Counselling in TN26

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Michelle Cage
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN26
I understand how daunting it can feel to take the first step. You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or alone with your thoughts and not quite sure of where to turn. I’m a fully qualified, BACP registered person-centred counsellor offering a warm, approachable and compassionate space to explore what matters to you. I work with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma and relationship issues whether romantic, family or professional. I’m also a certified psychosexual counsellor, enabling me to work comfortably with sexual issues or concerns within our work.
I understand how daunting it can feel to take the first step. You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or alone with your thoughts and not quite sure of where to turn. I’m a fully qualified, BACP registered person-centred counsellor offering a warm, approachable and compassionate space to explore what matters to you. I work with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma and relationship issues whether romantic, family or professional. I’m also a certified psychosexual counsellor, enabling me to work comfortably with sexual issues or concerns within our work.
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Katrina Meulemans
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN26
As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on multiple therapeutic approaches to offer a bespoke intervention that is right for you in particular. Every individual is unique, so each problem requires its own specific person-centered solution. I will work closely with you to identify the positive influences in your life – what makes you tick – and develop a personalised treatment plan from there. My approaches include but are not limited to: Person-Centered Counselling, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Relapse Prevention and Harm Reduction.
As an integrative psychotherapist, I draw on multiple therapeutic approaches to offer a bespoke intervention that is right for you in particular. Every individual is unique, so each problem requires its own specific person-centered solution. I will work closely with you to identify the positive influences in your life – what makes you tick – and develop a personalised treatment plan from there. My approaches include but are not limited to: Person-Centered Counselling, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Relapse Prevention and Harm Reduction.
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Lumina Counselling Kent
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN26
Have you tried traditional counselling but felt that something was missing, that you didn’t experience the depth of change or healing you were hoping for? Alongside counselling, I’m able to integrate energy-based practices such as Reiki if you choose, supporting the release of emotional trauma held within the body. My clients shared this way of working has reached parts of themselves that traditional therapy never could, allowing them to experience deeper, long-lasting change and healing. If traditional therapy has failed you, why not give it a try...
Have you tried traditional counselling but felt that something was missing, that you didn’t experience the depth of change or healing you were hoping for? Alongside counselling, I’m able to integrate energy-based practices such as Reiki if you choose, supporting the release of emotional trauma held within the body. My clients shared this way of working has reached parts of themselves that traditional therapy never could, allowing them to experience deeper, long-lasting change and healing. If traditional therapy has failed you, why not give it a try...
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Zoe Parker
Counsellor, MBACP
Ashford TN26
As a Psychodynamic counsellor, I work with clients to overcome issues in the here and now, as well as exploring the impact of childhood and past experiences on current behaviours. I help my clients to understand why they are the way they are, as well as providing them with the tools and support to heal and move forward – working towards self-acceptance and the realisation of their unique and valued place in this world. My personal experience has taught me that sadly few of us will escape the pain and challenges that life throws at us. It has also taught me that we don’t have to go it alone.
As a Psychodynamic counsellor, I work with clients to overcome issues in the here and now, as well as exploring the impact of childhood and past experiences on current behaviours. I help my clients to understand why they are the way they are, as well as providing them with the tools and support to heal and move forward – working towards self-acceptance and the realisation of their unique and valued place in this world. My personal experience has taught me that sadly few of us will escape the pain and challenges that life throws at us. It has also taught me that we don’t have to go it alone.
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Samantha Riches
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Online Only
Hi my name is Sam. I work with children and young people. My focus when working with children and young people is to find a way to work with them to help with all of their areas of difficulty, from emotional to school and the variety of difficulties they can experience. I find that children and young people feel most comfortable in a familiar surrounding so I always try to work with the child in their own home or school.
