Sexual Addiction Counselling in Aberdeen

Dr Victoria Ross
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Overwhelmed? Lost? Your past weighing you down? If this is you, you are not alone. Life is tough for us all and it’s no surprise we sometimes feel a bit stuck. My primary aim is to create a safe environment where we can work together to move towards your goals. We will explore, discover and try out new skills and strategies for improvements in the long term.
Overwhelmed? Lost? Your past weighing you down? If this is you, you are not alone. Life is tough for us all and it’s no surprise we sometimes feel a bit stuck. My primary aim is to create a safe environment where we can work together to move towards your goals. We will explore, discover and try out new skills and strategies for improvements in the long term.
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Gautam Bhatia (Koinophobia Therapy)
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
Aberdeen AB24
Sometimes life doesn’t go the way we hoped — breakups, trauma, or repeated struggles can leave us feeling lost. Therapy is a place to make sense of what happened, rediscover your self-worth, and create a life that feels exciting, meaningful, and worth it—especially for your self and the ones you love. During therapy, we will uncover the patterns that keep you stuck, build insights, and explore pathways to your healing and growth. If you feel lost searching for answers with relationship conflict, breakups, feeling different, family conflicts, traumatic experiences, and addictions, Let me assure you, you are not alone.
Sometimes life doesn’t go the way we hoped — breakups, trauma, or repeated struggles can leave us feeling lost. Therapy is a place to make sense of what happened, rediscover your self-worth, and create a life that feels exciting, meaningful, and worth it—especially for your self and the ones you love. During therapy, we will uncover the patterns that keep you stuck, build insights, and explore pathways to your healing and growth. If you feel lost searching for answers with relationship conflict, breakups, feeling different, family conflicts, traumatic experiences, and addictions, Let me assure you, you are not alone.
01224 548484 View 01224 548484
Specialist Therapies
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Aberdeen AB25
For anxiety and mood problems we can work together for your recovery. Only evidenced approaches are used so that you can be assured that you are doing the right thing. You are important, and so is your recovery. I have been working successfully in mental health recovery for a number of years, including the teaching and training of other therapists. We begin by having a shared understanding of your problem. We work together using techniques that are demonstrated to be successful. Therapy can be either face-to-face or virtual. it's time to make the right move. it's time to move on, and we can do it! The Future Belongs to You.
For anxiety and mood problems we can work together for your recovery. Only evidenced approaches are used so that you can be assured that you are doing the right thing. You are important, and so is your recovery. I have been working successfully in mental health recovery for a number of years, including the teaching and training of other therapists. We begin by having a shared understanding of your problem. We work together using techniques that are demonstrated to be successful. Therapy can be either face-to-face or virtual. it's time to make the right move. it's time to move on, and we can do it! The Future Belongs to You.
01224 515259 View 01224 515259
Dr Vivian Tu
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
Aberdeen AB10
Are you feeling trapped, stuck and finding it difficult to get out of bed in the morning? The daily life feels tasteless and numb to you. You seem to remember who you used to be, but who you are, at this stage, uneasy, emotional, is very foreign to you. On the counselling journey with me, I will explore and assist you to trace down to the rootcauses of these symptoms (e.g. palpitations, panic, low mood, anger), and release the stuck parts in you from the past memories and present experiences.
Are you feeling trapped, stuck and finding it difficult to get out of bed in the morning? The daily life feels tasteless and numb to you. You seem to remember who you used to be, but who you are, at this stage, uneasy, emotional, is very foreign to you. On the counselling journey with me, I will explore and assist you to trace down to the rootcauses of these symptoms (e.g. palpitations, panic, low mood, anger), and release the stuck parts in you from the past memories and present experiences.
01224 007094 View 01224 007094
Lyn Halley
Psychologist, MSc, FMBPsS
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm Lyn, an experienced, integrative Psychological Therapist working in mental health support for 13 years, specialising in evidence based therapies - CBT, Compassion-Focused Therapy & Nature Therapy. Are you a chronic overthinker? Feeling stuck or lost in life? Emotions overwhelming you? Are obsessions & compulsions taking over your life? Need help coping in relationships or overcoming life difficulties? Would you like to find more calm, joy, purpose? I would love to work alongside you, providing support, insights and understanding to allow you to feel better about yourself & your life. You deserve to live with a bit more ease.
