Values are what bring distinction to your life. You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment.
You read my mind on this. I come from a culture where boys are favoured over girls, so I can see how a grandparent's perspective can actually harm a grandchild's emotional well-being. I am currently engaged and my FIL has already made demands on having a male grandchild. His exact words were, "Have a son or don't have children at all". He has no grasp on how reproduction and chromosomes actually work. He thought praying at church everyday gave him a son 30 years ago. Really, sometimes compromising is really not the answer..
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