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Jem Stopes

Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.

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Totnes TQ9
01803 308914
Let's Connect 01803 308914
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Hi, I’m Jem! I’m a COSRT registered sex and relationship therapist. You might be looking at your love and sex life and wondering how it can ever be the source of connection and pleasure that you've hoped for. Perhaps you're tired of old patterns that keep getting in the way, or else some fresh challenge has come up and you can't see the way forward. You want to feel like you're living your fullest life so you've decided to take a positive step towards it!
I work with couples and individuals to dissolve the sexual and communication blocks that are stopping you getting the most out of your relationships. This can be sexual function problems like erectile dysfunction, difficulties with orgasm, vaginismus etc. or relational difficulties like desire discrepancy or frequent conflict.
Having happy relationships and a healthy sex life is so important, and yet it can be so hard to talk openly about, even in therapy! It's always heartwarming for me to meet a fellow traveller on the path - please do reach out, we can start with a free 20-minute call and see where we go from there.
Call or Jem Stopes now for a free 15 minute consultation - 01803 308914

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Totnes TQ9

01803 308914

London N4

I work online over video or on the phone. I'm available Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays from 9am to 6pm (GMT).
£60 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Let's Connect 01803 308914
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Totnes TQ9

01803 308914

London N4

I work online over video or on the phone. I'm available Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays from 9am to 6pm (GMT).
£60 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions £60
  • Couple Sessions £90
  • Concession rate: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Bank transfer, Paypal
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Please ask me about fees or use of insurance when you
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Please ask me about fees or use of insurance when you

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Membership with College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists Jem Stopes
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology, Clinical Sexology (Sex and Relationship Therapy), Graduated 2025
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists Jem Stopes
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Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or 01803 308914
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or 01803 308914

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Codependency
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Domestic Violence
  • Infertility
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Men's Issues
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Transgender
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Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Do these issues align with your needs? or 01803 308914
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Do these issues align with your needs? or 01803 308914

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

French
Russian

Religion

Buddhist

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

I also speak

French
Russian

Religion

Buddhist

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Feminist
  • Human Givens
  • Humanistic
  • Imago
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centred
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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I'm a pluralist - that means I don't think there's any one way of working that's the best. I tailor the way I work to meet the client in front of me. I draw on a range of influences, but what we create together will be unique to you.
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - 01803 308914
"
I'm a pluralist - that means I don't think there's any one way of working that's the best. I tailor the way I work to meet the client in front of me. I draw on a range of influences, but what we create together will be unique to you.
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - 01803 308914

Location

Primary Location

Totnes TQ9

01803 308914

Additional Location

London N4

01803 308914

Nearby Areas

Cities/Towns

Postcodes

Neighbourhoods

Districts

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I work online over video or on the phone. I'm available Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays from 9am to 6pm (GMT).
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Call for a free consultation now - 01803 308914
"
I work online over video or on the phone. I'm available Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays from 9am to 6pm (GMT).
Photo of Jem Stopes, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Call for a free consultation now - 01803 308914