Transgender Counselling in Oxted

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Collective Psychology
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Oxted RH8
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
01932 504224 View 01932 504224
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Louise Gulley
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oxted RH8
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.
01883 776035 View 01883 776035
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Kirsty Rollings
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Oxted RH8
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
01322 927261 View 01322 927261

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Anthony Donohue Counselling & Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
07380 318240 View 07380 318240
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Nicola Hare dip.couns.mncs(accred)
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Horley RH6
Hello & welcome. My name is Nicola, I work with adults & teens with varying presenting issues from all different walks of life. I specialize in reducing anxiety by looking at coping mechanisms as well as the root causes. I am undergoing further training to work with under 16s & am interested in helping young people with their struggles and challenges, including those who do not identify as the gender they were born. My psychotherapy modality, Transactional Analysis allows me to tailor sessions to you, the individual, rather than just your current symptoms. I am currently offering reduced rates for children 12 - 15 years old.
Hello & welcome. My name is Nicola, I work with adults & teens with varying presenting issues from all different walks of life. I specialize in reducing anxiety by looking at coping mechanisms as well as the root causes. I am undergoing further training to work with under 16s & am interested in helping young people with their struggles and challenges, including those who do not identify as the gender they were born. My psychotherapy modality, Transactional Analysis allows me to tailor sessions to you, the individual, rather than just your current symptoms. I am currently offering reduced rates for children 12 - 15 years old.
01293 221825 View 01293 221825
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Jazz Vienna Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
Hello, and a very warm welcome to you. Making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult step, but a positive and rewarding one for many. I am a warm and compassionate integrative therapist offering both indoor face to face counselling and outdoors walk and talk therapy. You as a person are at the centre of my approach. When life becomes overwhelming, it can be surprisingly helpful to speak to someone who really listens, with warmth, understanding, and without judgment. My aim is to provide a welcoming, safe, and confidential space for us to explore the challenging issues that may have brought you here today.
Hello, and a very warm welcome to you. Making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult step, but a positive and rewarding one for many. I am a warm and compassionate integrative therapist offering both indoor face to face counselling and outdoors walk and talk therapy. You as a person are at the centre of my approach. When life becomes overwhelming, it can be surprisingly helpful to speak to someone who really listens, with warmth, understanding, and without judgment. My aim is to provide a welcoming, safe, and confidential space for us to explore the challenging issues that may have brought you here today.
020 4538 5685 View 020 4538 5685
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Andrew Darnley
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I have been a psychotherapist and counsellor for 17 years, working in the NHS, in Reigate, with extensive experience helping individuals and couples struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-worth, relational issues, and personal conflicts. I am committed to providing a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment for us to explore what is troubling you and to hopefully enable you to find a way to change how you feel about yourself and the world around you. Gaining a greater self-understanding, to begin to live more fully in the present, and to face the future with strength and hope.
I have been a psychotherapist and counsellor for 17 years, working in the NHS, in Reigate, with extensive experience helping individuals and couples struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-worth, relational issues, and personal conflicts. I am committed to providing a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment for us to explore what is troubling you and to hopefully enable you to find a way to change how you feel about yourself and the world around you. Gaining a greater self-understanding, to begin to live more fully in the present, and to face the future with strength and hope.
01737 924408 View 01737 924408
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Saira Webster
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Wallington SM6
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
020 3984 7614 View 020 3984 7614
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Angela Shipley
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
Most people at some point in their lives will struggle with painful feelings or may feel overwhelmed by past or present experiences. These can make us feel lost, anxious, confused, helpless, distressed or angry, sometimes without us knowing why. Counselling is also not just for supporting people through a crisis. Many people come to counselling to explore and get a better understanding of themselves and their lives. Whatever you are experiencing, it can be difficult to explain how we feel to the people who are closest to us. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone who is separate from your everyday life.
Most people at some point in their lives will struggle with painful feelings or may feel overwhelmed by past or present experiences. These can make us feel lost, anxious, confused, helpless, distressed or angry, sometimes without us knowing why. Counselling is also not just for supporting people through a crisis. Many people come to counselling to explore and get a better understanding of themselves and their lives. Whatever you are experiencing, it can be difficult to explain how we feel to the people who are closest to us. Sometimes it is easier to talk to someone who is separate from your everyday life.
01737 926987 View 01737 926987
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Ashley Lowings
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
'Counselling, a step in the right direction' Are you experiencing difficulties In your life and need someone to talk to about how you are feeling? Needing help and support through challenging times? I am a qualified, experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with experience in a wide range of issues from depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement.
'Counselling, a step in the right direction' Are you experiencing difficulties In your life and need someone to talk to about how you are feeling? Needing help and support through challenging times? I am a qualified, experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with experience in a wide range of issues from depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement.
01737 924974 View 01737 924974
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Jade Finlay
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
I have worked with a number of organisations and currently work in an NHS service, as a counsellor and deputy clinical service manager, working with adults struggling with anxiety and depression. I offer one-on-one counselling sessions, following an integrative approach in an emotionally supportive, confidential and relaxed atmosphere. To help individuals deal with anxiety, depression, phobias panic attacks etc. I have a rich background working with individuals who have suffered a traumatic brain injury.
I have worked with a number of organisations and currently work in an NHS service, as a counsellor and deputy clinical service manager, working with adults struggling with anxiety and depression. I offer one-on-one counselling sessions, following an integrative approach in an emotionally supportive, confidential and relaxed atmosphere. To help individuals deal with anxiety, depression, phobias panic attacks etc. I have a rich background working with individuals who have suffered a traumatic brain injury.
01737 302375 View 01737 302375
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Kelly Thatcher She-Her
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Whyteleafe CR3
I have experience supporting individuals in a breadth of presenting issues including trauma, identity issues, self-harm, suicide ideation, low self-esteem, work-related stress, as well as anxiety and depression. Working collaboratively, to aid you towards a deeper level of understanding, offer insights and perspectives, explore strategies and coping mechanisms, and support you to achieve the personal development and growth you desire.
I have experience supporting individuals in a breadth of presenting issues including trauma, identity issues, self-harm, suicide ideation, low self-esteem, work-related stress, as well as anxiety and depression. Working collaboratively, to aid you towards a deeper level of understanding, offer insights and perspectives, explore strategies and coping mechanisms, and support you to achieve the personal development and growth you desire.
