Laya Counselling in Cobh
Life can be challenging at times. Your story, struggles and pain are unique to you. My belief is that you have the capacity and strength to resolve your issues with the right supports in place. I offer a supportive space of warmth and non-judgemental listening to help untangle the discomfort you are experiencing. Together, we will spend time understanding exactly what you are experiencing. I will not tell you what to do, but will encourage you and provide tools to help you cope with life’s obstacles.
Life can be challenging at times. Your story, struggles and pain are unique to you. My belief is that you have the capacity and strength to resolve your issues with the right supports in place. I offer a supportive space of warmth and non-judgemental listening to help untangle the discomfort you are experiencing. Together, we will spend time understanding exactly what you are experiencing. I will not tell you what to do, but will encourage you and provide tools to help you cope with life’s obstacles.
I am recognised by VHI, Laya, Corkmarket and Irish Life for up to 50% rebates of consultation fee.
I have particular expertise in the treatment of severe and enduring mental health issues including trauma, abuse, PTSD, psychosis, bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, panic, anger, grief, shame and personality disorder.
I am recognised by VHI, Laya, Corkmarket and Irish Life for up to 50% rebates of consultation fee.
I have particular expertise in the treatment of severe and enduring mental health issues including trauma, abuse, PTSD, psychosis, bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, panic, anger, grief, shame and personality disorder.
I work with people who feel stuck in patterns around addiction, overthinking, or ways of coping that no longer work but are difficult to change. Often there’s a sense of shame or frustration beneath this. I offer a grounded, reflective space to help you understand what’s driving these patterns and begin to step out of them. I have over twenty years’ experience in private practice and work fully online with clients across Ireland
I work with people who feel stuck in patterns around addiction, overthinking, or ways of coping that no longer work but are difficult to change. Often there’s a sense of shame or frustration beneath this. I offer a grounded, reflective space to help you understand what’s driving these patterns and begin to step out of them. I have over twenty years’ experience in private practice and work fully online with clients across Ireland
With over 15 years’ experience as a therapist and supervisor, I offer a warm, supportive space where you can explore what’s happening in your life without fear of judgment or pressure to be anyone other than yourself. My practice is neuroaffirmative and inclusive, welcoming both neurodivergent and neurotypical adults.
You might be coming to therapy because you’re feeling stressed, anxious, or low, or because you’re struggling to manage emotions that can sometimes feel overwhelming. Perhaps you’re healing from trauma, navigating a major life change, or wanting to improve your relationships and feel more connected to others.
With over 15 years’ experience as a therapist and supervisor, I offer a warm, supportive space where you can explore what’s happening in your life without fear of judgment or pressure to be anyone other than yourself. My practice is neuroaffirmative and inclusive, welcoming both neurodivergent and neurotypical adults.
You might be coming to therapy because you’re feeling stressed, anxious, or low, or because you’re struggling to manage emotions that can sometimes feel overwhelming. Perhaps you’re healing from trauma, navigating a major life change, or wanting to improve your relationships and feel more connected to others.
The stress of modern life can lead us to experience anxiety, depression and many other symptoms. Whilst bereavement, change and loss are all natural processes, they can also be painful and destabilizing which can create feelings of anger, helplessness and vulnerability. Challenges in the present can also unearth experiences from our past which we might not have had the opportunity to fully understand and process. These feelings can seriously impact on our lives including relationships, physical health and work such that it can sometimes feel we are out of control.
The stress of modern life can lead us to experience anxiety, depression and many other symptoms. Whilst bereavement, change and loss are all natural processes, they can also be painful and destabilizing which can create feelings of anger, helplessness and vulnerability. Challenges in the present can also unearth experiences from our past which we might not have had the opportunity to fully understand and process. These feelings can seriously impact on our lives including relationships, physical health and work such that it can sometimes feel we are out of control.
Our world has changed beyond recognition in the past few months and for many people it can feel very overwhelming. Fear, panic, anxiety and stress are all too common in the clients I am meeting on a day to day basis. I hear how isolating it is for people at the moment. Relationship and connection are vital now, more than ever. Talking with a trained professional can help make sense of what you are feeling. Through this therapeutic relationship, you can find connection, healing and the space to speak about the difficult challenges you are going through.
