Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in Paisley

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Johnnie Taylor
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
And i specialise in narcissistic abuse recovery supporting you in navigating leaving abusive relationships.
Are you living with the symptoms of PTSD, traumatic memories and anxiety? Is this making life, work and relationships more difficult? Perhaps, you are experiencing flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, phobias, anger, fear, sadness or social anxiety.  This could be making it difficult for you to cope in certain circumstances. It could also be causing your self-esteem and confidence to spiral downwards. Maybe, you have got so used to living with traumatic symptoms and anxiety that the distress and inconvenience they cause you has just become ‘normal’. I would like to help you with my embodied trauma-focused practice.
And i specialise in narcissistic abuse recovery supporting you in navigating leaving abusive relationships.
Are you living with the symptoms of PTSD, traumatic memories and anxiety? Is this making life, work and relationships more difficult? Perhaps, you are experiencing flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, phobias, anger, fear, sadness or social anxiety.  This could be making it difficult for you to cope in certain circumstances. It could also be causing your self-esteem and confidence to spiral downwards. Maybe, you have got so used to living with traumatic symptoms and anxiety that the distress and inconvenience they cause you has just become ‘normal’. I would like to help you with my embodied trauma-focused practice.
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ABC Therapy Service
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Serves Area
It's tough opening up to someone but we, via the therapeutical alliance, can create a safe space of trust where there is confidentiality, no judgment and that the client feels comfortable sharing. Here are some testimonials from my previous clients for you to ponder: Social anxiety- My gran nearly fainted when she saw me ask someone who works in a shop a question, something I've never done in my life before. Trauma- Thanks so much for all that you've done, honestly you've been a saviour to me. Low self esteem- I've realised I'm stronger than I thought. Depression- You've helped me see that I can get the joy back in my life.
It's tough opening up to someone but we, via the therapeutical alliance, can create a safe space of trust where there is confidentiality, no judgment and that the client feels comfortable sharing. Here are some testimonials from my previous clients for you to ponder: Social anxiety- My gran nearly fainted when she saw me ask someone who works in a shop a question, something I've never done in my life before. Trauma- Thanks so much for all that you've done, honestly you've been a saviour to me. Low self esteem- I've realised I'm stronger than I thought. Depression- You've helped me see that I can get the joy back in my life.
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Colin Marshall
Psychotherapist
Serves Area
Hi I am a Gestalt therapist/Counsellor. I have over 10 years experience helping people with a variety of issues. If you want to change your life or change yourself or you are struggling with everyday issues counselling is the very place for you. With a safe place to explore yourself and your life with a non judgmental person (me) sitting along side you, this can be a very empowering and enriching experience. Life can get on top of us at times, taking some time out for yourself to process all the things that go swirling around our heads can be vital to a happy healthy life. couples appointment last for 1.5 hrs reduced fee for zoom
Hi I am a Gestalt therapist/Counsellor. I have over 10 years experience helping people with a variety of issues. If you want to change your life or change yourself or you are struggling with everyday issues counselling is the very place for you. With a safe place to explore yourself and your life with a non judgmental person (me) sitting along side you, this can be a very empowering and enriching experience. Life can get on top of us at times, taking some time out for yourself to process all the things that go swirling around our heads can be vital to a happy healthy life. couples appointment last for 1.5 hrs reduced fee for zoom
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GMQ Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Face to Face, Online and Telephone Counselling to fit around your availability. Individual counselling sessions: Standard fee for the first session is £25 then £55 per hour thereafter (concessionary rates negotiable). I also offer a free initial telephone consultation which lasts around 15 minutes to find out more about you and to assess what is best for you and your availability.
Face to Face, Online and Telephone Counselling to fit around your availability. Individual counselling sessions: Standard fee for the first session is £25 then £55 per hour thereafter (concessionary rates negotiable). I also offer a free initial telephone consultation which lasts around 15 minutes to find out more about you and to assess what is best for you and your availability.
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Chiara Capaldi
Counsellor, MBACP
Glasgow G12
We all encounter times in our lives where we may feel anxious, sad, angry, or stuck in a pattern of unhelpful behaviour. This can impact our day to day lives, our relationship with ourselves and our relationship with others. We know that something must change but might not be entirely sure how to move forward. By offering a warm, safe and supportive space I can help you. I use a blend of psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapy to support people in understanding themselves more deeply and feeling more grounded and present in everyday life.