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Photo of Dr Rachel Holden, Psychologist in Oxted, England
Dr Rachel Holden
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0  (Online Only)
I am a psychologist with particular interest in working with individuals, families and couples who want to use therapy to think about relationships. In some cases, this might be in the context of an autism spectrum condition, an existential/life crisis, or a change in circumstances. I've enjoyed working with creative people who are feeling blocked, and people who feel stuck in relationship patterns. I try to be honest, straightforward, and open. In the past, clients have described me as thoughtful, caring, funny (where appropriate!), and creative.
I am a psychologist with particular interest in working with individuals, families and couples who want to use therapy to think about relationships. In some cases, this might be in the context of an autism spectrum condition, an existential/life crisis, or a change in circumstances. I've enjoyed working with creative people who are feeling blocked, and people who feel stuck in relationship patterns. I try to be honest, straightforward, and open. In the past, clients have described me as thoughtful, caring, funny (where appropriate!), and creative.
01689 664670 View 01689 664670
Photo of Sonia Freeman, Psychotherapist in Oxted, England
Sonia Freeman
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Wallington SM6
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working with adults. I offer a warm, empathic, non judgemental and confidential space for you to talk freely of your concerns and explore the nature of the difficulties you are experiencing. My aim is to work alongside you to help you gain a deeper understanding in yourself encouraging the healing process. In my work with couples I introduce elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy, a structured approach based on attachment theory, helping couples to understand and respond to each other's needs effectively. I practice in Sutton SM2
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working with adults. I offer a warm, empathic, non judgemental and confidential space for you to talk freely of your concerns and explore the nature of the difficulties you are experiencing. My aim is to work alongside you to help you gain a deeper understanding in yourself encouraging the healing process. In my work with couples I introduce elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy, a structured approach based on attachment theory, helping couples to understand and respond to each other's needs effectively. I practice in Sutton SM2
01798 305087 View 01798 305087
Photo of Gordon Wax, Psychotherapist in Oxted, England
Gordon Wax
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I’m an experienced counsellor based in East London, working both online and in person. I was born and raised in London. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I’m an experienced counsellor based in East London, working both online and in person. I was born and raised in London. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope
020 3871 8210 View 020 3871 8210
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Susannah Hebden Dip.Couns Bacp Accred
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
I am a trauma informed counsellor based in Epsom, Surrey. I provide a relaxed, friendly, non judgemental environment for clients to explore and work through issues that may be proving problematic, in a safe and confidential space. I will listen to what you would like to achieve from our time together and explore what you feel to be most relevant in each session. I use both traditional and creative therapeutic methods and will be guided by what suits you. I offer both face to face and online counselling sessions. Please feel free to call/email me in the first instance to discuss your needs in complete confidence.
I am a trauma informed counsellor based in Epsom, Surrey. I provide a relaxed, friendly, non judgemental environment for clients to explore and work through issues that may be proving problematic, in a safe and confidential space. I will listen to what you would like to achieve from our time together and explore what you feel to be most relevant in each session. I use both traditional and creative therapeutic methods and will be guided by what suits you. I offer both face to face and online counselling sessions. Please feel free to call/email me in the first instance to discuss your needs in complete confidence.
01372 239548 View 01372 239548
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Surrey's Learning and Counselling Centre
Counsellor, SNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I am a Senior Accredited Integrative Counsellor, Clinical Counselling Supervisor & Child & Young People's Therapist (CYPT) supporting individuals & families. Specialising in Neurodiversity; the range of brain function & differences, behavioural traits such as Autism A.S.D, ADHD/ADD, & SpLD supporting a wide range of issues. My approach to Well-being combines a unique blend of Person-centre, Psychodynamic & Psychoeducation. I also offer official diagnoses of Dyslexia and advise corporate & educational settings on mental health issues. I strive for equality & diversity creating an inclusive atmosphere for everyone.
I am a Senior Accredited Integrative Counsellor, Clinical Counselling Supervisor & Child & Young People's Therapist (CYPT) supporting individuals & families. Specialising in Neurodiversity; the range of brain function & differences, behavioural traits such as Autism A.S.D, ADHD/ADD, & SpLD supporting a wide range of issues. My approach to Well-being combines a unique blend of Person-centre, Psychodynamic & Psychoeducation. I also offer official diagnoses of Dyslexia and advise corporate & educational settings on mental health issues. I strive for equality & diversity creating an inclusive atmosphere for everyone.
01306 773115 View 01306 773115
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Faye Starr
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6
I am an experienced and fully qualified integrative counsellor / psychotherapist specifically trained to work with young people of all ages to offer support and relief from overwhelming and confusing feelings that leave them feeling vulnerable. I offer long-term and short-term therapy for all ages from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley).
I am an experienced and fully qualified integrative counsellor / psychotherapist specifically trained to work with young people of all ages to offer support and relief from overwhelming and confusing feelings that leave them feeling vulnerable. I offer long-term and short-term therapy for all ages from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley).
07403 936060 View 07403 936060
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Surrey Counselling and Psychotherapy Partnership
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I have over 10 years experience in supporting individual adults and couples. I know the first step can feel daunting, which is why I offer a safe, warm and relaxed space for us to work together. Counselling is a very individual process, and everything I do will be centred around you. We will go at your pace so I can make sure your needs are met, in order to help you enhance your life and enable you to live it more fully.
I have over 10 years experience in supporting individual adults and couples. I know the first step can feel daunting, which is why I offer a safe, warm and relaxed space for us to work together. Counselling is a very individual process, and everything I do will be centred around you. We will go at your pace so I can make sure your needs are met, in order to help you enhance your life and enable you to live it more fully.
01372 234499 View 01372 234499
Photo of Jordan Karis Dixon, Psychotherapist in Oxted, England
Jordan Karis Dixon
Psychotherapist, PsychD, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Sevenoaks TN13
Jordan believes there are no limits in our awareness and growth towards achieving optimal sexuality. She's passionately curious in unlocking sexual potential. Her Chinese and Spanish heritage and background in Social Policy, she’s described with an innate awareness and intersectional understanding of the barriers people face in society that inhibits access to our erotic selves. She's GSRD affirming, going beyond exclusivity and restrictions of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans) which includes everyone on the gender spectrum and diverse sexualities and practices including BDSM/Kink, asexualities, consensual and non-monogamies.
Jordan believes there are no limits in our awareness and growth towards achieving optimal sexuality. She's passionately curious in unlocking sexual potential. Her Chinese and Spanish heritage and background in Social Policy, she’s described with an innate awareness and intersectional understanding of the barriers people face in society that inhibits access to our erotic selves. She's GSRD affirming, going beyond exclusivity and restrictions of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans) which includes everyone on the gender spectrum and diverse sexualities and practices including BDSM/Kink, asexualities, consensual and non-monogamies.
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Transgender Counsellors

