Relationship Issues Therapists in Auckland

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Brian Hughes
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0632
While medication and behavioural skills can help soften these symptoms, only psychotherapy can get to the underlying root causes, which almost always occur in the realm of relationship - with yourself and with others.
Anxiety can manifest as nervousness, racing heart, dread, worrying, low sex drive, sleep struggles, panic attacks, or stress. Depression may involve persistent low mood, hopelessness, numbness, guilt, irritability, isolation, suicidal thoughts, confusion, or increased substance use. Relationships with partners, family, or colleagues may bring challenges in communication, emotional conflict, trust, intimacy, or break-ups. New skills can reduce symptoms and improve relationships. But long-lasting change and new choices in life requires better understanding yourself and addressing the root cause of your issues, even if it takes time.
While medication and behavioural skills can help soften these symptoms, only psychotherapy can get to the underlying root causes, which almost always occur in the realm of relationship - with yourself and with others.
Anxiety can manifest as nervousness, racing heart, dread, worrying, low sex drive, sleep struggles, panic attacks, or stress. Depression may involve persistent low mood, hopelessness, numbness, guilt, irritability, isolation, suicidal thoughts, confusion, or increased substance use. Relationships with partners, family, or colleagues may bring challenges in communication, emotional conflict, trust, intimacy, or break-ups. New skills can reduce symptoms and improve relationships. But long-lasting change and new choices in life requires better understanding yourself and addressing the root cause of your issues, even if it takes time.
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Jeannie Reader
Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Auckland 0620
I specialise in supporting individuals through grief, anxiety, relationship issues, identity exploration, and trauma recovery.
Psychotherapy with me is a space where you can bring whatever is on your mind. I aim to provide a safe, compassionate, and culturally grounded environment where you feel genuinely seen, heard, and empowered to explore what matters most to you. Together, we can work toward healing, growth, and meaningful change. Whether you seek clarity, connection, or a renewed sense of purpose, I am here to support you every step of the way.
I specialise in supporting individuals through grief, anxiety, relationship issues, identity exploration, and trauma recovery.
Psychotherapy with me is a space where you can bring whatever is on your mind. I aim to provide a safe, compassionate, and culturally grounded environment where you feel genuinely seen, heard, and empowered to explore what matters most to you. Together, we can work toward healing, growth, and meaningful change. Whether you seek clarity, connection, or a renewed sense of purpose, I am here to support you every step of the way.
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Samantha Patel
Psychologist, MSc, NZPsS Member
Verified Verified
Auckland 0626
In my experience a strong rapport and therapeutic relationship is the critical foundation to facilitating positive impacts as well as taking a holistic approach (spiritual, emotional, physical and cognitive).
My approach is systemic, inclusive and holistic. I explore with curiosity and no- judgement my clients' everyday realities. Specialising in trauma, racial and sexual identities, behaviour change, dealing with migration, life changes, identity, anxiety and work-place stress.
In my experience a strong rapport and therapeutic relationship is the critical foundation to facilitating positive impacts as well as taking a holistic approach (spiritual, emotional, physical and cognitive).
My approach is systemic, inclusive and holistic. I explore with curiosity and no- judgement my clients' everyday realities. Specialising in trauma, racial and sexual identities, behaviour change, dealing with migration, life changes, identity, anxiety and work-place stress.
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Relationship doubts, anxiety, long held patterns of behaviours, substance use, grief, aspiration for relief from effects of childhood traumas.
I am a mindfulness based therapist, prolific throughout Australasia. My work uses ACT, CFT, RLT & DBT, but the key to my approach is appropriate validation, relational emphasis and healing the Inner Child that runs our lives. I believe that to draw breath is to have won the lottery, but to keep winning we have to be present within ourselves. We are all on a moving wellness spectrum, and support is a logical need. Ready to assist you with struggles through Adult ADHD, substance dependency, relationships, 'subclinical mental health issues' i.e. grief, anxiety, parenting, doubt, feeling stuck. I am a mindfulness coach & supervisor.
Relationship doubts, anxiety, long held patterns of behaviours, substance use, grief, aspiration for relief from effects of childhood traumas.
I am a mindfulness based therapist, prolific throughout Australasia. My work uses ACT, CFT, RLT & DBT, but the key to my approach is appropriate validation, relational emphasis and healing the Inner Child that runs our lives. I believe that to draw breath is to have won the lottery, but to keep winning we have to be present within ourselves. We are all on a moving wellness spectrum, and support is a logical need. Ready to assist you with struggles through Adult ADHD, substance dependency, relationships, 'subclinical mental health issues' i.e. grief, anxiety, parenting, doubt, feeling stuck. I am a mindfulness coach & supervisor.
