Counselling in RH8
Are you struggling to cope with uncomfortable emotions or difficult circumstances? Are you feeling stuck and unable to find a way through? Would you like to find a way to strengthen your coping mechanisms and make positive changes? Have things been building up for a while and is it time to seek support? If so, I can help. I offer one-to-one therapy in London Victoria, Oxted and online and am experienced in supporting clients who are struggling with low self-esteem, unwanted patterns of behaviour, childhood difficulties, bereavement and relationship troubles or coping after divorce/separation.
Are you struggling to cope with uncomfortable emotions or difficult circumstances? Are you feeling stuck and unable to find a way through? Would you like to find a way to strengthen your coping mechanisms and make positive changes? Have things been building up for a while and is it time to seek support? If so, I can help. I offer one-to-one therapy in London Victoria, Oxted and online and am experienced in supporting clients who are struggling with low self-esteem, unwanted patterns of behaviour, childhood difficulties, bereavement and relationship troubles or coping after divorce/separation.
You might be here because you're feeling overwhelmed, seeking recovery, navigating specific challenges, or facing difficulties in your relationships. As a registered psychotherapist with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can feel truly seen and heard. My background includes a degree in Addiction Psychology and advanced training in Counselling and Psychotherapy, focusing on existential therapy. I am here to help you navigate life's complexities with empathy and understanding.
You might be here because you're feeling overwhelmed, seeking recovery, navigating specific challenges, or facing difficulties in your relationships. As a registered psychotherapist with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), I offer a calm, compassionate space where you can feel truly seen and heard. My background includes a degree in Addiction Psychology and advanced training in Counselling and Psychotherapy, focusing on existential therapy. I am here to help you navigate life's complexities with empathy and understanding.
I am an Individual and Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist with my own private Practice and a Visiting Clinician to Tavistock Relationships. I have 20 years experience working as a Psychotherapist in the NHS on inpatient and outpatient units. At Tavistock Relationships I work with couples in open-ended Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. As a member of The British Psychotherapy Foundation, I am registered with the BPC and a Graduate Member of the Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology (TR) I have an MA in Psychoanalytic work with Couples.
I am an Individual and Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist with my own private Practice and a Visiting Clinician to Tavistock Relationships. I have 20 years experience working as a Psychotherapist in the NHS on inpatient and outpatient units. At Tavistock Relationships I work with couples in open-ended Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy. As a member of The British Psychotherapy Foundation, I am registered with the BPC and a Graduate Member of the Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology (TR) I have an MA in Psychoanalytic work with Couples.
Psychological distress is not always visible. Nevertheless it can affect us quite deeply. Sometimes self-esteem is undermined, sometimes we just don't seem to achieve our potential and we don't know why that is. Sometimes we have a very clear understanding of why we are suffering but don't feel able to cope with it on our own or find ways to work through to a better place. Counselling, psychotherapy and analysis are there to offer us a way forward.
Psychological distress is not always visible. Nevertheless it can affect us quite deeply. Sometimes self-esteem is undermined, sometimes we just don't seem to achieve our potential and we don't know why that is. Sometimes we have a very clear understanding of why we are suffering but don't feel able to cope with it on our own or find ways to work through to a better place. Counselling, psychotherapy and analysis are there to offer us a way forward.
Hi, I am Russell and I run a private counselling practice called Woven Counselling. I believe in offering a therapeutic experience that is as unique and individualised as each person who walks through my door. Woven Counselling draws on the multi-layered aspects of therapy. A process of exploration and the unravelling of the many tightly woven threads of life that can cause challenge and conflict. These threads include our own unique experience of childhood, as a young person the process of forming a unique identity and seeking where we belong, and as an adult a culmination in all that has gone before that shapes our view view.
Hi, I am Russell and I run a private counselling practice called Woven Counselling. I believe in offering a therapeutic experience that is as unique and individualised as each person who walks through my door. Woven Counselling draws on the multi-layered aspects of therapy. A process of exploration and the unravelling of the many tightly woven threads of life that can cause challenge and conflict. These threads include our own unique experience of childhood, as a young person the process of forming a unique identity and seeking where we belong, and as an adult a culmination in all that has gone before that shapes our view view.
