Emotionally Focused Counselling in County Kerry
Come Sit A While (Antoinette O'Shea)
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MIACP
Killarney, County Kerry V93
I understand the courage it takes to enter in to therapy. My initial aim is to make a connection with you. My practice is non-judgemental, confidential and safe. My belief is you have the answers, as you know your "self" best. With my support and guidance you will start to make changes and feel the benefit of change. I listen well and at times I do not answer, I simply listen so you are heard. We will discuss your issues and look at what needs you wish to have met. We will then look at your goals, figure out how to get their and find out what's stopping you right now. Along the way we will review the positive changes you are making.
I understand the courage it takes to enter in to therapy. My initial aim is to make a connection with you. My practice is non-judgemental, confidential and safe. My belief is you have the answers, as you know your "self" best. With my support and guidance you will start to make changes and feel the benefit of change. I listen well and at times I do not answer, I simply listen so you are heard. We will discuss your issues and look at what needs you wish to have met. We will then look at your goals, figure out how to get their and find out what's stopping you right now. Along the way we will review the positive changes you are making.
Things never have a way of working out in life as to how we thought it would. Life throws many obstacles in our path, which can be very challenging. These can cause us to question ourself, our lives and our beliefs. These can create anxiety or depression, feelings of not being able to cope. It can leave us feeling broke and feeling that there is no way forward. We loose someone we love or a relationship or job, which can lead us to grieving for what we have lost. Sometimes we just need to find the right direction for our life.
Things never have a way of working out in life as to how we thought it would. Life throws many obstacles in our path, which can be very challenging. These can cause us to question ourself, our lives and our beliefs. These can create anxiety or depression, feelings of not being able to cope. It can leave us feeling broke and feeling that there is no way forward. We loose someone we love or a relationship or job, which can lead us to grieving for what we have lost. Sometimes we just need to find the right direction for our life.
I offer integrative or holistic therapy. I blend elements from different approaches and tailor treatment according to individual needs. That includes: Gestalt therapy - (the importance of being aware of the here and now), Psychodynamic therapy - (changing problematic behaviours, feelings, and thoughts), Cognitive therapy - (changing our thoughts, to change how we feel and what we do) and Existential therapy - (exploring free will, self-determination and the search for meaning).
I offer integrative or holistic therapy. I blend elements from different approaches and tailor treatment according to individual needs. That includes: Gestalt therapy - (the importance of being aware of the here and now), Psychodynamic therapy - (changing problematic behaviours, feelings, and thoughts), Cognitive therapy - (changing our thoughts, to change how we feel and what we do) and Existential therapy - (exploring free will, self-determination and the search for meaning).
Seeking help during a challenging time can be difficult. Be confident that it is your inner strength that has guided you to reach out and seek support. In my experience, I have come to see that no issue is too big or too small; the difficulty comes in trying to overcome it alone. Allow me to provide a safe, confidential, supportive, non-judgemental space for you to talk about and explore the issues which you may be finding challenging or painful.
Seeking help during a challenging time can be difficult. Be confident that it is your inner strength that has guided you to reach out and seek support. In my experience, I have come to see that no issue is too big or too small; the difficulty comes in trying to overcome it alone. Allow me to provide a safe, confidential, supportive, non-judgemental space for you to talk about and explore the issues which you may be finding challenging or painful.
For all clientele to grow towards inner freedom so they can enjoy a rich, full life & overcome personal difficulties. By providing kindness, skills, encouragement and necessary challenge to people who want help, I use helpful skills within a confidential, non-judgemental & safe trauma informed practice space. Because we are all unique, I draw from a broad range of methods using a strengths based approach. My extensive training, support, experience and maturity in this field has helped clients find genuine, positive change. See more about me at www.fulllifetherapy.com
For all clientele to grow towards inner freedom so they can enjoy a rich, full life & overcome personal difficulties. By providing kindness, skills, encouragement and necessary challenge to people who want help, I use helpful skills within a confidential, non-judgemental & safe trauma informed practice space. Because we are all unique, I draw from a broad range of methods using a strengths based approach. My extensive training, support, experience and maturity in this field has helped clients find genuine, positive change. See more about me at www.fulllifetherapy.com
Is your mood low?
Are you attracted to toxic relationships?
Do you have a behavioural or substance addiction?
