Values are what bring distinction to your life. You don't find them, you choose them. And when you do, you're on the path to fulfillment.
I've experienced a Mother like this first hand. It's a terminal situation with family members who won't stand up to the behavior. It's an act of courage to walk away and not blame yourself. One thing is for sure... we cannot change these people and it is really unhealthy to stay connected to them. Breaking away won't repair damage done- but it will lay a foundation for restoration and repair.
Holding onto old behaviors might have a purpose.
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New research shows how to use a problem-solving tool you already have