Hi my boyfriend is 33 and I am 24 years old. I have a high sex drive but my boyfriend does not we have been together for 4 years now when I first met him we didn't have a lot of sex it was once once a week or once once a month he thought that was okay I did not I felt sexually unsatisfied, always wanted more sex and had to deal with it myself I thought my sex drive would calm down when I became a mum it did not, it got worse everything else is okay he works hard he supports me and our child, but the sex has gotten worse now, he doesn't want it no where near as much as me he didn't anyways but I thought when we had a child he would want it more but that never happened.