Gottman Method Counselling in Fleet

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Debbie Humphries
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Fleet GU51
I can help you with issues that are difficult to talk about, including anxiety, depression, low self esteem, bereavement, trauma, sexual abuse, autism and ADHD. Some issues are more difficult to define. They can be more like: ‘Life feels really difficult’, ‘I wish I felt happier’, ‘I’ve been feeling really low’ or ‘I feel like I’m going mad’. I am genuinely interested to understand more about you and your unique experience. No problem is too trivial or too shocking. I will listen to what you want to achieve through counselling and support you to live your best life, whatever that may mean for you.
I can help you with issues that are difficult to talk about, including anxiety, depression, low self esteem, bereavement, trauma, sexual abuse, autism and ADHD. Some issues are more difficult to define. They can be more like: ‘Life feels really difficult’, ‘I wish I felt happier’, ‘I’ve been feeling really low’ or ‘I feel like I’m going mad’. I am genuinely interested to understand more about you and your unique experience. No problem is too trivial or too shocking. I will listen to what you want to achieve through counselling and support you to live your best life, whatever that may mean for you.
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Naomi Light
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Petersfield GU31
Using the evidence-based Gottman Method approach for couples therapy I have proven strategies for improving communication, working through affairs and resolving repeating conflict.
Should I talk to someone about this? If you have found yourself on this page, it is likely that you have had this thought. Perhaps you have experienced a distressing event or betrayal or have lost the passion in your relationship. Perhaps you are looking for help as a couple or as an individual. Whatever the reason you are seeking help, reaching out is always a brave step. It is helpful to know what to expect.
Using the evidence-based Gottman Method approach for couples therapy I have proven strategies for improving communication, working through affairs and resolving repeating conflict.
Should I talk to someone about this? If you have found yourself on this page, it is likely that you have had this thought. Perhaps you have experienced a distressing event or betrayal or have lost the passion in your relationship. Perhaps you are looking for help as a couple or as an individual. Whatever the reason you are seeking help, reaching out is always a brave step. It is helpful to know what to expect.
01730 776641 View 01730 776641
Photo of Lucy Solymar, Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Lucy Solymar
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Petersfield GU32
My clients often feel painfully stuck in some way and that's why they come to me. Problems become overwhelming. For instance, being unhappy in a marriage; having a serious illness and dealing with its effects; feeling low and not understanding why; dealing with divorce; having problems with one's children and not being sure how to manage; wanting to move forward in life but just not managing somehow; work issues - struggles with colleagues, dissatisfaction with a career. Anxiety, depression and confusion usually accompany these challenging life situations.
My clients often feel painfully stuck in some way and that's why they come to me. Problems become overwhelming. For instance, being unhappy in a marriage; having a serious illness and dealing with its effects; feeling low and not understanding why; dealing with divorce; having problems with one's children and not being sure how to manage; wanting to move forward in life but just not managing somehow; work issues - struggles with colleagues, dissatisfaction with a career. Anxiety, depression and confusion usually accompany these challenging life situations.
07563 380070 View 07563 380070

Online Therapists

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Sasha McBean
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
London SW4  (Online Only)
I am accredited by the BACP & RNIB and also, help couples using 'The Gottman Method'.
1 in 6 have experienced sexual abuse in their childhood, it's a topic that many people feel uncomfortable talking about yet the aftermath of the abuse can have long-lasting effects. It impacts your income, personal relationships & health. You may be experiencing feelings of isolation, self-doubt, or even suffer physically e.g.fibromyalgia. This can happen several years after being abused or remembering it. What if I told you there is a way to come to terms with your past and thrive in the present? Healing Hands Counselling is a psychotherapeutic service which, specialises in this area.
I am accredited by the BACP & RNIB and also, help couples using 'The Gottman Method'.
1 in 6 have experienced sexual abuse in their childhood, it's a topic that many people feel uncomfortable talking about yet the aftermath of the abuse can have long-lasting effects. It impacts your income, personal relationships & health. You may be experiencing feelings of isolation, self-doubt, or even suffer physically e.g.fibromyalgia. This can happen several years after being abused or remembering it. What if I told you there is a way to come to terms with your past and thrive in the present? Healing Hands Counselling is a psychotherapeutic service which, specialises in this area.
020 3893 3352 View 020 3893 3352
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Steve Peck
Psychotherapist, MHGI
Verified Verified
London EC1V
I have extensive lifelong experience of supporting those suffering with poor mental health, including the most severe conditions. I have worked successfully with people of all ages, including adolescents, homemakers, C-Suite executives and those receiving end-of-life care. I also work with couples using The Gottman Method.
