Relationship Issues Counselling in Southampton

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Jane Gosnell-Lee
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO40
Hi, I'm a Counsellor and Psychotherapist based in Marchwood, near Southampton but also offer online/ telephone and couple therapy sessions. Counselling is a place to help you explore the personal worries and issues you face. I aim to listen in an accepting, understanding, therapeutic and confidential way to build a warm, honest, genuine and open relationship between us in which you find trust in me and yourself, to explore your personal world. I believe this will enable you to reflect and make the best decisions for yourself in order to develop your own personal growth.
Hi, I'm a Counsellor and Psychotherapist based in Marchwood, near Southampton but also offer online/ telephone and couple therapy sessions. Counselling is a place to help you explore the personal worries and issues you face. I aim to listen in an accepting, understanding, therapeutic and confidential way to build a warm, honest, genuine and open relationship between us in which you find trust in me and yourself, to explore your personal world. I believe this will enable you to reflect and make the best decisions for yourself in order to develop your own personal growth.
023 9387 6265 View 023 9387 6265
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Conny Golde
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southampton SO14
My specialities are relationship issues, anxiety and anger management.
A warm welcome! Working with a qualified therapist can help you gain insight and move forward. Together we can work towards solutions when you feel stuck, or want to simply explore an issue. A fresh focus can help you find better coping strategies to manage difficulties. I offer couples counselling and help couples to improve their communication and support them with psycho-sexual issues.
My specialities are relationship issues, anxiety and anger management.
A warm welcome! Working with a qualified therapist can help you gain insight and move forward. Together we can work towards solutions when you feel stuck, or want to simply explore an issue. A fresh focus can help you find better coping strategies to manage difficulties. I offer couples counselling and help couples to improve their communication and support them with psycho-sexual issues.
023 9431 1938 View 023 9431 1938
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Orah Bradshaw
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Southampton SO31
I will teach you how to overcome relationship barriers to connection, increase your competence as a couple and help you integrate a toolkit of evidenced-based interventions into your lives.
Do you believe you are doing the best you can but unfortunately often end up experiencing repetitive cycles of hurt and misunderstanding? When couples enter my counselling room, they are often filled with pain and despair. They look to me, to address their conflicts, help them recover from distress and repair their relationships.
I will teach you how to overcome relationship barriers to connection, increase your competence as a couple and help you integrate a toolkit of evidenced-based interventions into your lives.
Do you believe you are doing the best you can but unfortunately often end up experiencing repetitive cycles of hurt and misunderstanding? When couples enter my counselling room, they are often filled with pain and despair. They look to me, to address their conflicts, help them recover from distress and repair their relationships.
023 8235 3732 View 023 8235 3732
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Helen Phillips
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO18
I am a DipHE Gestalt Humanistic Counsellor with over 15 years’ experience - based in Bitterne, Southampton. My main areas of expertise are drugs and alcohol addiction Issues, relationship difficulties, narcissistic abuse, ADHD, Autism, anxiety and depression. Are you having problems with managing your drinking or drug use and things in your life have become unmanageable? Are you finding it difficult to maintain your relationships with people? Are looking for a calm, centred, caring counsellor who can support you with your difficulties and provide safe space for you to talk?
I am a DipHE Gestalt Humanistic Counsellor with over 15 years’ experience - based in Bitterne, Southampton. My main areas of expertise are drugs and alcohol addiction Issues, relationship difficulties, narcissistic abuse, ADHD, Autism, anxiety and depression. Are you having problems with managing your drinking or drug use and things in your life have become unmanageable? Are you finding it difficult to maintain your relationships with people? Are looking for a calm, centred, caring counsellor who can support you with your difficulties and provide safe space for you to talk?
01489 663132 View 01489 663132
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Clare Lay
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO32
I am a fully qualified Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist in private practice, I trained with Relate and a member of the BACP, NCPS and am a Registered Member of COSRT (Regulatory body for sex therapists). At my Private Practice in Hampshire, LinkedUp Counselling (Please see website), I help individual and couple clients with relationship challenges, including communication and intimacy. I also offer therapy called "Single Session Therapy" where it is possible to come along for a slightly longer session and discuss one issue, with more help available if this is not enough.
I am a fully qualified Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist in private practice, I trained with Relate and a member of the BACP, NCPS and am a Registered Member of COSRT (Regulatory body for sex therapists). At my Private Practice in Hampshire, LinkedUp Counselling (Please see website), I help individual and couple clients with relationship challenges, including communication and intimacy. I also offer therapy called "Single Session Therapy" where it is possible to come along for a slightly longer session and discuss one issue, with more help available if this is not enough.
