Relationship Issues Counselling in Nottingham

Photo of Teresa Bee Counselling, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Teresa Bee Counselling
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG1
  My specialism is working with young adults; students and staff in Higher Education and Education; trauma, dissociation, mental health issues; loss and grief; life-limiting illness, complex health issues; anxiety, self-esteem; relationship difficulties, life challenges and changes.
I offer short-term counselling, where we can work through more immediate and specific problems and longer-term psychotherapy for more intricate and deeper exploration. Whatever you have experienced, my aim is to help you move forward and benefit from the way you want to live your life. I understand how the impact of trauma on our lives creates a block in how we think and behave; where our past can overshadow or impede our view of our present life. With grief & loss, I recognise the parallel process of coping with our daily lives whilst managing a roller coaster of emotions and feelings that is both challenging and exhausting.
  My specialism is working with young adults; students and staff in Higher Education and Education; trauma, dissociation, mental health issues; loss and grief; life-limiting illness, complex health issues; anxiety, self-esteem; relationship difficulties, life challenges and changes.
I offer short-term counselling, where we can work through more immediate and specific problems and longer-term psychotherapy for more intricate and deeper exploration. Whatever you have experienced, my aim is to help you move forward and benefit from the way you want to live your life. I understand how the impact of trauma on our lives creates a block in how we think and behave; where our past can overshadow or impede our view of our present life. With grief & loss, I recognise the parallel process of coping with our daily lives whilst managing a roller coaster of emotions and feelings that is both challenging and exhausting.
0115 824 4286 View 0115 824 4286
Photo of Sarah Crutchley, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Sarah Crutchley
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG2
The relationship we build with each other will form an important part of the therapy, which is why it is necessary for us to have a telephone conversation so we can both decide if we are the right fit for each other.
A very warm welcome. You may be considering some professional support to help you with life's challenges. I know life can be tough at times for a variety of reasons, and we can find ourselves feeling out of control and under pressure, leaving us struggling and feeling lost, not knowing who to turn to for help and support. It may help you to share your thoughts and feelings, and in doing so you will be positioning yourself in the direction of potential growth, healing and change, which can help you manage your challenges and day to day life.
The relationship we build with each other will form an important part of the therapy, which is why it is necessary for us to have a telephone conversation so we can both decide if we are the right fit for each other.
A very warm welcome. You may be considering some professional support to help you with life's challenges. I know life can be tough at times for a variety of reasons, and we can find ourselves feeling out of control and under pressure, leaving us struggling and feeling lost, not knowing who to turn to for help and support. It may help you to share your thoughts and feelings, and in doing so you will be positioning yourself in the direction of potential growth, healing and change, which can help you manage your challenges and day to day life.
0115 824 5693 View 0115 824 5693
Photo of Elizabeth Cooper, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Elizabeth Cooper
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
We can work together to build a trusting relationship, to make sense of your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
Life can often be difficult and hard, and we find ourselves in pain or stuck. Whether you are dreading getting out of bed in the morning, struggling with the relationships you are in or feeling unsettled and anxious, psychotherapy can be a great place to explore these areas of your life, in a confidential, safe and supportively challenging space. There is real potential for healing, personal learning and growth.
We can work together to build a trusting relationship, to make sense of your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
Life can often be difficult and hard, and we find ourselves in pain or stuck. Whether you are dreading getting out of bed in the morning, struggling with the relationships you are in or feeling unsettled and anxious, psychotherapy can be a great place to explore these areas of your life, in a confidential, safe and supportively challenging space. There is real potential for healing, personal learning and growth.
0115 647 4028 View 0115 647 4028
Photo of Denise Heritage, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Denise Heritage
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
Together we will build a therapeutic relationship that enables you to explore the issues you bring at your own pace.
Life can be difficult and sometimes we need support to help us navigate through the challenges we face. Sometimes we can feel stuck or like something is missing in our lives. You may be experiencing significant life events such as bereavement, redundancy or divorce. Whatever it is I offer a space where you can feel safe and supported to explore what you are finding difficult. Your experience is unique to you and together we will increase awareness of your feelings and understanding of what your needs are. To encourage and promote healing, change and growth for you.
Together we will build a therapeutic relationship that enables you to explore the issues you bring at your own pace.
Life can be difficult and sometimes we need support to help us navigate through the challenges we face. Sometimes we can feel stuck or like something is missing in our lives. You may be experiencing significant life events such as bereavement, redundancy or divorce. Whatever it is I offer a space where you can feel safe and supported to explore what you are finding difficult. Your experience is unique to you and together we will increase awareness of your feelings and understanding of what your needs are. To encourage and promote healing, change and growth for you.
