Borderline Personality (BPD) Counselling in Midlothian

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Amy Caffrey Mbacp
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Anxiety, stress and low mood can leave us feeling overwhelmed and difficult to know how to manage this both in our personal and professional lives. Talking to a therapist can be quite daunting. However, I truly believe talking through a problem can really help. I can help you to identify and understand issues you are struggling with and together we can come up with a plan on how to help you overcome these. I have vast experience in mental health and some of my most recent work has been working through work related dress, neurodiversity, social anxiety and gender dysphoria.
Anxiety, stress and low mood can leave us feeling overwhelmed and difficult to know how to manage this both in our personal and professional lives. Talking to a therapist can be quite daunting. However, I truly believe talking through a problem can really help. I can help you to identify and understand issues you are struggling with and together we can come up with a plan on how to help you overcome these. I have vast experience in mental health and some of my most recent work has been working through work related dress, neurodiversity, social anxiety and gender dysphoria.
01875 444628 View 01875 444628
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Kerry Phair
Psychologist, HCPC - Health Psych.
Online Only
As a Chartered Health Psychologist, my work is grounded in the understanding that many psychological difficulties make sense when viewed in the context of a person’s experiences, relationships, and environment. I work intigritively, drawing on multiple evidence-based approaches to support individuals navigating complex challenges, including trauma, mental health difficulties, and broader life stressors.
As a Chartered Health Psychologist, my work is grounded in the understanding that many psychological difficulties make sense when viewed in the context of a person’s experiences, relationships, and environment. I work intigritively, drawing on multiple evidence-based approaches to support individuals navigating complex challenges, including trauma, mental health difficulties, and broader life stressors.
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Tom Lawrence
Psychotherapist, MHGI
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are suffering from anxiety - depression/low mood - stress - anger problems - panic attacks - phobias - low self-esteem - self-harming - eating disorders - post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD, including military) - addiction (all kinds) - obsessions (OCD) - sleep problems - relationship problems, I can help. Difficulties can often be resolved within only a few sessions – sometimes just one – and in this way can provide good value for money.
If you are suffering from anxiety - depression/low mood - stress - anger problems - panic attacks - phobias - low self-esteem - self-harming - eating disorders - post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD, including military) - addiction (all kinds) - obsessions (OCD) - sleep problems - relationship problems, I can help. Difficulties can often be resolved within only a few sessions – sometimes just one – and in this way can provide good value for money.
07887 682291 View 07887 682291
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Dr Chrissie Wanner
Counsellor, PhD, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Free initial online consultation to discuss your needs and how we might work together. I offer safe, steady, calm, warm, and non-judgemental support to work through current or past difficulties that might feel too big or complex to face alone. I'm happy to work with individuals from all backgrounds and walks of life, either online or in person. I'm also happy to work flexibly around childcare and/or work commitments.
Free initial online consultation to discuss your needs and how we might work together. I offer safe, steady, calm, warm, and non-judgemental support to work through current or past difficulties that might feel too big or complex to face alone. I'm happy to work with individuals from all backgrounds and walks of life, either online or in person. I'm also happy to work flexibly around childcare and/or work commitments.
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Hazel Stevenson
Counsellor, MCOSCA
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome! Talking is a wonderful way to share what’s on your mind. You may not even know what is bothering you, but by talking, it helps to get in touch with your emotions and make sense of your thoughts. Changes are often small but can be significant. Speaking with someone who is really listening and can offer a non-judgemental space to fully express yourself, improve your self awareness, and accept you for being you, can help!
Welcome! Talking is a wonderful way to share what’s on your mind. You may not even know what is bothering you, but by talking, it helps to get in touch with your emotions and make sense of your thoughts. Changes are often small but can be significant. Speaking with someone who is really listening and can offer a non-judgemental space to fully express yourself, improve your self awareness, and accept you for being you, can help!
01764 915874 View 01764 915874
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Chai Counselling Ltd
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MCOSCA
Serves Area
When you encounter difficult times in our day to day lives it is helpful to be able to talk these through with someone who is trained and objective. To help you explore the issues that matter to you, bringing insight and understanding to enable you to find your way through problems and dilemmas.
When you encounter difficult times in our day to day lives it is helpful to be able to talk these through with someone who is trained and objective. To help you explore the issues that matter to you, bringing insight and understanding to enable you to find your way through problems and dilemmas.