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Moira Howson
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Auckland 0630
Waitlist for new clients
Moira has worked with adolescents and adults, helping them with a range of presentations including anxiety, phobias, depression (low mood), grief and loss, trauma, relationship issues, transitions in life, work-stress/burnout and managing ADHD.
Moira is trained in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Schema Therapy and applies these alongside mindfulness and compassion focused approaches.
Moira has worked with adolescents and adults, helping them with a range of presentations including anxiety, phobias, depression (low mood), grief and loss, trauma, relationship issues, transitions in life, work-stress/burnout and managing ADHD.
Moira is trained in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Schema Therapy and applies these alongside mindfulness and compassion focused approaches.
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Toni Finlayson Counselling & Coaching
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1010
Couples Counselling: If you are looking to improve your relationship, trying to recover from an affair, or needing tips on how to get the passion back, I will ask the questions that enable change to occur.
I specialise in addictions and couple's work. I have 20 years of mental health and counselling experience alongside my own personal life experiences. I create a safe and non-judgmental space where we can explore how you'd like your life to be and what is holding you back from achieving that. I have my own experience of alcohol addiction, anxiety and depression, which gives me an understanding of the pain and suffering these experiences bring and knowledge of what is involved in the journey to wellness. I welcome people of all ethnicities, cultures, sexual orientations and gender identity.
Couples Counselling: If you are looking to improve your relationship, trying to recover from an affair, or needing tips on how to get the passion back, I will ask the questions that enable change to occur.
I specialise in addictions and couple's work. I have 20 years of mental health and counselling experience alongside my own personal life experiences. I create a safe and non-judgmental space where we can explore how you'd like your life to be and what is holding you back from achieving that. I have my own experience of alcohol addiction, anxiety and depression, which gives me an understanding of the pain and suffering these experiences bring and knowledge of what is involved in the journey to wellness. I welcome people of all ethnicities, cultures, sexual orientations and gender identity.
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Tammy Dickinson
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011
I will foster a collaborative relationship and provide a warm, open, non-judgmental space to explore your life experiences.
I am experienced in supporting adults (18+) with anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, complex family dynamics & immigration stresses. I enjoy working with people of all cultural backgrounds, genders, non-binary and sexualities. I offer short and long-term weekly therapy options. Our 50 minute sessions will focus on supporting your mental health & wellbeing.
I will foster a collaborative relationship and provide a warm, open, non-judgmental space to explore your life experiences.
I am experienced in supporting adults (18+) with anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, complex family dynamics & immigration stresses. I enjoy working with people of all cultural backgrounds, genders, non-binary and sexualities. I offer short and long-term weekly therapy options. Our 50 minute sessions will focus on supporting your mental health & wellbeing.
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Simon Banks
Psychotherapist, MA, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0624
Together we would explore your history, your family of origin, your way of being in relationship (your attachment style) and also any trauma (defining trauma as anything that was too overwhelming to feel alone).
I work with Individuals and Couples. With individuals it is an integrated approach through an attachment/nervous system/trauma lens. With couples, I am a PACT level 2 therapist which layers over how I work with individuals. You will find a safe, non-judgemental and accepting environment where you will have a confidential space to bring whatever you would like to work through at a pace and depth that feels safe to you.
Together we would explore your history, your family of origin, your way of being in relationship (your attachment style) and also any trauma (defining trauma as anything that was too overwhelming to feel alone).
I work with Individuals and Couples. With individuals it is an integrated approach through an attachment/nervous system/trauma lens. With couples, I am a PACT level 2 therapist which layers over how I work with individuals. You will find a safe, non-judgemental and accepting environment where you will have a confidential space to bring whatever you would like to work through at a pace and depth that feels safe to you.
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Mandy Kavanagh-Vincent
Counsellor, MSc, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 2012
Building a trusting and warm relationship with my clients is a priority, as it forms the foundation of our work together.
Hello! I’m an experienced and qualified Therapist with over 30 years in supporting individuals, couples and families to navigate communication, relationships, and life changes. I trained in the UK and immigrated to New Zealand with my family in 2006. I specialize in addressing a variety of mental, emotional, and behavioral challenges, focusing on how all aspects of a person’s life impacts their relationships and how their relationships, past and present, influence them. I strive to be authentic and to respond to the needs and feedback my client's provide in order that the therapy process supports the changes clients want to make.
Building a trusting and warm relationship with my clients is a priority, as it forms the foundation of our work together.
Hello! I’m an experienced and qualified Therapist with over 30 years in supporting individuals, couples and families to navigate communication, relationships, and life changes. I trained in the UK and immigrated to New Zealand with my family in 2006. I specialize in addressing a variety of mental, emotional, and behavioral challenges, focusing on how all aspects of a person’s life impacts their relationships and how their relationships, past and present, influence them. I strive to be authentic and to respond to the needs and feedback my client's provide in order that the therapy process supports the changes clients want to make.
