So you're not a "10" in every which way. But you're probably pretty spectacular in some way, and definitely good enough in most areas of life. If ever there were a time to stop beating yourself up for being human, it is now.
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Worrying
In terms of worrying, this is pretty much right if I'm understanding it right. The second I worry, if I tell myself to figure out the worst case scenario of that worry and then find out what my solution would be, I am at peace. And then also, some worries have no solutions, and to that i say to myself (with a cynical laugh inside), "Well I'll be worrying about THIS all day." That, oddly enough, cures the worries.