Values are what bring distinction to your life. You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment.
It's a gray area here with Aspergers- like Haney other health condition if not treated can wreak havoc on the person and those around them. A parent has a personal responsibility to get treatment and take responsibility. Every child needs a parent and a good faith effort to problem solve hurtful behaviors is important. Life isn't perfect, but unfortunately neglecting awareness and treatment of a disorder can totally feel like bullying on the receiving end. The good news is- a parent who problem solves shows love by showing they want things to be different. Not sure if this touches on your comment.
Holding onto old behaviors might have a purpose.
Psychology explains why reports of wrongdoing are often attacked.
New research shows how to use a problem-solving tool you already have