Counselling in TN11
You might be feeling depressed, or low, for a known reason or perhaps for no identifiable reason. Sometimes it is not always possible to speak to your friends or family. You might not want to burden them or might fear judgement. I have helped clients with issues including: bereavement, loss, grief, workplace, sexuality and weight issues. I am a qualified counsellor and can offer you a warm, empathic space to examine and explore your feelings, patterns of behaviour and thoughts.
You might be feeling depressed, or low, for a known reason or perhaps for no identifiable reason. Sometimes it is not always possible to speak to your friends or family. You might not want to burden them or might fear judgement. I have helped clients with issues including: bereavement, loss, grief, workplace, sexuality and weight issues. I am a qualified counsellor and can offer you a warm, empathic space to examine and explore your feelings, patterns of behaviour and thoughts.
When you read information published by counsellors - I imagine it becomes difficult to make a choice. What makes me different? I have had several professions as a teacher, police officer, working as a Public Relations Director in blue chip companies before training as a Counsellor 20 years ago. I work with you at your pace and with understanding and experience I believe together we can work towards the changes you would like to make as well as helping you understand yourself, your connections and history.
When you read information published by counsellors - I imagine it becomes difficult to make a choice. What makes me different? I have had several professions as a teacher, police officer, working as a Public Relations Director in blue chip companies before training as a Counsellor 20 years ago. I work with you at your pace and with understanding and experience I believe together we can work towards the changes you would like to make as well as helping you understand yourself, your connections and history.
I am an Educational Psychologist with 25 years of experience working with students, their parents and teachers, to help each child make the most of their time in school and allow them to achieve their full potential. I support students who experience learning difficulties of all kinds. My assessments can also assist, and I have extensive experience of working with, children exhibiting neurodiverse characteristics, including ADHD and ASC. I have worked with most of the state and private schools in the Sevenoaks, Tonbridge and Tunbridge Wells area and elsewhere and can assess for exam access arrangements, if appropriate.
I am an Educational Psychologist with 25 years of experience working with students, their parents and teachers, to help each child make the most of their time in school and allow them to achieve their full potential. I support students who experience learning difficulties of all kinds. My assessments can also assist, and I have extensive experience of working with, children exhibiting neurodiverse characteristics, including ADHD and ASC. I have worked with most of the state and private schools in the Sevenoaks, Tonbridge and Tunbridge Wells area and elsewhere and can assess for exam access arrangements, if appropriate.
I work with you; your experiences, feelings, concerns, anxieties, challenges, hopes, and potential. My approach helps you to recognise when feelings are out of balance with experiences and make changes accordingly. My work aims to help you find a way that you can understand and use to navigate life's challenges through working relationally to better understand your own potential. Prior to qualifying as a counsellor I worked in executive and leadership positions helping me to understand the struggles and stress associated with a demanding and insecure workplace.
I work with you; your experiences, feelings, concerns, anxieties, challenges, hopes, and potential. My approach helps you to recognise when feelings are out of balance with experiences and make changes accordingly. My work aims to help you find a way that you can understand and use to navigate life's challenges through working relationally to better understand your own potential. Prior to qualifying as a counsellor I worked in executive and leadership positions helping me to understand the struggles and stress associated with a demanding and insecure workplace.
I specialise in relationships, helping individuals and couples with infidelity, intimacy, communication, relationship anxiety, connection and more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). We will work through your challenges in the here and now, whilst also understanding the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. I will support you as a couple whether your objective is to improve the relationship, decide whether to stay together or need help separating amicably. I can also support you with a wide range of other issues such as anxiety, anger, grief and meaning.
I specialise in relationships, helping individuals and couples with infidelity, intimacy, communication, relationship anxiety, connection and more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). We will work through your challenges in the here and now, whilst also understanding the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. I will support you as a couple whether your objective is to improve the relationship, decide whether to stay together or need help separating amicably. I can also support you with a wide range of other issues such as anxiety, anger, grief and meaning.
The reality is that we all encounter things in our lives which cause us suffering and pain. Many of us will reach a point where we feel a sense of impass or something which challenges our sense of who we are, particularly as we develop outside of the families we grew up in. The human brain is able to develop ingenious ways of coping, but our coping mechanisms can end up causing us more distress than they fix. We then end up in a pattern of beliefs and behaviours which negatively affect us and leave us feeling hopeless and stuck. I belive that it's possible for everyone to lead a fulfilling life. We sometimes just need a little help.
