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Prolonged Grief Test

20 Questions
3 Minutes

Are You Feeling Intense Grief Long After a Loved One’s Death?

Grief is a natural response to loss, which is always painful. There is no timetable on grief; it takes time to accept the loss of a loved one and rebuild life beyond it. But sometimes grief doesn’t end. When people have trouble adapting to the new reality more than a year out in ways that hamper their functioning, they can be considered to be experiencing prolonged grief, also sometimes called complicated grief.

Using the key below, answer the questions based on how often the statement applies to you.

Never
Rarely
Sometimes
Frequently
Always
1. I think constantly of the person who died.
Rarely
Always
2. I feel lost without the person who died.
Rarely
Always
3. I blame myself for my loved one’s death.
Rarely
Always
4. I don’t know who I am anymore without my loved one.
Rarely
Always
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5. I have trouble believing my loved one has died.
Rarely
Always
6. I go out of my way to avoid places that remind me of the person I lost.
Rarely
Always
7. Since the death, I have lost interest in social events.
Rarely
Always
8. I have trouble believing the person is gone from my life.
Rarely
Always
9. I feel I do not deserve to be alive while the other person is dead.
Rarely
Always
10. I feel intense sorrow over the loss.
Rarely
Always
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11. I yearn for the loved one who died.
Rarely
Always
12. I feel that parts of me died along with my loved one.
Rarely
Always
13. Life seems meaningless since the loss.
Rarely
Always
14. I feel emotionally numb.
Rarely
Always
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15. I do not find myself interested in activities I pursued before the loss.
Rarely
Always
16. I feel detached from others since my loved one died.
Rarely
Always
17. I am not interested in engaging with friends.
Rarely
Always
18. I feel angry or bitter over the loss.
Rarely
Always
19. I am not interested in planning for the future.
Rarely
Always
20. look forward to being reunited with my loved one.
Rarely
Always
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Who is this test for?

This test is for anyone who has experienced the death of a loved one and, more than a year later, is preoccupied with thoughts of the loss.

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How to Get Help

If, more than a year after the loss of a loved one. you are experiencing intense feelings of grief that interfere with your ability to function, seeking the help of a therapist can be beneficial. Find a professional near you in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory.

References

Prolonged Grief Disorder, Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders-5-TR, American Psychiatric Association, 2022.

Prigerson HG, Maciejewski PK, Reynolds CF 3rd, Inventory of Complicated Grief: A Scale to Measure maladaptive Symptoms of Loss, Psychiatry Research 59 (1), 65-79, 1995.