Sex Therapists in Bray, WW

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Kristin Rogers
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bray, County Wicklow A98
People are all just trying their best, but it is very normal to struggle with life at times. I like helping people who are feeling stuck get unstuck. I like helping people see that they have the power to make something better from their life. I used to be a homebirth midwife, and I find myself drawn to people who are in big life transitions. Or knowing that there is a change needed that maybe is not yet clear. But much happiness comes from learning to truly appreciate what is real in your life today.
People are all just trying their best, but it is very normal to struggle with life at times. I like helping people who are feeling stuck get unstuck. I like helping people see that they have the power to make something better from their life. I used to be a homebirth midwife, and I find myself drawn to people who are in big life transitions. Or knowing that there is a change needed that maybe is not yet clear. But much happiness comes from learning to truly appreciate what is real in your life today.
(01) 267 6517 x48 View (01) 267 6517 x48

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Paula Fusela
Psychotherapist, MA, APCP
Verified Verified
Online Only
As a therapist with a Master’s in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) I work with individuals who often feel overwhelmed by anxiety, low self-esteem, or self-doubt—even if on the outside, they seem to have it all together. You might find yourself overthinking, putting pressure on yourself to be perfect, or feeling like you’re never quite “enough.” Sometimes, you’re not sure where these feelings come from. You may sense that old patterns, irrational thoughts, or unconscious beliefs are quietly shaping the way you see yourself and the world. You want to break free from that cycle, to feel more connected, confident, and calm.
As a therapist with a Master’s in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) I work with individuals who often feel overwhelmed by anxiety, low self-esteem, or self-doubt—even if on the outside, they seem to have it all together. You might find yourself overthinking, putting pressure on yourself to be perfect, or feeling like you’re never quite “enough.” Sometimes, you’re not sure where these feelings come from. You may sense that old patterns, irrational thoughts, or unconscious beliefs are quietly shaping the way you see yourself and the world. You want to break free from that cycle, to feel more connected, confident, and calm.
(01) 267 6675 x47 View (01) 267 6675 x47
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Siobhán Logan Counselling Kildare Services
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Siobhan is a fully certified EMDR, CBT, DBT and ACT therapist. She is a member of the Irish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (IACP). She is a Bachelor of Science qualified Humanistic & Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist. She works in the Naas and Kilcullen areas of County Kildare. Siobhan is a qualified Acceptance and Commitment Therapist. She has a level 9 Cert in CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) working with children and adolescents She works with her Clients using Talk Therapy integrated with Creative Therapy and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT). Siobhan has a great interest in Adolescents and Adults.
Siobhan is a fully certified EMDR, CBT, DBT and ACT therapist. She is a member of the Irish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (IACP). She is a Bachelor of Science qualified Humanistic & Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist. She works in the Naas and Kilcullen areas of County Kildare. Siobhan is a qualified Acceptance and Commitment Therapist. She has a level 9 Cert in CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) working with children and adolescents She works with her Clients using Talk Therapy integrated with Creative Therapy and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT). Siobhan has a great interest in Adolescents and Adults.
(01) 568 2872 x47 View (01) 568 2872 x47
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Laura O’Neill
Psychotherapist, MA, APCP
Verified Verified
Online Only
Contact Via WhatsApp/Email. My focuses are relationships, eating disorders, & addiction. In both our relationships with self and others, most long to experience love, belonging & growth. In relationships and in hardships, I see infinite potential for transformation and evolution: through the stuck places, the old patterns, the failed attempts to connect or feel safe. Underneath, the true you is waiting to be heard through the surface ‘symptoms’. If you can recognise where you’re at, you’re halfway there — and rather than just treating the symptoms, together we listen to what’s underneath, and help you to get free from the root.
Contact Via WhatsApp/Email. My focuses are relationships, eating disorders, & addiction. In both our relationships with self and others, most long to experience love, belonging & growth. In relationships and in hardships, I see infinite potential for transformation and evolution: through the stuck places, the old patterns, the failed attempts to connect or feel safe. Underneath, the true you is waiting to be heard through the surface ‘symptoms’. If you can recognise where you’re at, you’re halfway there — and rather than just treating the symptoms, together we listen to what’s underneath, and help you to get free from the root.