I have extensive lifelong experience of supporting those suffering with poor mental health, including the most severe conditions. I have worked successfully with people of all ages, including adolescents, homemakers, C-Suite executives and those receiving end-of-life care. I also work with couples using The Gottman Method.
020 3984 9995 View 020 3984 9995
Photo of Tara Gallagher. Individual And Couples Therapy, Counsellor in Fleet, England
Tara Gallagher. Individual And Couples Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW7
Using therapies like Psychodynamic, CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method, sessions are tailored to each client to foster positive change.
Since 2009, I've been committed to supporting clients in their healing journey by offering talking therapy and conducting over 4000 successful EMDR sessions. Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments. In therapy, we start by understanding your story's narrative. We unravel underlying beliefs like "I'm not good enough," "It's my fault," and "I'm unsafe." Together, we collaborate to establish secure attachment and facilitate repair.
Using therapies like Psychodynamic, CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method, sessions are tailored to each client to foster positive change.
Since 2009, I've been committed to supporting clients in their healing journey by offering talking therapy and conducting over 4000 successful EMDR sessions. Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments. In therapy, we start by understanding your story's narrative. We unravel underlying beliefs like "I'm not good enough," "It's my fault," and "I'm unsafe." Together, we collaborate to establish secure attachment and facilitate repair.
020 4538 7154 View 020 4538 7154
Photo of Orah Bradshaw, Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Orah Bradshaw
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Southampton SO31
I work with an integrative approach which is influenced by the Gottman Method of couple’s therapy.
Do you believe you are doing the best you can but unfortunately often end up experiencing repetitive cycles of hurt and misunderstanding? When couples enter my counselling room, they are often filled with pain and despair. They look to me, to address their conflicts, help them recover from distress and repair their relationships.
I work with an integrative approach which is influenced by the Gottman Method of couple’s therapy.
Do you believe you are doing the best you can but unfortunately often end up experiencing repetitive cycles of hurt and misunderstanding? When couples enter my counselling room, they are often filled with pain and despair. They look to me, to address their conflicts, help them recover from distress and repair their relationships.
023 8235 3732 View 023 8235 3732
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Tom Buckland
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Hythe SO45
uk) and base much of the work on the Gottman Method.
Relationship Counsellor and Anxiety Therapist, BACP Accredited Psychotherapist, based in Hythe near Southampton, Hampshire. I'm Tom Buckland and I've been helping people through difficult times since 2003 and specialise in providing Couple Counselling (once know as marriage guidance counselling or relationship counselling) as well as working with Anxiety and Trauma. I work in a humanistic approach so we can work out together the best approach in the therapy to help you.
uk) and base much of the work on the Gottman Method.
Relationship Counsellor and Anxiety Therapist, BACP Accredited Psychotherapist, based in Hythe near Southampton, Hampshire. I'm Tom Buckland and I've been helping people through difficult times since 2003 and specialise in providing Couple Counselling (once know as marriage guidance counselling or relationship counselling) as well as working with Anxiety and Trauma. I work in a humanistic approach so we can work out together the best approach in the therapy to help you.
023 8214 8556 View 023 8214 8556
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Promis Clinics
Verified Verified
London SW7
We offer intensive residential treatment with 24-hour nursing and medical care alongside psychological, psychotherapeutic and psychiatric services all within a caring and stylish homely environment.
We offer intensive residential treatment with 24-hour nursing and medical care alongside psychological, psychotherapeutic and psychiatric services all within a caring and stylish homely environment.
020 3958 4322 View 020 3958 4322
Photo of Dr Yordan K. Zhekov, Counsellor in Fleet, England
Dr Yordan K. Zhekov
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Verified Verified
Watford WD18
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or struggling with everyday life? Perhaps you are experiencing feelings you can't quite identify? Are you looking for help with various life challenging issues/situations? Have you got to the point where you can't go on alone and need someone else to help you? Whatever you are facing, you no longer have to do this alone, I am here to provide you with relevant support and address your needs. As an integrative counsellor I am using a compilation of therapeutic methods tailored to the individual's needs and goals providing an environment for enablement and empowerment of their achievement.
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or struggling with everyday life? Perhaps you are experiencing feelings you can't quite identify? Are you looking for help with various life challenging issues/situations? Have you got to the point where you can't go on alone and need someone else to help you? Whatever you are facing, you no longer have to do this alone, I am here to provide you with relevant support and address your needs. As an integrative counsellor I am using a compilation of therapeutic methods tailored to the individual's needs and goals providing an environment for enablement and empowerment of their achievement.
