And I also don’t tell him everything. But I don’t talk about him to my friends. That would feel really crappy to do that.
I have friends who are women, but I don’t tell them everything either — they fill a role that my husband doesn’t, but if I have free time I would almost always want to spend it with my husband instead of my girlfriends.
If there’s something going on in my marriage, I would seek therapy, not complain about him to other people. I am able to complain about other people to my husband :)