0115 647 3451 View 0115 647 3451
Photo of Natasha Page, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Natasha Page
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG2
Each person is unique, and each relationship is individual therefore I integrate a range of theoretical and philosophical approaches to attend to the individual needs of each client. This can facilitate a sense of wholeness as we explore and integrate our experience. I am interested in working with clients from a variety of diverse backgrounds and experiences. I believe through the therapeutic relationship we can develop an understanding and self- awareness to encourage personal and relational change. I have experience of long, mid-term and short-term work, although typically I work mostly with longer term contracts.
Each person is unique, and each relationship is individual therefore I integrate a range of theoretical and philosophical approaches to attend to the individual needs of each client. This can facilitate a sense of wholeness as we explore and integrate our experience. I am interested in working with clients from a variety of diverse backgrounds and experiences. I believe through the therapeutic relationship we can develop an understanding and self- awareness to encourage personal and relational change. I have experience of long, mid-term and short-term work, although typically I work mostly with longer term contracts.
01777 801637 View 01777 801637
Photo of harmonycouplestherapy.org, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
harmonycouplestherapy.org
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
Welcome to Harmony Couples Therapy, my name is Ellen, and I am an experienced relationship therapist at Relate with nearly 20 years experience, and I also work with private clients. I work in person on Wednesday and Thursday evenings in Derby, and sessions are also available online. I regularly work with clients to help them make sense of a wide variety of issues such as managing conflict, trauma, separation/divorce, infidelity, bereavement, addiction, mental health issues and I have specialist training in working with couples affected by Aspergers/Autism and depression/anxiety.
Welcome to Harmony Couples Therapy, my name is Ellen, and I am an experienced relationship therapist at Relate with nearly 20 years experience, and I also work with private clients. I work in person on Wednesday and Thursday evenings in Derby, and sessions are also available online. I regularly work with clients to help them make sense of a wide variety of issues such as managing conflict, trauma, separation/divorce, infidelity, bereavement, addiction, mental health issues and I have specialist training in working with couples affected by Aspergers/Autism and depression/anxiety.
0115 647 7349 View 0115 647 7349
Photo of Jason Neal, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Jason Neal
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
and integrative therapist, where I offer a therapeutic relationship that is relational, warm, and genuinely interested in your well-being, providing you with the conditions within which a deeper understanding, empowerment and autonomy can be achieved, helping you to fulfill your potential.
Are you struggling or feeling lost and overwhelmed in your journey of life. You may have faced difficult challenges in your past or are currently facing difficulties navigating your life right now. . What would it be like for someone to see the world through your eyes, to offer a space where there is no judgements or criticism. Therapy offers a ‘safe’ space where you are heard, acknowledged and a space where you can explore your emotions. By reaching out for help can be a daunting task, however it takes courage to contact a therapist, by taking that step can lead to a positive outcome in your time of need. If you have any question
and integrative therapist, where I offer a therapeutic relationship that is relational, warm, and genuinely interested in your well-being, providing you with the conditions within which a deeper understanding, empowerment and autonomy can be achieved, helping you to fulfill your potential.
Are you struggling or feeling lost and overwhelmed in your journey of life. You may have faced difficult challenges in your past or are currently facing difficulties navigating your life right now. . What would it be like for someone to see the world through your eyes, to offer a space where there is no judgements or criticism. Therapy offers a ‘safe’ space where you are heard, acknowledged and a space where you can explore your emotions. By reaching out for help can be a daunting task, however it takes courage to contact a therapist, by taking that step can lead to a positive outcome in your time of need. If you have any question
0115 647 8131 View 0115 647 8131
Photo of Jackie Boot, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Jackie Boot
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
Creating a unique relationship with you - professional and confidential, based on a genuine, non-judgemental, and compassionate approach.
All sorts of people seek therapy at different times in their life. In particular I have worked for a number of years with people who have experienced complexed trauma. Whether current or historic, this can lead to a sense of not feeling ourselves and impact our relationships. But whatever finds you here today, whether it be a sense of low self-esteem or depression, stress or anxiety, or issues in relationships or at work, therapy can be a valuable space. Space to support you to figure out who you are and what you’ve been through. This can allow for a more authentic connection with yourself and enhance your relationships.
Creating a unique relationship with you - professional and confidential, based on a genuine, non-judgemental, and compassionate approach.
