Counselling in RM17
Are you struggling with life's challenges; have your challenges become overwhelming and unmanageable. Seeking support is a sign of strength and resilience. Do you want to take back control, together we can explore and understand your emotions, thoughts and behaviours. I provide an individualised approach to understanding your emotions and gain an awareness into your difficulties rooted in psychoanalytic, person centred and existential approach amongst many. At the core of my practice is the belief that healing comes from enriching the relationship with self. Various fears, traumas and worries impact the dynamic with self
Are you struggling with life's challenges; have your challenges become overwhelming and unmanageable. Seeking support is a sign of strength and resilience. Do you want to take back control, together we can explore and understand your emotions, thoughts and behaviours. I provide an individualised approach to understanding your emotions and gain an awareness into your difficulties rooted in psychoanalytic, person centred and existential approach amongst many. At the core of my practice is the belief that healing comes from enriching the relationship with self. Various fears, traumas and worries impact the dynamic with self
Therapy can be a place of warmth, exploration, relief, insight and even humour. You may be seeking help during a crisis, grappling with a longstanding issue that seems insurmountable, or simply aiming to delve deeper into self-discovery, or you may be looking for a welcoming, open, and supportive environment where you can express yourself securely and confidentially. I consider therapy a collaborative journey, where we work together to investigate the factors that have brought you to this point and empower you to uncover new paths forward.
Therapy can be a place of warmth, exploration, relief, insight and even humour. You may be seeking help during a crisis, grappling with a longstanding issue that seems insurmountable, or simply aiming to delve deeper into self-discovery, or you may be looking for a welcoming, open, and supportive environment where you can express yourself securely and confidentially. I consider therapy a collaborative journey, where we work together to investigate the factors that have brought you to this point and empower you to uncover new paths forward.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor. This means I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor. This means I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
Life can be difficult, and counselling can help explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist. I have over 18 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, children, young people and adults up to any age. I completed my placement hours at St Luke's Hospice and also volunteered after I qualified. I feel I use my skills to help you explore your difficult times to help you understand your situation. I offer counselling, short term or long term. I have worked with many different issues such as depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and difficulties with relationship issues.
Life can be difficult, and counselling can help explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist. I have over 18 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, children, young people and adults up to any age. I completed my placement hours at St Luke's Hospice and also volunteered after I qualified. I feel I use my skills to help you explore your difficult times to help you understand your situation. I offer counselling, short term or long term. I have worked with many different issues such as depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and difficulties with relationship issues.
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
Qualified Counsellor (MBACP) for children, young people and adults - telephone, online or Walk and Talk Therapy. My corgi is a registered therapy dog and can join us if you want. I work alongside children, young people & adults who are facing challenges in their life. As an integrative counsellor, I can draw from a variety of ideas and methods depending on what works best for you. My areas of experience & interest are: Walk and Talk Therapy, Neurodiversity- Autism, ADHD (diagnosed & undiagnosed), Emotional & relationship support, Anxiety/panic attacks/intrusive thoughts, Menopause, Disordered eating, Bereavement, Spirituality
Qualified Counsellor (MBACP) for children, young people and adults - telephone, online or Walk and Talk Therapy. My corgi is a registered therapy dog and can join us if you want. I work alongside children, young people & adults who are facing challenges in their life. As an integrative counsellor, I can draw from a variety of ideas and methods depending on what works best for you. My areas of experience & interest are: Walk and Talk Therapy, Neurodiversity- Autism, ADHD (diagnosed & undiagnosed), Emotional & relationship support, Anxiety/panic attacks/intrusive thoughts, Menopause, Disordered eating, Bereavement, Spirituality
Dr Lola Olukotun
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Grays RM17
Not accepting new clients
I have worked as a therapist for many years and enjoy helping people make sense of their experiences. I value hearing each person's story and supporting them to find inner calm, understanding, and change unhelpful patterns of thinking, behaving and relating to others. There are many reasons why people seek therapy and would like someone to talk to. I have specialist interest and experience in working with a variety of difficulties, primarily depression, anxiety, OCD, low self-esteem, stress &burnout, relationship issues and insecure attachment styles.
I have worked as a therapist for many years and enjoy helping people make sense of their experiences. I value hearing each person's story and supporting them to find inner calm, understanding, and change unhelpful patterns of thinking, behaving and relating to others. There are many reasons why people seek therapy and would like someone to talk to. I have specialist interest and experience in working with a variety of difficulties, primarily depression, anxiety, OCD, low self-esteem, stress &burnout, relationship issues and insecure attachment styles.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in RM17
< 10
Counsellors in RM17 who prioritize treating:
100% | Relationship Issues |
100% | Depression |
100% | Anxiety |
100% | Peer Relationships |
100% | Coping Skills |
100% | Self Esteem |
100% | Stress |
Average years in practice
8 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
100% | Cigna and Evernorth |
100% | Aviva |
100% | AXA PPP |
How Counsellors in RM17 see their clients
86% | In Person and Online | |
14% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
86% | Female | |
14% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in RM17?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.