The reality is that we all encounter things in our lives which cause us suffering and pain. Many of us will reach a point where we feel a sense of impass or something which challenges our sense of who we are, particularly as we develop outside of the families we grew up in. The human brain is able to develop ingenious ways of coping, but our coping mechanisms can end up causing us more distress than they fix. We then end up in a pattern of beliefs and behaviours which negatively affect us and leave us feeling hopeless and stuck. I belive that it's possible for everyone to lead a fulfilling life. We sometimes just need a little help.
I am an experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 20 years experience in private practice. I work with adults and specialise working with Anxiety, Stress and Depression. I create a safe, open and non-judgemental space for you to explore your worries and concerns. No matter what your personal struggle is, Counselling and Psychotherapy can help you to gain relief from your symptoms and many people find it an enriching experience. As an Integrative Therapist I believe that the best chance for creating sustained change is to have a variety of techniques to help me 'tailor' my approach to suit your needs.
I am an experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist with over 20 years experience in private practice. I work with adults and specialise working with Anxiety, Stress and Depression. I create a safe, open and non-judgemental space for you to explore your worries and concerns. No matter what your personal struggle is, Counselling and Psychotherapy can help you to gain relief from your symptoms and many people find it an enriching experience. As an Integrative Therapist I believe that the best chance for creating sustained change is to have a variety of techniques to help me 'tailor' my approach to suit your needs.
I am a qualified and experienced Integrative Counsellor. Feelings of anxiety and depression can grow and grow until it feels like there isn't room for anything else in your life. Whether you have a specific problem you’re struggling with or simply feel that there’s something that doesn’t feel right in your life – overwhelmed and in turmoil or feeling that you’re existing under a shadow on the outskirts of life – I’m here to offer you a calm, supportive haven where we can focus on you and find a way for you to feel in control of your life, and at peace with yourself.
I am a qualified and experienced Integrative Counsellor. Feelings of anxiety and depression can grow and grow until it feels like there isn't room for anything else in your life. Whether you have a specific problem you’re struggling with or simply feel that there’s something that doesn’t feel right in your life – overwhelmed and in turmoil or feeling that you’re existing under a shadow on the outskirts of life – I’m here to offer you a calm, supportive haven where we can focus on you and find a way for you to feel in control of your life, and at peace with yourself.
As an integral, person centred counsellor I offer safe, non-judgemental therapy. Working in-person or online and can help with anxiety, depression, anger and low self-esteem. I also have training and extensive experience in addiction recovery as well as OCD.
Please call, text or email to arrange a free initial phone call or to arrange a consultation session.
As an integral, person centred counsellor I offer safe, non-judgemental therapy. Working in-person or online and can help with anxiety, depression, anger and low self-esteem. I also have training and extensive experience in addiction recovery as well as OCD.
Please call, text or email to arrange a free initial phone call or to arrange a consultation session.
I’m a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist leading a small, NHS-experienced accredited team offering CBT, EMDR, and counselling in Sevenoaks and online. We support adults and young people with anxiety, OCD, insomnia, PTSD, panic, low mood, low self esteem, hormonal issues related to the peri-menopause and menopause, social anxiety, and low self-esteem. Using CBT, ACT, EMDR compassion-focused therapy, and CBT-I, we provide expert, compassionate care to help you overcome challenges and build lasting resilience.
I’m a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist leading a small, NHS-experienced accredited team offering CBT, EMDR, and counselling in Sevenoaks and online. We support adults and young people with anxiety, OCD, insomnia, PTSD, panic, low mood, low self esteem, hormonal issues related to the peri-menopause and menopause, social anxiety, and low self-esteem. Using CBT, ACT, EMDR compassion-focused therapy, and CBT-I, we provide expert, compassionate care to help you overcome challenges and build lasting resilience.
Navigating life is a challenging task at the best of times and there are times when life may feel like anything BUT the best. Hi, my name is Yaela, and I work with clients on finding their inner strength and wisdom in order to navigate through life and its challenges. Aloneness brings suffering and shame but in finding the language to make sense of your experience and sharing what you are going through with a professional, your struggles can be transformed and can create new depths in your life. As a therapist I am trained to listen deeply and ask questions that may encourage you to think differently about parts of yourself.