We all encounter times in our lives where we may feel anxious, sad, angry, or stuck in a pattern of unhelpful behaviour. This can impact our day to day lives, our relationship with ourselves and our relationship with others. We know that something must change but might not be entirely sure how to move forward. By offering a warm, safe and supportive space I can help you. I use a blend of psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapy to support people in understanding themselves more deeply and feeling more grounded and present in everyday life.
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Alina Dragomir
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
You may be a high-masking autistic or ADHD woman. You may have spent years coping, and even outwardly succeeding, until your nervous system simply can’t keep up. Many of my clients are neurodivergent women, often late-diagnosed or self-diagnosed, navigating burnout, perimenopause, trauma, self-doubt, and deep exhaustion from masking. You may have tried therapy before without lasting change and feel stuck in the same patterns. You’re looking for specialist, neurodiversity-affirming therapy that helps you understand why you struggle and offers practical ways to move forward.
You may be a high-masking autistic or ADHD woman. You may have spent years coping, and even outwardly succeeding, until your nervous system simply can’t keep up. Many of my clients are neurodivergent women, often late-diagnosed or self-diagnosed, navigating burnout, perimenopause, trauma, self-doubt, and deep exhaustion from masking. You may have tried therapy before without lasting change and feel stuck in the same patterns. You’re looking for specialist, neurodiversity-affirming therapy that helps you understand why you struggle and offers practical ways to move forward.
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Connected Health and Wellbeing
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Connected Health and Wellbeing is a caring therapist-led network of accredited psychotherapists, counsellors, and trainers committed to supporting emotional and mental wellbeing. Our directors, Colin and Anne, are experienced psychotherapists, supervisors, and trainers who understand that reaching out for support can feel daunting. They aim to make the process as welcoming and tailored as possible. Your first contact will be with Anne or Colin, who will listen to your needs and match you with the ideal practitioner in our network. If you’re ready to take a step toward growth and healing, we’re here to support you.
Connected Health and Wellbeing is a caring therapist-led network of accredited psychotherapists, counsellors, and trainers committed to supporting emotional and mental wellbeing. Our directors, Colin and Anne, are experienced psychotherapists, supervisors, and trainers who understand that reaching out for support can feel daunting. They aim to make the process as welcoming and tailored as possible. Your first contact will be with Anne or Colin, who will listen to your needs and match you with the ideal practitioner in our network. If you’re ready to take a step toward growth and healing, we’re here to support you.
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Jamie Paterson
Psychotherapist, GMBPsS
Do you find it difficult to talk to those closest to you about your issues and concerns? Perhaps you don’t want to burden them or feel worried that they might judge or not understand what you are going through? I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others. As an integrative counsellor, I work with a variety of therapeutic approaches and methods, and combine them to suit the needs of each individual client.
Do you find it difficult to talk to those closest to you about your issues and concerns? Perhaps you don’t want to burden them or feel worried that they might judge or not understand what you are going through? I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others. As an integrative counsellor, I work with a variety of therapeutic approaches and methods, and combine them to suit the needs of each individual client.
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Clare Mackay
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Online Only
Faith-based counselling, Depression, loss of desire, Spiritual growth and discernment, Creative identity & unblocking (artists, writers, performers) Anxiety, emotional overwhelm, Trauma, grief, and inner healing, Relationship conflict or communication issues, Narcissistic Abuse relating to NPD
Are you seeking a deeper connection to God, yourself, or your partner? Do you feel creatively blocked—or caught in emotional or relational patterns that feel out of alignment with your most authentic self? I work with individuals who feel the pull toward transformation—whether prompted by anxiety, relational conflict, burnout, spiritual unrest, or life transition. Many of my clients are exploring: •Relationship challenges •Women’s or men’s issues •Faith, spirituality, and meaning-making in uncertain times •Chronic stress, depression, anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or trauma •Parenting, life direction, or major life decisions
Faith-based counselling, Depression, loss of desire, Spiritual growth and discernment, Creative identity & unblocking (artists, writers, performers) Anxiety, emotional overwhelm, Trauma, grief, and inner healing, Relationship conflict or communication issues, Narcissistic Abuse relating to NPD
Are you seeking a deeper connection to God, yourself, or your partner? Do you feel creatively blocked—or caught in emotional or relational patterns that feel out of alignment with your most authentic self? I work with individuals who feel the pull toward transformation—whether prompted by anxiety, relational conflict, burnout, spiritual unrest, or life transition. Many of my clients are exploring: •Relationship challenges •Women’s or men’s issues •Faith, spirituality, and meaning-making in uncertain times •Chronic stress, depression, anxiety, emotional overwhelm, or trauma •Parenting, life direction, or major life decisions
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Shirley Macmillan
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist based in Ayrshire. I work predominantly with a Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) approach, but also draw on other therapeutic approaches to provide a more integrative and tailored therapy for you. There are times when we all experience situations that cause distress or uncertainty and it can be difficult to move past these events or to speak to those close to us.
