Values are what bring distinction to your life. You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment.
No. No-one has to tolerate abusive behaviour. Without boundaries, abusive behaviour can perpetuate and even worsen. It is *unacceptable* to bully others. It is not bullying behaviour to remove oneself from an abusive relationship - it may be the only means to protect oneself from emotional or physical harm. The responsibility to stop bullying lies with the bully. It is no-one else's responsibility.
Holding onto old behaviors might have a purpose.
Psychology explains why reports of wrongdoing are often attacked.
New research shows how to use a problem-solving tool you already have