01923 936765 View 01923 936765
Photo of Patricia Calabro, Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Patricia Calabro
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW19
Seeking support takes courage, so congratulations on taking that first step! Whether you are struggling with a crisis, looking for a space to talk and reflect, or something in between, we can take on your challenges together. My mission is to help you fulfill your therapeutic goals by helping you strengthen your emotional well being, improve your interpersonal relationships, gain insight and understanding around your triggers and reactions, while gaining the necessary tools to be in control.
Seeking support takes courage, so congratulations on taking that first step! Whether you are struggling with a crisis, looking for a space to talk and reflect, or something in between, we can take on your challenges together. My mission is to help you fulfill your therapeutic goals by helping you strengthen your emotional well being, improve your interpersonal relationships, gain insight and understanding around your triggers and reactions, while gaining the necessary tools to be in control.
020 4538 2453 View 020 4538 2453
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Dr Sarah Lloyd
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Sevenoaks TN13
I approach therapy with a compassionate, authentic, non-judgemental stance. I am experienced in working with a broad range of clinical presentations including anxiety (e.g. generalised anxiety, social anxiety, health anxiety, OCD) and depression as well as supporting people through difficult life circumstances (e.g. divorce, bereavement). I have specialist knowledge working with people experiencing psychological distress within the context of physical health difficulties and have an ongoing interest in work-related stress and burnout.
I approach therapy with a compassionate, authentic, non-judgemental stance. I am experienced in working with a broad range of clinical presentations including anxiety (e.g. generalised anxiety, social anxiety, health anxiety, OCD) and depression as well as supporting people through difficult life circumstances (e.g. divorce, bereavement). I have specialist knowledge working with people experiencing psychological distress within the context of physical health difficulties and have an ongoing interest in work-related stress and burnout.
01732 443343 View 01732 443343
Photo of Gillian Beckwith, Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Gillian Beckwith
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
London W4  (Online Only)
Fully qualified and highly experienced with all sexual and relational dilemmas, and especially when matters are usually fuelled by anxiety/depression which can come with a sense of loneliness or isolation. I happily work with all kinds of couples or individuals on their relationships and also general personal dilemmas, for example, grief, loss, anxiety, depression and I have done so for a long time. Using a clinical supervisor, I maintain regular sessions about my (anonymised) client work to ensure consistently effective therapy. I have industry-standard insurance.
Fully qualified and highly experienced with all sexual and relational dilemmas, and especially when matters are usually fuelled by anxiety/depression which can come with a sense of loneliness or isolation. I happily work with all kinds of couples or individuals on their relationships and also general personal dilemmas, for example, grief, loss, anxiety, depression and I have done so for a long time. Using a clinical supervisor, I maintain regular sessions about my (anonymised) client work to ensure consistently effective therapy. I have industry-standard insurance.
01748 902286 View 01748 902286
Photo of Elaine Y Wong, Counsellor in Fleet, England
Elaine Y Y Wong
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Coventry CV4  (Online Only)
Elaine is a Registrant Accredited Counsellor by the Professional Standards Authority in UK and a Certified Counsellor by the Professional Counselling Association of Hong Kong in HKSAR. Elaine has her private practice with Curing Heart Counselling Services Centre since 2016 and excels in helping and supporting clients with traumatic issues, relationship problems, career path confusions and all kinds emotional difficulties, such as anxiety, depression, phobia and sleeping problems. Elaine is passionate to life transformation and growth. She worked across a range of settings , such as NGOs, Department of Governance, schools colleges.
Elaine is a Registrant Accredited Counsellor by the Professional Standards Authority in UK and a Certified Counsellor by the Professional Counselling Association of Hong Kong in HKSAR. Elaine has her private practice with Curing Heart Counselling Services Centre since 2016 and excels in helping and supporting clients with traumatic issues, relationship problems, career path confusions and all kinds emotional difficulties, such as anxiety, depression, phobia and sleeping problems. Elaine is passionate to life transformation and growth. She worked across a range of settings , such as NGOs, Department of Governance, schools colleges.
01676 939508 View 01676 939508
Photo of Stables Retreat Clinic, Counsellor in Fleet, England
Stables Retreat Clinic
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Braintree CM7
A life searching for peace and happiness !.... often this is hampered by what we have experienced and our ability to cope. Due to time spent working with Relate I offer a safe space to explore your relationship with yourself and with others. Partners of people struggling with problems, addictions and hang ups are often overlooked and can find here recognition and understanding of that struggle. I can offer face to face if you prefer this way of working as well as online. The practice also offers a peaceful place to touch/see horses and walking as a trust building option.
A life searching for peace and happiness !.... often this is hampered by what we have experienced and our ability to cope. Due to time spent working with Relate I offer a safe space to explore your relationship with yourself and with others. Partners of people struggling with problems, addictions and hang ups are often overlooked and can find here recognition and understanding of that struggle. I can offer face to face if you prefer this way of working as well as online. The practice also offers a peaceful place to touch/see horses and walking as a trust building option.
