Counselling in SS2
I am an Integrative Counsellor, meaning I am trained and work from Psychodynamic, CBT and Person Centred approaches. I have further training in treating PTSD, OCD and counselling children and adolescents. This means I can adapt sessions that suit the individual client and the needs they bring to session. I am experienced in working with a range of issues including Trauma, OCD, anxiety, low mood, stress, relationship difficulties, self esteem and confidence. I am an experienced and qualified Children's counsellor, and you can find me on the NCPS Accredited Children's therapists register.
I am an Integrative Counsellor, meaning I am trained and work from Psychodynamic, CBT and Person Centred approaches. I have further training in treating PTSD, OCD and counselling children and adolescents. This means I can adapt sessions that suit the individual client and the needs they bring to session. I am experienced in working with a range of issues including Trauma, OCD, anxiety, low mood, stress, relationship difficulties, self esteem and confidence. I am an experienced and qualified Children's counsellor, and you can find me on the NCPS Accredited Children's therapists register.
I am a fully qualified Child, Adolescent and Family Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with over 20 years’ experience supporting children, young people, and their families. I understand how worrying it can be when a child or teenager is struggling, and I aim to offer a calm, thoughtful space where difficulties can be understood and worked through at a pace that feels safe.
Families often choose psychodynamic psychotherapy when they are seeking a deeper understanding of their child’s emotional world and patterns of relating. This approach supports meaningful, long-term change by exploring underlying experiences and relationships...
I am a fully qualified Child, Adolescent and Family Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with over 20 years’ experience supporting children, young people, and their families. I understand how worrying it can be when a child or teenager is struggling, and I aim to offer a calm, thoughtful space where difficulties can be understood and worked through at a pace that feels safe.
Families often choose psychodynamic psychotherapy when they are seeking a deeper understanding of their child’s emotional world and patterns of relating. This approach supports meaningful, long-term change by exploring underlying experiences and relationships...
My ideal client is someone seeking clarity, connection, and support in navigating life’s challenges. They may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, and want a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and emotions. Their goal is to understand themselves better, build healthier relationships, and develop practical strategies to improve wellbeing. They want guidance that is compassionate, relatable, and actionable—help that empowers them to feel seen, heard, and in control of their life.
My ideal client is someone seeking clarity, connection, and support in navigating life’s challenges. They may be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, and want a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their thoughts and emotions. Their goal is to understand themselves better, build healthier relationships, and develop practical strategies to improve wellbeing. They want guidance that is compassionate, relatable, and actionable—help that empowers them to feel seen, heard, and in control of their life.
Welcome , as someone who knows what it is like personally to be both client and therapist, I feel I can offer you an opportunity to explore yourself, your thoughts, feelings and emotions and what is happening in your life, in a space where all of you is welcome. I believe that we are all unique and the experts in our life and when we find ourselves troubled, counselling can be extremely beneficial . By exploring ourselves , we gain awareness which ultimately can lead to change helping us move in a direction true to ourselves.
Welcome , as someone who knows what it is like personally to be both client and therapist, I feel I can offer you an opportunity to explore yourself, your thoughts, feelings and emotions and what is happening in your life, in a space where all of you is welcome. I believe that we are all unique and the experts in our life and when we find ourselves troubled, counselling can be extremely beneficial . By exploring ourselves , we gain awareness which ultimately can lead to change helping us move in a direction true to ourselves.
Are you carrying the pain of grief, the weight of codependency, or the uncertainty of big life changes, such as moving abroad? You may feel lost, disconnected, or overwhelmed by your emotions, yet you hold a quiet hope for relief and a new beginning. Do you long to feel understood and supported, release old patterns, and rediscover your own strength and clarity? As a person-centred counsellor, I work holistically using life coaching, mindfulness, and sometimes sound healing to help you feel more grounded, build healthier relationships, and regain a sense of balance, purpose, and belonging.
