Managing Election Stress and Burnout
Just when you think you have a handle on the craziness, along comes an election.
Posted Oct 13, 2020
Prepare and take care during the campaign season
Just when you think you have a handle on the craziness, along comes another presidential election.
Election season can spark a variety of negative responses. Before the 2016 presidential election, the online counseling organization Goodtherapy.org recorded that more people sought treatment for anxiety. Some had a history of anxiety disorders, some did not. Clients also reported stress, fear, anger, and mistrust.1
Here are a few suggestions for coping with election-year stress and burnout.
1. Manage the “toddler” part of your brain
“I want!” “I don’t wanna!” If you’ve ever had a 2-year-old, you know how basic instincts sometimes take over. If your limbic system gets fired up, it can happen to you as an adult too, says psychologist and fellow Psychology Today blogger Steven Stosny, Ph.D. You’re shouting, you’re stamping your feet, you’re cutting ties with friends and relatives … and that’s just five minutes on Facebook. Stosny coined the term “election stress disorder” to describe this type of raging, “all or nothing thinking,” blame, denial and avoidance many of us fall prey to during an election cycle.2
To counteract this tendency, Stosny recommends, well, acting like an adult. “To make the country stronger,” he writes, “we must be compassionate to the people closest to us, respect the people we encounter, [and] tolerate differences among all people.”2
Adults can, or at least once did, have reasoned discussions with the goal of understanding each other’s points of view. That can still happen.
2. Know you’re not alone
Having compassion for yourself is another aspect of managing election-year stress. A 2016 survey conducted by the American Psychological Association (APA) before the last presidential election, found that about half of respondents were stressed by the upcoming event.3 But is it the event itself, or the months of news coverage, commentary and speculation beforehand that fatigued us? A Pew Research poll found in early 2018 that those surveyed were exhausted by the sheer volume of political news, with nearly 7 in 10 reporting “news fatigue.”4
3. Step back from social media and news
Stepping back from news and social media can reduce fatigue and stress. If you can, think back to a time when you had to wait for tomorrow morning’s paper or the evening news to catch up on current events. Did you feel more frantic and obsessed with the latest poll numbers, or less?
If you own a smartphone, your news and social media feeds may be within arm’s reach 24-7. Tips from the American Psychological Association to reduce election stress include:
- Limit your media consumption.3 Overwhelmed by COVID-19 news, retirees Janet and Bill stopped watching their favorite TV news channel except for a few minutes each morning. The rest of the time, the TV streams animal videos and old movies. Lee, an Operation Iraqi Freedom combat veteran, decided to take a break from images of city protests to read his first thriller in years.
- Avoid conversations that could get testy. These days, even a stranger at the dog park might be frustrated enough to pick a fight over national policies or the upcoming vote. Feel free to say something noncommittal like “Don’t get me started,” then turn the conversation elsewhere or walk away.
4. Step up to make a difference
“Anyone can make a difference, and everyone should try.” —John F. Kennedy
A popular phrase holds that “all politics is local.” Without denying the existence of national and global forces, we can remember that 2020 brings many campaigns besides the one for U.S. chief executive. Could your local elections office use help counting ballots? Maybe a local candidate is holding a virtual town hall and needs people to log in.
Check the website of your favorite social, environmental, or other movement for ways to support the cause. You can check VolunteerMatch.org to search for causes by topic, or visit Nextavenue.org for suggestions on becoming politically involved when you are over 50. The magazine Successful Black Parenting lists 10 ways for teens to start making a difference even before they can vote. All these resources include pandemic-safe opportunities.
You can also use the series of steps offered by the Anxiety and Depression Association of America to cope with election stress.5 Instead of thinking “I can’t handle this! The election will lead to disaster!” they suggest identifying your specific concern, such as “I’m afraid I will lose my access to health care.” Once you identify the specific problem, you can brainstorm several possible courses of action (move to Canada, see if your alumni association offers insurance plans, change jobs). Then identify the short- and long-term consequences of each choice and decide on at least one step you can actually take.
5. Know the danger signs
As with all types of stress and burnout, the danger signs of election-year stress and burnout can include:
- High blood pressure
- Losing or gaining weight. You may notice that you are overeating or not eating enough, or drinking more alcohol than usual.
- Feeling stressed and worried
- Feeling irritable or moody
- Having trouble sleeping
Creating health for yourself and your family equips you to make the difference you would like to see in our world. So instead of feeling duty-bound to read every article and tweet and educate everyone who disagrees with your views, consider that this election cycle too will pass into the history books, but you will likely still be around. Supporting yourself and taking small, practical steps to improve things can be much less stressful for you and your family and will ultimately be more useful.