Our world has changed beyond recognition in the past few months and for many people it can feel very overwhelming. Fear, panic, anxiety and stress are all too common in the clients I am meeting on a day to day basis. I hear how isolating it is for people at the moment. Relationship and connection are vital now, more than ever. Talking with a trained professional can help make sense of what you are feeling. Through this therapeutic relationship, you can find connection, healing and the space to speak about the difficult challenges you are going through.
I am a qualified and fully accredited Counsellor / Psychotherapist MIACP. I tailor therapy to each clients needs. Key to my approach is identifying objectives and goals for our work together such as experiencing feelings of inner peace and worth, connecting with a sense of inner purpose, experiencing the freedom to live life without feeling burdened or guilty, connecting more in relationships, overcoming feelings of anxiety or depression, overcoming trauma. I use a number of therapeutic frameworks including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), Internal Family Systems, Attachment, and Person Centred.
I am a qualified and fully accredited Counsellor / Psychotherapist MIACP. I tailor therapy to each clients needs. Key to my approach is identifying objectives and goals for our work together such as experiencing feelings of inner peace and worth, connecting with a sense of inner purpose, experiencing the freedom to live life without feeling burdened or guilty, connecting more in relationships, overcoming feelings of anxiety or depression, overcoming trauma. I use a number of therapeutic frameworks including EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), Internal Family Systems, Attachment, and Person Centred.
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Hello I’m Mary, welcome to my profile. I am originally from Co Wexford, although I have been living in Cork for twenty years.
In terms of counselling and psychotherapy work, I am experienced in holding space for clients experiencing a combination of the following life struggles; relationship difficulties, self-esteem, confidence, anxiety, bereavement, loss (hope, faith, self, purpose, direction), attachment wounding, abandonment, life change/stage, transition (life and career), confusion, dissatisfaction, aloneness, loneliness, isolation.
I am also a career coach (see my website link for details).
Hello I’m Mary, welcome to my profile. I am originally from Co Wexford, although I have been living in Cork for twenty years.
In terms of counselling and psychotherapy work, I am experienced in holding space for clients experiencing a combination of the following life struggles; relationship difficulties, self-esteem, confidence, anxiety, bereavement, loss (hope, faith, self, purpose, direction), attachment wounding, abandonment, life change/stage, transition (life and career), confusion, dissatisfaction, aloneness, loneliness, isolation.
I am also a career coach (see my website link for details).
Deciding to come for counselling can often be a difficult and drawn-out process. It is often also a very rewarding and enriching experience leading to changes in one’s life that reduce distress and increase one’s ability to cope with difficulties and challenges. By it's nature the process involves engaging with uncomfortable aspects of oneself and our relationships that are challenging. The goal of the process is to increase self-knowledge, self-acceptance and self-compassion to enhance our capacity to relate to ourselves and others in healthier and more fulfilling ways.
Deciding to come for counselling can often be a difficult and drawn-out process. It is often also a very rewarding and enriching experience leading to changes in one’s life that reduce distress and increase one’s ability to cope with difficulties and challenges. By it's nature the process involves engaging with uncomfortable aspects of oneself and our relationships that are challenging. The goal of the process is to increase self-knowledge, self-acceptance and self-compassion to enhance our capacity to relate to ourselves and others in healthier and more fulfilling ways.
I'm registered as a psychotherapist with Laya Healthcare.
I offer Comprehensive DBT, CBT and Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy.
Many of my clients are looking to resolve pervasive emotional dysregulation. Others have a question about their lives and relationships. Others are simply looking to be listened to in an attentive manner.
I’m happy to help whatever challenge you face.
I'm registered as a psychotherapist with Laya Healthcare.
I offer Comprehensive DBT, CBT and Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy.
Many of my clients are looking to resolve pervasive emotional dysregulation. Others have a question about their lives and relationships. Others are simply looking to be listened to in an attentive manner.
I’m happy to help whatever challenge you face.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or aware that something in your life seems off kilter, therapy can offer a space to pause, reflect, and begin to understand what’s really going on for you.