089 202 2456 View 089 202 2456
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Balance Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, Pre-Accredited Member IACP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I cater for a range of issues from self-esteem, anxiety, depression, communication issues, relationship issues and psychosexual issues to name a few. I particularly like to work with past or childhood trauma within the adult today. I provide a unique style of therapy drawing from a background in early childhood education and care, additional needs and integrative counselling and psychotherapy. I have over 10 years experience supporting persons in crisis or just generally dissatisfied within themselves or their place in life presently.
I cater for a range of issues from self-esteem, anxiety, depression, communication issues, relationship issues and psychosexual issues to name a few. I particularly like to work with past or childhood trauma within the adult today. I provide a unique style of therapy drawing from a background in early childhood education and care, additional needs and integrative counselling and psychotherapy. I have over 10 years experience supporting persons in crisis or just generally dissatisfied within themselves or their place in life presently.
085 147 2125 View 085 147 2125
Photo of Sarah Keena - Sarah Keena Healing, Psychotherapist, MIACP
Sarah Keena Healing
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
My passion is encouraging & empowering women: Helping women to recognise their own strengths and heal the trauma that has been holding them back. Gentle self-exploration and prioritising the relationship with self are key aspects of my way of working. I strive to provide a professional, holistic relationship that is free from shame and judgement. Visit my website for more information.
My passion is encouraging & empowering women: Helping women to recognise their own strengths and heal the trauma that has been holding them back. Gentle self-exploration and prioritising the relationship with self are key aspects of my way of working. I strive to provide a professional, holistic relationship that is free from shame and judgement. Visit my website for more information.
(01) 267 6681 x97 View (01) 267 6681 x97
Photo of Mike Barry - The Anxiety Clinic, Psychotherapist, MIAHIP
The Anxiety Clinic
Psychotherapist, MIAHIP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Have you finally got to that point in your struggle with anxiety that you really want to deal with it? If you are, I’m here to help you. Together we can help you make the journey out of your anxiety. I can help you manage your anxious thoughts more effectively, by reducing your levels of anxiety and enjoy life without worrying all the time.
Have you finally got to that point in your struggle with anxiety that you really want to deal with it? If you are, I’m here to help you. Together we can help you make the journey out of your anxiety. I can help you manage your anxious thoughts more effectively, by reducing your levels of anxiety and enjoy life without worrying all the time.
086 730 9213 View 086 730 9213
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Paul Flannery
Counsellor, MA, MIAHIP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
When we are suffering we tend to look at all that is wrong in our lives. We sometimes make judgements and assumptions about ourselves or our situations that focus mainly on the negative. We each have developed ways of being in the world that have enabled us to cope with whatever challenges we have had to face. These coping strategies become our defence mechanisms and are often developed by us at an early age when we had few resources. They can sometimes create negative patterns of relating to others and the world around us and become barriers to intimate or professional relationships.
When we are suffering we tend to look at all that is wrong in our lives. We sometimes make judgements and assumptions about ourselves or our situations that focus mainly on the negative. We each have developed ways of being in the world that have enabled us to cope with whatever challenges we have had to face. These coping strategies become our defence mechanisms and are often developed by us at an early age when we had few resources. They can sometimes create negative patterns of relating to others and the world around us and become barriers to intimate or professional relationships.
(01) 267 6536 x65 View (01) 267 6536 x65
Photo of Gemma McCabe - Gemma McCabe, Psychotherapist, MIAHIP
Gemma McCabe
Psychotherapist, MIAHIP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Life can be so extremely hard. I understand how challenging it is to come and talk about what is troubling you. I’m a warm and extremely capable Therapist whose first priority is always the interests of my clients; providing a non-judgmental environment, effective and long lasting therapeutic interventions, with a safe and empathic touch. Since 2007, I’ve been practising Psychotherapy to a broad range of clients, in a private and full time capacity, in County Wexford. Please do not hesitate to get in touch. I truly look forward to hearing from you.
Life can be so extremely hard. I understand how challenging it is to come and talk about what is troubling you. I’m a warm and extremely capable Therapist whose first priority is always the interests of my clients; providing a non-judgmental environment, effective and long lasting therapeutic interventions, with a safe and empathic touch. Since 2007, I’ve been practising Psychotherapy to a broad range of clients, in a private and full time capacity, in County Wexford. Please do not hesitate to get in touch. I truly look forward to hearing from you.
