Infidelity Counselling in Coulsdon

Photo of Katrina Voysey, Psychotherapist in Coulsdon, England
Katrina Voysey
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
With 25 years experience, I offer a safe, non-judgemental and creative space to explore personal or relationship concerns. Psychotherapy can help you to cope better with difficult experiences, to change your behaviours & attitudes, to resolve your problems and to develop resources for a more enriching life. Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart. Working with me can set your relationship back on course for better, more fulfilling times; or it can ease the difficulties of a breakup.
With 25 years experience, I offer a safe, non-judgemental and creative space to explore personal or relationship concerns. Psychotherapy can help you to cope better with difficult experiences, to change your behaviours & attitudes, to resolve your problems and to develop resources for a more enriching life. Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart. Working with me can set your relationship back on course for better, more fulfilling times; or it can ease the difficulties of a breakup.
020 3948 6490 View 020 3948 6490
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Nicola Farrow
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
01260 545138 View 01260 545138
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Jazz Vienna Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
Hello, and a very warm welcome to you. Making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult step, but a positive and rewarding one for many. I am a warm and compassionate integrative therapist offering both indoor face to face counselling and outdoors walk and talk therapy. You as a person are at the centre of my approach. When life becomes overwhelming, it can be surprisingly helpful to speak to someone who really listens, with warmth, understanding, and without judgment. My aim is to provide a welcoming, safe, and confidential space for us to explore the challenging issues that may have brought you here today.
Hello, and a very warm welcome to you. Making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult step, but a positive and rewarding one for many. I am a warm and compassionate integrative therapist offering both indoor face to face counselling and outdoors walk and talk therapy. You as a person are at the centre of my approach. When life becomes overwhelming, it can be surprisingly helpful to speak to someone who really listens, with warmth, understanding, and without judgment. My aim is to provide a welcoming, safe, and confidential space for us to explore the challenging issues that may have brought you here today.
020 4538 5685 View 020 4538 5685
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Sushil Mitchell
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
When it comes to therapy, the process can be life changing or sometimes just very necessary. When clients need to confront issues or make changes, this can be daunting, overwhelming or even confusing. My role as a therapist is not to judge you or tell you what to do; instead I aim to help you see your situation more clearly and guide you towards your own innate wisdom. The clients I work with are ready to embark on this inner journey of transformation gaining better self-awareness, improved self-acceptance and greater authenticity.
When it comes to therapy, the process can be life changing or sometimes just very necessary. When clients need to confront issues or make changes, this can be daunting, overwhelming or even confusing. My role as a therapist is not to judge you or tell you what to do; instead I aim to help you see your situation more clearly and guide you towards your own innate wisdom. The clients I work with are ready to embark on this inner journey of transformation gaining better self-awareness, improved self-acceptance and greater authenticity.
020 3838 0721 View 020 3838 0721
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Therapy Works Surrey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
01883 772965 View 01883 772965
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Samantha Parsons
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
There may be times in life where you feel that you are on your own, and you put a brave face on because you don't want to burden others for fear that they won't understand what you're going through. As a Therapist I would like to provide the safe space for you to explore these feelings. Hello, my name is Sam, I am a qualified experienced Counsellor practising in Horley & Coulsdon areas of Surrey. As a counsellor I aim to provide a warm, empathic, non-judgmental, safe space to listen, reflect and provide emotional support. I offer an external relationship away from distractions to focus on you.
There may be times in life where you feel that you are on your own, and you put a brave face on because you don't want to burden others for fear that they won't understand what you're going through. As a Therapist I would like to provide the safe space for you to explore these feelings. Hello, my name is Sam, I am a qualified experienced Counsellor practising in Horley & Coulsdon areas of Surrey. As a counsellor I aim to provide a warm, empathic, non-judgmental, safe space to listen, reflect and provide emotional support. I offer an external relationship away from distractions to focus on you.