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Online Therapists

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Share Life Be Well
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Hi my name is Natalia. Thanks for visiting my profile! I am a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist & Integrative Practitioner, Offering Therapy face to face or Online/ Telephone. Do you want to see a confident version of yourself? Do you feel anxious and feel like you are losing control? Would you like to face past issues, fears, 'what if's?' and shed shackles that keep you fixated there? Would you like to feel happy and content again? If the answer to any of the above is YES, then please get in touch!
Hi my name is Natalia. Thanks for visiting my profile! I am a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist & Integrative Practitioner, Offering Therapy face to face or Online/ Telephone. Do you want to see a confident version of yourself? Do you feel anxious and feel like you are losing control? Would you like to face past issues, fears, 'what if's?' and shed shackles that keep you fixated there? Would you like to feel happy and content again? If the answer to any of the above is YES, then please get in touch!
0141 673 2633 View 0141 673 2633
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Lynda Chebbihi Msc Gmbpss Mbacp
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Aberdeen AB10
Hello, I'm a counsellor and a trauma-focused therapist based in Aberdeen, Scotland. I offer one-on-one therapy sessions, either online or in-person. My professional , educational and volunteering journeys have enabled me to understand impacts of traumatic events (war, childhood abuse, and sexual abuse) on mental health. These adverse events can shatter everything you believe in, leaving you feeling lost, suicidal, not knowing who you are anymore. I can help you make new meanings, heal and grow. I am flexible in my practice where I integrate various evidence-based therapeutic interventions to meet your needs and foster healing.
Hello, I'm a counsellor and a trauma-focused therapist based in Aberdeen, Scotland. I offer one-on-one therapy sessions, either online or in-person. My professional , educational and volunteering journeys have enabled me to understand impacts of traumatic events (war, childhood abuse, and sexual abuse) on mental health. These adverse events can shatter everything you believe in, leaving you feeling lost, suicidal, not knowing who you are anymore. I can help you make new meanings, heal and grow. I am flexible in my practice where I integrate various evidence-based therapeutic interventions to meet your needs and foster healing.
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Dr Kathryn Quinn
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
Cupar KY15
I am an experienced Chartered Clinical Psychologist with a proven track record of clinical effectiveness. I run an established and successful private practice, and offer a choice of both online or face-to-face appointments ensuring that my client's needs are at the forefront of all that I do. If you would like to discuss your situation further, or book an initial consultation, I would be delighted to hear from you.
I am an experienced Chartered Clinical Psychologist with a proven track record of clinical effectiveness. I run an established and successful private practice, and offer a choice of both online or face-to-face appointments ensuring that my client's needs are at the forefront of all that I do. If you would like to discuss your situation further, or book an initial consultation, I would be delighted to hear from you.
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Dr Jennie Larsson
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Many people struggle with mental health difficulties at different times in their lives and can feel like it’s hard to make sense of this, and my goal is to help people to understand and improve their mental health. I'm a qualified Senior Clinical Psychologist and Cognitive Analytic Therapist (CAT). I love using CAT and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) to help people gain an understanding of the way they relate to themselves and those around them and why they may struggle with this at times, and to help them to learn how to make changes to these patterns and find alternate ways of approaching different situations.
Many people struggle with mental health difficulties at different times in their lives and can feel like it’s hard to make sense of this, and my goal is to help people to understand and improve their mental health. I'm a qualified Senior Clinical Psychologist and Cognitive Analytic Therapist (CAT). I love using CAT and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) to help people gain an understanding of the way they relate to themselves and those around them and why they may struggle with this at times, and to help them to learn how to make changes to these patterns and find alternate ways of approaching different situations.