01489 357130 View 01489 357130
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Graham Shavick
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO32
Do you need help with relationship issues? Are you suffering from anxiety or depression? Are you struggling with stress in in your work or career? I provide a warm, caring, safe space for you to explore whatever you need. I also offer couples and family counselling, and coaching. Depending on what you need, we can work short term on specific issues, longer term in-depth psychotherapy, or coaching where I can help you achieve success and fulfilment in your personal or professional life. I find supporting people, helping them develop and grow particularly engaging and meaningful.
Do you need help with relationship issues? Are you suffering from anxiety or depression? Are you struggling with stress in in your work or career? I provide a warm, caring, safe space for you to explore whatever you need. I also offer couples and family counselling, and coaching. Depending on what you need, we can work short term on specific issues, longer term in-depth psychotherapy, or coaching where I can help you achieve success and fulfilment in your personal or professional life. I find supporting people, helping them develop and grow particularly engaging and meaningful.
01489 660530 View 01489 660530
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Nicki Wisbey
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southampton SO18
Waitlist for new clients
My approach is focused on the importance of communication and the relationship and how we interact with ourselves and others.
Hello and welcome. I am an experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist working with both couples and individuals. Sometimes life gets too much for us, it can be overwhelming, confusing and frightening. I offer a warm safe space for you to explore your thoughts and worries without judgement, where we can start to make sense of what’s happening together and where you can develop strength and resilience and find healthier ways to manage life’s pressures.
My approach is focused on the importance of communication and the relationship and how we interact with ourselves and others.
Hello and welcome. I am an experienced Counsellor and Psychotherapist working with both couples and individuals. Sometimes life gets too much for us, it can be overwhelming, confusing and frightening. I offer a warm safe space for you to explore your thoughts and worries without judgement, where we can start to make sense of what’s happening together and where you can develop strength and resilience and find healthier ways to manage life’s pressures.
01489 662958 View 01489 662958
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Azra Therapy - BACP (Acc), EMDR, MSc MH Psy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Southampton SO16  (Online Only)
I offer a safe and confidential space and a therapeutic relationship to explore what's pushing you down or holding you back in life. I want to help you move forward from difficult experiences, and to gain more freedom, ease, and creativity in your life. As a BACP accredited eclectic therapist (mixed approaches) with a background in mental health and various psychological therapies, I hold a balance between different theories and therapeutic approaches in line with your specific needs. I have worked with lots of British clients including British South Asians / Pakistani's and India's because I share the same cultural background.
I offer a safe and confidential space and a therapeutic relationship to explore what's pushing you down or holding you back in life. I want to help you move forward from difficult experiences, and to gain more freedom, ease, and creativity in your life. As a BACP accredited eclectic therapist (mixed approaches) with a background in mental health and various psychological therapies, I hold a balance between different theories and therapeutic approaches in line with your specific needs. I have worked with lots of British clients including British South Asians / Pakistani's and India's because I share the same cultural background.
023 8235 9771 View 023 8235 9771
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Alison Curtis
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southampton SO16
I am an experienced, results-focused Relationship Specialist, & have worked in this area for the past 16 years. I am a qualified relationship coach; a master NLP practitioner, & a relationship counsellor/therapist. I work in industry helping leaders navigate difficult relationships with their colleagues…and I do the same for couples with a lot of success. Over the years, I have spent in advance of £30K on my own continuing professional development which has all been relationships-focused, & I continue to invest heavily in my own development today. I charge more than most counsellors so please be aware of this when reaching out.
I am an experienced, results-focused Relationship Specialist, & have worked in this area for the past 16 years. I am a qualified relationship coach; a master NLP practitioner, & a relationship counsellor/therapist. I work in industry helping leaders navigate difficult relationships with their colleagues…and I do the same for couples with a lot of success. Over the years, I have spent in advance of £30K on my own continuing professional development which has all been relationships-focused, & I continue to invest heavily in my own development today. I charge more than most counsellors so please be aware of this when reaching out.
023 8214 7088 View 023 8214 7088
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Gemma Evans Counselling
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO30
I work with adults of all ages, genders & sexualities to heal from anxiety, depression, bereavement, abuse & relationship difficulties.
Hello. I'm Gemma, a qualified and registered Counsellor. I offer one-to-one counselling to adults from my private practice in Hedge End, Southampton. If you're here, chances are you're looking for help...You may be struggling with a personal issue and feeling that something has to change. You might be feeling anxious and alone with your problem and wondering if anyone will understand. Maybe a recent loss or life change has left you feeling like you cannot cope. Or perhaps experiences from your past are affecting your ability to live your life fully today.
I work with adults of all ages, genders & sexualities to heal from anxiety, depression, bereavement, abuse & relationship difficulties.
