Values are what bring distinction to your life. You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment.
Everything you said was absolutely spot on. You got to always put yourself and (if you have children) them FIRST. They are the parents responsibility not the grandparents: which equals right vs privilege. Sometimes you have no choice but to rid certain individuals from your life, unfortunately sometimes even family.
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