Have you suffered trauma?
Are you worried about a loved one in addiction?
Do you suffer with low self-worth?
Are you codependent?
Do you feel like you can't be your true self?
Have you difficulty with sexual identity?
Would you like help with a bereavement?
I can help with any of the above issues and much more.
I work with private clients face to face or online.
Previously have worked in two addiction treatment centres.
My experience has led me to help many people who struggle with many different issue.
Is your mood low?
Are you attracted to toxic relationships?
Do you have a behavioural or substance addiction?
Have you suffered trauma?
Are you worried about a loved one in addiction?
Do you suffer with low self-worth?
Are you codependent?
Do you feel like you can't be your true self?
Have you difficulty with sexual identity?
Would you like help with a bereavement?
I can help with any of the above issues and much more.
I work with private clients face to face or online.
Previously have worked in two addiction treatment centres.
My experience has led me to help many people who struggle with many different issue.
Please see my website www.talktokev.com for more about me. face to face, walk and talk or online around the world. Most other therapists are sufficiently trained and experienced in one of the main three; counselling/psychotherapy, hypnotherapy or life coaching whereas Kevin has all of these, combined with being a master practitioner in neuro-linguistic programming and the experience to tailor fit to your needs. Kevin has successfully worked with people of all ages, genders, cultures and backgrounds with a wide spectrum of issues.
Please see my website www.talktokev.com for more about me. face to face, walk and talk or online around the world. Most other therapists are sufficiently trained and experienced in one of the main three; counselling/psychotherapy, hypnotherapy or life coaching whereas Kevin has all of these, combined with being a master practitioner in neuro-linguistic programming and the experience to tailor fit to your needs. Kevin has successfully worked with people of all ages, genders, cultures and backgrounds with a wide spectrum of issues.
I aim to give clients a healing environment that is private, strictly confidential, and judgment-free so they can recognise, investigate, and ultimately address their issues. I am an integrative psychotherapist, with a BSc Honours Degree, and have a genuine empathetic personality. In addition to integrating different models and methods of theory, I use a person-centred approach that is specifically customised to address the needs and concerns of each of my clients. These include internal family systems, attachment theory, cognitive behavioural therapy, solution-focused therapy, and psychoeducation.
I aim to give clients a healing environment that is private, strictly confidential, and judgment-free so they can recognise, investigate, and ultimately address their issues. I am an integrative psychotherapist, with a BSc Honours Degree, and have a genuine empathetic personality. In addition to integrating different models and methods of theory, I use a person-centred approach that is specifically customised to address the needs and concerns of each of my clients. These include internal family systems, attachment theory, cognitive behavioural therapy, solution-focused therapy, and psychoeducation.
Tara is a Tralee and Killarney based MIACP psychotherapist with a medical background in general nursing. Her personal and theoretical counselling philosophy is grounded in her belief that the client (and all people) are inherently driven towards and have the capacity for growth, thriving and self actualisation. She is trauma informed and has done further training in the areas of fertility counselling, grief and loss studies, CBT for menopause, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy and EMDR. She provides supports, tools and relational safety to help clients go from surviving to living a more fulfilled life.
Tara is a Tralee and Killarney based MIACP psychotherapist with a medical background in general nursing. Her personal and theoretical counselling philosophy is grounded in her belief that the client (and all people) are inherently driven towards and have the capacity for growth, thriving and self actualisation. She is trauma informed and has done further training in the areas of fertility counselling, grief and loss studies, CBT for menopause, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy and EMDR. She provides supports, tools and relational safety to help clients go from surviving to living a more fulfilled life.
Hi, I’m Emer.
Life can feel overwhelming at times. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, trauma, addiction, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, grief, or navigating a major life transition. You might feel stuck, lost, or simply not like yourself. Whatever is bringing you here, you are very welcome.
I offer a warm, supportive, and confidential space where you can talk openly and feel truly heard. My approach is compassionate, respectful, and non-judgmental. I will meet you where you are, and we will work together at a pace that feels right for you.
Seeking support is a courageous step. You don’t have to do it alone.
Hi, I’m Emer.
Life can feel overwhelming at times. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, trauma, addiction, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, grief, or navigating a major life transition. You might feel stuck, lost, or simply not like yourself. Whatever is bringing you here, you are very welcome.