01260 541562 View 01260 541562
Photo of Karolina Meyer, Psychotherapist in Coulsdon, England
Karolina Meyer
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
I am a fully accredited CBT Therapist . Have you been struggling with low mood, depression, anxiety, stress, burn out? Do you feel exhausted of the constant worry and overwhelming emotions? Do you have unwanted thoughts or feeling stuck in repeated patterns of thoughts or behaviours? Do not struggle on your own. Understand yourself better, learn new copying techniques, reconnect with your values, reclaim your life back. I have been privileged seeing people change and grow even in the midst of the most challenging life experiences or events.
I am a fully accredited CBT Therapist . Have you been struggling with low mood, depression, anxiety, stress, burn out? Do you feel exhausted of the constant worry and overwhelming emotions? Do you have unwanted thoughts or feeling stuck in repeated patterns of thoughts or behaviours? Do not struggle on your own. Understand yourself better, learn new copying techniques, reconnect with your values, reclaim your life back. I have been privileged seeing people change and grow even in the midst of the most challenging life experiences or events.
01737 301457 View 01737 301457
Photo of Dr Amy Gibbard, Psychologist in Coulsdon, England
Dr Amy Gibbard
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
As a warm, approachable and skilled practitioner, I can help you to feel heard, gain understanding, build confidence and develop skills to help manage the difficulties you face. I am a highly experienced Psychologist and as such, am able to draw on a range of skills and evidenced-based, NICE recommended therapeutic approaches to best meet your needs.
As a warm, approachable and skilled practitioner, I can help you to feel heard, gain understanding, build confidence and develop skills to help manage the difficulties you face. I am a highly experienced Psychologist and as such, am able to draw on a range of skills and evidenced-based, NICE recommended therapeutic approaches to best meet your needs.
01260 540959 View 01260 540959
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Laura Sutton
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
I provide a confidential and comfortable space, whether you have never been to therapy before or consider yourself an experienced client. I offer short or long term counselling and work closely with my clients to understand how they want to approach their sessions. I am easily accessible by train and there is parking readily available. I am experienced in dealing with, Trauma, Relationship Issues, Sexuality, Depression, Self Harm and Anxiety. I offer Zoom sessions also. You don’t have to feel alone, we can go on this journey together.
I provide a confidential and comfortable space, whether you have never been to therapy before or consider yourself an experienced client. I offer short or long term counselling and work closely with my clients to understand how they want to approach their sessions. I am easily accessible by train and there is parking readily available. I am experienced in dealing with, Trauma, Relationship Issues, Sexuality, Depression, Self Harm and Anxiety. I offer Zoom sessions also. You don’t have to feel alone, we can go on this journey together.
01260 542115 View 01260 542115
Photo of Lorraine Gallagher, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Lorraine Gallagher
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
I am passionate about providing a place that is confidential and safe, in a non judgemental way. I am a qualified integrative counsellor. (Integrative means I use different approaches depending on what the client needs). I am a member of the BACP (British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists). I can offer you the time and space to reflect on difficult feelings. I offer empathy and congruence.
I am passionate about providing a place that is confidential and safe, in a non judgemental way. I am a qualified integrative counsellor. (Integrative means I use different approaches depending on what the client needs). I am a member of the BACP (British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists). I can offer you the time and space to reflect on difficult feelings. I offer empathy and congruence.
01883 776042 View 01883 776042
Photo of Dania Akondo, Psychotherapist in Coulsdon, England
Dania Akondo
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
My vision is to empower clients and help them achieve inner peace. I am a qualified Croydon psychotherapist and counsellor, who adheres to the BACP ethical framework. I have a particular interest in issues of racism and relational patterns in adults who have experienced trauma. Together, we can explore past life events to gain a better understanding of what might have gone wrong. I can help you implement strategies and techniques in your day- to-day life in order to: enhance your quality of life; rid yourself of maladaptive behaviours and/or negative thinking patterns; ameliorate your communication skills; navigate conflict.
My vision is to empower clients and help them achieve inner peace. I am a qualified Croydon psychotherapist and counsellor, who adheres to the BACP ethical framework. I have a particular interest in issues of racism and relational patterns in adults who have experienced trauma. Together, we can explore past life events to gain a better understanding of what might have gone wrong. I can help you implement strategies and techniques in your day- to-day life in order to: enhance your quality of life; rid yourself of maladaptive behaviours and/or negative thinking patterns; ameliorate your communication skills; navigate conflict.