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Shruti Pathak
Psychologist, MNZCCP
Verified Verified
Auckland 1052
I am a NZ registered clinical psychologist who works with people suffering from depression, anxiety, relationship issues and life transition issues.
I am a Registered Clinical Psychologist and a full member of the New Zealand College of Clinical Psychologists. I have several years of experience working with Adults and Older Adults, Couples and Women’s Heath including pain, PMS, complex gynaecological conditions, pelvic pain.
I am a NZ registered clinical psychologist who works with people suffering from depression, anxiety, relationship issues and life transition issues.
I am a Registered Clinical Psychologist and a full member of the New Zealand College of Clinical Psychologists. I have several years of experience working with Adults and Older Adults, Couples and Women’s Heath including pain, PMS, complex gynaecological conditions, pelvic pain.
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Clare Norton Counselling
Counsellor, MCouns, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011
By inviting clients to engage fully in the client-therapist relationship: a safe, comfortable and collaborative relationship, helps to deepen a sense of mutual exploration of ‘self’ and deal with issues with increased autonomy.
I can offer short term and long term private counselling sessions for clients with issues that range from everyday life challenges to issues that are more complex. By walking alongside clients my goal is to support clients to develop strategies and skills to navigate and work through their personal challenges.
By inviting clients to engage fully in the client-therapist relationship: a safe, comfortable and collaborative relationship, helps to deepen a sense of mutual exploration of ‘self’ and deal with issues with increased autonomy.
I can offer short term and long term private counselling sessions for clients with issues that range from everyday life challenges to issues that are more complex. By walking alongside clients my goal is to support clients to develop strategies and skills to navigate and work through their personal challenges.
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Alastair Duhs
Counsellor, MSc, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 0630
Together, we can work to create a calmer, happier, and more loving relationship where both of you feel understood, valued, and supported.
I specialise in helping couples reduce conflict, improve communication and rebuild connection. Using simple, proven tools and strategies, I provide a compassionate space to address challenges and create lasting change. Whether you're navigating a tough time or strengthening your bond, I’ll guide you toward a happier, healthier relationship.
Together, we can work to create a calmer, happier, and more loving relationship where both of you feel understood, valued, and supported.
I specialise in helping couples reduce conflict, improve communication and rebuild connection. Using simple, proven tools and strategies, I provide a compassionate space to address challenges and create lasting change. Whether you're navigating a tough time or strengthening your bond, I’ll guide you toward a happier, healthier relationship.
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Lynette Adams
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 0630
I specialise in relationship issues (includes separation), family challenges and individual struggles.
While using evidence-based therapies, my approach is customised to the individual or the couple and I work in a way that would best suit you.
I specialise in relationship issues (includes separation), family challenges and individual struggles.
While using evidence-based therapies, my approach is customised to the individual or the couple and I work in a way that would best suit you.
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Sophie Rushmer
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Auckland 1061
As a dedicated and qualified relationship counsellor, Sophie is passionate about empowering people to find their own path forwards in a non-judgemental, open and safe space.
Identifying tools to navigate life’s challenges, Sophie works with couples and individuals to foster new perspectives and resilience. Her approach nurtures self-awareness, confidence and a deeper understanding of the dynamics in their everyday relationships.
As a dedicated and qualified relationship counsellor, Sophie is passionate about empowering people to find their own path forwards in a non-judgemental, open and safe space.
Identifying tools to navigate life’s challenges, Sophie works with couples and individuals to foster new perspectives and resilience. Her approach nurtures self-awareness, confidence and a deeper understanding of the dynamics in their everyday relationships.
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Sarah Lassally
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1041
My personal philosophy is that since most of our wounding occurs in relationship, there is the potential to heal that wounding within the counselling relationship.
I am a Psychosynthesis trained counsellor, an addictions specialist, and a couples counsellor. I also support families who have a loved one with addiction issues. I am a Dapaanz accredited supervisor. I welcome dream work, as I believe this is a useful way to access our unconscious and the issues that are trying to get our attention.
My personal philosophy is that since most of our wounding occurs in relationship, there is the potential to heal that wounding within the counselling relationship.
I am a Psychosynthesis trained counsellor, an addictions specialist, and a couples counsellor. I also support families who have a loved one with addiction issues. I am a Dapaanz accredited supervisor. I welcome dream work, as I believe this is a useful way to access our unconscious and the issues that are trying to get our attention.
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Muhammad Waqar Ashraf Bhatti
Psychologist, MSc
Verified Verified
Auckland 2104
My expertise in relationship issues allows me to address conflicts and foster healthy connections.