Many of the people I work with are experiencing anxiety, stress, burn-out, or a sense of feeling lost or lacking direction—even if things may appear “fine” on the surface.
I have a particular interest in working with people who want to live more authentically—developing self-awareness, finding meaning and direction, and addressing old wounds that may still be shaping how they feel, relate, and move through life.
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or aware that something in your life seems off kilter, therapy can offer a space to pause, reflect, and begin to understand what’s really going on for you.
Many of the people I work with are experiencing anxiety, stress, burn-out, or a sense of feeling lost or lacking direction—even if things may appear “fine” on the surface.
I have a particular interest in working with people who want to live more authentically—developing self-awareness, finding meaning and direction, and addressing old wounds that may still be shaping how they feel, relate, and move through life.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in negative thoughts? Maybe you're coping with trauma, low self-esteem, or navigating tough life changes. You might be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationships, grief, school or work stress, or questioning your identity. You want to feel more confident, grounded, and connected—but aren’t sure where to begin. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore what’s holding you back and help you move toward healing, clarity, and emotional balance.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in negative thoughts? Maybe you're coping with trauma, low self-esteem, or navigating tough life changes. You might be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationships, grief, school or work stress, or questioning your identity. You want to feel more confident, grounded, and connected—but aren’t sure where to begin. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore what’s holding you back and help you move toward healing, clarity, and emotional balance.
Have you finally got to that point in your struggle with anxiety that you really want to deal with it? If you are, I’m here to help you. Together we can help you make the journey out of your anxiety. I can help you manage your anxious thoughts more effectively, by reducing your levels of anxiety and enjoy life without worrying all the time.
Have you finally got to that point in your struggle with anxiety that you really want to deal with it? If you are, I’m here to help you. Together we can help you make the journey out of your anxiety. I can help you manage your anxious thoughts more effectively, by reducing your levels of anxiety and enjoy life without worrying all the time.
Therapy provides a safe, non-judgemental and confidential space to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviors; whether you are in crisis, needing support, or you want to make changes in your life. Here you will be met with acceptance, empathy and compassion as you begin your unique journey. I view each client as an individual and believe if given the appropriate conditions, the client will develop an awareness and insight into themselves to help overcome their challenges. I work relationally and collaboratively with the client. Research identifies the best outcome for the client centres on the therapeutic relationship.
Therapy provides a safe, non-judgemental and confidential space to explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviors; whether you are in crisis, needing support, or you want to make changes in your life. Here you will be met with acceptance, empathy and compassion as you begin your unique journey. I view each client as an individual and believe if given the appropriate conditions, the client will develop an awareness and insight into themselves to help overcome their challenges. I work relationally and collaboratively with the client. Research identifies the best outcome for the client centres on the therapeutic relationship.
I work with aspects of your mental health affected on becoming a mother or father eg.., anxiety, depression, Infertility, pregnancy loss, artificial reproductive technology, pre-natal crisis pregnancy, child bereavement, parenting styles, relationships, separation,domestic violence, and how adverse childhood experiences and trauma are affecting your experience of parenthood. I have a special interest in Peri-Natal Mental Health. This includes understanding issues arising for mothers and fathers from the time of conception up until the child is 5 years old.
I work with aspects of your mental health affected on becoming a mother or father eg.., anxiety, depression, Infertility, pregnancy loss, artificial reproductive technology, pre-natal crisis pregnancy, child bereavement, parenting styles, relationships, separation,domestic violence, and how adverse childhood experiences and trauma are affecting your experience of parenthood. I have a special interest in Peri-Natal Mental Health. This includes understanding issues arising for mothers and fathers from the time of conception up until the child is 5 years old.
Lynn Costello
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MIACP
Midleton, County Cork P25
Waitlist for new clients
Hi I’m Lynn, a psychotherapist based in East Cork. My approach to therapy is warm and supportive, focusing on creating a safe confidential space where you feel comfortable exploring your thoughts and feelings. My goal is to empower you to gain insight, develop coping skills, and build your resilience and self-esteem. I work in a collaborative way, figuring things out with you, to find what feels best for you and your needs. I believe that therapy can bring a positive change to your life by increasing your self-awareness and helping you feel more fulfilled.