Hi my name is Sam. I work with children and young people. My focus when working with children and young people is to find a way to work with them to help with all of their areas of difficulty, from emotional to school and the variety of difficulties they can experience. I find that children and young people feel most comfortable in a familiar surrounding so I always try to work with the child in their own home or school.
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Dominic Hoyland
Counsellor, MBACP
Ashford TN26
The reality is that we all encounter things in our lives which cause us suffering and pain. Many of us will reach a point where we feel a sense of impass or something which challenges our sense of who we are, particularly as we develop outside of the families we grew up in. The human brain is able to develop ingenious ways of coping, but our coping mechanisms can end up causing us more distress than they fix. We then end up in a pattern of beliefs and behaviours which negatively affect us and leave us feeling hopeless and stuck. I belive that it's possible for everyone to lead a fulfilling life. We sometimes just need a little help.
The reality is that we all encounter things in our lives which cause us suffering and pain. Many of us will reach a point where we feel a sense of impass or something which challenges our sense of who we are, particularly as we develop outside of the families we grew up in. The human brain is able to develop ingenious ways of coping, but our coping mechanisms can end up causing us more distress than they fix. We then end up in a pattern of beliefs and behaviours which negatively affect us and leave us feeling hopeless and stuck. I belive that it's possible for everyone to lead a fulfilling life. We sometimes just need a little help.
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Alison Ebanks Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello I'm Alison.  I work with individuals and couples. Are you looking for a safe space where you can share your thoughts and feelings without feeling judged?  Do you feel anxious or overwhelmed but not sure where to turn to for support?  Are you feeling depressed and need someone to listen to you who is calm and empathetic?  Are you feeling sad about life at the moment and need to make sense of your goals and where your life is going?  Counselling can help you to focus on what matters to you and help you to understand yourself so that you can work towards having a more fulfilling life.
Hello I'm Alison.  I work with individuals and couples. Are you looking for a safe space where you can share your thoughts and feelings without feeling judged?  Do you feel anxious or overwhelmed but not sure where to turn to for support?  Are you feeling depressed and need someone to listen to you who is calm and empathetic?  Are you feeling sad about life at the moment and need to make sense of your goals and where your life is going?  Counselling can help you to focus on what matters to you and help you to understand yourself so that you can work towards having a more fulfilling life.
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John King
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello. I am a qualified and experienced BACP registered therapeutic counsellor and I offer to meet your needs with either short- or long-term counselling. I aim to create a safe, confidential and relaxed environment in which you and I can work together to explore and understand the difficulties you are experiencing and help you to find a way towards overcoming them. I meet you as an unique person and seek to understand and gain insight into how you experience your confusion, worry, discomfort, distress, or whatever concerns that you have.
Hello. I am a qualified and experienced BACP registered therapeutic counsellor and I offer to meet your needs with either short- or long-term counselling. I aim to create a safe, confidential and relaxed environment in which you and I can work together to explore and understand the difficulties you are experiencing and help you to find a way towards overcoming them. I meet you as an unique person and seek to understand and gain insight into how you experience your confusion, worry, discomfort, distress, or whatever concerns that you have.
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Penny Grigg
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Do you want a clearer focus, a 'lighter' way of being? If you're experiencing low mood, anxiety, stress or dealing with trauma, relationship challenges or 'just life I can work with you online, face to face, or by phone. We can explore where your emotions come from, how they affect you and how you might approach change. If you'd like 'walk and talk' therapy and feel it could be beneficial, we can plan a program alongside our counselling sessions. I work in an integrative and relational way, using a range of counselling approaches to work with you and see if there is better way of being with less confusion and more clarity.
Do you want a clearer focus, a 'lighter' way of being? If you're experiencing low mood, anxiety, stress or dealing with trauma, relationship challenges or 'just life I can work with you online, face to face, or by phone. We can explore where your emotions come from, how they affect you and how you might approach change. If you'd like 'walk and talk' therapy and feel it could be beneficial, we can plan a program alongside our counselling sessions. I work in an integrative and relational way, using a range of counselling approaches to work with you and see if there is better way of being with less confusion and more clarity.
