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The Rise of Anxiety Among Women

Why women are especially prone to anxiety and what can be done to bring relief.

Key points

  • Women may be more prone to anxiety due to biological, psychological, and societal factors.
  • Perfectionism and social pressures can amplify anxiety.
  • Self-care and boundary-setting are essential for managing anxiety.
  • Seeking professional help can be life-changing.

Anxiety disorders are among the most common mental health issues worldwide, but research shows that women are disproportionately affected. Studies indicate that women are nearly twice as likely as men to be diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. While anxiety has always been present in society, its prevalence among women has significantly increased over the past few decades.

Modern life presents unique challenges for women, from career pressures and family responsibilities to societal expectations and digital stressors. Additionally, factors such as hormonal changes, childhood conditioning, and even genetic predisposition contribute to the high levels of anxiety women experience.

In this article, we explore the factors driving this rise in anxiety among women, the unique ways it manifests, and, most importantly, effective strategies for managing and reducing anxiety.

Understanding the Unique Burden of Anxiety in Women

Anxiety in women is not just a product of personal struggles; it is deeply rooted in biological, psychological, and societal influences.

1. Biological and Hormonal Influences

Women’s bodies undergo significant hormonal fluctuations throughout life, which impact their mood and emotional regulation.

  • Puberty: The surge in estrogen and progesterone during adolescence can heighten sensitivity to stress and anxiety, making young women more prone to developing anxiety disorders.
  • Menstrual cycle: Many women experience increased anxiety and mood disturbances before their menstrual periods, a condition known as premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD).
  • Pregnancy and postpartum: Hormonal changes during and after pregnancy can trigger anxiety and even postpartum anxiety disorders. New mothers often experience heightened worry about their baby’s safety, their role as a mother, and potential judgment from others.
  • Menopause: The decline in estrogen during menopause is linked to increased anxiety, mood swings, and even panic attacks.

These biological changes mean that women experience anxiety differently than men, often requiring gender-sensitive approaches to treatment and management.

2. The Mental Load and Perfectionism

The “mental load” refers to the invisible burden of managing a household, relationships, and work responsibilities simultaneously. Many women feel responsible for coordinating schedules, remembering birthdays, managing childcare, and ensuring household harmony, even if they have a full-time career.

In addition to this mental load, societal pressures push women toward perfectionism:

  • At work, women may feel pressured to outperform their male counterparts to gain recognition.
  • At home, they are often expected to be nurturing, patient, and selfless caregivers.
  • On social media, unrealistic beauty and lifestyle standards contribute to self-comparison and feelings of inadequacy.

These expectations create a constant state of tension, which can lead to anxiety, burnout, and self-doubt.

3. Cultural and Societal Expectations

Many cultures still place a heavy emphasis on traditional gender roles, where women are expected to be the primary caregivers. This societal norm can make women feel guilty for prioritizing their own well-being.

Moreover, women who deviate from these norms—such as those who choose not to have children or who pursue demanding careers—may face judgment and scrutiny, further fueling stress and anxiety.

4. The Role of Trauma and Safety Concerns

Women face a higher risk of experiencing trauma, including sexual harassment, domestic violence, and emotional abuse, all of which significantly increase the likelihood of developing anxiety disorders.

Additionally, everyday safety concerns—such as walking alone at night or navigating workplace harassment—contribute to chronic stress and hypervigilance, which are associated with heightened anxiety levels.

How Women Can Address and Manage Anxiety

Although anxiety is prevalent, it is manageable. By making lifestyle changes, seeking support, and shifting perspectives, women can reduce anxiety and reclaim a sense of control over their lives.

1. Prioritizing Self-Care Without Guilt

Women are often socialized to put others’ needs before their own, leading them to neglect self-care. However, self-care is not a luxury—it is a necessity for mental well-being.

Effective self-care practices include:

  • Practicing mindfulness and meditation to calm the nervous system.
  • Journaling to express and process emotions.
  • Engaging in hobbies that bring joy and relaxation.
  • Taking breaks from responsibilities without feeling guilty.

2. Seeking Professional Help

Many women hesitate to seek therapy due to stigma or time constraints, but professional help can be life-changing. Types of therapy that help with anxiety include:

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): Helps reframe negative thought patterns and develop coping mechanisms.
  • Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): Encourages mindfulness and acceptance of emotions.
  • Medication: In cases of severe anxiety, medication such as SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) can be effective in managing symptoms.

Breaking the stigma around therapy and medication is essential to empowering women to seek the help they need.

3. Setting Boundaries and Saying No

Many women struggle with saying “no” out of fear of disappointing others. However, setting clear boundaries is one of the most effective ways to reduce anxiety.

Practical ways to set boundaries include:

  • Limiting obligations that drain energy.
  • Communicating needs openly and assertively.
  • Learning to decline requests without over-explaining.

4. Building Support Networks

Connecting with other women who understand the challenges of anxiety can be incredibly reassuring. Ways to build a support network include:

  • Joining women’s support groups (in-person or online).
  • Talking openly with trusted friends and family.
  • Seeking mentorship from women who have overcome similar challenges.

5. Incorporating Physical Activity

Exercise is a powerful tool for managing anxiety, as it releases endorphins and lowers cortisol levels. Even small amounts of movement can be beneficial. Effective activities for reducing anxiety include:

  • Yoga and deep breathing exercises
  • Walking or jogging in nature
  • Strength training or dancing

6. Reevaluating Social Media and Digital Consumption

Social media can be a double-edged sword—while it connects us, it also fuels anxiety through unrealistic portrayals of life.

Ways to reduce digital anxiety include:

  • Unfollowing accounts that trigger comparison or self-doubt.
  • Limiting screen time, especially before bed.
  • Engaging with positive and educational content.

Moving Forward: Creating a Supportive Culture

While individual coping strategies are important, true change requires a cultural shift. Society must prioritize mental health by:

  • Encouraging workplaces to implement mental health-friendly policies.
  • Introducing mental health education in schools to normalize emotional well-being.
  • Advocating for policies that support work-life balance for women.

By fostering a culture that supports women’s mental health, we can collectively reduce anxiety and create a healthier, more balanced future.

The rising levels of anxiety among women highlight the urgent need for awareness, support, and systemic change. While biological and societal factors contribute to this issue, there are numerous ways women can take control of their mental well-being.

Through self-care, therapy, boundary-setting, community support, and mindfulness, women can navigate the pressures of modern life with resilience. More importantly, as conversations about mental health continue to evolve, society as a whole must recognize and address the unique mental health challenges that women face.

By prioritizing both individual well-being and collective change, we can work towards a future where women no longer have to suffer in silence but instead thrive in their personal and professional lives.

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