(061) 572 524 x86 View (061) 572 524 x86
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Carmel Vickers
Psychotherapist, MSc, MIACP
Verified Verified
Enniskerry, County Wicklow A98
Offering Face to Face and Online therapy. One can present with an issue affecting their contentment in life, but what’s causing it? My approach is a Psychodynamic and Integrative one. Anxiety for example, may be a presenting issue, but what’s causing it? Depression is debilitating, but what’s being depressed? Trauma and coping mechanisms go hand in hand and are as individual as each and every one of us. An issue can be a symptom of something else, or a coping mechanism we have had for years. Through your own process, you will arrive at the root cause creating permanent change and be set free to more contentment.
Offering Face to Face and Online therapy. One can present with an issue affecting their contentment in life, but what’s causing it? My approach is a Psychodynamic and Integrative one. Anxiety for example, may be a presenting issue, but what’s causing it? Depression is debilitating, but what’s being depressed? Trauma and coping mechanisms go hand in hand and are as individual as each and every one of us. An issue can be a symptom of something else, or a coping mechanism we have had for years. Through your own process, you will arrive at the root cause creating permanent change and be set free to more contentment.
086 830 9644 View 086 830 9644

Online Therapists

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Collaboration Counselling
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
Dublin, County D01
Experience dealing with the most vulnerable in society and in the homeless sector on the ground: Experience covering a multitude of mental health issues and a knowledge of any sexuality/gender over the years, including a wonderful range/diversity of people I have seen: A love of the job and fulfilling others in any way I can so you can find your true meaning
I Specialise in Mental health conditions: ADHD: OCD: Claustrophobia: Bulimia: Schizophrenia etcetera, and also the essence of therapy; trauma related and high anxiety: I also do Relationship and Couples therapy. I offer an empowering experience on taking back control of your own actions, behaviours, whereby you’re thinking and feelings can literally follow in tandem. How this can define your relationship from within and follow into your relationships plural.I have a background in Radio/Journalism for mental health and videos online: First Part: Raymond Walsh 'Rationalisation over Rumination' on YouTube.
Experience dealing with the most vulnerable in society and in the homeless sector on the ground: Experience covering a multitude of mental health issues and a knowledge of any sexuality/gender over the years, including a wonderful range/diversity of people I have seen: A love of the job and fulfilling others in any way I can so you can find your true meaning
I Specialise in Mental health conditions: ADHD: OCD: Claustrophobia: Bulimia: Schizophrenia etcetera, and also the essence of therapy; trauma related and high anxiety: I also do Relationship and Couples therapy. I offer an empowering experience on taking back control of your own actions, behaviours, whereby you’re thinking and feelings can literally follow in tandem. How this can define your relationship from within and follow into your relationships plural.I have a background in Radio/Journalism for mental health and videos online: First Part: Raymond Walsh 'Rationalisation over Rumination' on YouTube.
(01) 267 6641 x28 View (01) 267 6641 x28
Photo of Paul O’Beirne - U do U Therapy: Adults, Adolescents and Couples, Psychotherapist, MIACP
U do U Therapy: Adults, Adolescents and Couples
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Drogheda, County Louth A92
I am a fully accredited member of the Irish Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy and a registered member of COSRT (College of Sex and Relationship Therapists).
I understand it can be difficult and at times traumatic navigating through life within an environment that is at odds with who and how you are. This can lead to issues such as low self confidence, anxiety, depression, behavioral issues as well as feelings of fear, anger and isolation. The aim of therapy is to break shame cycles and be compassionatly curious.
I am a fully accredited member of the Irish Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy and a registered member of COSRT (College of Sex and Relationship Therapists).
I understand it can be difficult and at times traumatic navigating through life within an environment that is at odds with who and how you are. This can lead to issues such as low self confidence, anxiety, depression, behavioral issues as well as feelings of fear, anger and isolation. The aim of therapy is to break shame cycles and be compassionatly curious.
(01) 267 6570 x52 View (01) 267 6570 x52
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Carl Mojta
Psychotherapist, MSc, MIACP
Verified Verified
Dublin, County A96
Some of my key areas of expertise and clinical/research interests are: sexuality/sexual health concerns, problematic sexual behaviour, substance abuse addiction and recovery, relationship/couples issues, individuals and couples who identify as LGBTQIA+/GSRD, masculinity and men's mental health and multiculturalism.