I'm Lyn, an experienced, integrative Psychological Therapist working in mental health support for 13 years, specialising in evidence based therapies - CBT, Compassion-Focused Therapy & Nature Therapy. Are you a chronic overthinker? Feeling stuck or lost in life? Emotions overwhelming you? Are obsessions & compulsions taking over your life? Need help coping in relationships or overcoming life difficulties? Would you like to find more calm, joy, purpose? I would love to work alongside you, providing support, insights and understanding to allow you to feel better about yourself & your life. You deserve to live with a bit more ease.
0131 381 6476 View 0131 381 6476
Mark Ernest Hepburn
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
People tell me that I'm warm, funny and really good with people and I feel I bring this to my client work. I believe that clients need to feel safe and develop a sense of trust before the process of sharing can evolve in to the dynamic process I believe provides the best opportunity for change and developing insight. I think what underpins this is the belief that a tight rope walker wont let go unless they feel they have a safety net to catch them, perhaps clients are the same in that regard. My philosophy of counselling has evolved but what has never changed is my belief in the uniqueness and individuality of clients and progress
People tell me that I'm warm, funny and really good with people and I feel I bring this to my client work. I believe that clients need to feel safe and develop a sense of trust before the process of sharing can evolve in to the dynamic process I believe provides the best opportunity for change and developing insight. I think what underpins this is the belief that a tight rope walker wont let go unless they feel they have a safety net to catch them, perhaps clients are the same in that regard. My philosophy of counselling has evolved but what has never changed is my belief in the uniqueness and individuality of clients and progress
01224 057050 View 01224 057050
Barb Varcl Smith - Your Steps Counselling
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I work with adults of all ages and genders who feel stuck despite years of self-help or therapy. Many appear successful on the outside while privately struggling with the lasting effects of childhood trauma, complex PTSD (CPTSD), anxiety, low self-worth, people-pleasing, perfectionism, burnout, or relationship difficulties. Together, we explore not just what is happening, but why. By understanding the survival patterns behind these struggles, clients gain clarity, heal emotional wounds, and create lasting change.
I work with adults of all ages and genders who feel stuck despite years of self-help or therapy. Many appear successful on the outside while privately struggling with the lasting effects of childhood trauma, complex PTSD (CPTSD), anxiety, low self-worth, people-pleasing, perfectionism, burnout, or relationship difficulties. Together, we explore not just what is happening, but why. By understanding the survival patterns behind these struggles, clients gain clarity, heal emotional wounds, and create lasting change.
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Dr Kate Fraser
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
I offer a warm, supportive space to help you feel heard and understood. Together, we’ll explore your challenges, build on your strengths, and find a way forward that feels right for you.
I offer a warm, supportive space to help you feel heard and understood. Together, we’ll explore your challenges, build on your strengths, and find a way forward that feels right for you.
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Denese Hamilton MacDonald
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
Even strong relationships can begin to feel distant, stuck, or emotionally disconnected. Whether you are struggling with communication, intimacy, recurring arguments, or simply feeling more housemates than partners, couples therapy can help you understand what is happening beneath the surface and begin reconnecting in a deeper healthier way. As a specialist couples therapist with a Masters Degree in Counselling, Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and Psychosexual- informed certification, I work with couples to move beyond blame, resentment and emotional disconnection towards greater understanding, intimacy and lasting change.
Even strong relationships can begin to feel distant, stuck, or emotionally disconnected. Whether you are struggling with communication, intimacy, recurring arguments, or simply feeling more housemates than partners, couples therapy can help you understand what is happening beneath the surface and begin reconnecting in a deeper healthier way. As a specialist couples therapist with a Masters Degree in Counselling, Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and Psychosexual- informed certification, I work with couples to move beyond blame, resentment and emotional disconnection towards greater understanding, intimacy and lasting change.
01224 087264 View 01224 087264
Rylan Guthrie
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Online Only
Online Individual Counselling for adults with specific training for individuals within the LGBTQIA2S+ community, struggling with substance use, and with previous justice system involvement. My therapeutic techniques are based on trauma-informed, humanistic, and feminist therapies.
Online Individual Counselling for adults with specific training for individuals within the LGBTQIA2S+ community, struggling with substance use, and with previous justice system involvement. My therapeutic techniques are based on trauma-informed, humanistic, and feminist therapies.