Hi I’m Lynn, a psychotherapist based in East Cork. My approach to therapy is warm and supportive, focusing on creating a safe confidential space where you feel comfortable exploring your thoughts and feelings. My goal is to empower you to gain insight, develop coping skills, and build your resilience and self-esteem. I work in a collaborative way, figuring things out with you, to find what feels best for you and your needs. I believe that therapy can bring a positive change to your life by increasing your self-awareness and helping you feel more fulfilled.
Ideal clients are people who look fine on the outside but feel stuck inside: anxiety, overwhelm, trauma triggers, OCD patterns, grief, addiction, burnout, or relationship stress. They come because they can’t switch off, sleep is poor, emotions feel too much or nothing, and the same patterns keep repeating. I help by getting to the root cause, not just managing symptoms. I specialise in trauma-informed psychotherapy and use practical tools clients can use in real life to feel calmer, clearer, and back in control.
Ideal clients are people who look fine on the outside but feel stuck inside: anxiety, overwhelm, trauma triggers, OCD patterns, grief, addiction, burnout, or relationship stress. They come because they can’t switch off, sleep is poor, emotions feel too much or nothing, and the same patterns keep repeating. I help by getting to the root cause, not just managing symptoms. I specialise in trauma-informed psychotherapy and use practical tools clients can use in real life to feel calmer, clearer, and back in control.
Addiction or misuse; whether it's by way of gambling or substances..you are looking to make changes and getting counselling can make the big difference. You have tried to reduce or stop by yourself plenty of times but it hasn't worked. This can be so lonely, exhausting and frustrating. I blend addiction counselling and pscyhotherapy so I can help you through the really difficult ups and downs of understanding and changing addictive behaviours. I can help you practically with residential treatment information, with aftercare from residential treatment or with helping you to make these changes whilst you continue to work or study.
Addiction or misuse; whether it's by way of gambling or substances..you are looking to make changes and getting counselling can make the big difference. You have tried to reduce or stop by yourself plenty of times but it hasn't worked. This can be so lonely, exhausting and frustrating. I blend addiction counselling and pscyhotherapy so I can help you through the really difficult ups and downs of understanding and changing addictive behaviours. I can help you practically with residential treatment information, with aftercare from residential treatment or with helping you to make these changes whilst you continue to work or study.
Do you and your partner want to strengthen your bond but find yourselves stuck in cycles of conflict or disconnection? As humans, we are wired for connection, yet every relationship experiences rupture. Healing and repair are possible and are essential for our relationships to survive and thrive. A wide body of research shows that secure attachment in our relationships benefits both our mental and physical health.
My work is attachment focused and trauma-informed to create a safe, healing space in which couples can reflect on their struggles and bring peace to their relationship.
Do you and your partner want to strengthen your bond but find yourselves stuck in cycles of conflict or disconnection? As humans, we are wired for connection, yet every relationship experiences rupture. Healing and repair are possible and are essential for our relationships to survive and thrive. A wide body of research shows that secure attachment in our relationships benefits both our mental and physical health.
My work is attachment focused and trauma-informed to create a safe, healing space in which couples can reflect on their struggles and bring peace to their relationship.
Laya, VHI, Irish Life, Aviva).
Are you overwhelmed by daily life, struggling with anxiety, or finding relationships difficult? Perhaps you feel like you are just surviving, exhausted from masking your feelings and carrying the weight of past trauma. You do not have to manage this alone. As an IACP-accredited psychotherapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to untangle your thoughts. By blending evidence-based therapies like CBT, we will process your emotions and develop practical coping strategies. I am here to help you heal past wounds, move forward with clarity, and regain control.
Laya, VHI, Irish Life, Aviva).
Are you overwhelmed by daily life, struggling with anxiety, or finding relationships difficult? Perhaps you feel like you are just surviving, exhausted from masking your feelings and carrying the weight of past trauma. You do not have to manage this alone. As an IACP-accredited psychotherapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to untangle your thoughts. By blending evidence-based therapies like CBT, we will process your emotions and develop practical coping strategies. I am here to help you heal past wounds, move forward with clarity, and regain control.