Hello. I'm Gemma, a qualified and registered Counsellor. I offer one-to-one counselling to adults from my private practice in Hedge End, Southampton. If you're here, chances are you're looking for help...You may be struggling with a personal issue and feeling that something has to change. You might be feeling anxious and alone with your problem and wondering if anyone will understand. Maybe a recent loss or life change has left you feeling like you cannot cope. Or perhaps experiences from your past are affecting your ability to live your life fully today.
01489 665883 View 01489 665883
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Zoe Ross
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO30
I can provide general support or give you the opportunity to look at specific concerns such as loss or relationship issues.
Hello and welcome. Perhaps you are going through a difficult time at the moment. Each of us can go through times when we find it difficult to cope. We can feel stressed, and alone. Exploring your thoughts and feelings in a confidential space where you won’t feel judged can be a step towards clarity and change. You may feel anxious, depressed or suffer from low self-esteem. I believe each person can help themselves find the way forward towards achieving their full potential and leading happier lives. I can help you to understand yourself and to recognise changes that you can make to ease discomfort that you may be experiencing.
I can provide general support or give you the opportunity to look at specific concerns such as loss or relationship issues.
Hello and welcome. Perhaps you are going through a difficult time at the moment. Each of us can go through times when we find it difficult to cope. We can feel stressed, and alone. Exploring your thoughts and feelings in a confidential space where you won’t feel judged can be a step towards clarity and change. You may feel anxious, depressed or suffer from low self-esteem. I believe each person can help themselves find the way forward towards achieving their full potential and leading happier lives. I can help you to understand yourself and to recognise changes that you can make to ease discomfort that you may be experiencing.
01329 557309 View 01329 557309
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Debbie Miles
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southampton SO32
Life can sometimes feel confusing, you may feel overwhelmed or stuck. Perhaps you have experienced anxious thoughts, change, loss, or relationship difficulties. Events such as these can be difficult to make sense of and leave you feeling unsettled. Counselling offers a unique opportunity to explore concerns, challenges, or anxieties. I provide a non-judgemental space where you can feel safe to express your thoughts and feelings and I will work with you to explore whatever arises. I am a fully qualified, psychodynamic counsellor with over 6 years' experience supporting adult clients within a counselling service and private practice.
Life can sometimes feel confusing, you may feel overwhelmed or stuck. Perhaps you have experienced anxious thoughts, change, loss, or relationship difficulties. Events such as these can be difficult to make sense of and leave you feeling unsettled. Counselling offers a unique opportunity to explore concerns, challenges, or anxieties. I provide a non-judgemental space where you can feel safe to express your thoughts and feelings and I will work with you to explore whatever arises. I am a fully qualified, psychodynamic counsellor with over 6 years' experience supporting adult clients within a counselling service and private practice.
023 9421 4619 View 023 9421 4619
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Clare Webber
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO19
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I also travel across Hampshire, Southampton, Portsmouth and parts of Dorset to peoples homes. I see myself as a multi-skilled counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, and TA counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I also travel across Hampshire, Southampton, Portsmouth and parts of Dorset to peoples homes. I see myself as a multi-skilled counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, and TA counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
023 9431 1229 View 023 9431 1229
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Helen-Melissa Crew
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO31
Are you feeling sad, anxious or stressed? Is life feeling overwhelming or too challenging? Perhaps you are needing help to overcome anxiety, panic attacks, depression, are suffering low self-confidence or are experiencing relationship or family difficulties? Whatever your reason for counselling, whether it's big or small... get in touch to see how I can help. I am a fully qualified BACP Counsellor and Psychotherapist offering a professional, confidential Counselling Service.
Are you feeling sad, anxious or stressed? Is life feeling overwhelming or too challenging? Perhaps you are needing help to overcome anxiety, panic attacks, depression, are suffering low self-confidence or are experiencing relationship or family difficulties? Whatever your reason for counselling, whether it's big or small... get in touch to see how I can help. I am a fully qualified BACP Counsellor and Psychotherapist offering a professional, confidential Counselling Service.
07881 743121 View 07881 743121
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Jigsaw Counselling & Coaching
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO17
These experiences have given me the ability to sit with the uncomfortable, and create a therapeutic relationship which is non-judgemental and warm.
Does life sometimes feel like a jigsaw puzzle with pieces not slotting together? I am a great believer that we need to invest in ourselves. When life becomes difficult and those pieces are just not fitting, therapy gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, make you the priority in an otherwise busy life. I have been through such times and it encouraged me to train as a counsellor then a psychotherapist to help clients with general mental health issues and other life difficulties, such as grief and other losses, addiction, sexuality, relationships, domestic abuse and anger issues.