0117 463 7658 View 0117 463 7658

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Undra Astbury
Counsellor, MBACP
4 Endorsed
Huntly AB54
Hi, I'm Undra. You may be here because something in your life feels heavy, confusing, or simply in need of space. I offer a warm, calm, and non‑judgmental space where you can talk openly and explore whatever feels important to you, at your own pace. My approach is gentle and person‑centred. I believe that when you feel truly heard and understood, you can begin to make sense of your experiences and reconnect with what feels right for you. I walk alongside you as you explore your thoughts, feelings, and the parts of your story that matter most.
Hi, I'm Undra. You may be here because something in your life feels heavy, confusing, or simply in need of space. I offer a warm, calm, and non‑judgmental space where you can talk openly and explore whatever feels important to you, at your own pace. My approach is gentle and person‑centred. I believe that when you feel truly heard and understood, you can begin to make sense of your experiences and reconnect with what feels right for you. I walk alongside you as you explore your thoughts, feelings, and the parts of your story that matter most.
01466 402254 View 01466 402254
Jonathan Henderson
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome and hello. I work in person and online at Baldovie House Counselling and Psychotherapy. Our premises are just outside Montrose. We offer a safe tranquil and confidential environment. I view my job as helping you to say what it is that is troubling you and then working out what it is that you might want to change in your life and then helping you put that into practice. I work with an initial session where we explore these things and get to know one another. All my work is insured; I am registered with Information Commissioner for the keeping of personal information. Call, text or email and I'll respond within a day usually.
Welcome and hello. I work in person and online at Baldovie House Counselling and Psychotherapy. Our premises are just outside Montrose. We offer a safe tranquil and confidential environment. I view my job as helping you to say what it is that is troubling you and then working out what it is that you might want to change in your life and then helping you put that into practice. I work with an initial session where we explore these things and get to know one another. All my work is insured; I am registered with Information Commissioner for the keeping of personal information. Call, text or email and I'll respond within a day usually.
01561 400166 View 01561 400166
Ian Innes Counselling
Counsellor, MCOSCA Accred
Serves Area
As a COSCA Accredited person-centred counsellor I provide a place of safety and confidentiality where you can discuss openly what is troubling you, a place where you’ll be listened to. It may be that you are stressed, angry, frustrated, anxious, depressed, feeling lost or simply stuck, not sure what to do or how to express how you feel. Maybe you have suffered a loss or a bereavement and need help to find your way of moving on. I will be accepting and non-judgemental of what you have to say and work with you to help you find your answer.
As a COSCA Accredited person-centred counsellor I provide a place of safety and confidentiality where you can discuss openly what is troubling you, a place where you’ll be listened to. It may be that you are stressed, angry, frustrated, anxious, depressed, feeling lost or simply stuck, not sure what to do or how to express how you feel. Maybe you have suffered a loss or a bereavement and need help to find your way of moving on. I will be accepting and non-judgemental of what you have to say and work with you to help you find your answer.
01542 285232 View 01542 285232

Online Therapists

Sarah Louise Anderson
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, and it’s not always easy to understand why. You might be navigating difficult emotions, facing changes, or feeling weighed down by experiences that are hard to put into words. If you’re feeling stuck, anxious, isolated, or unsure of how to move forward, you don’t have to face it alone.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, and it’s not always easy to understand why. You might be navigating difficult emotions, facing changes, or feeling weighed down by experiences that are hard to put into words. If you’re feeling stuck, anxious, isolated, or unsure of how to move forward, you don’t have to face it alone.
01875 444642 x44 View 01875 444642 x44
James McComas
Counsellor, MBACP
I am an experienced practitioner who offers counselling / psychotherapy from a person-centred perspective. I aim to support clients as they explore their unique situation and beliefs, enabling them to trust and understand themselves better. I help clients to Identify things that aren’t working in their lives and look at how these can be improved, so that life becomes more worth while and relationships with self and others more enriching. I provide a safe space where a person can be listened to without judgement. This creates a powerful experience which can lead to lasting positive change.
I am an experienced practitioner who offers counselling / psychotherapy from a person-centred perspective. I aim to support clients as they explore their unique situation and beliefs, enabling them to trust and understand themselves better. I help clients to Identify things that aren’t working in their lives and look at how these can be improved, so that life becomes more worth while and relationships with self and others more enriching. I provide a safe space where a person can be listened to without judgement. This creates a powerful experience which can lead to lasting positive change.