0191 743 4604 View 0191 743 4604
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Jackie Read
Counsellor, ACC-AC
Dundee DD2
I specialise in working with complex trauma, C-PTSD( complex post traumatic stress disorder) and disorders like BPD
We will look initially at your most pressing area of concern. By exploring past experiences can help in understanding in how you are behaving and feeling now. From here with new insights, deeper understanding and more freedom you will have more choices to respond to current situations rather than reacting from past defence mechanisms
I specialise in working with complex trauma, C-PTSD( complex post traumatic stress disorder) and disorders like BPD
We will look initially at your most pressing area of concern. By exploring past experiences can help in understanding in how you are behaving and feeling now. From here with new insights, deeper understanding and more freedom you will have more choices to respond to current situations rather than reacting from past defence mechanisms
01382 919575 View 01382 919575
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Clear Path Therapies
Verified Verified
Hexham NE46
Are you struggling with moving forward? Here at Clear Path Therapies we want to help you to put down some of that heaviness, and find your path. We offer EMDR for Trauma, anxiety and phobias, with testimonials on our website and a growing demand for our services we offer coaching in several areas, specialising in ADHD for anyone over 16 years of age, with or without a diagnosis. Menopause, because nobody should have to feel the burden that life's changes bring. Specialist support around addictions is also available for anyone 16 years and above, this is a bespoke package shaped to meet the needs on a case by case basis
Are you struggling with moving forward? Here at Clear Path Therapies we want to help you to put down some of that heaviness, and find your path. We offer EMDR for Trauma, anxiety and phobias, with testimonials on our website and a growing demand for our services we offer coaching in several areas, specialising in ADHD for anyone over 16 years of age, with or without a diagnosis. Menopause, because nobody should have to feel the burden that life's changes bring. Specialist support around addictions is also available for anyone 16 years and above, this is a bespoke package shaped to meet the needs on a case by case basis
07717 018215 View 07717 018215
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Emma MacKintosh
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Aberdeen AB15
Hello, I'm Emma - a qualified and registered pluralistic counsellor and psychotherapist. At times, life can feel fast-paced, overwhelming, and difficult to manage on your own. Counselling can offer a safe, supportive space to talk openly about what is happening in your life without judgement and to feel heard when things feel overwhelming. Therapy can be flexible and responsive to your needs, supporting you to explore your goals at your own pace, and helping you find a way forward that feels right for you.
Hello, I'm Emma - a qualified and registered pluralistic counsellor and psychotherapist. At times, life can feel fast-paced, overwhelming, and difficult to manage on your own. Counselling can offer a safe, supportive space to talk openly about what is happening in your life without judgement and to feel heard when things feel overwhelming. Therapy can be flexible and responsive to your needs, supporting you to explore your goals at your own pace, and helping you find a way forward that feels right for you.
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Lakes Trauma Therapy
Psychotherapist, MSc
1 Endorsed
Maureen Seddon is an accredited and experienced EMDR Therapist with over 40 years of experience working with people in both the NHS and the private sector. Maureen originally qualified as a general nurse in Liverpool in 1982, training in mental health in 1984. Maureen trained in EMDR as she felt other therapies did not address the original causation of symptoms/triggers without causing further distress. Maureen targets the origin of the trauma in a holistic way.
Maureen Seddon is an accredited and experienced EMDR Therapist with over 40 years of experience working with people in both the NHS and the private sector. Maureen originally qualified as a general nurse in Liverpool in 1982, training in mental health in 1984. Maureen trained in EMDR as she felt other therapies did not address the original causation of symptoms/triggers without causing further distress. Maureen targets the origin of the trauma in a holistic way.
07427 518170 View 07427 518170
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Dr Charley Blackwell
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
3 Endorsed
Tynemouth NE30
If you’re weighed down by anxiety, difficult life events, uncertainty, or challenges in relationships, I can help you to make sense of what’s driving those feelings and make a plan together to create the change you hope for. To achieve this I draw upon a range of models and theory in therapy, ensuring an individualised approach. I have a warm and compassionate approach and understand how daunting coming to therapy can be. I hold our therapeutic relationship at the centre of our work, and we will explore what has brought you to therapy at a pace you feel comfortable with.
If you’re weighed down by anxiety, difficult life events, uncertainty, or challenges in relationships, I can help you to make sense of what’s driving those feelings and make a plan together to create the change you hope for. To achieve this I draw upon a range of models and theory in therapy, ensuring an individualised approach. I have a warm and compassionate approach and understand how daunting coming to therapy can be. I hold our therapeutic relationship at the centre of our work, and we will explore what has brought you to therapy at a pace you feel comfortable with.
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Dr Larissa Johnson
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Online Only
If small things send you spiralling, you feel disconnected from yourself, or you've been carrying something heavy for as long as you can remember — these are experiences I work with often. I'm Dr Larissa Johnson, a Forensic Psychologist specialising in trauma, complex PTSD, and personality difficulties. I work with adults who carry the weight of difficult histories. Maybe you're reliving painful memories, caught in cycles of shame or self-criticism, or feel that your emotions are too much. Maybe you've been told your difficulties are "complex" without ever feeling truly understood. If this resonates, I'd love to hear from you.
