Faking Your Emotions at Work Could Take a Heavy Toll

People who put on a phony "happy face" at work may be sabotaging themselves.

Posted Jan 19, 2020

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New research suggests that faking a positive attitude and being overly concerned with making a good impression to help advance your career often backfires. On the flip side, employees who are authentic "deep actors" and who cultivate genuine relationships with co-workers tend to build trust and experience more robust social capital gains.

These findings (Gabriel et al., 2019) suggest that disingenuous "surface actors" who live by the motto "Fake it till you make it" may be undermining their odds of success and self-imposing much higher levels of psychological strain.

This new "emotional labor" research by Allison Gabriel of the University of Arizona and colleagues consisted of three complementary studies that surveyed more than 2,500 working adults from industries including education, engineering, financial services, and manufacturing. The findings were published online ahead of print on December 2 in the Journal of Applied Psychology. (In addition to Gabriel, the other co-authors of this paper are Joel Koopman of Texas A&M University, Christopher Rosen of the University of Arkansas, and John Arnold and Wayne Hochwarter of Florida State University.)

After identifying multiple nuanced drivers of emotion regulation in the workplace, the research team narrowed these driving factors down to two overarching categories: prosocial emotion regulation and impression management.

The primary drivers for prosocial behavior among co-workers tended to be a genuine desire to cultivate positive relationships and to be a supportive colleague.

Conversely, the motivation to regulate emotions as part of "impression management" was more calculated, Machiavellian, and strategic. The primary objective of impression management is to look good in front of supervisors and "get to the top" by gaining access to resources.

Gabriel et al. (2019) identified four distinct emotion regulation profiles common among co-workers:

  1. Deep actors. Co-workers who exhibit the highest levels of deep acting and lower levels of surface acting.
  2. Surface actors. Co-workers who display slightly higher surface acting and less deep acting.
  3. Nonactors. Co-workers who engage in negligible levels of surface acting or deep acting.
  4. Regulators. Co-workers who display high levels of both surface acting and deep acting.

Across industries, nonactors were the least common of these four groups, and most workplace environments tended to have an equal number of deep actors, surface actors, and regulators.

"Surface acting is faking what you're displaying to other people. Inside, you may be upset or frustrated, but on the outside, you're trying your best to be pleasant or positive," Allison Gabriel said in a news release. "Deep acting is trying to change how you feel inside. When you're deep acting, you're actually trying to align how you feel with how you interact with other people."

"The main takeaway is that deep actors—those who really try to be positive with co-workers—do so for prosocial reasons and reap significant benefits from these efforts," Gabriel added.

The researchers found that deep actors tend to build significantly higher levels of trust and get more support from co-workers than those who fit any of the other profiles. In general, deep actors progressed faster toward achieving their work goals, in part because their co-workers were willing to offer advice and lend a hand to lighten heavy workloads.

Being a "regulator" who tries to over-regulate his or her emotions by engaging in high levels of both surface acting and deep acting appears to take a heavy toll. "Regulators suffered the most on our markers of well-being, including increased levels of feeling emotionally exhausted and inauthentic at work," Gabriel said.

"I think the 'fake it until you make it' idea suggests a survival tactic at work," Gabriel concluded. "Maybe plastering on a smile to simply get out of an interaction is easier in the short run, but long term, it will undermine efforts to improve your health and the relationships you have at work."


Allison S. Gabriel, Joel Koopman, Christopher C. Rosen, John D. Arnold, Wayne A. Hochwarter. "Are Co-workers Getting Into the Act? An Examination of Emotion Regulation in Co-worker Exchanges." Journal of Applied Psychology (First published online: December 2, 2019) DOI: 10.1037/apl0000473