I work with clients who have experienced some or all of the following: anxious thoughts, depression, grief, trauma, low mood, relationship attachment issues, psychosis or mental health disorders. Whether you come to therapy with a feeling that something is not right or needs to change, or after a triggering event or significant life change, I offer a steady, reflective space where we can explore what is happening for you at a pace that feels manageable. Together, we can look at patterns that have developed over time and how past and present relationships may be affecting you in a confidential and compassionate space.
I work with clients who have experienced some or all of the following: anxious thoughts, depression, grief, trauma, low mood, relationship attachment issues, psychosis or mental health disorders. Whether you come to therapy with a feeling that something is not right or needs to change, or after a triggering event or significant life change, I offer a steady, reflective space where we can explore what is happening for you at a pace that feels manageable. Together, we can look at patterns that have developed over time and how past and present relationships may be affecting you in a confidential and compassionate space.
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals and couples. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
I'm an experienced BACP registered counsellor, working with individuals and couples. I also have extensive experience working with teenagers and young adults. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, empathic environment in which to work with clients. I use a range of therapeutic approaches, therefore I will tailor our work in a way that best fits you. I will work at your pace and we can work on self awareness, insight and understanding. Together we will work through any difficult emotions and struggles, to enable positive change.
I am a fully accredited CBT Therapist . Have you been struggling with low mood, depression, anxiety, stress, burn out? Do you feel exhausted of the constant worry and overwhelming emotions? Do you have unwanted thoughts or feeling stuck in repeated patterns of thoughts or behaviours? Do not struggle on your own. Understand yourself better, learn new copying techniques, reconnect with your values, reclaim your life back. I have been privileged seeing people change and grow even in the midst of the most challenging life experiences or events.
I am a fully accredited CBT Therapist . Have you been struggling with low mood, depression, anxiety, stress, burn out? Do you feel exhausted of the constant worry and overwhelming emotions? Do you have unwanted thoughts or feeling stuck in repeated patterns of thoughts or behaviours? Do not struggle on your own. Understand yourself better, learn new copying techniques, reconnect with your values, reclaim your life back. I have been privileged seeing people change and grow even in the midst of the most challenging life experiences or events.
I am a warm and caring Relate trained counsellor. I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy. Maybe you've been growing apart, or something has happened that has disturbed the core of your relationship? Or you're an individual questioning whether you can be in a/ or any relationship. You don't have to face these issues alone. Sometimes counselling isn't about reaching a conclusion, it can be the start a longer process. The important thing to recognise is that the moment you have got in contact; you will begin to move forward. I counsel on a general level too.
I am a warm and caring Relate trained counsellor. I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy. Maybe you've been growing apart, or something has happened that has disturbed the core of your relationship? Or you're an individual questioning whether you can be in a/ or any relationship. You don't have to face these issues alone. Sometimes counselling isn't about reaching a conclusion, it can be the start a longer process. The important thing to recognise is that the moment you have got in contact; you will begin to move forward. I counsel on a general level too.
Are you at a crossroads in life? struggling with your mental health? feeling sad, anxious, depressed? With over 10 years’ experience I specialise in helping clients work through the issues that are bothering them, find answers to their problems and move forward positively and with confidence. I see adult individuals and couples at two locations in Kent and Sussex as well as online. I work with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in repeating patterns in their life and relationships. Clients often come to me with anxiety, low self-worth, relationship difficulties, or during periods of transition or uncertainty.
Are you at a crossroads in life? struggling with your mental health? feeling sad, anxious, depressed? With over 10 years’ experience I specialise in helping clients work through the issues that are bothering them, find answers to their problems and move forward positively and with confidence. I see adult individuals and couples at two locations in Kent and Sussex as well as online. I work with people who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in repeating patterns in their life and relationships. Clients often come to me with anxiety, low self-worth, relationship difficulties, or during periods of transition or uncertainty.