I offer a warm, supportive, and confidential space where you can talk openly and feel truly heard. My approach is compassionate, respectful, and non-judgmental. I will meet you where you are, and we will work together at a pace that feels right for you.
Seeking support is a courageous step. You don’t have to do it alone.
I complete educational assessments- to screen for dyslexia, dyscalculia and general intellectual ability . I refer on for further assessment, where appropriate , if there are indicators for autism, Adhd, dyspraxia or other challenges which need addressing.
My reports contain recommendations which will support the child/teenager to access the curriculum and attain the level they are capable of academically. Protecting a young persons self esteem, and their self confidence, is I believe of great importance when they are struggling with challenges educationally - be they academic, emotional or behavioural .
I complete educational assessments- to screen for dyslexia, dyscalculia and general intellectual ability . I refer on for further assessment, where appropriate , if there are indicators for autism, Adhd, dyspraxia or other challenges which need addressing.
My reports contain recommendations which will support the child/teenager to access the curriculum and attain the level they are capable of academically. Protecting a young persons self esteem, and their self confidence, is I believe of great importance when they are struggling with challenges educationally - be they academic, emotional or behavioural .
A very warm welcome from me to you…
What a daunting and confusing experience it can be reaching out for support. And yet here you are taking a step towards giving yourself what you need.
I'm Jackie and I’d love to offer you a warm, gentle, accepting space that is anchored in a genuine and human connection. I believe people deserve to be
seen for who they are,
to be truly heard and understood and
to be witnessed in their own unique experience of life.
This is not a one size fits all approach and my intention is to co-create a therapeutic relationship and space that is in service of your unique journey. Person centred therapy provides
A very warm welcome from me to you…
What a daunting and confusing experience it can be reaching out for support. And yet here you are taking a step towards giving yourself what you need.
I'm Jackie and I’d love to offer you a warm, gentle, accepting space that is anchored in a genuine and human connection. I believe people deserve to be
seen for who they are,
to be truly heard and understood and
to be witnessed in their own unique experience of life.
This is not a one size fits all approach and my intention is to co-create a therapeutic relationship and space that is in service of your unique journey. Person centred therapy provides
Online/Telephone accredited Counsellor & Psychotherapist and member of IACP. When we have experienced trauma or difficulties in our lives, we may feel a low sense of worth, lack of belief in ourselves, or struggle in relationships with others. We may feel a lack of motivation, stress, anxiety or depression and find it difficult to cope. Therapy can help to uncover our thoughts, feelings and beliefs about ourselves and others, and how these impact on our lives. Feeling heard can support us to heal trauma, losses or painful experiences we have been through, as well as to understand ourselves better.
Online/Telephone accredited Counsellor & Psychotherapist and member of IACP. When we have experienced trauma or difficulties in our lives, we may feel a low sense of worth, lack of belief in ourselves, or struggle in relationships with others. We may feel a lack of motivation, stress, anxiety or depression and find it difficult to cope. Therapy can help to uncover our thoughts, feelings and beliefs about ourselves and others, and how these impact on our lives. Feeling heard can support us to heal trauma, losses or painful experiences we have been through, as well as to understand ourselves better.
I work with teens (16 years+) and adult clients. I have specialist experience working with a range of needs and issues across the lifespan, including trauma, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief and loss, attachment issues, eating disorders, chronic health conditions, life changes and transitions, emotional dysregulation, self harm, suicide, OCD, ADHD, and Autism.
I work with teens (16 years+) and adult clients. I have specialist experience working with a range of needs and issues across the lifespan, including trauma, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief and loss, attachment issues, eating disorders, chronic health conditions, life changes and transitions, emotional dysregulation, self harm, suicide, OCD, ADHD, and Autism.
I use a trauma-informed approach, integrating compassion-focused, emotionally focused, and cognitive-behavioral therapy to support your healing.
Feeling trapped in a painful 'push-pull' cycle? One of you constantly seeks closeness, while the other needs space, leaving you both feeling lonely and misunderstood. These predictable patterns are often driven by our attachment styles, creating a dynamic that feels strangely familiar yet difficult to break. I help individuals and couples move beyond managing symptoms to understand and change this dance. Together, we can decode your pattern, heal its roots, and build a secure, loving connection. The goal is not to change who you are, but to help you relate to each other in a new way fostering security, intimacy, and mutual support
I use a trauma-informed approach, integrating compassion-focused, emotionally focused, and cognitive-behavioral therapy to support your healing.
