
Welcome to my practice. I am a registered clinical psychologist, offering long and short-term psychotherapy to adults and couples. I view issues and challenges brought to therapy through a holistic lens and believe that body, mind and spirit are all equally important for optimal well-being. I have a special interest in working with couples and individuals dealing with issues related to relationships and sex. When it comes to couples therapy, areas that I have a particular interest in include sexual issues like desire discrepancy and loss of sexual pleasure and enjoyment, lack of emotional intimacy, infidelity and affairs.
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Rainbow Consulting
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Auckland 1010  (Online Only)
Hi! I enjoy working with people committed to personal, relational and spiritual growth. My areas of interest include supporting the LGBTQ+ and Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous communities, as well as trauma survivors. I have 30 years experience with a variety of mental health problems & addictions. I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodiversity. I provide assessment and diagnoses for mental health conditions and ADHD. I am honoured to support the transgender community through Informed Consent for Gender Affirming Care.
Hi! I enjoy working with people committed to personal, relational and spiritual growth. My areas of interest include supporting the LGBTQ+ and Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous communities, as well as trauma survivors. I have 30 years experience with a variety of mental health problems & addictions. I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodiversity. I provide assessment and diagnoses for mental health conditions and ADHD. I am honoured to support the transgender community through Informed Consent for Gender Affirming Care.
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Bridget Stella Wilson
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Auckland 1010
For the past six years I have had my own practice in Auckland City, specialising in treating people with sex and love addiction (also by video conferencing).
I believe that addiction is a primary disease and that a person's other issues will stem from this fundamental problem. Therefore it's important to treat the addiction first. People with addiction often use alcohol and other drugs or behaviours to 'cope'. In the beginning the substance or the behaviour (such as sex addiction) was the 'solution', but after a while it became the problem. My approach is to offer therapy that is focused on a new, results-focused solution. The goal is offering my clients 'tools' so that they can change behaviour that is causing problems in their lives.
For the past six years I have had my own practice in Auckland City, specialising in treating people with sex and love addiction (also by video conferencing).
I believe that addiction is a primary disease and that a person's other issues will stem from this fundamental problem. Therefore it's important to treat the addiction first. People with addiction often use alcohol and other drugs or behaviours to 'cope'. In the beginning the substance or the behaviour (such as sex addiction) was the 'solution', but after a while it became the problem. My approach is to offer therapy that is focused on a new, results-focused solution. The goal is offering my clients 'tools' so that they can change behaviour that is causing problems in their lives.
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Sophie Rushmer
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Auckland 1061
As a dedicated and qualified relationship counsellor, Sophie is passionate about empowering people to find their own path forwards in a non-judgemental, open and safe space. Sophie believes in walking alongside people to gain insight and understanding into emotions, behaviours, thoughts and patterns.
As a dedicated and qualified relationship counsellor, Sophie is passionate about empowering people to find their own path forwards in a non-judgemental, open and safe space. Sophie believes in walking alongside people to gain insight and understanding into emotions, behaviours, thoughts and patterns.
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Olivia Campbell
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Auckland 0600  (Online Only)
Tēnā koe, I am a narrative counsellor working in Tāmaki Makaurau. I identify as non-binary and queer, and specialise in working with fellow members of the rainbow community. I especially love working with people who are gender diverse and neurodivergent. I'm interested in helping people to live their lives in ways that feel authentic to them and are supportive of their needs.
Tēnā koe, I am a narrative counsellor working in Tāmaki Makaurau. I identify as non-binary and queer, and specialise in working with fellow members of the rainbow community. I especially love working with people who are gender diverse and neurodivergent. I'm interested in helping people to live their lives in ways that feel authentic to them and are supportive of their needs.
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Joanne Meldrum
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auckland 0610
Joanne is a Counsellor and specialised mental health nurse, working with couples and individuals - adults and adolescence. Joanne carefully considers your relational needs to facilitate an intentional inquiry into how you can improve self-awareness and make meaning of the conflicting emotions, behaviours and thought processes, by acknowledging the effect of the problem. Joanne's intention is to support you to reclaim value in your life by providing tools, skills and practices that increases your ability to develop your understanding of the positive effects of therapy and the responsibility to change.
Joanne is a Counsellor and specialised mental health nurse, working with couples and individuals - adults and adolescence. Joanne carefully considers your relational needs to facilitate an intentional inquiry into how you can improve self-awareness and make meaning of the conflicting emotions, behaviours and thought processes, by acknowledging the effect of the problem. Joanne's intention is to support you to reclaim value in your life by providing tools, skills and practices that increases your ability to develop your understanding of the positive effects of therapy and the responsibility to change.