You may be finding life difficult or painful. This may be due to a relationship problem or something that you experienced in the past. You may feel you can barely cope with the demands and responsibilities of life. You may be suffering from low mood or a general sense of dissatisfaction. You may feel a sense of bereavement or loss. Perhaps you are aware of being angry a lot of the time. You could have noticed patterns of behaviour in your life and you wonder why. You may feel you have issues connected with spirituality or religion. These feelings and thoughts can be explored in the safety and containment of counselling.
You may be finding life difficult or painful. This may be due to a relationship problem or something that you experienced in the past. You may feel you can barely cope with the demands and responsibilities of life. You may be suffering from low mood or a general sense of dissatisfaction. You may feel a sense of bereavement or loss. Perhaps you are aware of being angry a lot of the time. You could have noticed patterns of behaviour in your life and you wonder why. You may feel you have issues connected with spirituality or religion. These feelings and thoughts can be explored in the safety and containment of counselling.
Come as you are – especially the parts you’ve had to hide. All of you is welcome here.
Maybe you’ve been holding things together for a long time – or trying to – but something doesn’t feel right. You can’t always name it, but it’s there: the unease, the heaviness, the sense that something’s missing. Maybe you’re tired of playing a role and not knowing who you are underneath it all. Maybe you feel lost, disconnected or unsure how to share parts of yourself you’ve always kept hidden. Maybe you’ve got things to say that you’ve never found the right person to share them with.
Come as you are – especially the parts you’ve had to hide. All of you is welcome here.
Maybe you’ve been holding things together for a long time – or trying to – but something doesn’t feel right. You can’t always name it, but it’s there: the unease, the heaviness, the sense that something’s missing. Maybe you’re tired of playing a role and not knowing who you are underneath it all. Maybe you feel lost, disconnected or unsure how to share parts of yourself you’ve always kept hidden. Maybe you’ve got things to say that you’ve never found the right person to share them with.
For the last 25 years, I have been involved in the rich and creative dialogue between depth psychological and meditative approaches to personal growth, emotional healing, and spiritual transformation. I’ve been a therapist for 23 years now . My special areas of interest are mid life crisis and beyond DEPRESSION, drug and alcohol dependence and Relationships . I worked as a bereavement counsellor for St Catherine’s hospice for four years and hence have valuable experience in this area . Narcissistic Pd. Anxiety disorders . Alcohol snd Drug addiction. Sex addiction Couple Counselling. Gas lighting snd abusive Relationship. Porn addic
For the last 25 years, I have been involved in the rich and creative dialogue between depth psychological and meditative approaches to personal growth, emotional healing, and spiritual transformation. I’ve been a therapist for 23 years now . My special areas of interest are mid life crisis and beyond DEPRESSION, drug and alcohol dependence and Relationships . I worked as a bereavement counsellor for St Catherine’s hospice for four years and hence have valuable experience in this area . Narcissistic Pd. Anxiety disorders . Alcohol snd Drug addiction. Sex addiction Couple Counselling. Gas lighting snd abusive Relationship. Porn addic
Anxiety, low mood, stress or just that feeling of being "stuck" can make life really difficult sometimes. Life events such as bereavement, job loss, relationship problems, divorce, trauma or illness can leave us feeling uncertain, down, hopeless, and anxious. This is where I can help you. I have a wealth of life experience and together we can tackle whatever problems you have and get you to a place where life is easier for you and you are not only happier in yourself, but more confident and better equipped to face whatever challenges may lie ahead.
Anxiety, low mood, stress or just that feeling of being "stuck" can make life really difficult sometimes. Life events such as bereavement, job loss, relationship problems, divorce, trauma or illness can leave us feeling uncertain, down, hopeless, and anxious. This is where I can help you. I have a wealth of life experience and together we can tackle whatever problems you have and get you to a place where life is easier for you and you are not only happier in yourself, but more confident and better equipped to face whatever challenges may lie ahead.