01260 541343 View 01260 541343
Photo of Raquel Silva, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Raquel Silva
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I am a natural empath, and will be attuned and sensitive to your emotional needs and seek to understand your individual difficulties through your own lens, by stepping into your world in a person-centred way. I may facilitate your self-awareness and understanding of possible unconscious thoughts, fears and beliefs, by drawing from psychodynamic ideas. Or I may integrate CBT to help you identify possible unhelpful negative thinking patterns and explore new, more supportive ways in which you could respond to your difficulties, by focussing on your strengths.
I am a natural empath, and will be attuned and sensitive to your emotional needs and seek to understand your individual difficulties through your own lens, by stepping into your world in a person-centred way. I may facilitate your self-awareness and understanding of possible unconscious thoughts, fears and beliefs, by drawing from psychodynamic ideas. Or I may integrate CBT to help you identify possible unhelpful negative thinking patterns and explore new, more supportive ways in which you could respond to your difficulties, by focussing on your strengths.
01929 501276 View 01929 501276

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Photo of Martin Firstbrook, Psychotherapist in Coulsdon, England
Martin Firstbrook
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
Many of my clients are struggling with their life, relationships and work challenges for all sorts of reasons including anxiety, feeling low/depression, relationship conflict, imposter syndrome, anger, panic attacks, betrayal, feelings of isolation, trauma/PTSD, eating disorders, bereavement, self-harm, suicidality, work related challenges.
Life...Relationships...Work.... I partner with individuals and couples who want a place to reflect and make sense of their current difficulties so that they can get back on track. I offer a friendly, down to earth, research backed approach both online and face to face. I can provide counselling, psychotherapy and coaching, or a combination as determined by your unique needs. I start from the perspective that people make sense i.e. their behaviour and what they are experiencing have meaning that can be understood in the context of their history and their current life context.
Many of my clients are struggling with their life, relationships and work challenges for all sorts of reasons including anxiety, feeling low/depression, relationship conflict, imposter syndrome, anger, panic attacks, betrayal, feelings of isolation, trauma/PTSD, eating disorders, bereavement, self-harm, suicidality, work related challenges.
Life...Relationships...Work.... I partner with individuals and couples who want a place to reflect and make sense of their current difficulties so that they can get back on track. I offer a friendly, down to earth, research backed approach both online and face to face. I can provide counselling, psychotherapy and coaching, or a combination as determined by your unique needs. I start from the perspective that people make sense i.e. their behaviour and what they are experiencing have meaning that can be understood in the context of their history and their current life context.
01737 949784 View 01737 949784
Photo of Gary Napier, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Gary Napier
Counsellor, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Banstead SM7  (Online Only)
Too often, relationships break down because we believe the current situation will not change, and we see the only way forward is to leave. Communication, financial stress, and infidelity, are the leading reasons why couples seek my services for counselling. Both parties within the relationship need to have a voice! Indeed, the need to be 'heard', in a 'safe space', is often the 'game changer' for many couples. In addition, my clients receive relevant exercises and tools, to help them revise their thinking and behaviour, with the view to work towards a harmonious relationship. When appropriate, individual counselling is also offered.
Too often, relationships break down because we believe the current situation will not change, and we see the only way forward is to leave. Communication, financial stress, and infidelity, are the leading reasons why couples seek my services for counselling. Both parties within the relationship need to have a voice! Indeed, the need to be 'heard', in a 'safe space', is often the 'game changer' for many couples. In addition, my clients receive relevant exercises and tools, to help them revise their thinking and behaviour, with the view to work towards a harmonious relationship. When appropriate, individual counselling is also offered.
020 3763 8874 View 020 3763 8874
Photo of A Safe Place 2 Talk, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
A Safe Place 2 Talk
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
01798 306674 View 01798 306674
Photo of Sheila Lewis, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Sheila Lewis
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Purley CR8
Welcome to Pathway Therapy, you've made it this far. I am dedicated to helping you through life's challenges. I am a qualified and registered BACP Counsellor that provides compassionate Psychodynamic counseling services, specialising in open-ended, long-term therapy for adults. I understand that life can be hectic, which is why we offer flexible session options, including in-person, online, or over-the-phone sessions tailored to your needs.