Feeling trapped in a painful 'push-pull' cycle? One of you constantly seeks closeness, while the other needs space, leaving you both feeling lonely and misunderstood. These predictable patterns are often driven by our attachment styles, creating a dynamic that feels strangely familiar yet difficult to break. I help individuals and couples move beyond managing symptoms to understand and change this dance. Together, we can decode your pattern, heal its roots, and build a secure, loving connection. The goal is not to change who you are, but to help you relate to each other in a new way fostering security, intimacy, and mutual support
Online Therapists
As a Holistic Integrative Therapist, I tailor my therapeutic approach to meet each client’s unique needs. My goal is to create a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can freely explore, grow, and heal from the issues that have led you to seek therapy. I combine various therapeutic techniques to address the mind, body, and spirit, ensuring a comprehensive approach to well-being. By fostering self-awareness and personal growth, I help clients develop effective coping mechanisms and achieve a balanced, fulfilling life. Together, we work towards long-term healing and resilience.
As a Holistic Integrative Therapist, I tailor my therapeutic approach to meet each client’s unique needs. My goal is to create a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can freely explore, grow, and heal from the issues that have led you to seek therapy. I combine various therapeutic techniques to address the mind, body, and spirit, ensuring a comprehensive approach to well-being. By fostering self-awareness and personal growth, I help clients develop effective coping mechanisms and achieve a balanced, fulfilling life. Together, we work towards long-term healing and resilience.
My Way Of Working Is Fundamentally Based Upon Person-Centred Principles And Human Rights, with a Focus On Creating A Supportive Therapeutic Alliance. Sessions Integrate Elements Of Evidence-Based Therapies Such As Emotion-Focused Therapy, Compassion-Focused Therapy, And Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy. I Have Experience Working With Adults, Children, Parents And Families.
My Way Of Working Is Fundamentally Based Upon Person-Centred Principles And Human Rights, with a Focus On Creating A Supportive Therapeutic Alliance. Sessions Integrate Elements Of Evidence-Based Therapies Such As Emotion-Focused Therapy, Compassion-Focused Therapy, And Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy. I Have Experience Working With Adults, Children, Parents And Families.
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. As an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I draw on different approaches to support you in a way that fits your unique needs. My priority is to offer a kind, safe space where you can talk freely, feel heard, and know you won’t be judged.
Whether you’re feeling anxious, low, stuck, or simply unsure of what’s going on, we can explore it together. I’ll help you make sense of things, discover new ways to cope, and reconnect with your strengths so you can move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
Taking the first step toward therapy can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. As an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I draw on different approaches to support you in a way that fits your unique needs. My priority is to offer a kind, safe space where you can talk freely, feel heard, and know you won’t be judged.
Whether you’re feeling anxious, low, stuck, or simply unsure of what’s going on, we can explore it together. I’ll help you make sense of things, discover new ways to cope, and reconnect with your strengths so you can move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
I offer online therapy using an integrative approach (blending a number of modalities based on your unique needs).
I offer online therapy using an integrative approach (blending a number of modalities based on your unique needs).
At Behaviour Solutions, the approach is grounded in evidence-based methods and over 18 years of experience in behavioural consultation and therapy. Jenny Tsagalas, a fully registered behaviour analyst with ISBA, works with parents of children, adolescents, and young adults,to address a wide range of behavioural challenges. Her practice incorporates principles from Positive Behaviour Support (PBS), attachment theory, and trauma-informed care, combined with current insights from neuroscience and developmental psychology. By focusing on both behaviour and its underlying emotional context, Jenny helps families achieve meaningful change.
At Behaviour Solutions, the approach is grounded in evidence-based methods and over 18 years of experience in behavioural consultation and therapy. Jenny Tsagalas, a fully registered behaviour analyst with ISBA, works with parents of children, adolescents, and young adults,to address a wide range of behavioural challenges. Her practice incorporates principles from Positive Behaviour Support (PBS), attachment theory, and trauma-informed care, combined with current insights from neuroscience and developmental psychology. By focusing on both behaviour and its underlying emotional context, Jenny helps families achieve meaningful change.
Emotionally Focused Counsellors
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.