
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Totnes TQ9
Let's Connect 01803 308914

Hi, I’m Jem! I’m a COSRT registered sex and relationship therapist.
You might be looking at your love and sex life and wondering how it can ever be the source of connection and pleasure that you've hoped for. Perhaps you're tired of old patterns that keep getting in the way, or else some fresh challenge has come up and you can't see the way forward. You want to feel like you're living your fullest life so you've decided to take a positive step towards it!
I work with couples and individuals to dissolve the sexual and communication blocks that are stopping you getting the most out of your relationships. This can be sexual function problems like erectile dysfunction, difficulties with orgasm, vaginismus etc. or relational difficulties like desire discrepancy or frequent conflict.
Having happy relationships and a healthy sex life is so important, and yet it can be so hard to talk openly about, even in therapy!
It's always heartwarming for me to meet a fellow traveller on the path - please do reach out, we can start with a free 20-minute call and see where we go from there.
Call or Email Jem Stopes now for a free 15 minute consultation - 01803 308914
Let's Connect 01803 308914

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions £60
- Couple Sessions £90
- Concession rate: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
Bank transfer, Paypal
Jem Stopes
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Please ask me about fees or use of insurance when you Email
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Membership with College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists Jem Stopes
- In Practice for 4 years
- Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology, Clinical Sexology (Sex and Relationship Therapy), Graduated 2025
- Membership with College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists Jem Stopes
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Specialties and Expertise
Expertise
- Bisexual
- Chronic Impulsivity
- Codependency
- Domestic Abuse
- Domestic Violence
- Infertility
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Men's Issues
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sex Therapy
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Transgender
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
I also speak
French ,
Russian
Religion
Buddhist
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Group
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
I also speak
French ,
Russian
Religion
Buddhist
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Feminist
- Human Givens
- Humanistic
- Imago
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Motivational Interviewing
- Person-Centred
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
Location
Additional Location
London N4
01803 308914