All sorts of people seek therapy at different times in their life. In particular I have worked for a number of years with people who have experienced complexed trauma. Whether current or historic, this can lead to a sense of not feeling ourselves and impact our relationships. But whatever finds you here today, whether it be a sense of low self-esteem or depression, stress or anxiety, or issues in relationships or at work, therapy can be a valuable space. Space to support you to figure out who you are and what you’ve been through. This can allow for a more authentic connection with yourself and enhance your relationships.
0115 647 0995 View 0115 647 0995
Photo of Heather Petcher, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Heather Petcher
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG15  (Online Only)
At the heart of my practice is the emphasis on building a warm, safe and empathic therapeutic relationship based on acceptance and trust within a non judgemental and nurturing environment. I offer a safe space for you to explore your emotions to what is happening, or what has happened in your life and how this is affecting you in the present. I believe you are the expert of you and have all the capabilities to find your own way through your problems with my support, to build confidence within and facilitate personal growth.
At the heart of my practice is the emphasis on building a warm, safe and empathic therapeutic relationship based on acceptance and trust within a non judgemental and nurturing environment. I offer a safe space for you to explore your emotions to what is happening, or what has happened in your life and how this is affecting you in the present. I believe you are the expert of you and have all the capabilities to find your own way through your problems with my support, to build confidence within and facilitate personal growth.
0115 647 7173 View 0115 647 7173
Photo of Emma Spencer - Interpersonal Therapist in Nottingham, England
Emma Spencer - Interpersonal Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG11  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
We might look at relationship patterns through out your life and help you gain awareness and understanding of how these play a part in your mental wellbeing.
Are you struggling with big emotions? Fear, pain, or maybe you feel empty, numb and unable to get going? Do you feel trapped by your relationships, circumstances or suffer with a lack of confidence to make a change? You may be grieving the loss of an important person in your life. Throughout our lives we have many ups and downs, losses and big changes. Sometimes we can feel alone in our problems. You might feel unable to share some of the thoughts and feelings that you’re having with others due to feeling that you may be criticised, ridiculed or misunderstood. Depression can make us feel disconnected from others and alone in life.
We might look at relationship patterns through out your life and help you gain awareness and understanding of how these play a part in your mental wellbeing.
Are you struggling with big emotions? Fear, pain, or maybe you feel empty, numb and unable to get going? Do you feel trapped by your relationships, circumstances or suffer with a lack of confidence to make a change? You may be grieving the loss of an important person in your life. Throughout our lives we have many ups and downs, losses and big changes. Sometimes we can feel alone in our problems. You might feel unable to share some of the thoughts and feelings that you’re having with others due to feeling that you may be criticised, ridiculed or misunderstood. Depression can make us feel disconnected from others and alone in life.
0115 647 7236 View 0115 647 7236
Photo of Domonic Loone, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Domonic Loone
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG12
Sometimes the challenges to our happiness can be complex, arising from anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship issues. Other times, it may not feel clear, but you can just sense that it might be time to talk about it. Therapy is a chance to explore what you need, and what might help you navigate through your challenges. I'm a person-centred counsellor and therapist in Nottingham and I am here to support you in empowering exactly that sense.
Sometimes the challenges to our happiness can be complex, arising from anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship issues. Other times, it may not feel clear, but you can just sense that it might be time to talk about it. Therapy is a chance to explore what you need, and what might help you navigate through your challenges. I'm a person-centred counsellor and therapist in Nottingham and I am here to support you in empowering exactly that sense.
0115 647 1170 View 0115 647 1170
Photo of Susan Ellen Draper-Todkill, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Susan Ellen Draper-Todkill
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG17
My normal daily routine is supporting Professional Emergency Services personnel, NHS, Police, Ambulance and Paramedics, Prison Services, Fire Service, Furloughed workers, Working from Home . CMIS (Critical Incident Stress Management) response currently using Skype , Zoom etc. Counselling and Hypnotherapy for Managing and Eliminating Stress, Anxiety, Low Mood, Alcohol Reduction, Smoking Cessation, Weight Management , Low Self Esteem, Relationship issues, Divorce, Coaching. Qualified Supervisor for Counsellors and Hypnotherapists. Supporting you through challenging times in difficult circumstances. Contact me now with your concerns
My normal daily routine is supporting Professional Emergency Services personnel, NHS, Police, Ambulance and Paramedics, Prison Services, Fire Service, Furloughed workers, Working from Home . CMIS (Critical Incident Stress Management) response currently using Skype , Zoom etc. Counselling and Hypnotherapy for Managing and Eliminating Stress, Anxiety, Low Mood, Alcohol Reduction, Smoking Cessation, Weight Management , Low Self Esteem, Relationship issues, Divorce, Coaching. Qualified Supervisor for Counsellors and Hypnotherapists. Supporting you through challenging times in difficult circumstances. Contact me now with your concerns
01623 259226 View 01623 259226
Photo of Dr Danila D'Errico, Psychologist in Nottingham, England
Dr Danila D'Errico
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG9  (Online Only)
I use different models within my practice including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (focused on how thoughts, beliefs and attitudes affect feelings and actions), Narrative Exposure Therapy (a short-term trauma-focused intervention), and Cognitive Analytic Therapy (focused on relationship patterns and ways in which people relate to themselves and others).