I am a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist based in Ayrshire. I work predominantly with a Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) approach, but also draw on other therapeutic approaches to provide a more integrative and tailored therapy for you. There are times when we all experience situations that cause distress or uncertainty and it can be difficult to move past these events or to speak to those close to us.
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Bryan Raffin
Counsellor, BACP
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I’m Bryan, a psychodynamic counsellor based in Finnieston, Glasgow. I offer a space where you can be met just as you are — without judgment and with genuine care. A place where anxiety, confusion, silences, pain, anger, or grief can be shared, feel accepted, and explored in a secure way.
Hi, I’m Bryan, a psychodynamic counsellor based in Finnieston, Glasgow. I offer a space where you can be met just as you are — without judgment and with genuine care. A place where anxiety, confusion, silences, pain, anger, or grief can be shared, feel accepted, and explored in a secure way.
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Mark Cuddihy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Thank you for viewing my page. My name is Mark and I am an experienced counsellor supporting adults, young people, and children as young as ten. Counselling offers the opportunity to explore, challenge and overcome thoughts, feelings, behaviours, and experiences which continue to have a negative effect on your psychological and emotional wellbeing. Working together, you will develop the self-belief, agency, and resilience to heal laying the building blocks for a better life.
Thank you for viewing my page. My name is Mark and I am an experienced counsellor supporting adults, young people, and children as young as ten. Counselling offers the opportunity to explore, challenge and overcome thoughts, feelings, behaviours, and experiences which continue to have a negative effect on your psychological and emotional wellbeing. Working together, you will develop the self-belief, agency, and resilience to heal laying the building blocks for a better life.
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Emily Esinam Abonie
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Therapy offers a safe and supportive space for individuals, couples, or families to be themselves, discuss the challenges they face, and embark on a journey of self-discovery. It’s a space where you can express yourself securely, confidentially, and without judgment. I work at your pace, creating a safe and confidential environment where we can explore and address the issues affecting your life. Together, we’ll work through the areas you find difficult, gaining clarity and understanding of how these challenges impact you. With support, you can move forward and find your direction in life.
Therapy offers a safe and supportive space for individuals, couples, or families to be themselves, discuss the challenges they face, and embark on a journey of self-discovery. It’s a space where you can express yourself securely, confidentially, and without judgment. I work at your pace, creating a safe and confidential environment where we can explore and address the issues affecting your life. Together, we’ll work through the areas you find difficult, gaining clarity and understanding of how these challenges impact you. With support, you can move forward and find your direction in life.
020 3838 0726 View 020 3838 0726
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Lisa P Bedwell
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Online Only
Facing the day with a niggling sense of confusion, unease or sadness will affect everything around you, it limits your ability to engage and really be in the moment. These feelings may be linked to a past event in your life, a situation you are currently in or you may be unclear as to why you feel this way. What is important is that at the centre is you. Often, we know we need to prioritise ourselves better, but maybe we do not know how to, we are unsure what we need and are hesitant to ask for this. Are you eager to find out why you respond the way you do? Why you think the way you do at times?
Facing the day with a niggling sense of confusion, unease or sadness will affect everything around you, it limits your ability to engage and really be in the moment. These feelings may be linked to a past event in your life, a situation you are currently in or you may be unclear as to why you feel this way. What is important is that at the centre is you. Often, we know we need to prioritise ourselves better, but maybe we do not know how to, we are unsure what we need and are hesitant to ask for this. Are you eager to find out why you respond the way you do? Why you think the way you do at times?
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Derek McMillan - Compassionate Inquiry
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I am a certified practitioner of Gabor Mate's somatic based psychotherapeutic approach, compassionate inquiry and a certified CI private mentor. I have over 20 year experience teaching and mentoring in psychology, philosophy and religious/moral studies. Along with my teaching career I have three decades of study and practice of body-mind practices throughout Europe and Asia. My therapeutic approach is deeply rooted in building a safe therapeutic relationship. I offer my clients a non-judgemental presence, curiosity, humility, playfulness and gratitude as I work alongside you on your journey of healing and personal growth.
I am a certified practitioner of Gabor Mate's somatic based psychotherapeutic approach, compassionate inquiry and a certified CI private mentor. I have over 20 year experience teaching and mentoring in psychology, philosophy and religious/moral studies. Along with my teaching career I have three decades of study and practice of body-mind practices throughout Europe and Asia. My therapeutic approach is deeply rooted in building a safe therapeutic relationship. I offer my clients a non-judgemental presence, curiosity, humility, playfulness and gratitude as I work alongside you on your journey of healing and personal growth.