Are you carrying the pain of grief, the weight of codependency, or the uncertainty of big life changes, such as moving abroad? You may feel lost, disconnected, or overwhelmed by your emotions, yet you hold a quiet hope for relief and a new beginning. Do you long to feel understood and supported, release old patterns, and rediscover your own strength and clarity? As a person-centred counsellor, I work holistically using life coaching, mindfulness, and sometimes sound healing to help you feel more grounded, build healthier relationships, and regain a sense of balance, purpose, and belonging.
Experiencing the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging and profound moments in life. Lightwell Counselling is a private (fee-paying) counselling service supporting people across Essex through the darkness of bereavement and into the light of recovery.
Our private counselling service is open to anyone aged 18 or over living in Essex who is struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one. We use an expert team of qualified staff to deliver our services and help manage the complex emotions around death and dying.
Experiencing the loss of a loved one is one of the most challenging and profound moments in life. Lightwell Counselling is a private (fee-paying) counselling service supporting people across Essex through the darkness of bereavement and into the light of recovery.
Our private counselling service is open to anyone aged 18 or over living in Essex who is struggling to cope with the loss of a loved one. We use an expert team of qualified staff to deliver our services and help manage the complex emotions around death and dying.
Dr Nomsa Sandra Wayland
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS2
As a qualified psychologist who offers a holistic, integrative approach to therapy that acknowledges the interconnectedness of mental, emotional, physical, social, and cultural influences on well-being, my work is grounded in Western and non-western psychological theories, allowing me to tailor therapy to each client’s unique background, needs, and worldview. Most of my clients seek therapy because they feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from others. I am passionate about creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, have clarity in their thoughts and emotions.
As a qualified psychologist who offers a holistic, integrative approach to therapy that acknowledges the interconnectedness of mental, emotional, physical, social, and cultural influences on well-being, my work is grounded in Western and non-western psychological theories, allowing me to tailor therapy to each client’s unique background, needs, and worldview. Most of my clients seek therapy because they feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from others. I am passionate about creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, have clarity in their thoughts and emotions.
As someone who has suffered from anxiety in the past and who has a son with ADHD, I understand how these problems affect clients and the frustration they cause. I recognise that clients want to learn how to reduce and control their symptoms so that they can lead a more fulfilling and functional life.
As someone who has suffered from anxiety in the past and who has a son with ADHD, I understand how these problems affect clients and the frustration they cause. I recognise that clients want to learn how to reduce and control their symptoms so that they can lead a more fulfilling and functional life.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
Expectations to live up to? Let me help you to face the challenges.
I’m Sharon and I get it! My speciality is helping age 16 - 116yrs with anxiety, low self esteem, stress, self-worth and more.
I’m passionate about working with young adults in quarter life crisis, or stuck, especially men who’ve been told to ‘be strong’ & those at life crossroads who need direction.
I also deeply connect with people navigating chronic illness & their loved ones too (I had a catastrophic stroke 20+ years ago, when my family were young). You wonder if life will ever feel normal again. I bring both professional expertise & lived experience to our work.
Expectations to live up to? Let me help you to face the challenges.
I’m Sharon and I get it! My speciality is helping age 16 - 116yrs with anxiety, low self esteem, stress, self-worth and more.
I’m passionate about working with young adults in quarter life crisis, or stuck, especially men who’ve been told to ‘be strong’ & those at life crossroads who need direction.
I also deeply connect with people navigating chronic illness & their loved ones too (I had a catastrophic stroke 20+ years ago, when my family were young). You wonder if life will ever feel normal again. I bring both professional expertise & lived experience to our work.
I work with adults, children, young people and families. You may have difficulties with your mental health, self-esteem and wellbeing, be experiencing loss, processing grief, having difficulties at work, in relationships or seeking to work through trauma, past, present or childhood issues. You might be neurodiverse, at a cross roads in life, or living with gender, sexuality, sex, relationship, addiction or disability issues. You may want to work through negative patterns of behaviour or you may simply be struggling in the world and need a space for reflection.
