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Romantic Personality Test

20 Questions
3 Minutes

Are you a hopeless romantic?

The hopeless romantic weeps when watching a tearjerker, and believes in love at first sight, knowing that love will conquer all. Sounds great, but this could mean they may not spot red flags in a new relationship. At the other end of the scale, the highly unromantic person is businesslike and they do not believe in happily-ever-after fairy tales.

Using the key below, answer the questions based on how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement.

Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Strongly Agree
Agree
1. I believe in romantic destiny.
Disagree
Agree
2. Emotionally vulnerable relationships aren't scary.
Disagree
Agree
3. I can be impractical about love.
Disagree
Agree
4. I believe in “soul mates” and “the one.”
Disagree
Agree
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5. I plan romantic surprises for my partner.
Disagree
Agree
6. I vividly remember the first gift I ever received from a partner.
Disagree
Agree
7. I love stories of couples who succeed against all odds.
Disagree
Agree
8. My friends say I am too affectionate with my partner in public.
Disagree
Agree
9. I write my partner love notes.
Disagree
Agree
10. I often ignore flaws in my new relationships.
Disagree
Agree
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11. There is only one match for me.
Disagree
Agree
12. Love does not conquer all.
Disagree
Agree
13. My friends say I don’t proceed with caution when meeting someone new.
Disagree
Agree
14. I idealize romance.
Disagree
Agree
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15. I believe in rom-com-happily-ever-after love.
Disagree
Agree
16. I daydream about perfect love's grand gestures of romance.
Disagree
Agree
17. I avoid losing my head in a new relationship.
Disagree
Agree
18. People say I confuse chemistry with compatibility.
Disagree
Agree
19. I follow my heart in respect to love.
Disagree
Agree
20. Love fades over time.
Disagree
Agree
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Who Is This Romantic Personality Test For?

This test is for anyone who feels they need to rein in their tendency to love blindly, and it is also for people who feel they are too businesslike and lack intimacy in their relationships. This test is designed for adults and is not intended to be diagnostic.

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Sources

  • C. Hendrick, S. Hendrick. The Love Attitudes Scale
  • E. Hatfield, S. Sprecher. The Passionate Love Scale
  • S. Sprecher, S. Metts. Romantic Beliefs Scale