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Angela Rennnie
Psychologist, MA, NZPsS Member
Verified Verified
Auckland 1061
I am a professional and experienced counsellor. I genuinely care about my clients and ensure a warm and nonjudgmental environment in my practice. I understand we all struggle with life’s challenges at times. I can offer you a supportive and comfortable environment to help you overcome those challenges. I provide a multi-dimensional approach tailored to the client’s individual requirements. I draw from aspects of mindfulness, neuroscience, multi fields of psychology, CBT, Imago Therapy, and counselling principles. My qualifications are Bachelor of Arts (Psychology), Post-Graduate Diploma (Psychology), Masters of Arts
I am a professional and experienced counsellor. I genuinely care about my clients and ensure a warm and nonjudgmental environment in my practice. I understand we all struggle with life’s challenges at times. I can offer you a supportive and comfortable environment to help you overcome those challenges. I provide a multi-dimensional approach tailored to the client’s individual requirements. I draw from aspects of mindfulness, neuroscience, multi fields of psychology, CBT, Imago Therapy, and counselling principles. My qualifications are Bachelor of Arts (Psychology), Post-Graduate Diploma (Psychology), Masters of Arts
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Hayden Knibbs
Psychologist, MSc
Verified Verified
Auckland 1021
I am a Senior Clinical Psychologist and director of Serenity Psychology. I have been practicing for over a decade and have a special interest in ADHD assessment and treatment, couples therapy/ couples counselling anxiety and stress, depression, trauma, bi-polar, sexual challenges, obsessions and compulsions and more. I understand that each individual situation is unique and I treat each case with care and understanding, in order to accurately facilitate compassionate, effective change.
I am a Senior Clinical Psychologist and director of Serenity Psychology. I have been practicing for over a decade and have a special interest in ADHD assessment and treatment, couples therapy/ couples counselling anxiety and stress, depression, trauma, bi-polar, sexual challenges, obsessions and compulsions and more. I understand that each individual situation is unique and I treat each case with care and understanding, in order to accurately facilitate compassionate, effective change.
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Cobus du Plessis
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Auckland 2018
Therapy is a specialized conversation, which is both a science and an art. It creates a deep relational connection and a safe space, where we can heal, grow stronger, or just move forward. We do this by discovering who we are, what we want, and how to get there. I am passionate about meeting people, journeying with them, facilitating change, and watching as they become more at ease within themself, with others, their world, and spirituality.
Therapy is a specialized conversation, which is both a science and an art. It creates a deep relational connection and a safe space, where we can heal, grow stronger, or just move forward. We do this by discovering who we are, what we want, and how to get there. I am passionate about meeting people, journeying with them, facilitating change, and watching as they become more at ease within themself, with others, their world, and spirituality.
0800 447 264 x31 View 0800 447 264 x31
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Simon Banks
Psychotherapist, MA, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0624
I work with Individuals and Couples. With individuals it is an integrated approach through an attachment/nervous system/trauma lens. With couples, I am a PACT level 2 therapist which layers over how I work with individuals. You will find a safe, non-judgemental and accepting environment where you will have a confidential space to bring whatever you would like to work through at a pace and depth that feels safe to you.
I work with Individuals and Couples. With individuals it is an integrated approach through an attachment/nervous system/trauma lens. With couples, I am a PACT level 2 therapist which layers over how I work with individuals. You will find a safe, non-judgemental and accepting environment where you will have a confidential space to bring whatever you would like to work through at a pace and depth that feels safe to you.
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Marco Seghesso
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auckland 1024
Kia ora koutou and Hola! My name is Marco (he/him). I am a trained psychologist who moved to Aotearoa in 2016. Since then, I have worked in various roles within the mental health sector and obtained my registration as a Counsellor. Over the past eight years, I have supported a wide variety of people from all walks of life, including many years in adult mental health, as well as working with families, children, and youth to help them achieve better mental well-being. Currently, I am in private practice, offering counselling sessions in English or Spanish to address a range of psychological and personal issues.
Kia ora koutou and Hola! My name is Marco (he/him). I am a trained psychologist who moved to Aotearoa in 2016. Since then, I have worked in various roles within the mental health sector and obtained my registration as a Counsellor. Over the past eight years, I have supported a wide variety of people from all walks of life, including many years in adult mental health, as well as working with families, children, and youth to help them achieve better mental well-being. Currently, I am in private practice, offering counselling sessions in English or Spanish to address a range of psychological and personal issues.
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The Couples Shed
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 0772
Has your relationship turned sour? Do you struggle to communicate effectively? Have anger and resentment replaced hope and kindness? Or has your relationship become transactional ? I offer communication coaching, couples therapy and practical relationship tools that work!
Has your relationship turned sour? Do you struggle to communicate effectively? Have anger and resentment replaced hope and kindness? Or has your relationship become transactional ? I offer communication coaching, couples therapy and practical relationship tools that work!
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.