I work with adults, children, young people and families. You may have difficulties with your mental health, self-esteem and wellbeing, be experiencing loss, processing grief, having difficulties at work, in relationships or seeking to work through trauma, past, present or childhood issues. You might be neurodiverse, at a cross roads in life, or living with gender, sexuality, sex, relationship, addiction or disability issues. You may want to work through negative patterns of behaviour or you may simply be struggling in the world and need a space for reflection.
Hello, I'm Kay. I understand that choosing the right therapist can be difficult so, I offer a free no obligation consultation for you to get a feel for how we might work together. Whether you are experiencing relationship troubles, anxiety, depression, navigating neurodivergence, menopause, low self-esteem, difficult childhood experiences, loss, bereavement (including pets) or you'd like to explore your patterns of behaviour. It is a privilege to be in entrusted with your personal thoughts and feelings.
Hello, I'm Kay. I understand that choosing the right therapist can be difficult so, I offer a free no obligation consultation for you to get a feel for how we might work together. Whether you are experiencing relationship troubles, anxiety, depression, navigating neurodivergence, menopause, low self-esteem, difficult childhood experiences, loss, bereavement (including pets) or you'd like to explore your patterns of behaviour. It is a privilege to be in entrusted with your personal thoughts and feelings.
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
You might feel stuck, overwhelmed, or like life’s become heavy and tangled. Maybe you're repeating old patterns, struggling with anxiety or low self-esteem, or navigating something deeply personal — like fertility issues, grief, addiction or chronic health challenges. You want to feel like you again. You want to understand what’s really going on underneath it all, move forward without pressure or judgement, and finally stop carrying so much on your own. You don’t need fixing — just space, support, and someone who gets it.
You might feel stuck, overwhelmed, or like life’s become heavy and tangled. Maybe you're repeating old patterns, struggling with anxiety or low self-esteem, or navigating something deeply personal — like fertility issues, grief, addiction or chronic health challenges. You want to feel like you again. You want to understand what’s really going on underneath it all, move forward without pressure or judgement, and finally stop carrying so much on your own. You don’t need fixing — just space, support, and someone who gets it.
Hi I’m Gemma, and welcome to my profile. Counselling can be daunting and maybe you’re unsure of what you want which is why I offer my 1st Session less than half the fee for you to decide if I’m the right fit for you. I have many years of experience with anxiety, depression, confidence issues, fears and many more reasons people take up counselling. Are you experiencing intense emotions and feel like you’re unable to manage them in the way you would like?. Are you feeling sad, isolated and alone because of this. There really is nothing too small/big to bring to therapy. Maybe get in contact and give it a try. :)
Hi I’m Gemma, and welcome to my profile. Counselling can be daunting and maybe you’re unsure of what you want which is why I offer my 1st Session less than half the fee for you to decide if I’m the right fit for you. I have many years of experience with anxiety, depression, confidence issues, fears and many more reasons people take up counselling. Are you experiencing intense emotions and feel like you’re unable to manage them in the way you would like?. Are you feeling sad, isolated and alone because of this. There really is nothing too small/big to bring to therapy. Maybe get in contact and give it a try. :)
I’ve been working with children and young people for over 20 years and I have extensive experience of supporting children and young people with a range of emotional needs and of supporting parents, caregivers and professionals to build better connections with the children and young people in their lives. I’m based in Southend-on-Sea, Essex, and I offer a range of support services for children and young people, including therapy (play-based and talking therapy), coaching, and advocacy. I have experience of working with children and young people with additional learning needs and those who are neurodivergent.
I’ve been working with children and young people for over 20 years and I have extensive experience of supporting children and young people with a range of emotional needs and of supporting parents, caregivers and professionals to build better connections with the children and young people in their lives. I’m based in Southend-on-Sea, Essex, and I offer a range of support services for children and young people, including therapy (play-based and talking therapy), coaching, and advocacy. I have experience of working with children and young people with additional learning needs and those who are neurodivergent.
