Revenge Is Its Own Punishment

Can exes overcome vindictiveness?

Can exes overcome vindictiveness?

The Myth of Togetherness

There is a strong message coming from the larger culture that a couple will be happiest when they share interests and activities.

There is a strong message coming from the larger culture that a couple will be happiest when they share interests and activities.

Give Your Partner a Joy Jolt

Becoming an expert on our partner is not only about not causing harm, but also to heal them from past wounds.

Becoming an expert on our partner is not only about not causing harm, but also to heal them from past wounds.

Myth: You Can’t Love Someone Until You Love Yourself

There is a kernel of truth in the notion that to be eligible for a deeply loving relationship, you must love yourself.

There is a kernel of truth in the notion that to be eligible for a deeply loving relationship, you must love yourself.

The Myth of Unconditional Love

Some people have a mistaken understanding of unconditional love...

Some people have a mistaken understanding of unconditional love...

Ordinary Heroes

During the pandemic, we have a heightened awareness of those who are keeping the country going in the midst of challenging circumstances.

During the pandemic, we have a heightened awareness of those who are keeping the country going in the midst of challenging circumstances.

Personal Disarmament

The inability to handle the differences around common issues like money, work, children, in-laws, and how we spend our leisure time, takes relationships down...

The inability to handle the differences around common issues like money, work, children, in-laws, and how we spend our leisure time, takes relationships down...

Personal Disarmament

There comes a time when the pain of the power struggle becomes so exhausting and unpleasant that we are motivated to find another way.

There comes a time when the pain of the power struggle becomes so exhausting and unpleasant that we are motivated to find another way.

The Best Predictors of Successful Relationships

A recent landmark study explores the question of what makes relationships successful.

A recent landmark study explores the question of what makes relationships successful.

The Last of the Dragons

The taming of a great partnership.

The taming of a great partnership.