Navigating life is a challenging task at the best of times and there are times when life may feel like anything BUT the best. Hi, my name is Yaela, and I work with clients on finding their inner strength and wisdom in order to navigate through life and its challenges. Aloneness brings suffering and shame but in finding the language to make sense of your experience and sharing what you are going through with a professional, your struggles can be transformed and can create new depths in your life. As a therapist I am trained to listen deeply and ask questions that may encourage you to think differently about parts of yourself.
I offer you empathy, compassionate and a non-judgemental approach where we can build trust to explore whatever you're facing. I have experience of developing and maintaining strong and trusting relationships with people from a range of different backgrounds, cultures and experiences, supporting them with a wide range of issues. I have a particular interest in loss, grief and bereavement; men's issues; family, marriage and relationship concerns; anxiety and depression; going through transitional stages; ageing; and sexual and emotional abuse.
I offer you empathy, compassionate and a non-judgemental approach where we can build trust to explore whatever you're facing. I have experience of developing and maintaining strong and trusting relationships with people from a range of different backgrounds, cultures and experiences, supporting them with a wide range of issues. I have a particular interest in loss, grief and bereavement; men's issues; family, marriage and relationship concerns; anxiety and depression; going through transitional stages; ageing; and sexual and emotional abuse.
Sometimes our lives are interrupted by events, changing circumstances and personal challenges. Having a trusting and non-judgemental relationship with a caring professional, can enable you to work through such difficult times and move forward. We can work together to explore your current situation in a safe, non-directive and confidential way. This will give you the opportunity to reflect, question, process, allow for change, or whatever you feel is necessary at this time. If what you need is someone to listen unconditionally and respectfully, as you find your way on your journey, then we can work together.
Sometimes our lives are interrupted by events, changing circumstances and personal challenges. Having a trusting and non-judgemental relationship with a caring professional, can enable you to work through such difficult times and move forward. We can work together to explore your current situation in a safe, non-directive and confidential way. This will give you the opportunity to reflect, question, process, allow for change, or whatever you feel is necessary at this time. If what you need is someone to listen unconditionally and respectfully, as you find your way on your journey, then we can work together.
I work with children, adolescents and adults. If life is difficult right now and you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or in need of support, I am able to help. I will work with you to feel safe and relaxed in your sessions, with this comes trust and the ability to work through worries in a deeper more honest way. You are always at the centre of the work. The ultimate aim is to help you find skills and confidence within yourself, to manage your emotions and feelings, so that you feel safe and stronger within life's experiences. People I have worked with in the past have experienced positive changes in their lives.
I work with children, adolescents and adults. If life is difficult right now and you are feeling overwhelmed, anxious or in need of support, I am able to help. I will work with you to feel safe and relaxed in your sessions, with this comes trust and the ability to work through worries in a deeper more honest way. You are always at the centre of the work. The ultimate aim is to help you find skills and confidence within yourself, to manage your emotions and feelings, so that you feel safe and stronger within life's experiences. People I have worked with in the past have experienced positive changes in their lives.
Struggling with anxiety, work/exam stress, self-esteem issues, feeling out of control or that you've 'lost yourself'? Whatever is affecting your mental health and wellbeing, together we can talk it through, explore the issues that arise, and look at your options to discover some coping strategies and goals that work for you. I provide a 'safe' caring environment - unbiased and non-judgemental - for clients to talk about their worries and issues in confidence, enabling a positive way forward. I offer emotional support to all ages, with the focus on YOU as an individual.
Struggling with anxiety, work/exam stress, self-esteem issues, feeling out of control or that you've 'lost yourself'? Whatever is affecting your mental health and wellbeing, together we can talk it through, explore the issues that arise, and look at your options to discover some coping strategies and goals that work for you. I provide a 'safe' caring environment - unbiased and non-judgemental - for clients to talk about their worries and issues in confidence, enabling a positive way forward. I offer emotional support to all ages, with the focus on YOU as an individual.
My clients like the informal, friendly approach, tailored to their individual needs. My work is informed by the highly effective Human Givens framework, embodying thorough scientific but holistic understandings of how to help people make good changes. I've been a solution-focused psychotherapist/counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist for more than two decades. For the past four decades, I've also been a professional storyteller, chaired the Society for Storytelling in the 'nineties, often tell appropriate stories as part of therapy sessions with both adults and children.. Clients work with me to achieve specific goals.