Welcome! I am a U.S. based psychotherapist and accredited member of the Irish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (IACP). I offer a person-centered, compassionate, and systemic approach to therapy. I consider working with each client to be a privilege and a collaborative therapeutic experience. One area of sexual health in which I specialise is Out of Control Sexual Behaviour (OCSB). OCSB is defined as “a sexual problem of consensual sexual urges, thoughts, or behaviours that feel out of control for the individual.” If you are interested in improving your sexual health and relationships, please contact me for more info.
Some of my key areas of expertise and clinical/research interests are: sexuality/sexual health concerns, problematic sexual behaviour, substance abuse addiction and recovery, relationship/couples issues, individuals and couples who identify as LGBTQIA+/GSRD, masculinity and men's mental health and multiculturalism.
Welcome! I am a U.S. based psychotherapist and accredited member of the Irish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (IACP). I offer a person-centered, compassionate, and systemic approach to therapy. I consider working with each client to be a privilege and a collaborative therapeutic experience. One area of sexual health in which I specialise is Out of Control Sexual Behaviour (OCSB). OCSB is defined as “a sexual problem of consensual sexual urges, thoughts, or behaviours that feel out of control for the individual.” If you are interested in improving your sexual health and relationships, please contact me for more info.
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U do U: Sex and Relationship Therapy
Psychotherapist, PsychD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Drogheda, County Louth A92
Fully qualified Sexologist and Relationship Therapist registered with COSRT (College of Sex and Relationship Therapists).
Clients can expect an initial assessment session to explore their presenting issues with informed and compassionate curiosity free of shame. In subsequent sessions, we will collaborate, considering all aspects of body, mind and environment and tailor treatment to your needs at a comfortable pace. Sessions last approx 50 minutes.
Fully qualified Sexologist and Relationship Therapist registered with COSRT (College of Sex and Relationship Therapists).
Clients can expect an initial assessment session to explore their presenting issues with informed and compassionate curiosity free of shame. In subsequent sessions, we will collaborate, considering all aspects of body, mind and environment and tailor treatment to your needs at a comfortable pace. Sessions last approx 50 minutes.
(01) 233 7063 x75 View (01) 233 7063 x75
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Steven O' Riordan
Psychotherapist, MSc, IAHIP Assoc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portlaoise, County Laois R32
Waitlist for new clients
I welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ/GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diverse).
Hi, I’m Steven. I’m glad you’ve taken this first step toward therapy—it’s not always easy! I work with adult clients to help you build self-awareness and make thoughtful choices for your life and well-being. In our sessions, you’ll have a confidential space to explore life’s ups and downs. I provide a compassionate and supportive approach, meeting you exactly where you are.
I welcome folks who identify as LGBTQ/GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diverse).
Hi, I’m Steven. I’m glad you’ve taken this first step toward therapy—it’s not always easy! I work with adult clients to help you build self-awareness and make thoughtful choices for your life and well-being. In our sessions, you’ll have a confidential space to explore life’s ups and downs. I provide a compassionate and supportive approach, meeting you exactly where you are.
(01) 267 6692 x73 View (01) 267 6692 x73
Photo of Vincent Foley, Psychotherapist, MIACP
Vincent Foley
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
Dublin, County D07
T,Confidence,Cultural Issues, Depression, Dreams,Disability, Eating Disorders,Emotional Abuse,Fear,Family of Addicts,Gender Issues,General Counselling,Grief,Health Related Issues, Identity Problems, LGBT,Mental Abuse,Panic Attacks,Phobias, PTSD, Physical abuse,Psychotherapy,Recovery from suicide attempt, Restorative practice,Shame, Sexual abuse, Sexuality issues.
My aim is to help individuals find their inner strength to empower themselves by exploring their feelings and behaviors relating to their difficulties and giving them the space and encouragement to change so they can truly become who they are. I aim to try to do this with unconditional positive regard, patience and guidance.
T,Confidence,Cultural Issues, Depression, Dreams,Disability, Eating Disorders,Emotional Abuse,Fear,Family of Addicts,Gender Issues,General Counselling,Grief,Health Related Issues, Identity Problems, LGBT,Mental Abuse,Panic Attacks,Phobias, PTSD, Physical abuse,Psychotherapy,Recovery from suicide attempt, Restorative practice,Shame, Sexual abuse, Sexuality issues.
My aim is to help individuals find their inner strength to empower themselves by exploring their feelings and behaviors relating to their difficulties and giving them the space and encouragement to change so they can truly become who they are. I aim to try to do this with unconditional positive regard, patience and guidance.