01769 612726 View 01769 612726
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Breeze Counselling
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
Phone appointments now available. Hello, I'm Lena and I want to help you feel better. I strive to see all new clients within 48 hours so please call - let's start to make you feel more like you. Trying to find the right counsellor for you can be a daunting prospect and seeking help is hard. We all experience challenging periods in life and I would like to help you find your way through. If you are finding it difficult to cope and you are looking for more peace in yourself, I am genuinely looking forward to helping you find the right answers for you. They are there, some times we just need help finding them.
Phone appointments now available. Hello, I'm Lena and I want to help you feel better. I strive to see all new clients within 48 hours so please call - let's start to make you feel more like you. Trying to find the right counsellor for you can be a daunting prospect and seeking help is hard. We all experience challenging periods in life and I would like to help you find your way through. If you are finding it difficult to cope and you are looking for more peace in yourself, I am genuinely looking forward to helping you find the right answers for you. They are there, some times we just need help finding them.
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Neil Bedwell
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I am an experienced counsellor who can give you the time & space you need to work out what who you would like to be. I will be with you every step of the way, offering you compassion, empathy & warm to support you in getting to where you want to be. Often we have ways of coping with emotional distress that come from what happened in our childhood, and those ways of coping no longer serve us as adults. You might be struggling with anxiety or depression, which can affect your confidence and self-esteem. It might not seem like it at the moment, but things can get better.
I am an experienced counsellor who can give you the time & space you need to work out what who you would like to be. I will be with you every step of the way, offering you compassion, empathy & warm to support you in getting to where you want to be. Often we have ways of coping with emotional distress that come from what happened in our childhood, and those ways of coping no longer serve us as adults. You might be struggling with anxiety or depression, which can affect your confidence and self-esteem. It might not seem like it at the moment, but things can get better.
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Ashleigh Torrance
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Seeking therapy can be daunting, but it’s the first step towards future you and I'm really glad you've found me today. I am an enthusiastic psychotherapist who embraces resilience and change. I aim to use my clinical knowledge as a scaffold, to support you in working towards an understanding of what you are currently experiencing and collaboratively moving towards where you want to be at the end of therapy. I specialise in using evidence based approaches in supporting difficulties such as social anxiety, BDD, trauma, phobias, confidence, depression and OCD.
Seeking therapy can be daunting, but it’s the first step towards future you and I'm really glad you've found me today. I am an enthusiastic psychotherapist who embraces resilience and change. I aim to use my clinical knowledge as a scaffold, to support you in working towards an understanding of what you are currently experiencing and collaboratively moving towards where you want to be at the end of therapy. I specialise in using evidence based approaches in supporting difficulties such as social anxiety, BDD, trauma, phobias, confidence, depression and OCD.
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Dinah Butler
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Many experiences bring you to therapy: a crisis, bereavement, relationship issues, an absence of something, anxiety or depression getting in the way, childhood experiences, abuse and trauma. Starting therapy is an important step. It is an opportunity to tackle your immediate concerns but also to understand them in the context of your life in general. It provides a space to creatively shape your life but also take your pain and struggle seriously. Therapy provides an opportunity to strengthen a sense of your own identity and worth and to experiment with how to take that into your relationships, career and life in general.
Many experiences bring you to therapy: a crisis, bereavement, relationship issues, an absence of something, anxiety or depression getting in the way, childhood experiences, abuse and trauma. Starting therapy is an important step. It is an opportunity to tackle your immediate concerns but also to understand them in the context of your life in general. It provides a space to creatively shape your life but also take your pain and struggle seriously. Therapy provides an opportunity to strengthen a sense of your own identity and worth and to experiment with how to take that into your relationships, career and life in general.
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More Therapists Nearby