My clients like the informal, friendly approach, tailored to their individual needs. My work is informed by the highly effective Human Givens framework, embodying thorough scientific but holistic understandings of how to help people make good changes. I've been a solution-focused psychotherapist/counsellor and clinical hypnotherapist for more than two decades. For the past four decades, I've also been a professional storyteller, chaired the Society for Storytelling in the 'nineties, often tell appropriate stories as part of therapy sessions with both adults and children.. Clients work with me to achieve specific goals.
The majority of my clients are neurodivergent and/or queer and want to explore what that means for them with someone who understands. Are you living with anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or the impact of past experiences that still affect how safe you feel in relationships? Maybe you struggle with self-esteem, overthinking, trauma responses, or patterns linked to neurodivergence such as burnout or masking? Some clients come questioning their identity, sexuality, or sense of self; others feel stuck using coping behaviours that no longer help. You don’t need a diagnosis, just the sense that something needs understanding.
The majority of my clients are neurodivergent and/or queer and want to explore what that means for them with someone who understands. Are you living with anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or the impact of past experiences that still affect how safe you feel in relationships? Maybe you struggle with self-esteem, overthinking, trauma responses, or patterns linked to neurodivergence such as burnout or masking? Some clients come questioning their identity, sexuality, or sense of self; others feel stuck using coping behaviours that no longer help. You don’t need a diagnosis, just the sense that something needs understanding.
Katherine is a specialised Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Nutritionist. Katherine's private practice offers support for a range of mental health challenges such as disordered eating, anxiety, depression and trauma. Katherine practices holistically, combining her knowledge of nutrition and evidence-based psychotherapy to offer a unique and highly effective experience for her clients. Katherine is an accredited member of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies. Katherine also offers monthly wellness coaching.
Katherine is a specialised Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Nutritionist. Katherine's private practice offers support for a range of mental health challenges such as disordered eating, anxiety, depression and trauma. Katherine practices holistically, combining her knowledge of nutrition and evidence-based psychotherapy to offer a unique and highly effective experience for her clients. Katherine is an accredited member of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies. Katherine also offers monthly wellness coaching.
I guess you have e found yourself here because you are not happy with life as it is right now. I have been there! You will find me to be empathetic, down to earth and relatable. Having had counselling myself, I am well aware of just how daunting it can be to talk to someone for, what might be, the first time. I am here to listen and see if we can work together to find a way to help you overcome your current difficulties. I have been working as a counsellor since 2000 and have worked with clients in various settings.
I guess you have e found yourself here because you are not happy with life as it is right now. I have been there! You will find me to be empathetic, down to earth and relatable. Having had counselling myself, I am well aware of just how daunting it can be to talk to someone for, what might be, the first time. I am here to listen and see if we can work together to find a way to help you overcome your current difficulties. I have been working as a counsellor since 2000 and have worked with clients in various settings.
I specialise in support and counselling for children, young people and adults by offering a space to think about, explore and talk about issues that may be concerning or affecting the quality of your life. Together, we will explore your thoughts and feelings at a pace that feels right for you. My aim is to help you take greater control of your life so that you feel more content, resilient and able to respond to life's different challenges. Therapy is an opportunity to heal the wounds from the past by expressing your truth in a confidential and non-judgemental space.
I specialise in support and counselling for children, young people and adults by offering a space to think about, explore and talk about issues that may be concerning or affecting the quality of your life. Together, we will explore your thoughts and feelings at a pace that feels right for you. My aim is to help you take greater control of your life so that you feel more content, resilient and able to respond to life's different challenges. Therapy is an opportunity to heal the wounds from the past by expressing your truth in a confidential and non-judgemental space.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in TN11
20+
Average cost per session
£65
Counsellors in TN11 who prioritize treating:
| 92% | Anxiety |
| 85% | Stress |
| 81% | Depression |
| 77% | Self Esteem |
| 69% | Relationship Issues |
| 62% | Bereavement |
| 62% | Divorce |
Average years in practice
10 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 43% | Bupa |
| 43% | WPA |
| 29% | Cigna and Evernorth |
How Counsellors in TN11 see their clients
| 92% | In Person and Online | |
| 8% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 65% | Female | |
| 31% | Male | |
| 4% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in TN11?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.