Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in England

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Becky Crepsley-Fox
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Are you struggling with intimacy, mismatched desire, or sexual challenges? Do you feel held back by trauma, sexual dysfunction, or uncertainty around your identity? Are you navigating complexities within a LGBTQIA, GSERD, non-monogamous, or kink-oriented relationship? If so, I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can explore your concerns. Together, we can address shame, improve intimacy, and help you embrace a fulfilling, authentic version of yourself.
Are you struggling with intimacy, mismatched desire, or sexual challenges? Do you feel held back by trauma, sexual dysfunction, or uncertainty around your identity? Are you navigating complexities within a LGBTQIA, GSERD, non-monogamous, or kink-oriented relationship? If so, I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can explore your concerns. Together, we can address shame, improve intimacy, and help you embrace a fulfilling, authentic version of yourself.
01273 092069 View 01273 092069
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Michelle Rudd
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
I am gender-affirming, kink-aware, polyamory positive and LGBTQ+ friendly and have experience with working with clients with a range of neurodiversity.
I am a compassionate and highly skilled therapist specializing in individual and relationship therapy. I am dedicated to helping clients navigate complex relationship issues, enhance communication, and foster deeper connections. My inclusive and non-judgmental approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of each client, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for all. Life can be tough - depression, anxiety, trauma, grief - the list can go on and on. Relationships can lose their way, and the daily work of human interconnection can become challenging. Let's find a way forward together.
I am gender-affirming, kink-aware, polyamory positive and LGBTQ+ friendly and have experience with working with clients with a range of neurodiversity.
I am a compassionate and highly skilled therapist specializing in individual and relationship therapy. I am dedicated to helping clients navigate complex relationship issues, enhance communication, and foster deeper connections. My inclusive and non-judgmental approach is tailored to meet the unique needs of each client, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for all. Life can be tough - depression, anxiety, trauma, grief - the list can go on and on. Relationships can lose their way, and the daily work of human interconnection can become challenging. Let's find a way forward together.
01299 667713 View 01299 667713
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Sally Redmond
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
My practice supports Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, Kink Affirmative and Sex Worker Friendly.
I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Sex and Relationship Trainee Therapist. The key to the way I work is in the relationship we build with each other, to facilitate exploring your thinking, feelings and experience. I work in a person centred way which is pluralistic, meaning I have a number of training and experience to draw upon and where I believe that you are the expert in your own feelings and experience, although you may not be feel like an expert in yourself at times.
My practice supports Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, Kink Affirmative and Sex Worker Friendly.
I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Sex and Relationship Trainee Therapist. The key to the way I work is in the relationship we build with each other, to facilitate exploring your thinking, feelings and experience. I work in a person centred way which is pluralistic, meaning I have a number of training and experience to draw upon and where I believe that you are the expert in your own feelings and experience, although you may not be feel like an expert in yourself at times.
01733 964662 View 01733 964662
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Rosalind Simpson
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
Rosalind Simpson Individual and Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist City Dynamic Therapy Dalston Hackney East London N16 Rosalind Simpson is an experienced individual and couples counsellor and psychotherapist based at City Dynamic Therapy in Dalston Hackney East London N16. She offers a range of therapeutic services, including psychosexual (sex) counselling. Rosalind works with clients face-to-face in Hackney East London and worldwide via Zoom, providing support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and relationship and sexual challenges. A sex-positive and inclusive therapist welcoming individuals and couples
City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
Rosalind Simpson Individual and Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist City Dynamic Therapy Dalston Hackney East London N16 Rosalind Simpson is an experienced individual and couples counsellor and psychotherapist based at City Dynamic Therapy in Dalston Hackney East London N16. She offers a range of therapeutic services, including psychosexual (sex) counselling. Rosalind works with clients face-to-face in Hackney East London and worldwide via Zoom, providing support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and relationship and sexual challenges. A sex-positive and inclusive therapist welcoming individuals and couples
020 3856 8640 View 020 3856 8640
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Alison Cassy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
I am an Accredited Psychotherapeutic counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist, supporting individual and couple clients to explore a wide range of general and sex and relationship issues. I am a registered Sex Addiction Therapist, supporting sex and pornography addiction issues and a registered StopSo Therapist, working with contact and online sex offending issues. As a Psychosexual Therapist, I can offer you support with sexual function problems such as premature/delayed ejaculation, unreliable erections, painful sex and penetration problems, low libido and orgasm difficulties. I am an LGBTQ+ positive and kink aware therapist.
I am an Accredited Psychotherapeutic counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist, supporting individual and couple clients to explore a wide range of general and sex and relationship issues. I am a registered Sex Addiction Therapist, supporting sex and pornography addiction issues and a registered StopSo Therapist, working with contact and online sex offending issues. As a Psychosexual Therapist, I can offer you support with sexual function problems such as premature/delayed ejaculation, unreliable erections, painful sex and penetration problems, low libido and orgasm difficulties. I am an LGBTQ+ positive and kink aware therapist.
