Values are what bring distinction to your life. You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment.
That's how it worked with my mother. That's why I tried to talk my sister out of using her as a babysitter for her two kids... I lived at our mothers briefly and heard how she treated them when their was nobody watching. And that's also why I cut her out of my own life entirely, to protect my own immediate family, before it came time to start one.
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