As a gender-diverse individual, why might I want to see a therapist who is also gender diverse?

A trans or gender-diverse client may want to see a therapist who is also trans or gender diverse because the client may feel safer sharing their experiences and more confident that the therapist will understand, validate, and support them. But trans or gender-diverse clients can also benefit from therapy with cisgender therapists; this is a personal decision based on the connection between the client and the therapist, and if that connection is strong, therapy will be successful.

What if I cannot find a therapist who shares my gender identity?

Therapy can still be effective if a therapist does not share a client’s gender identity; a large body of research indicates that the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapeutic alliance. A therapist can also be interviewed for sensitivity and competence on gender identity and expression to ensure they possess appropriate knowledge and skills. Many therapists have excellent training and extensive experience working with gender-diverse clients, and that expertise can be invaluable despite a therapist not sharing the same firsthand experiences.

How can I recognise a good therapist for working with gender-diverse clients?

An experienced therapist should be able to help clients explore their gender identity and expression, alleviate discomfort related to their gender identity, treat mental health challenges and trauma, address existing relationships and communication with family members and loved ones, and determine the next steps pertaining to nonmedical or medical gender-affirming interventions. To recognise a good therapist, clients can ask about these topics and explore their comfort and connection with the clinician.

How might I inquire about a therapist’s experience working with transgender clients?

Clients should feel comfortable asking therapists directly about their experience working with transgender or gender-diverse clientele. For example, clients may ask about the therapist’s training and education with regard to gender identity, how many trans clients they’ve worked with in the past, and what sorts of matters were discussed. You may wish to inquire how a therapist specifically supports the needs of transgender clients or clients questioning their gender identity. A good clinician who is nonetheless not the right fit for you is often happy to make referrals to others based on the concerns you articulate in a preliminary conversation.