I am an unavailable person but I am not the type of person who uses charm or tries to blame others and there are few more things that I cannot relate with. I have an Avoidant attachment style due to which I am this way and I am definitely not a narcissist. Even I am an introvert and I keep to myself unlike a narcissist. I hate the fact that some people try to demonize this trait unnecessarily as we only do the things we do as a defense mechanism to protect ourselves.