(01) 267 6692 x32 View (01) 267 6692 x32
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Sarah Culligan
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, CPsychol
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am particularly passionate about issues relating to sex, gender and cultural issues as well as self-development and awareness.
I have almost 10 years experience within several settings and am a chartered member with the PSI. For the past 8 years I have worked predominantly in a forensic psychology setting while also maintaining a private practice. I conduct psychological assessments including cognitive, forensic and medico-legal as well as adult autism and ADHD assessments.
I am particularly passionate about issues relating to sex, gender and cultural issues as well as self-development and awareness.
I have almost 10 years experience within several settings and am a chartered member with the PSI. For the past 8 years I have worked predominantly in a forensic psychology setting while also maintaining a private practice. I conduct psychological assessments including cognitive, forensic and medico-legal as well as adult autism and ADHD assessments.
(01) 267 6675 x25 View (01) 267 6675 x25
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Vladimir Alexandru Dragomir
Psychologist, MPSI
Verified Verified
Dublin, County D02
I also have extensive experience in working with queer LGBTQ+ identities, especially when it comes to the intersection of being queer and neurodivergent, while also bringing expertise in general sexuality, intimacy, kink, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy.
In a few words, I identify as autistic, non-binary, queer, a video game fanatic, and occasionally an alternative drag/cabaret performer. My approach in counselling is guided by the idea that the main healing factor in any therapeutic process is the alliance between the counsellor and the client. I strive to be honest and authentic in my practice, while maintaining healthy boundaries, and I understand that the best psychologist for you is the one that is on the same wavelength as you, the one that just intuitively feels right.
I also have extensive experience in working with queer LGBTQ+ identities, especially when it comes to the intersection of being queer and neurodivergent, while also bringing expertise in general sexuality, intimacy, kink, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy.
In a few words, I identify as autistic, non-binary, queer, a video game fanatic, and occasionally an alternative drag/cabaret performer. My approach in counselling is guided by the idea that the main healing factor in any therapeutic process is the alliance between the counsellor and the client. I strive to be honest and authentic in my practice, while maintaining healthy boundaries, and I understand that the best psychologist for you is the one that is on the same wavelength as you, the one that just intuitively feels right.
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Scott Glennon
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dublin, County D02
I specialize in trauma, sexuality, and LGBTQI+ identities, offering personalized support alongside psychodynamic therapy.
Welcome! I'm Scott Glennon, a therapist accredited by the IACP, with my practice located in the heart of Dublin on South William Street. With over eight years of experience, I specialize in psychodynamic therapy, offering personalized mental health care for individuals seeking profound understanding and lasting change. In our sessions, we embark on a journey of exploration, delving into the depths of your psyche to unravel patterns and conflicts rooted in your unique life experiences. My goal is to foster insight and facilitate transformative growth, empowering you to navigate life's challenges with resilience and authenticity.
I specialize in trauma, sexuality, and LGBTQI+ identities, offering personalized support alongside psychodynamic therapy.
Welcome! I'm Scott Glennon, a therapist accredited by the IACP, with my practice located in the heart of Dublin on South William Street. With over eight years of experience, I specialize in psychodynamic therapy, offering personalized mental health care for individuals seeking profound understanding and lasting change. In our sessions, we embark on a journey of exploration, delving into the depths of your psyche to unravel patterns and conflicts rooted in your unique life experiences. My goal is to foster insight and facilitate transformative growth, empowering you to navigate life's challenges with resilience and authenticity.
(01) 267 6622 x64 View (01) 267 6622 x64
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Booterstown Counselling Psychotherapy 0877689823
Psychotherapist, MIACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
P Carnes, a leading authority on sex addictions in the US, and holds a PCI Certificate in Sex Addiction Counselling
Ideal clients are Brothers, Sisters, Mothers and Fathers coming with issues they have never discussed before or explored before. John has over 20 years experience working full time in all addictions including complex sexual problematic behaviour.
P Carnes, a leading authority on sex addictions in the US, and holds a PCI Certificate in Sex Addiction Counselling
Ideal clients are Brothers, Sisters, Mothers and Fathers coming with issues they have never discussed before or explored before. John has over 20 years experience working full time in all addictions including complex sexual problematic behaviour.
(01) 267 6622 x68 View (01) 267 6622 x68
Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.