My ideal client is someone navigating the complexities of their mental health, often struggling with issues related to anxiety, depression, or addiction. They may also face challenges in their sexuality or relationships, seeking a safe space to explore these aspects of their identity. Their primary need is effective, evidence-based therapy tailored to their unique experiences. Their goal is to achieve emotional resilience, better coping strategies, and improved relationships. Ultimately, they want a deeper understanding of themselves to lead a fulfilling, authentic life free from stigma and fear.
My expertise in relationship issues allows me to address conflicts and foster healthy connections.
My ideal client is someone navigating the complexities of their mental health, often struggling with issues related to anxiety, depression, or addiction. They may also face challenges in their sexuality or relationships, seeking a safe space to explore these aspects of their identity. Their primary need is effective, evidence-based therapy tailored to their unique experiences. Their goal is to achieve emotional resilience, better coping strategies, and improved relationships. Ultimately, they want a deeper understanding of themselves to lead a fulfilling, authentic life free from stigma and fear.
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Julia Prouse
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Online Only
While I use an eclectic approach that integrates different therapeutic modalities, my therapeutic approach emphasises psychodynamic psychotherapy, I'm especially focused on your relationship with yourself and others and how this affects your sense of self and connection with others.
At HER therapy, I specialise in supporting millennial women liberate themselves from people-pleasing empowering them to put themselves first. I've worked with women just like you to help them uncover and express their true feelings and needs, figure out what they truly from life, and go after it with confidence-without guilt and shame. Imagine how good that would feel!​ I will help you do what is best for you-quieting the voices of self-doubt and comparison. You'll feel less ashamed, insecure, anxious, and self-critical, and instead, more empowered, confident, self-assured. and happy. You can be that woman!
While I use an eclectic approach that integrates different therapeutic modalities, my therapeutic approach emphasises psychodynamic psychotherapy, I'm especially focused on your relationship with yourself and others and how this affects your sense of self and connection with others.
At HER therapy, I specialise in supporting millennial women liberate themselves from people-pleasing empowering them to put themselves first. I've worked with women just like you to help them uncover and express their true feelings and needs, figure out what they truly from life, and go after it with confidence-without guilt and shame. Imagine how good that would feel!​ I will help you do what is best for you-quieting the voices of self-doubt and comparison. You'll feel less ashamed, insecure, anxious, and self-critical, and instead, more empowered, confident, self-assured. and happy. You can be that woman!
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Cari Frances Batenburg
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Auckland 1024
With this in mind, I do my best to build a relationship with you (and your partner or partners) – in which you feel accepted and respected.
My overall approach is largely informed by the non-pathologising perspectives of Narrative Therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Relational Psychotherapy, Positive Psychology, Neuroscience, Attachment & Developmental theory. I am a realist and do not believe there is no single theory, therapy, or approach that is right for us all.
With this in mind, I do my best to build a relationship with you (and your partner or partners) – in which you feel accepted and respected.
My overall approach is largely informed by the non-pathologising perspectives of Narrative Therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Relational Psychotherapy, Positive Psychology, Neuroscience, Attachment & Developmental theory. I am a realist and do not believe there is no single theory, therapy, or approach that is right for us all.
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Dr. Maia Eremin
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Auckland 2014
Waitlist for new clients
I am skilled in treating adults and older adults presenting with a wide range of psychological challenges including anxiety, depression, adjustment to stressful life events, relationship problems, grief and bereavement etc.
In my practice as a clinical psychologist, I draw on Acceptance and Commitment (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural (CBT), Cognitive Analytic (CAT), Schema Therapy, Emotionally Focused therapy (EFT), and Developmental Model Couples therapy treatment approaches assisting individual clients and couples to achieve positive change
I am skilled in treating adults and older adults presenting with a wide range of psychological challenges including anxiety, depression, adjustment to stressful life events, relationship problems, grief and bereavement etc.
In my practice as a clinical psychologist, I draw on Acceptance and Commitment (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural (CBT), Cognitive Analytic (CAT), Schema Therapy, Emotionally Focused therapy (EFT), and Developmental Model Couples therapy treatment approaches assisting individual clients and couples to achieve positive change
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Aneta Contractor
Counsellor, MA, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 0630
I have an abundance of international experience, and I specialise in treating a wide range of mental health issues, relationship challenges and life transitions.
My therapy practice is informed by Psychodynamic and Systemic psychotherapy. Although I am very passionate about these approaches, I also use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), as each client has different issues that need addressing in a bespoke manner.
I have an abundance of international experience, and I specialise in treating a wide range of mental health issues, relationship challenges and life transitions.
My therapy practice is informed by Psychodynamic and Systemic psychotherapy. Although I am very passionate about these approaches, I also use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), as each client has different issues that need addressing in a bespoke manner.
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While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.