Person-Centred Counselling in Elgin

Life's challenges can leave us feeling lost, overwhelmed, and uncertain. If you find yourself adrift amidst situations that seem insurmountable, struggling with past traumas, or seeking a deeper understanding of yourself, counselling offers a guiding light. Step into a space that's empathetic, non-judgmental, and secure—a place where you can explore your life's complexities. Together, we'll navigate the areas you wish to change, unravel patterns that no longer serve you, and address any pain you may carry. As you gain clarity about yourself, transformation and liberation become attainable goals.

Free 15 min consultation

Hi, I'm Pamela and if you are struggling to find meaning in life right now, I'm here to work with you to find the answers you need. Perhaps you have experienced loss, trauma or are trying to navigate a period of change in your life. Bereavement, the end of a relationship, loss of health or loss of employment may have left you unable to find purpose in the present and unable to envision a meaningful future. Or perhaps something from your past is still haunting you. At times like these it can be difficult to imagine a meaningful future and you might feel stuck, undervalued, unheard or just unsure how you can carry on. I'm here to help

I know how difficult it can be to choose the right practitioner, so please take your time to read through my profile and feel free to contact me if you have any questions. I use person-centred therapy, CBT and EMDR. If life is getting you down and you struggle with things like worry, fear, trauma, low-mood, sleep problems or relationship issues, I can help. I also offer professional supervision to counsellors, trainee and qualified psychologists.

Do you pretend to function well on the outside but feel down, unmotivated and lack confidence on the inside? Are you no longer enjoying the things you once did, not quite sure what is going on for you but know something does not feel right? Feeling anxious, experiencing difficulties with relationships or finding it hard to deal with a bereavement or a loss of some sort? These issues and many others can throw us off course in life, momentarily losing ourselves. Or maybe more simply, there is a curiosity and desire to get to know yourself better.

Life can challenge us all. Sometimes we feel stuck, confused, overwhelmed by our emotions or unsure how to change a situation that is hurting us. I can help. I support clients with a wide range of issues, including: anxiety, low mood, grief and loss, difficulty adjusting to relocation or changed circumstances, relationships, self-esteem and identity. Events and unresolved trauma from our past can have a significant impact on present feelings. Having the opportunity to talk in a safe, supportive space free of judgement, can help to make sense of what is going in your life and enable you to find a clear way forward.

Counselling is a support for you when things in life feel stuck or challenging. You might be struggling in your relationships, or find yourself in repeating patterns of behaviour which dont serve you. You want to be able to talk this out with a trained professional, who can explore it with you and help identify what might be going on.

I work with both individuals and Couples to support their movement towards their desired outcomes and provide a safe, non-judgmental and empathic space for clients to discuss their worries. My aim is to support my clients with my therapeutic and blended approach using my 2 areas of expertise, Counselling, and Peter Hess Sound massage in my 90 min sessions to work together with my clients to help foster a deeper sense of calm, connection and communication. My space is one of inclusivity, relishing in the individuality of each client and their experiences. I pride myself on offering a warm, caring environment for my clients

I have first-hand experience of anxiety and depression. I've felt heart palpitations, rapid breathing, the black cloud that looms, and the self-deprecation preventing me from leaving my comfort zone. The activities we used to take part in no longer bring us joy. The shame and guilt that follows makes it so much worse. I learned to break the cycle, worked through the barriers holding me back. It wasn't an easy journey and at time I wanted to give up. Through counselling I fought back and then trained to help others life yourself.

I assume you are here because you need help/understanding, or seek direction with your life. I completely understand those reasonings and they were some of my motivations to train as a psychotherapist. I have been a client as well as counsellor and therefore aware of that trepidation of taking those first steps towards therapy. I'm glad I did because it empowered me in my desire to do what was right — for me. I am passionate about supporting those struggling with issues which is why I keep my prices as low as possible. You are a valuable individual. You've started your journey now see where it leads you.