01243 957232 View 01243 957232
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Jordan Karis Dixon
Psychotherapist, PsychD, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Online Only
Jordan believes there are no limits in our awareness and growth towards achieving optimal sexuality. She's passionately curious in unlocking sexual potential. Her Chinese and Spanish heritage and background in Social Policy, she’s described with an innate awareness and intersectional understanding of the barriers people face in society that inhibits access to our erotic selves. She's GSRD affirming, going beyond exclusivity and restrictions of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans) which includes everyone on the gender spectrum and diverse sexualities and practices including BDSM/ Kink, asexualities, consensual and non-monogamies.
Jordan believes there are no limits in our awareness and growth towards achieving optimal sexuality. She's passionately curious in unlocking sexual potential. Her Chinese and Spanish heritage and background in Social Policy, she’s described with an innate awareness and intersectional understanding of the barriers people face in society that inhibits access to our erotic selves. She's GSRD affirming, going beyond exclusivity and restrictions of LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans) which includes everyone on the gender spectrum and diverse sexualities and practices including BDSM/ Kink, asexualities, consensual and non-monogamies.
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Nichola Marchant
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am sex positive and kink friendly.
I work predominantly with adults who have experienced trauma / negative life experiences which have impacted on their sexual functioning, mental health, emotional well-being and relationships. I offer both short and long term therapy for clients wishing to gain a better understanding of their lives and experiences and provide strategies and interventions to enable my clients to live the lives they want to live. I work with people who have sexual problems and who wish to achieve a happy and healthy sexual identity.
I am sex positive and kink friendly.
I work predominantly with adults who have experienced trauma / negative life experiences which have impacted on their sexual functioning, mental health, emotional well-being and relationships. I offer both short and long term therapy for clients wishing to gain a better understanding of their lives and experiences and provide strategies and interventions to enable my clients to live the lives they want to live. I work with people who have sexual problems and who wish to achieve a happy and healthy sexual identity.
07771 391614 View 07771 391614
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Bima Loxley
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am a queer trans nonbinary sex & relationship therapist who provides therapy for couples, multiple partnered relationships (ie non monogamy, colleagues, friends, families & groups) & individuals online only. As a Clinical Sexologist & Relationship Therapist I can help you with three sectors: Sex: desire & arousal, sexuality, sexual health, sexual function & pain, low-esteem. Relationships: intimacy, conflict management, infidelity, life changes, family issues. Gender & sexual identity: LGBTQIA+, Kink, gender dysphoria, sex work, diverse relationship styles. When I reply to your email, please check your junk/spam too!
I am a queer trans nonbinary sex & relationship therapist who provides therapy for couples, multiple partnered relationships (ie non monogamy, colleagues, friends, families & groups) & individuals online only. As a Clinical Sexologist & Relationship Therapist I can help you with three sectors: Sex: desire & arousal, sexuality, sexual health, sexual function & pain, low-esteem. Relationships: intimacy, conflict management, infidelity, life changes, family issues. Gender & sexual identity: LGBTQIA+, Kink, gender dysphoria, sex work, diverse relationship styles. When I reply to your email, please check your junk/spam too!
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Louise Styles
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I can help with relationship issues including romantic, platonic, family and work colleagues; I can advise upon sexual difficulties, exploring sexuality, alternative relationships, kink, shame, jealousy, controlling behaviour, codependency; and I can help clients to process and reframe their own negative core beliefs and change unhelpful coping strategies.
Clients come to me when they are experiencing distress in their relationships, with their sex lives or within themselves. Whether they are seeking help in processing a string of messy break-ups, exploring alternative relationship such as polyamory or intimacy styles such as kink and BDSM, dealing with cheating, shame, guilt or regret, or suffering from low self-esteem and feeling stuck. I listen, reflect, and support my clients with identifying unhelpful thoughts and behaviour patterns. Nothing is taboo or too shocking to bring to me. Also experienced in delivering workshops and seminars to groups, media and educational settings.
I can help with relationship issues including romantic, platonic, family and work colleagues; I can advise upon sexual difficulties, exploring sexuality, alternative relationships, kink, shame, jealousy, controlling behaviour, codependency; and I can help clients to process and reframe their own negative core beliefs and change unhelpful coping strategies.
Clients come to me when they are experiencing distress in their relationships, with their sex lives or within themselves. Whether they are seeking help in processing a string of messy break-ups, exploring alternative relationship such as polyamory or intimacy styles such as kink and BDSM, dealing with cheating, shame, guilt or regret, or suffering from low self-esteem and feeling stuck. I listen, reflect, and support my clients with identifying unhelpful thoughts and behaviour patterns. Nothing is taboo or too shocking to bring to me. Also experienced in delivering workshops and seminars to groups, media and educational settings.
