Nicki Wisbey
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP (she, her)
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Southampton SO14
Hello and welcome. I am an experienced Counsellor, Psychotherapist, and Supervisor offering a warm, supportive space for individuals and couples. Life can feel overwhelming, confusing, or isolating—and sometimes we just need a place to work things through without judgment.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, relationships, identity, or feeling stuck, we can work together to understand what’s going on and find healthier, more resilient ways forward.
I am a sex-positive, GDSR, Kink-affirming therapist who supports those exploring their sexualities and desires without shame or judgment. I specialise in problematic porn use.
I work with both couples and individuals navigating sexual, relationship and intimacy difficulties and I bring a psychosexual-informed lens to help foster connection, understanding, and pleasure in relationships. My work is neuroaffirming, and I support adults exploring life through the lens of neurodivergence (including Autism, ADHD).
I am passionate about communication, relationship, diversity, culture, and the complexity of living authentically in today’s world. I provide short-term and long-term sessions tailored to your needs. We can work at your pace to explore what matters to you, deepen your understanding of yourself, and support lasting change.
Call or Email Nicki Wisbey now for a free 15 minute consultation - 01489 662958
Let's Connect 01489 662958

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions £60
- Couple Sessions £90
Payment Methods
Bank transferInsurance
- Aviva
- AXA PPP
- Vitality
- WPA
Nicki Wisbey
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Please ask me about fees or use of insurance when you Email
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Membership with UK Council for Psychotherapy Nicki Wisbey
- In Practice for 8 years
- Certified Transactional Analyst Psychotherapist, Masters degree and Diploma in Transactional Analys, Graduated 2024
- Certificate from Vanguard Working with Autistic and Neurodiverse adults / 2024
- Diploma from Connexus Institute Supervision / 2024
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Nicki Wisbey
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - 01489 662958
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Autism
- ADHD
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Behavioural Issues
- Coping Skills
- Cultural curiosity
- Depression
- Divorce
- Domestic Abuse
- Domestic Violence
- Family Conflict
- GSRD affirming
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Racial Identity
- Relationship Issues
- Sex Therapy
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Nicki Wisbey
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - 01489 662958
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Creative Therapy
- Culturally Sensitive
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- I also offer outdoor, walking therapy
- Integrative
- Multicultural
- Narrative
- Neuro-Linguistic (NLP)
- Positive Psychology
- Psychoanalytic
- Relational
- Transactional Analysis
Nicki Wisbey
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or 01489 662958
Groups
Life transitions
A group for people wanting to explore life transitions such as menopause and children leaving home
Expertise
Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
Types of Therapy
Creative Therapy
Age
Adults
Session Cost
up to £20
Group Meets
Every Fri 6:99 P.M. - 7:30 P.M.
Location
Southampton SO17
Email Nicki Wisbey about this group or call - 01489 662958
Support group
Group to support those experiencing life transitions such as children leaving home and menopause.
Expertise
Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
Types of Therapy
Creative Therapy
Age
Adults
Session Cost
£20+
Group Meets
Every Fri 6 P.M. - 7:30 P.M.
Location
Southampton SO17
Email Nicki Wisbey about this group or call - 01489 662958
Location
Additional Location
Winchester SO21
01489 662958