Counselling in Belfast

I offer warm, non-judgmental therapy, helping you understand yourself, face difficulties, make decisions or begin to make changes. This involves talking about life experiences in a safe space, providing you with support and helping you make future plans. I offer therapy for individuals, couples and young people (12+). I can help with a range of difficulties including anxiety, work related stress, depression, relationship difficulties including sex therapy (low desire, vaginismus, DE, ED & PE), self esteem, bereavement, trauma & addictions including sex addiction. I'll focus on what you want to achieve.

Hi! I’m happy to work via phone or video, but also welcome you to my quiet counselling room as soon as possible. I can meet with individuals & couples. I also enjoy working with families who have struggles, anxieties, bereavements, depression, relationship challenges, ADHD/ASD, PTSD, guilt, shame, fear, anger, self-harm, emotion dysregulation, eating disorders, OCD, etc. I'm near Lisburn and Belfast. Confidentiality is strictly observed. I also offer spiritual formation support, trained in spiritual direction & Mindfulness), can offer EMDR for traumas, and DBT counselling for emotional instabilities and self harm.

My name is Lou and I am the Neurodivergent Therapist. My clients would describe me as honest, uplifting and empowering. In 2020 I received an ASD diagnosis and I now work with neurodivergent clients only. Much of my work involves supporting my clients to actualise and be free to live good lives as neurodivergent people. Throughout my career, I have been fortunate enough to work with a great variety of people from multiple backgrounds, countries and social groups. I am passionate about offering a service that is client-centred, wellness-focused and fun. I am a sex-positive therapist, an LGBTQIA+, trans ally and pleasure activist.

Are you a couple or individual who would like to improve their relationship and/or sexuality? Couple therapy and sex therapy can help you sort things and initiate the changes you want. They are often closely connected. Couple therapy deals with all kinds of problems: different levels of desire for sex and/or closeness, bad communication, fears, hostility, affairs... Sex therapy addresses issues like: erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulities to or lack of orgasm, pain or vaginal spasm during intercourse, desire problems, sex addiction, sexual abuse, problems with gender identity, sexual orientation or preferences.

When life gets tough it can be so hard to know just what to do to put things right. Feelings of anxiety, depression, anger, difficulties within our relationships - these things are not always easy to change on our own, especially for the longer-term. I understand that. As a professional Counsellor and Psychotherapist I believe that counselling can help you to make sense of things. It can make a real difference to how you feel, how you act, and is a big step forward. Counselling is there for you, no matter what the problem. Simply put, it is a practical way to make your life better.