I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist currently working in the NHS in a Community Mental Health Team for Adults in Working Age. I love my job and I believe it is a privilege to be able to step into someone’s life and become, even for a short amount of time, part of their life story, their narrative. My aim is to ensure you feel heard, supported, and ultimately empowered. In the past, I have helped people to process past traumatic experiences that were having a major impact on their lives and to understand patterns of relating to self and others which might have left them feeling stuck, anxious, sad, guilty, and/or ashamed.
I use different models within my practice including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (focused on how thoughts, beliefs and attitudes affect feelings and actions), Narrative Exposure Therapy (a short-term trauma-focused intervention), and Cognitive Analytic Therapy (focused on relationship patterns and ways in which people relate to themselves and others).
I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist currently working in the NHS in a Community Mental Health Team for Adults in Working Age. I love my job and I believe it is a privilege to be able to step into someone’s life and become, even for a short amount of time, part of their life story, their narrative. My aim is to ensure you feel heard, supported, and ultimately empowered. In the past, I have helped people to process past traumatic experiences that were having a major impact on their lives and to understand patterns of relating to self and others which might have left them feeling stuck, anxious, sad, guilty, and/or ashamed.
0115 647 1253 View 0115 647 1253
Photo of Vesna Pivcevic, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Vesna Pivcevic
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG3
I can help with abuse, anxiety, anger, childhood trauma, complex trauma, childhood sexual abuse, depression, difficult memories, loss, PTSD, self-harm, stress, sexual assault, sex as self-injury, relationship issues.
I am a professionally trained and qualified person-centred counsellor supporting clients with a wide range of issues. Reaching out for help can feel like a big step so I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to help you to make your decision. Being able to talk about everything that matters to you and feeling truly heard and understood, can help you to ease your burdens and feel able to cope again. I offer both long and short-term counselling, face to face or online.
I can help with abuse, anxiety, anger, childhood trauma, complex trauma, childhood sexual abuse, depression, difficult memories, loss, PTSD, self-harm, stress, sexual assault, sex as self-injury, relationship issues.
I am a professionally trained and qualified person-centred counsellor supporting clients with a wide range of issues. Reaching out for help can feel like a big step so I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to help you to make your decision. Being able to talk about everything that matters to you and feeling truly heard and understood, can help you to ease your burdens and feel able to cope again. I offer both long and short-term counselling, face to face or online.
0115 647 0049 View 0115 647 0049
Photo of Natalie Drewry, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Natalie Drewry
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Nottingham NG1
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship issues? I understand that asking for help is difficult, especially if you are not used to talking about your thoughts and feelings. My aim is to make this easier for you. I will work with you to build trust in the therapy process and provide safety for you to talk about your issues. Just the process of having someone to safely share with can be a catalyst to healing and growth.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship issues? I understand that asking for help is difficult, especially if you are not used to talking about your thoughts and feelings. My aim is to make this easier for you. I will work with you to build trust in the therapy process and provide safety for you to talk about your issues. Just the process of having someone to safely share with can be a catalyst to healing and growth.
01777 802232 View 01777 802232
Photo of Suzie Ford, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Suzie Ford
Psychotherapist, PhD, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
I am trained in integrative psychotherapy which focuses on the building of a safe and empathic relationship for long-term change.
I work with adults of all ages who experience challenge and overwhelm in their lives. Whether you are going through something new or you have been feeling this way for a while, I am here and wanting to support you. My areas of work include: anxiety; depression; self-esteem issues; relationship problems; shame; trauma; personality disorders; childhood issues; abuse; loss; bullying; and neglect.
I am trained in integrative psychotherapy which focuses on the building of a safe and empathic relationship for long-term change.
I work with adults of all ages who experience challenge and overwhelm in their lives. Whether you are going through something new or you have been feeling this way for a while, I am here and wanting to support you. My areas of work include: anxiety; depression; self-esteem issues; relationship problems; shame; trauma; personality disorders; childhood issues; abuse; loss; bullying; and neglect.
0115 647 1161 View 0115 647 1161
Photo of Sarah Chadderton, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Sarah Chadderton
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
The Counselling relationship offers the space to explore, learn about ourselves and most importantly the opportunity to be heard.
