I tend to end up with EU men, but rarely are they charming. Like many, I feel a little distrustful of 'charmers' - I feel a little manipulated by them - and tend to have more trust in people who are socially awkward. The downside is that many people are socially awkward because they are EU - it's difficult for them to connect socially and they feel anxious in social situations because they're aware it's difficult to connect. I'd also add, though, that most of the EU people I've met have not been unkind. I would say a sign of EU is someone who experiences extremes of emotion or is overwhelmed by their emotions, but unable to put words to them or use social support to figure them out - I guess that's essentially low EQ. It's very sad, because of the people I've met most just want to be happy - and they want me to be happy too - but they just don't have the skills.