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Sara Blair
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Dunkeld PH8
We've all experienced difficult times in our lives. I'm here to help you navigate this period, to help you understand how you got to where you are, what your choices might be and how to move forward, in a meaningful way. I've worked with many different clients, and there are many therapeutic techniques and resources that there is no one size fits all. Together we'll find the right way for you.
We've all experienced difficult times in our lives. I'm here to help you navigate this period, to help you understand how you got to where you are, what your choices might be and how to move forward, in a meaningful way. I've worked with many different clients, and there are many therapeutic techniques and resources that there is no one size fits all. Together we'll find the right way for you.
01738 507390 View 01738 507390
Dr Anna Planedin
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hello, my name is Anna Planedin and my main approaches are psychodynamic and emotionally focused couples therapy. I help people find relief and movement from a place of feeling 'stuck.' I specialize in working with life transitions, loss, trauma, chronic pain, and sex/sexuality. I view therapy as a process of helping you listen to your gut feelings, find safety and containment and feel less alone in overwhelming experiences. It is my hope that through speaking about difficult or taboo feelings with me, you will feel understood and accepted, and that over time you feel more durable in how you respond to difficulty.
Hello, my name is Anna Planedin and my main approaches are psychodynamic and emotionally focused couples therapy. I help people find relief and movement from a place of feeling 'stuck.' I specialize in working with life transitions, loss, trauma, chronic pain, and sex/sexuality. I view therapy as a process of helping you listen to your gut feelings, find safety and containment and feel less alone in overwhelming experiences. It is my hope that through speaking about difficult or taboo feelings with me, you will feel understood and accepted, and that over time you feel more durable in how you respond to difficulty.
01764 915849 View 01764 915849
Highland Trauma Services
Verified Verified
Waitlist for new clients
Deciding on the right therapist needs careful consideration. Welcome to evidence based approaches which get to the heart of the matter. I offer assessment and treatment which is based on up to date neuroscience to help reclaim your life. We now know that common signs of unprocessed past traumatic life events can present as depression, anxiety, panic, phobia, social anxiety and / or addiction . Please look up Highland Trauma Services to learn a little more about my clinical experience and qualifications in mental health.
Deciding on the right therapist needs careful consideration. Welcome to evidence based approaches which get to the heart of the matter. I offer assessment and treatment which is based on up to date neuroscience to help reclaim your life. We now know that common signs of unprocessed past traumatic life events can present as depression, anxiety, panic, phobia, social anxiety and / or addiction . Please look up Highland Trauma Services to learn a little more about my clinical experience and qualifications in mental health.
01456 494629 View 01456 494629
Dr Alexander Fox
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Dundee DD1
I am Dr Alex Fox, an experienced counsellor and supervisor working online across the UK and in Dundee and St Andrews. I offer thoughtful, integrative counselling for people who may appear to be coping outwardly but feel anxious, flat, conflicted or disconnected within. My literary and philosophical background, including a PhD in English Literature and current PhD research in philosophy, informs my work with meaning, identity, loss and self-understanding. I often work well with reflective people who want counselling that honours complexity, including students, creatives, therapists and academics, and offer an LGBTQ+ affirming space.
I am Dr Alex Fox, an experienced counsellor and supervisor working online across the UK and in Dundee and St Andrews. I offer thoughtful, integrative counselling for people who may appear to be coping outwardly but feel anxious, flat, conflicted or disconnected within. My literary and philosophical background, including a PhD in English Literature and current PhD research in philosophy, informs my work with meaning, identity, loss and self-understanding. I often work well with reflective people who want counselling that honours complexity, including students, creatives, therapists and academics, and offer an LGBTQ+ affirming space.
07734 900796 View 07734 900796
Jamie Paterson
Psychotherapist, GMBPsS
Do you find it difficult to talk to those closest to you about your issues and concerns? Perhaps you don’t want to burden them or feel worried that they might judge or not understand what you are going through? I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others. As an integrative counsellor, I work with a variety of therapeutic approaches and methods, and combine them to suit the needs of each individual client.
Do you find it difficult to talk to those closest to you about your issues and concerns? Perhaps you don’t want to burden them or feel worried that they might judge or not understand what you are going through? I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others. As an integrative counsellor, I work with a variety of therapeutic approaches and methods, and combine them to suit the needs of each individual client.
020 3984 8598 View 020 3984 8598

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Sexual Addiction Counsellors
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behaviour.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviours and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, alcohol and substance use medications, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behaviour takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behaviour can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviours that feel uncontrollable.