Jem
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
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Hi, I'm Jem! I’m a COSRT‑registered psychosexual and relationship therapist offering online therapy worldwide. I help with pain during sex, desire discrepancy, premature ejaculation, erection or orgasm difficulties, porn concerns, and issues concerning kink and non‑monogamy.
Queer‑, ENM‑, and kink‑affirming; open to all. Discreet, evidence‑based, and collaborative. Book a free 20‑minute discovery call to see if we’re a good fit.
I work with couples and individuals to dissolve the sexual and communication blocks that are stopping you getting the most out of your relationships. This can be sexual function problems like erectile dysfunction, difficulties with orgasm, vaginismus etc. or relational difficulties like desire discrepancy or frequent conflict.
Having happy relationships and a healthy sex life is so important, and yet it can be so hard to talk openly about, even in therapy!
It's always heartwarming for me to meet a fellow traveller on the path - please do reach out, we can start with a free 20-minute discovery call which you can book via my website.
Call or Email Jem Stopes now for a free 15 minute consultation - 01803 308914
Let's Connect 01803 308914
Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions £75
- Couple Sessions £95
- Concession rate: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
Bank transfer, Paypal Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Membership with College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists Jem Stopes
- In Practice for 5 years
- Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology, Clinical Sexology (Sex and Relationship Therapy), Graduated 2025
Education and Years In Practice
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or 01803 308914
Specialties and Expertise
Expertise
- Bisexual
- Chronic Impulsivity
- Codependency
- Domestic Abuse
- Domestic Violence
- Infertility
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Men's Issues
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex Therapy
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Transgender
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
I also speak
French ,
Russian
Religion
Buddhist
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
I also speak
French ,
Russian
Religion
Buddhist
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Feminist
- Human Givens
- Humanistic
- Imago
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Motivational Interviewing
- Person-Centred
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - 01803 308914
Location
Additional Location
London N4
01803 308914