My 31yr. Old son has been married for 1 year and is expecting his 1st son next month....He has a good job, family and finances. He is a physically & mentally abusive alcoholic 50% of the time....He hasn’t hit Rock bottom yet and I need advice on how to handle the situation...It’s to the point where his wife goes to a hotel a couple times a week to stay away from him...when he’s in an alcoholic range he hurts her physically & mentally! me!...I live 2 hours from them!