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Dr Ailie Mitchell
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist with years of experience in the NHS, private sector and third sector. I offer a flexible therapeutic approach and support people with a range of difficulties including anxiety, low mood, PTSD/complex trauma, addictions, career stress, bereavement, chronic health conditions, compulsions and relationship difficulties.  I have a special interest in trauma and the ways in which it can shape us throughout our lives, impacting our wellbeing, relationships and families.
I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist with years of experience in the NHS, private sector and third sector. I offer a flexible therapeutic approach and support people with a range of difficulties including anxiety, low mood, PTSD/complex trauma, addictions, career stress, bereavement, chronic health conditions, compulsions and relationship difficulties.  I have a special interest in trauma and the ways in which it can shape us throughout our lives, impacting our wellbeing, relationships and families.
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Linda Mclachlan
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Here, you can work on whatever issues may be troubling you from anxiety and depression, to relationship problems, trauma, low self-esteem, and more. I offer highly-focused brief counselling or long-term psychotherapy, as required. I am able to provide sessions to adults and young people. I am a trained relationship counsellor and have vast experience of working with children, young people and the LGBTQ community.
Here, you can work on whatever issues may be troubling you from anxiety and depression, to relationship problems, trauma, low self-esteem, and more. I offer highly-focused brief counselling or long-term psychotherapy, as required. I am able to provide sessions to adults and young people. I am a trained relationship counsellor and have vast experience of working with children, young people and the LGBTQ community.
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Pardoe Psychology
Psychologist, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. Perhaps you have tried therapy before and have not had a good experience. Maybe you have a diagnosis, such as ADHD, FASD or Autism and think that typical approaches do not work well for you. My forensic background means that I am trained to understand people in some of the most challenging circumstances. I have accredited training in structured, evidence based modalities and bring with me a depth of experience. I specialise in supporting people who may feel that their experiences are layered, longstanding and difficult to untangle. I tailor my approach to the needs and wishes of each person I work with.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. Perhaps you have tried therapy before and have not had a good experience. Maybe you have a diagnosis, such as ADHD, FASD or Autism and think that typical approaches do not work well for you. My forensic background means that I am trained to understand people in some of the most challenging circumstances. I have accredited training in structured, evidence based modalities and bring with me a depth of experience. I specialise in supporting people who may feel that their experiences are layered, longstanding and difficult to untangle. I tailor my approach to the needs and wishes of each person I work with.
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Claire Murdoch
Counsellor, MCOSCA
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Seeking counselling can feel like a big step. Perhaps a confusing one. Let me tell you a little about myself so that you can decide if I am the right counsellor for you. I have a COSCA accredited Diploma in Person Centred counselling meaning that I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings. I have a creative, eclectic approach and can bring other models into the counselling room where appropriate such as CBT, small world, gestalt and even music. At the moment I offer on-line and telephone counselling, however, post pandemic would also offer outdoor walking therapy.
Seeking counselling can feel like a big step. Perhaps a confusing one. Let me tell you a little about myself so that you can decide if I am the right counsellor for you. I have a COSCA accredited Diploma in Person Centred counselling meaning that I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings. I have a creative, eclectic approach and can bring other models into the counselling room where appropriate such as CBT, small world, gestalt and even music. At the moment I offer on-line and telephone counselling, however, post pandemic would also offer outdoor walking therapy.
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Gateway Counselling
Counsellor, MCOSCA
Welcome to Gateway Counselling (Lanarkshire). My name is Rosamond and I am available to offer counselling within a secure environment in order to explore whatever is happening in your life. Here at Gateway we understand that there are times in our lives when we feel overwhelmed, at a loss and without hope concerning our past, our present and even our future. As Steve Jobs said “sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick”. It is because of this that i, myself, undertook personal counselling. This then led to my desire to reach out to others who face trauma and challenges in life where professional support and help is needed.
Welcome to Gateway Counselling (Lanarkshire). My name is Rosamond and I am available to offer counselling within a secure environment in order to explore whatever is happening in your life. Here at Gateway we understand that there are times in our lives when we feel overwhelmed, at a loss and without hope concerning our past, our present and even our future. As Steve Jobs said “sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick”. It is because of this that i, myself, undertook personal counselling. This then led to my desire to reach out to others who face trauma and challenges in life where professional support and help is needed.
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.