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Sex Personality Test

20 Questions
3 Minutes

How well do you express yourself in the bedroom?

There is no right or wrong style of loving, and the way you express your desires depends on many factors, from your body awareness to your openness to experience to your moral and religious beliefs. What is important is that you accept the sexual nature you have and use it to enhance your emotional connection to your partner.

Using the key below, answer the questions based on how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement.

Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Strongly Agree
Agree
1. I enjoy flirting with my partner when we are in public places.
Disagree
Agree
2. I am able to deeply focus on the experience when I am having sex with a partner.
Disagree
Agree
3. I like receiving oral sex.
Disagree
Agree
4. I like giving oral sex.
Disagree
Agree
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5. I am very aware of what I want when I am having sex.
Disagree
Agree
6. Sex is an important part of my relationship life.
Disagree
Agree
7. I can tell or show my partner what I need when we are making love.
Disagree
Agree
8. I am responsive when my partner suggests we try something new.
Disagree
Agree
9. I know what my partner’s sexual needs are.
Disagree
Agree
10. I have had sex in a public place.
Disagree
Agree
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11. I have participated in threesomes.
Disagree
Agree
12. I prefer to have sex with the lights out.
Disagree
Agree
13. I have sexually explicit fantasies.
Disagree
Agree
14. I like hearing about my partner’s sexual fantasies.
Disagree
Agree
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15. I can be fully in the moment when I am having sex.
Disagree
Agree
16. Masturbation plays a role in sex.
Disagree
Agree
17. I am comfortable discussing our sex life with my partner.
Disagree
Agree
18. I am able to fully let go when I am having sex.
Disagree
Agree
19. I enjoy getting undressed in front of my partner.
Disagree
Agree
20. If my partner suggests doing something I’m not comfortable with, I speak up.
Disagree
Agree
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Who Is This Sex Personality Test For?

This test is for anyone who wants to understand their sexual nature and how it affects their relationship experience. It is designed for adults and is not intended to be diagnostic. 

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Get Help for Sexual Relationship Issues

If you have difficulty understanding, expressing, or accepting your sexual desires, seeking the help of a therapist can be beneficial. Find a professional near you in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory.

References

The Gottman Institute. “Talking About Sex Is More Intimate than Having Sex.”

E. Perel, “Eroticism.” www.estherpere.com

Brotto, L A. Better Sex Through Mindfulness. Greystone Books. 2018.

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