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Clive Fisher
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
My own experiences of living with anxiety and depression allows me to be able to relate to how you might be suffering, counselling enabled me to build self awareness and better strategies to cope with daily life. I can help you do this too. Whatever you're going through, we can explore together the best way for you to move forward.
My own experiences of living with anxiety and depression allows me to be able to relate to how you might be suffering, counselling enabled me to build self awareness and better strategies to cope with daily life. I can help you do this too. Whatever you're going through, we can explore together the best way for you to move forward.
01322 946772 View 01322 946772
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Barry Hodges-White
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
I offer help with anxiety, trauma, self-esteem, emotional disturbances, and many other issues that may affect how you live your life. Living your best life often entails dealing with your past so you can focus on improving your future, free of the burdens you may have imposed on yourself. It may also mean simply assessing your goals and healing you work towards them. I focus on helping my clients deal with emotional disturbance, anxiety, and patterns of behaviour that they find unhelpful. These can include pushing loved ones away, adopting risky behaviours, addictions, and other actions that result in feelings of guilt and shame.
I offer help with anxiety, trauma, self-esteem, emotional disturbances, and many other issues that may affect how you live your life. Living your best life often entails dealing with your past so you can focus on improving your future, free of the burdens you may have imposed on yourself. It may also mean simply assessing your goals and healing you work towards them. I focus on helping my clients deal with emotional disturbance, anxiety, and patterns of behaviour that they find unhelpful. These can include pushing loved ones away, adopting risky behaviours, addictions, and other actions that result in feelings of guilt and shame.
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Julie Skeffington
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello and a warm welcome. Sometimes it can be hard to find the right counsellor, especially if you are feeling lost, anxious, low or completely overwhelmed by life. The process of finding someone who you feel comfortable with can be confusing and perhaps a little daunting and yet it is so important to find the right person for you. I hope this goes some way to helping you making that decision. Something may have happened in your life such as a loss, a traumatic event, a relationship breakdown, or you may just feel you have ‘lost’ yourself along the way. Perhaps you feel lonely, confused, trapped or in complete despair?
Hello and a warm welcome. Sometimes it can be hard to find the right counsellor, especially if you are feeling lost, anxious, low or completely overwhelmed by life. The process of finding someone who you feel comfortable with can be confusing and perhaps a little daunting and yet it is so important to find the right person for you. I hope this goes some way to helping you making that decision. Something may have happened in your life such as a loss, a traumatic event, a relationship breakdown, or you may just feel you have ‘lost’ yourself along the way. Perhaps you feel lonely, confused, trapped or in complete despair?
01273 092098 View 01273 092098
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Colin Campbell-Dunlop
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Are you at a crossroads in life? struggling with your mental health? feeling sad, anxious, depressed? I specialise in helping clients work through the issues that are bothering them, find answers to their problems and move forward positively and with confidence. I work with adult individuals and couples from two locations in Kent and West Sussex as well as online via Zoom and other digital platforms.
Are you at a crossroads in life? struggling with your mental health? feeling sad, anxious, depressed? I specialise in helping clients work through the issues that are bothering them, find answers to their problems and move forward positively and with confidence. I work with adult individuals and couples from two locations in Kent and West Sussex as well as online via Zoom and other digital platforms.
07879 448012 View 07879 448012
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emma-counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Maidstone ME14
In a world where we are taught the importance of being kind, in the most part we forget or are unable to show ourselves that same kindness and compassion. Do you find you are self-critical, constantly judging yourself on what you are doing or did wrong, what you “should’ do, or wish you could have or would have done in the moment or past? All of this self-doubt and negative thinking can understandably cause a lot of stress, anxiety and difficulty in our daily lives.
In a world where we are taught the importance of being kind, in the most part we forget or are unable to show ourselves that same kindness and compassion. Do you find you are self-critical, constantly judging yourself on what you are doing or did wrong, what you “should’ do, or wish you could have or would have done in the moment or past? All of this self-doubt and negative thinking can understandably cause a lot of stress, anxiety and difficulty in our daily lives.
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Helen Mia Harris Couples Therapist
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Sevenoaks TN13
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
01622 938347 View 01622 938347
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Anna Castanedo
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Serves Area
Early intervention services are run and developed by Anna Castanedo, a Certified Behaviour Analyst (BCBA) and Early Start Denver Model (ESDM) Certified Therapist. Anna has extensive experience of working with individuals with Autism spectrum disorders and other learning disabilities with ages ranging from 15 months - 16 years old with an expertise in the younger group of children (1-5 y.o.). She has worked across numerous settings such as nurseries, mainstream primary schools, an ABA school, special needs secondary schools and home settings.
Early intervention services are run and developed by Anna Castanedo, a Certified Behaviour Analyst (BCBA) and Early Start Denver Model (ESDM) Certified Therapist. Anna has extensive experience of working with individuals with Autism spectrum disorders and other learning disabilities with ages ranging from 15 months - 16 years old with an expertise in the younger group of children (1-5 y.o.). She has worked across numerous settings such as nurseries, mainstream primary schools, an ABA school, special needs secondary schools and home settings.
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How does your Counsellor compare?

Number of Counsellors in TN26

10+

Average cost per session

£55

Counsellors in TN26 who prioritize treating:

85% Anxiety
85% Self Esteem
85% Stress
77% Relationship Issues
77% Depression
77% Bereavement
69% Domestic Abuse

Average years in practice

10 Years

Top 3 insurances accepted

100% AXA PPP
33% Bupa
33% WPA

How Counsellors in TN26 see their clients

77% In Person and Online
23% Online Only

Gender breakdown

77% Female
23% Male
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling

How can I find a therapist in TN26?

Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.

Learn more about how to find a therapist

Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?

Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).

Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.

What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?

Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.

What type of therapy is right for me?

The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.

How much does therapy cost?

The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.

What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?

Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.

If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.

Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?

Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.

Is online therapy a good option?

Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.

Are therapy sessions confidential?

Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.