These experiences have given me the ability to sit with the uncomfortable, and create a therapeutic relationship which is non-judgemental and warm.
Does life sometimes feel like a jigsaw puzzle with pieces not slotting together? I am a great believer that we need to invest in ourselves. When life becomes difficult and those pieces are just not fitting, therapy gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, make you the priority in an otherwise busy life. I have been through such times and it encouraged me to train as a counsellor then a psychotherapist to help clients with general mental health issues and other life difficulties, such as grief and other losses, addiction, sexuality, relationships, domestic abuse and anger issues.
023 8235 6142 View 023 8235 6142
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Haven Counselling & Coaching (Rob Stroud)
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO18
Are you looking for help trying to manage how you think, feel and act? Whether it's anxiety, low-mood, a relationship difficulty or something else, you are probably wanting to find practical strategies and tools to make life work better for you. Maybe you're unsure where to start or what exactly the problem is.
Are you looking for help trying to manage how you think, feel and act? Whether it's anxiety, low-mood, a relationship difficulty or something else, you are probably wanting to find practical strategies and tools to make life work better for you. Maybe you're unsure where to start or what exactly the problem is.
01329 551359 View 01329 551359
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Grace Durden
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO32
I work with a humanistic style and specialise in relationship issues, trauma, abuse, loss of identity and shame.
We are living in a world where we have forgotten how to communicate. Stuck on our phones and in our online world. Are you struggling with the idea that the social contract is broken? Do you feel you have lost your identity, lost your purpose, do you have feelings of being stuck, are life changes affecting you, do you want to know who are you now? Your experiences write your story. Let’s work out how your stories affect your relationships with yourself and others. Who do you want to be? What do you want the rest of your story to say?
I work with a humanistic style and specialise in relationship issues, trauma, abuse, loss of identity and shame.
We are living in a world where we have forgotten how to communicate. Stuck on our phones and in our online world. Are you struggling with the idea that the social contract is broken? Do you feel you have lost your identity, lost your purpose, do you have feelings of being stuck, are life changes affecting you, do you want to know who are you now? Your experiences write your story. Let’s work out how your stories affect your relationships with yourself and others. Who do you want to be? What do you want the rest of your story to say?
01329 551395 View 01329 551395
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Clearer Skies Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO14
I can help you to process life events, explore relationship difficulties, manage anxiety, improve self esteem, understand your sexuality and many more issues.
Hello, I'm Aimee, my style of counselling is warm, empathic and down to earth. Together we can explore a way forward for you. Maybe you have never had counselling before and but you are interested to know if it could help you? You might want someone to look at relationship patterns with you or have you got difficult anxious feelings? Maybe you are not sure what you want to change? Together we can explore what it is you need from therapy.
I can help you to process life events, explore relationship difficulties, manage anxiety, improve self esteem, understand your sexuality and many more issues.
Hello, I'm Aimee, my style of counselling is warm, empathic and down to earth. Together we can explore a way forward for you. Maybe you have never had counselling before and but you are interested to know if it could help you? You might want someone to look at relationship patterns with you or have you got difficult anxious feelings? Maybe you are not sure what you want to change? Together we can explore what it is you need from therapy.
07403 940927 View 07403 940927
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Dale Fewings
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Southampton SO18
Hi, and welcome to my profile page. I guess you're here reading this because there is something going on in your life at the moment that you're struggling to deal with. Perhaps you're feeling anxious or depressed and you know you're not you, but need some help finding out why and how to move forward. It could be a work issue, difficulties in a relationship or a lack of confidence or self-esteem. Today's world can be a stressful place to live. The Pandemic, Cost of living and Climate Crisies, may all be having an effect on your mental health. The good news is, you've taken the first and often most difficult step; looking for help.
Hi, and welcome to my profile page. I guess you're here reading this because there is something going on in your life at the moment that you're struggling to deal with. Perhaps you're feeling anxious or depressed and you know you're not you, but need some help finding out why and how to move forward. It could be a work issue, difficulties in a relationship or a lack of confidence or self-esteem. Today's world can be a stressful place to live. The Pandemic, Cost of living and Climate Crisies, may all be having an effect on your mental health. The good news is, you've taken the first and often most difficult step; looking for help.
023 8001 2327 View 023 8001 2327
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Isa Delannoy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southampton SO14
I help clients from 16 up to understand their relationship difficulties whether with other people or with themselves. Together, we can decide what we focus on and what is the best approach for you. I see clients online and in person, either outdoors or indoors.
I help clients from 16 up to understand their relationship difficulties whether with other people or with themselves. Together, we can decide what we focus on and what is the best approach for you. I see clients online and in person, either outdoors or indoors.
023 9431 1821 View 023 9431 1821

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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.