If small things send you spiralling, you feel disconnected from yourself, or you've been carrying something heavy for as long as you can remember — these are experiences I work with often. I'm Dr Larissa Johnson, a Forensic Psychologist specialising in trauma, complex PTSD, and personality difficulties. I work with adults who carry the weight of difficult histories. Maybe you're reliving painful memories, caught in cycles of shame or self-criticism, or feel that your emotions are too much. Maybe you've been told your difficulties are "complex" without ever feeling truly understood. If this resonates, I'd love to hear from you.
0191 743 9740 View 0191 743 9740
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Antonia Higgins
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Falkirk FK2
I offer face-to-face counselling from my therapy room in Falkirk and online counselling. I work with adults of all genders, offering individual and relationship counselling. Counselling can help you tackle many issues including abuse, anxiety, bullying, confidence, depression, domestic abuse, relationship and family issues, grief and loss, personal boundaries, self-harming behaviours, trauma and work-related problems.
I offer face-to-face counselling from my therapy room in Falkirk and online counselling. I work with adults of all genders, offering individual and relationship counselling. Counselling can help you tackle many issues including abuse, anxiety, bullying, confidence, depression, domestic abuse, relationship and family issues, grief and loss, personal boundaries, self-harming behaviours, trauma and work-related problems.
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Dr Mark Carey
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
2 Endorsed
Concessions offered for NHS and Blue Light workers. Concession for online appointments. I am a Clinical Psychologist with experience in mental and physical health services within the NHS, supporting adults with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and common psychological difficulties. I also help individuals adjusting to significant changes in physical health—navigating shifts in identity, roles, relationships, and the emotional impact of their condition. Drawing on this experience, I now provide individual online and in-person therapy for adults (18+).
Concessions offered for NHS and Blue Light workers. Concession for online appointments. I am a Clinical Psychologist with experience in mental and physical health services within the NHS, supporting adults with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and common psychological difficulties. I also help individuals adjusting to significant changes in physical health—navigating shifts in identity, roles, relationships, and the emotional impact of their condition. Drawing on this experience, I now provide individual online and in-person therapy for adults (18+).
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I provide a warm, inclusive counselling service for individuals and couples, where you can feel heard and supported. Whether you’re facing a current challenge, becoming aware of ongoing cycles, or want to explore and make sense of past experiences, I’m here to support you. I offer a non-judgmental space where you can speak openly about whatever is on your mind. Issues I commonly help with include anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, relationship issues, anger and stress management and trauma. I support my clients to understand patterns, build confidence, and create meaningful change.
I provide a warm, inclusive counselling service for individuals and couples, where you can feel heard and supported. Whether you’re facing a current challenge, becoming aware of ongoing cycles, or want to explore and make sense of past experiences, I’m here to support you. I offer a non-judgmental space where you can speak openly about whatever is on your mind. Issues I commonly help with include anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, relationship issues, anger and stress management and trauma. I support my clients to understand patterns, build confidence, and create meaningful change.
0191 743 2366 View 0191 743 2366
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Dr Samantha Baradhi
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Dundee DD5
Dr Samantha Baradhi (CPsychol) is a Chartered and HCPC Registered Psychologist and COSRT Accredited Psychosexual Therapist offering psychological therapy and psychosexual therapy to adults, couples and young people above 14 years. As a counselling psychologist her approach is relational and attachment focused. A thorough psychological assessment, a humanistic stance and in-depth formulation underpin the therapy relationship, whilst an integration of therapeutic models allows Samantha to work with each individual's specific needs and goals. She has been established here at The Broughty Practice, Dundee since 2006.
Dr Samantha Baradhi (CPsychol) is a Chartered and HCPC Registered Psychologist and COSRT Accredited Psychosexual Therapist offering psychological therapy and psychosexual therapy to adults, couples and young people above 14 years. As a counselling psychologist her approach is relational and attachment focused. A thorough psychological assessment, a humanistic stance and in-depth formulation underpin the therapy relationship, whilst an integration of therapeutic models allows Samantha to work with each individual's specific needs and goals. She has been established here at The Broughty Practice, Dundee since 2006.
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Counsellors
What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?
Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?
DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?
The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.