Hi, I’m Emily.
Welcome to the world of counselling, and welcome back if you’ve been here before. It would be a privilege to work with you.
I am an integrative counsellor. This means our work will draw on a variety of counselling techniques such as IFS, CBT and creative methods. At my core I practice Gestalt therapy; a relational approach dealing with the 'here and now'. We can discuss any particular interest in a modality during our initial call.
I believe the relationship is the most important part of the therapeutic process and so our sessions would be client-lead whilst bringing my authentic self as well.
Hi, I’m Emily.
Welcome to the world of counselling, and welcome back if you’ve been here before. It would be a privilege to work with you.
I am an integrative counsellor. This means our work will draw on a variety of counselling techniques such as IFS, CBT and creative methods. At my core I practice Gestalt therapy; a relational approach dealing with the 'here and now'. We can discuss any particular interest in a modality during our initial call.
I believe the relationship is the most important part of the therapeutic process and so our sessions would be client-lead whilst bringing my authentic self as well.
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.
I work with people who are struggling with different life situations such as addictive behaviours, fertility concerns, alcoholism, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, miscarriage and bereavement and many more. I help you to empower and resource yourself so that change feels possible. I am here to listen and encourage you to become more attuned to your inner needs, providing you with greater freedom of choice and creativity. I am passionate about providing a safe space where you feel comfortable and heard.
Struggling with anxiety, work/exam stress, self-esteem issues, feeling out of control or that you've 'lost yourself'? Whatever is affecting your mental health and wellbeing, together we can talk it through, explore the issues that arise, and look at your options to discover some coping strategies and goals that work for you. I provide a 'safe' caring environment - unbiased and non-judgemental - for clients to talk about their worries and issues in confidence, enabling a positive way forward. I offer emotional support to all ages, with the focus on YOU as an individual.
Struggling with anxiety, work/exam stress, self-esteem issues, feeling out of control or that you've 'lost yourself'? Whatever is affecting your mental health and wellbeing, together we can talk it through, explore the issues that arise, and look at your options to discover some coping strategies and goals that work for you. I provide a 'safe' caring environment - unbiased and non-judgemental - for clients to talk about their worries and issues in confidence, enabling a positive way forward. I offer emotional support to all ages, with the focus on YOU as an individual.
I work as a Complex Trauma/Childhood Abuse & Relationship Therapist, supporting individuals/couples who are "stuck", experiencing issues of high anxiety; anger; stress and distress around a life events, especially if you have a learning disability or autism. Therapy with me is about managing and reducing the impact. If it is not dealt with sooner, it can trigger hidden deeper issues related to past events related to unspeakable trauma, childhood abuse or dissociation (a sense of detachment from your former self), or even suicidal thoughts, identity issues "Who am I?" Restoring a sense of calm and balance in life stops this chaos.
I work as a Complex Trauma/Childhood Abuse & Relationship Therapist, supporting individuals/couples who are "stuck", experiencing issues of high anxiety; anger; stress and distress around a life events, especially if you have a learning disability or autism. Therapy with me is about managing and reducing the impact. If it is not dealt with sooner, it can trigger hidden deeper issues related to past events related to unspeakable trauma, childhood abuse or dissociation (a sense of detachment from your former self), or even suicidal thoughts, identity issues "Who am I?" Restoring a sense of calm and balance in life stops this chaos.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in RH8
20+
Average cost per session
£70
Counsellors in RH8 who prioritize treating:
| 91% | Anxiety |
| 83% | Depression |
| 83% | Self Esteem |
| 78% | Bereavement |
| 74% | Relationship Issues |
| 70% | Stress |
| 65% | Life Transitions |
Average years in practice
18 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 80% | Aviva |
| 60% | AXA PPP |
| 60% | Bupa |
How Counsellors in RH8 see their clients
| 87% | In Person and Online | |
| 13% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 73% | Female | |
| 27% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in RH8?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.