Whatever has brought you to counselling, it is likely something important and personal to you. Reaching the point of seeking professional help often means something has become too difficult to carry alone. There are few experiences more grounding than being truly listened to, without judgement or expectation. I offer a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you are free to explore whatever troubles you, at your own pace. Therapy can help you make sense of difficult thoughts, emotions, and experiences, and support you in finding greater clarity, understanding, and emotional balance.
Whatever has brought you to counselling, it is likely something important and personal to you. Reaching the point of seeking professional help often means something has become too difficult to carry alone. There are few experiences more grounding than being truly listened to, without judgement or expectation. I offer a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you are free to explore whatever troubles you, at your own pace. Therapy can help you make sense of difficult thoughts, emotions, and experiences, and support you in finding greater clarity, understanding, and emotional balance.
No one person is immune to the difficulties, stresses and strains that life can challenge us with. Do you want someone to talk to? To help, to no longer feel alone? Counselling provides you with a safe place where you can feel heard, understood, respected and accepted. We will explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and issues. This can enable us to move forward. To live a life of fulfillment, acceptance to reach your best potential and find peace within that. First session is used to explore what counselling is like in more depth. This enables me to understand your wants and needs for us to move forward together.
No one person is immune to the difficulties, stresses and strains that life can challenge us with. Do you want someone to talk to? To help, to no longer feel alone? Counselling provides you with a safe place where you can feel heard, understood, respected and accepted. We will explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and issues. This can enable us to move forward. To live a life of fulfillment, acceptance to reach your best potential and find peace within that. First session is used to explore what counselling is like in more depth. This enables me to understand your wants and needs for us to move forward together.
Farah has over 20 years clinical experience of working both in the NHS and private sector, providing evidence based psychological treatment and guidance tailoring her approach to the individual clients needs. These may be short term goals, that lend themselves to briefer therapy, or longer-term goals leading to more in-depth exploration of longer standing issues. Her clinical expereince include a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties from mild depression and anxiety, to complex trauma, with a special interest in OCD. She is able to offer specialised trauma treatment for PTSD in the form of EMDR.
Farah has over 20 years clinical experience of working both in the NHS and private sector, providing evidence based psychological treatment and guidance tailoring her approach to the individual clients needs. These may be short term goals, that lend themselves to briefer therapy, or longer-term goals leading to more in-depth exploration of longer standing issues. Her clinical expereince include a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties from mild depression and anxiety, to complex trauma, with a special interest in OCD. She is able to offer specialised trauma treatment for PTSD in the form of EMDR.
I am a BACP and EMDR Counsellor offering face to face, online and telephone counselling. My clients say that I'm very easy to talk to, warm and friendly. I can help you to explore your issues to help you gain awareness, understanding and get to a place or acceptance of a situation you are struggling with. I am also a qualified NLP and EFT coach offering specific techniques suited to working with any issues related to trauma, depression & anxiety.
I am a BACP and EMDR Counsellor offering face to face, online and telephone counselling. My clients say that I'm very easy to talk to, warm and friendly. I can help you to explore your issues to help you gain awareness, understanding and get to a place or acceptance of a situation you are struggling with. I am also a qualified NLP and EFT coach offering specific techniques suited to working with any issues related to trauma, depression & anxiety.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in SS2
30+
Average cost per session
£60
Counsellors in SS2 who prioritize treating:
| 94% | Anxiety |
| 88% | Self Esteem |
| 81% | Relationship Issues |
| 78% | Depression |
| 75% | Stress |
| 72% | Bereavement |
| 72% | Family Conflict |
Average years in practice
9 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 60% | Aviva |
| 60% | Vitality |
| 40% | Bupa |
How Counsellors in SS2 see their clients
| 94% | In Person and Online | |
| 6% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 90% | Female | |
| 10% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in SS2?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.