01489 357115 View 01489 357115
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Bea Xu
Psychotherapist, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
The service I offer is queer-, kink-, ENM-friendly and culturally sensitive.
As someone who experienced a profound alignment to my artistic path and community in recent years after what felt like a lifetime of painful trial and error, I am particularly invested in helping individuals who wish to self-actualise any frustrated creative potential or uncover a calling. The transpersonal aspect of psychotherapy deals with a spiritual dimension of the human experience (not necessarily one that is religious) and in this capacity I hope to assist with people undergoing spiritual emergency.
The service I offer is queer-, kink-, ENM-friendly and culturally sensitive.
As someone who experienced a profound alignment to my artistic path and community in recent years after what felt like a lifetime of painful trial and error, I am particularly invested in helping individuals who wish to self-actualise any frustrated creative potential or uncover a calling. The transpersonal aspect of psychotherapy deals with a spiritual dimension of the human experience (not necessarily one that is religious) and in this capacity I hope to assist with people undergoing spiritual emergency.
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Holly Muxworthy
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I am LGBTQIA+ friendly and kink aware.
​I seek to explore your experience of anxiety, stuck-ness or pain as a challenging but essential part of living. I will be curious about your experience and may encourage you to explore certain aspects further. I am interested in hearing the challenges you have faced and how they have brought you here. I am concerned with themes such as loneliness, meaning and isolation and how you may be living painfully with these aspects of life.
I am LGBTQIA+ friendly and kink aware.
​I seek to explore your experience of anxiety, stuck-ness or pain as a challenging but essential part of living. I will be curious about your experience and may encourage you to explore certain aspects further. I am interested in hearing the challenges you have faced and how they have brought you here. I am concerned with themes such as loneliness, meaning and isolation and how you may be living painfully with these aspects of life.
01843 265532 View 01843 265532
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Michael Blakeborough
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
I am a GSRD, sex positive counsellor who can provide a LGBTQ+ focused environment.
I chiefly work with clients who identify as LGBTQIA+ and clients who practice ethical non-monogamy within their relationships, but I have accumulated thousands of hours of experience working with individual clients from all walks of life. I commonly work with presentations of anxiety, depression and issues around relationships, sexuality and gender.
I am a GSRD, sex positive counsellor who can provide a LGBTQ+ focused environment.
I chiefly work with clients who identify as LGBTQIA+ and clients who practice ethical non-monogamy within their relationships, but I have accumulated thousands of hours of experience working with individual clients from all walks of life. I commonly work with presentations of anxiety, depression and issues around relationships, sexuality and gender.
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theyxologist
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals, couples, and poly-dynamics overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
As a Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist, I help individuals, couples, and poly-dynamics overcome the barriers that hold them back from living satisfying, sex-positive lives, and from having meaningful, deeply connective relationships.
020 4538 1695 View 020 4538 1695
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Sexuality Space
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more. I offer a non-judgmental and supportive space for everyone, where all lifestyles, identities, and orientations are affirmed and embraced. If you are new to therapy, I know how nervous you may feel, and I understand how important it is to find the right therapist; for this very reason, our first consultation is free of charge. Visit SexualitySpace.com to book your free first session.
Welcome! I am Kalvin at Sexuality Space, a modern therapy practice that specialises in mental health, sexual identity, relationships, LGBTQIA+, kink, confidence building, sexual health, non-monogamy, sex worker support and so much more. I offer a non-judgmental and supportive space for everyone, where all lifestyles, identities, and orientations are affirmed and embraced. If you are new to therapy, I know how nervous you may feel, and I understand how important it is to find the right therapist; for this very reason, our first consultation is free of charge. Visit SexualitySpace.com to book your free first session.
020 3856 8839 View 020 3856 8839
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Ailis Weir
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
I am also non-monogamous and part of kink communities, so I can talk to you about these parts of life in an open way.
I am a person-centred counsellor who primarily works with members of the LGBTQ+ community. While mental health issues can be a huge barrier for anyone, for LGBTQ+ people these issues can be magnified. Often LGBTQ+ folks struggle to feel understood, to feel heard, and can suffer social isolation as a result. Coming out, again and again, to ourselves, our friends, our partners all while finding one’s true sense of self, can be a lifelong mission. My outlook on counselling is based on compassion and honesty, and I work to foster an environment where collaboration is encouraged. Find out more at my website www.beyondlineartherapy.com.
I am also non-monogamous and part of kink communities, so I can talk to you about these parts of life in an open way.