01371 708264 View 01371 708264
Photo of Rosalind Simpson, Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Rosalind Simpson
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London N16
I work with individuals and couples. Although I specialise in relationship issues including sex and sexuality, I have a vast experience in most other issues including anxiety and depression, stress, trauma and PTSD, phobias and panic, low self esteem and social anxiety, loneliness and loss. I am a sex positive therapist and open to whatever your identification or orientation including kink, polyamory and consensual BDSM. I can help you achieve your goals and reach your full potential. Please contact me for a free 15 minute Zoom or telephone conversation to see if you think you would like working with me or one of my associates.
I work with individuals and couples. Although I specialise in relationship issues including sex and sexuality, I have a vast experience in most other issues including anxiety and depression, stress, trauma and PTSD, phobias and panic, low self esteem and social anxiety, loneliness and loss. I am a sex positive therapist and open to whatever your identification or orientation including kink, polyamory and consensual BDSM. I can help you achieve your goals and reach your full potential. Please contact me for a free 15 minute Zoom or telephone conversation to see if you think you would like working with me or one of my associates.
020 3856 8640 View 020 3856 8640
Photo of Lorraine McGinlay, Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Lorraine McGinlay
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Letchworth Garden City SG6  (Online Only)
The service I offer is built on the belief that everyone is unique, with their own personal view of the world, their own responses to different life events and their own reasons for considering counselling. In other words, the service is built around you as an individual or as a couple. I believe the focus should be on who you are, what you need and how the difficulty you are experiencing is impacting you and your life.
The service I offer is built on the belief that everyone is unique, with their own personal view of the world, their own responses to different life events and their own reasons for considering counselling. In other words, the service is built around you as an individual or as a couple. I believe the focus should be on who you are, what you need and how the difficulty you are experiencing is impacting you and your life.
01462 413751 View 01462 413751
Photo of Sema Bedran, Psychologist in Fleet, England
Sema Bedran
Psychologist, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Barnet EN4
I am a relatable therapist with a wealth of experience in addressing various psychological concerns. My practice is open to individuals, couples, and families seeking support for relationship dynamics, parenting challenges, and various personal struggles. I specialize in assisting clients with relational problems, anxiety, depression, anger management, grief, identity and immigration issues, and life cycle transitions such as pre-marriage and marriage counselling, parenting, menopause, and retirement.
I am a relatable therapist with a wealth of experience in addressing various psychological concerns. My practice is open to individuals, couples, and families seeking support for relationship dynamics, parenting challenges, and various personal struggles. I specialize in assisting clients with relational problems, anxiety, depression, anger management, grief, identity and immigration issues, and life cycle transitions such as pre-marriage and marriage counselling, parenting, menopause, and retirement.
020 3835 4837 View 020 3835 4837
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Randi Levinson
MA
Verified Verified
London SW3  (Online Only)
Long Term Relationships, Marriage, and Intimacy are my areas of passion. I have been in private practice for nearly 16 years. Those of us who are in relationships understand the complexities and hardships that come along with trying to maintain love, closeness and intimacy.
Long Term Relationships, Marriage, and Intimacy are my areas of passion. I have been in private practice for nearly 16 years. Those of us who are in relationships understand the complexities and hardships that come along with trying to maintain love, closeness and intimacy.
020 3476 9614 View 020 3476 9614
Photo of Avenca Therapy - Giedre Dian , Psychotherapist in Fleet, England
Avenca Therapy - Giedre Dian
Psychotherapist, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Hailsham BN27  (Online Only)
Clinical lead and director at Avenca therapy, www.vencatherapy.com, working with clients which the mother tongue is Italian, Portuguese and or English. Addressing and facilitating a range of issues from low self-esteem, anxiety to complex trauma. Available online clinics out of hours, including Saturday and Sunday morning, addressing time of clients with a busy life. Working in an integrative way, facilitating the exploration of feelings using narrative and creativity in the process I have range of experience , writing articles for specialist magazines, teaching counselling and also in the educational setting, and couples.
Clinical lead and director at Avenca therapy, www.vencatherapy.com, working with clients which the mother tongue is Italian, Portuguese and or English. Addressing and facilitating a range of issues from low self-esteem, anxiety to complex trauma. Available online clinics out of hours, including Saturday and Sunday morning, addressing time of clients with a busy life. Working in an integrative way, facilitating the exploration of feelings using narrative and creativity in the process I have range of experience , writing articles for specialist magazines, teaching counselling and also in the educational setting, and couples.
01323 921146 View 01323 921146

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How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.