Welcome to Pathway Therapy, you've made it this far. I am dedicated to helping you through life's challenges. I am a qualified and registered BACP Counsellor that provides compassionate Psychodynamic counseling services, specialising in open-ended, long-term therapy for adults. I understand that life can be hectic, which is why we offer flexible session options, including in-person, online, or over-the-phone sessions tailored to your needs.
01737 949516 View 01737 949516
Photo of Lucy Wykes, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Lucy Wykes
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
South Croydon CR2
I believe that we all have a natural tendency to develop our full potential, and can usually find our way forward using our inner sense of what is best for us. Life doesn’t always run to plan and there may be times when we lose touch with our natural tendency, experiencing feelings that may lead to psychological difficulties and we may need some help to move forward with our life.
I believe that we all have a natural tendency to develop our full potential, and can usually find our way forward using our inner sense of what is best for us. Life doesn’t always run to plan and there may be times when we lose touch with our natural tendency, experiencing feelings that may lead to psychological difficulties and we may need some help to move forward with our life.
020 3540 6428 View 020 3540 6428
Photo of Rosella Pizzi, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Rosella Pizzi
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), adhering to their Ethical Framework. I offer individual counselling for adults and young people, providing both short- and long-term support. Creating a compassionate, judgment-free space, we navigate your therapeutic journey, exploring experiences at your pace for self-awareness and growth. I recognize that you are the expert of your own being, and when offered the right conditions and environment, you can thrive and reach your full potential.
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), adhering to their Ethical Framework. I offer individual counselling for adults and young people, providing both short- and long-term support. Creating a compassionate, judgment-free space, we navigate your therapeutic journey, exploring experiences at your pace for self-awareness and growth. I recognize that you are the expert of your own being, and when offered the right conditions and environment, you can thrive and reach your full potential.
020 3597 6719 View 020 3597 6719
Photo of Sally-Anne Soameson, Psychotherapist in Coulsdon, England
Sally-Anne Soameson
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
As a psychodynamic therapist I offer once weekly face-to-face therapy in a supportive, understanding environment. My approach encourages self-reflection and self-examination, allowing you to understand the influence of the past on present behaviour and feelings. This enables you to examine unresolved conflicts and their consequences, giving you back more control in daily life. Working within the ethical framework of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, I provide confidential and non-judgemental counselling to individuals looking for short term and open ended therapy on a variety of issues, offering you space to take a positive step towards insight and awareness.
As a psychodynamic therapist I offer once weekly face-to-face therapy in a supportive, understanding environment. My approach encourages self-reflection and self-examination, allowing you to understand the influence of the past on present behaviour and feelings. This enables you to examine unresolved conflicts and their consequences, giving you back more control in daily life. Working within the ethical framework of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, I provide confidential and non-judgemental counselling to individuals looking for short term and open ended therapy on a variety of issues, offering you space to take a positive step towards insight and awareness.
020 3974 1023 View 020 3974 1023
Photo of Gill Clay, Counsellor in Coulsdon, England
Gill Clay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
Hello my name is Gill, I have been counselling for over 10 years and am also an EMDR therapist. I am passionate about supporting my clients to work through issues that trouble them. It may be that you are struggling with relationship issues or low self-esteem. You may be suffering from anxiety or depression, or maybe you lack confidence and feel this is holding you back in life. You may have been through a loss or bereavement or other traumatic events that continue to affect you in a negative way. I offer a warm, non-judgemental setting and my way of working is integrative to suit your specific needs.
Hello my name is Gill, I have been counselling for over 10 years and am also an EMDR therapist. I am passionate about supporting my clients to work through issues that trouble them. It may be that you are struggling with relationship issues or low self-esteem. You may be suffering from anxiety or depression, or maybe you lack confidence and feel this is holding you back in life. You may have been through a loss or bereavement or other traumatic events that continue to affect you in a negative way. I offer a warm, non-judgemental setting and my way of working is integrative to suit your specific needs.
01883 772260 View 01883 772260

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.