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Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT

Tobey Tam

Psychotherapist, HKMFT

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Central, Hong Kong
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Healing starts here. You might be seeking support because the weight of anxiety has become too heavy, or because you find yourself repeating the same painful patterns in your relationships. Often, what we experience as "being stuck" today is actually the lingering echo of trauma or the invisible pressure of our family history. Here is where healing starts.
療癒,從這裡開始。 您或許是因為焦慮感已令生活失衡,或是在親密關係中反覆陷入痛苦的循環,而決定尋求改變。很多時候,我們感到「卡住」並不單是意志力的問題,而是過往的創傷記憶在身體扎根,或是原生家庭多年累積的行為模式在無形中牽引著我們。如果您覺得在重重的掙扎中迷失了自我,這裡將是您重新找回力量、釋放自我的起點。
Whether it is workplace burnout, relationship distress, sudden loss, or family conflict, you do not have to carry this weight alone. I am here to help you navigate these challenges and reclaim your sense of peace. Email me. Your journey to freedom and healing starts here. 無論是職場過勞、關係困擾、突如其來的失去、還是家庭衝突,您都不必獨自承擔。我會陪伴您在混亂中找回力量,重新掌握人生的主導權。請即預約15分鐘免費諮詢,讓療癒從這裡開始。
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Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Central, Hong Kong

Website
Flexible evening timeslots are available. Click "my website" to schedule a 15-min free consultation with me!
I specialize in Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Trauma and PTSD 
$780 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Connect with Tobey Tam
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT

Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Central, Hong Kong

Website
Flexible evening timeslots are available. Click "my website" to schedule a 15-min free consultation with me!
I specialize in Anxiety, Relationship Issues and Trauma and PTSD 
$780 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $780
  • Couple Sessions $1170
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Bank transfer, Mastercard, Visa
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50min for individual and 75min for couple session. I offer sliding scale rates to keep therapy accessible. Payments via Credit Card (Stripe).
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
50min for individual and 75min for couple session. I offer sliding scale rates to keep therapy accessible. Payments via Credit Card (Stripe).
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

    Psychotherapist: Wing Sum Tam

  • Verified by Psychology Today Membership with Hong Kong Marriage and Family Therapy Association Wing Sum Tam
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 13 years
  • Marriage and Family Therapy, MASW(FCPFT), Graduated 2013
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy Clinical fellow
  • Membership with Hong Kong Professional Counselling Association Certified Counsellor
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With over 16 years of dedicated practice in a Hong Kong family service center, I bring extensive experience in handling complex family dynamics and crisis. Now practicing in US, I combine this deep local insight with advanced training in EMDR and BFST to provide culturally sensitivity.
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
With over 16 years of dedicated practice in a Hong Kong family service center, I bring extensive experience in handling complex family dynamics and crisis. Now practicing in US, I combine this deep local insight with advanced training in EMDR and BFST to provide culturally sensitivity.
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Relationship Issues
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Bereavement
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Sleep or Insomnia
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I help those struggling with anxiety, trauma, and complex relationship patterns. We begin by stabilizing your symptoms, followed by EMDR to process "stuck" memories and Family Systems to untangle family-of-origin stress. Expect to gain emotional resilience, healthier boundaries, and a significant reduction in triggers. Most clients feel more grounded and in control within 4 to 6 sessions.
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I help those struggling with anxiety, trauma, and complex relationship patterns. We begin by stabilizing your symptoms, followed by EMDR to process "stuck" memories and Family Systems to untangle family-of-origin stress. Expect to gain emotional resilience, healthier boundaries, and a significant reduction in triggers. Most clients feel more grounded and in control within 4 to 6 sessions.
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

I also speak

Cantonese
Mandarin

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

I also speak

Cantonese
Mandarin

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centred
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I offer an integrative approach using EMDR and IFS to heal trauma and 'inner parts.' By mapping your Family Diagram, we uncover generational patterns, while Somatic techniques and ACT help you ground your body and mind in the present. This holistic path ensures we don't just talk about change; we transform how your nervous system and 'Self' respond to life's challenges.
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I offer an integrative approach using EMDR and IFS to heal trauma and 'inner parts.' By mapping your Family Diagram, we uncover generational patterns, while Somatic techniques and ACT help you ground your body and mind in the present. This holistic path ensures we don't just talk about change; we transform how your nervous system and 'Self' respond to life's challenges.
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Location

Primary Location

Central, Hong Kong

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Flexible evening timeslots are available. Click "my website" to schedule a 15-min free consultation with me!
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT
"
Flexible evening timeslots are available. Click "my website" to schedule a 15-min free consultation with me!
Photo of Wing Sum Tam - Tobey Tam, Psychotherapist, HKMFT
Tobey Tam
Psychotherapist, HKMFT