Hello, my name is Sarah. I am a qualified Person Centred Counsellor working in the Nottingham area. It is often said that choosing to seek help and support through counselling is the hardest step. I agree, and would say it is the bravest decision, often made at the most difficult of times. I believe the Counselling room should be a place where you can discuss the issues of greatest importance to you, in confidence and without fear of judgement. Because I am passionate about the work a client and I do I offer a reduced rate for the initial consultation, believing that our working alliance is the key ingredient to success
The Counselling relationship offers the space to explore, learn about ourselves and most importantly the opportunity to be heard.
Hello, my name is Sarah. I am a qualified Person Centred Counsellor working in the Nottingham area. It is often said that choosing to seek help and support through counselling is the hardest step. I agree, and would say it is the bravest decision, often made at the most difficult of times. I believe the Counselling room should be a place where you can discuss the issues of greatest importance to you, in confidence and without fear of judgement. Because I am passionate about the work a client and I do I offer a reduced rate for the initial consultation, believing that our working alliance is the key ingredient to success
0115 647 1959 View 0115 647 1959
Photo of Darran Flowers, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Darran Flowers
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG8
Our relationship will be one built on trust and my non-judgemental genuine regard for your well-being.
Are you feeling low, empty, worried or sad, and searching for confidential support? You may be struggling within your relationships, finding it challenging to manage a new situation, or grieving the loss of an important person in your life. You may be feeling confused and alone in your problems; unable to share with others some of the thoughts and feelings that you’re having, due to feeling that you may be criticised, ridiculed or misunderstood. Taking some time out to explore your thoughts and feelings relating to your past or present, and to develop strategies for moving your life forward could be of long-term benefit to you.
Our relationship will be one built on trust and my non-judgemental genuine regard for your well-being.
Are you feeling low, empty, worried or sad, and searching for confidential support? You may be struggling within your relationships, finding it challenging to manage a new situation, or grieving the loss of an important person in your life. You may be feeling confused and alone in your problems; unable to share with others some of the thoughts and feelings that you’re having, due to feeling that you may be criticised, ridiculed or misunderstood. Taking some time out to explore your thoughts and feelings relating to your past or present, and to develop strategies for moving your life forward could be of long-term benefit to you.
07990 688678 View 07990 688678
Photo of Daisy Godfrey, Counsellor in Nottingham, England
Daisy Godfrey
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
Thanks for considering me on your journey. I’m a Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, practicing in Nottingham and online. My approach is compassionate, caring, and empathic - I am passionate about supporting individuals to recognise their potential and fulfil their goals, both personally and professionally. It is my belief that with the right relational conditions, every person can make the positive changes they would like to see in their lives. Through my experience, I have seen the healing nature of the therapeutic relationship often acting as a powerful vehicle for personal growth.
Thanks for considering me on your journey. I’m a Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, practicing in Nottingham and online. My approach is compassionate, caring, and empathic - I am passionate about supporting individuals to recognise their potential and fulfil their goals, both personally and professionally. It is my belief that with the right relational conditions, every person can make the positive changes they would like to see in their lives. Through my experience, I have seen the healing nature of the therapeutic relationship often acting as a powerful vehicle for personal growth.
0115 647 6940 View 0115 647 6940
Photo of Linda McConnachie, Psychotherapist in Nottingham, England
Linda McConnachie
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
I have a special interest in working with the effects of little-t trauma (ie, events which exceed our capacity to cope such as loss, relationship breakdown, neglect, bullying, abuse or abrupt changes in our environment).
I am a qualified Supervisor, . Counsellor and Therapist with experience working with adults, couples and young people in schools. If you’re facing distressing or traumatic experiences, I can support you explore your thoughts and feelings to make sense of what's going on and consider how things can change. I work on a short or longer term basis. I know that, sometimes, talking can be difficult; our unconscious thoughts get in the way of change and I’m able to offer body or creative therapeutic solutions as well.
I have a special interest in working with the effects of little-t trauma (ie, events which exceed our capacity to cope such as loss, relationship breakdown, neglect, bullying, abuse or abrupt changes in our environment).
I am a qualified Supervisor, . Counsellor and Therapist with experience working with adults, couples and young people in schools. If you’re facing distressing or traumatic experiences, I can support you explore your thoughts and feelings to make sense of what's going on and consider how things can change. I work on a short or longer term basis. I know that, sometimes, talking can be difficult; our unconscious thoughts get in the way of change and I’m able to offer body or creative therapeutic solutions as well.
0115 697 1078 View 0115 697 1078

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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.