I am a person-centred counsellor who primarily works with members of the LGBTQ+ community. While mental health issues can be a huge barrier for anyone, for LGBTQ+ people these issues can be magnified. Often LGBTQ+ folks struggle to feel understood, to feel heard, and can suffer social isolation as a result. Coming out, again and again, to ourselves, our friends, our partners all while finding one’s true sense of self, can be a lifelong mission. My outlook on counselling is based on compassion and honesty, and I work to foster an environment where collaboration is encouraged. Find out more at my website www.beyondlineartherapy.com.
0113 519 4367 View 0113 519 4367
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Philip Anthony Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Also extensive experience with LGBTQ+ people; This includes identity, relationships, internalised homophobia, coming out (or not), sexual identity (including kink Aware etc.
Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. Talking about personal issues can be difficult but I am here to support your individual needs. I work with children, young people, and adults. Contacting a counsellor can scary if you have never done it before, but please be assured we will move at your own speed in your own time. You can contact me via email or phone, then decide after the free initial consultation if you want to continue. Limited Concessions for students. (Student I.D required). Individuals face to face, zoom or phone. DBS Checked. Memberships: BACP, BPS
Also extensive experience with LGBTQ+ people; This includes identity, relationships, internalised homophobia, coming out (or not), sexual identity (including kink Aware etc.
Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. Talking about personal issues can be difficult but I am here to support your individual needs. I work with children, young people, and adults. Contacting a counsellor can scary if you have never done it before, but please be assured we will move at your own speed in your own time. You can contact me via email or phone, then decide after the free initial consultation if you want to continue. Limited Concessions for students. (Student I.D required). Individuals face to face, zoom or phone. DBS Checked. Memberships: BACP, BPS
01663 798323 View 01663 798323
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Giorgia C Bertoni
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Online Only
I'm a psychodynamic therapist working primarily with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships. I am sex positive and specialise in Gender, Sexuality and Relationship diversity, meaning I'm LGBTQIA+ inclusive, BDSM/ Kink conscious, polyamorous/non-monogamous aware and sex worker allied. I have extensive experience working with difficulties such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, poor body image, internalised shame, stigmatisation due to being a sex worker, fear of intimacy, self-harm, trauma and childhood abuse.
I'm a psychodynamic therapist working primarily with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships. I am sex positive and specialise in Gender, Sexuality and Relationship diversity, meaning I'm LGBTQIA+ inclusive, BDSM/ Kink conscious, polyamorous/non-monogamous aware and sex worker allied. I have extensive experience working with difficulties such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, poor body image, internalised shame, stigmatisation due to being a sex worker, fear of intimacy, self-harm, trauma and childhood abuse.
020 8106 0714 View 020 8106 0714
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SoundMind Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hello, I'm a non-binary, pansexual, integrative psychotherapist registered with the BACP & NCPS. I am based in London, providing compassionate and LGBTQIA+ affirmative support to adults. In my practice, I offer a safe and empathic space where you can explore your challenges and work towards healing. I specialise in gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity (GSRD), my approach is trauma and kink-informed. Whether you're feeling stressed, lonely, or overwhelmed, I am here to help. Sessions are primarily online through Zoom. I offer short- and long-term counselling and psychotherapy. Please feel free to drop me a line.
Hello, I'm a non-binary, pansexual, integrative psychotherapist registered with the BACP & NCPS. I am based in London, providing compassionate and LGBTQIA+ affirmative support to adults. In my practice, I offer a safe and empathic space where you can explore your challenges and work towards healing. I specialise in gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity (GSRD), my approach is trauma and kink-informed. Whether you're feeling stressed, lonely, or overwhelmed, I am here to help. Sessions are primarily online through Zoom. I offer short- and long-term counselling and psychotherapy. Please feel free to drop me a line.
020 3984 7785 View 020 3984 7785
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Alexandra Lowe
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Psychosexual Therapist working with individuals and couples, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image issues, sexual identity, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, bdsm.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed, or that you're lacking a sense of purpose? Is something holding you back from living the life you want to live? Maybe you are struggling to communicate and connect with your partner? Do you question why you keep repeating the same patterns? My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Psychosexual Therapist working with individuals and couples, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image issues, sexual identity, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, bdsm.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed, or that you're lacking a sense of purpose? Is something holding you back from living the life you want to live? Maybe you are struggling to communicate and connect with your partner? Do you question why you keep repeating the same patterns? My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
020 3879 4641 View 020 3879 4641
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Alvaro Navarro Psychosexual/Relationship Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Online Only
Most of us will experience sexual and relationship difficulties at some point in our lives and yet it can still be very challenging and embarrassing discussing them. Talking to an experienced and qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist can help you identify the difficulties you are experiencing, understand and explore different ways you can overcome these challenges and move forward. I aim to create a confidential and safe place where you feel able to talk about these issues in a non-shaming way. I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
Most of us will experience sexual and relationship difficulties at some point in our lives and yet it can still be very challenging and embarrassing discussing them. Talking to an experienced and qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist can help you identify the difficulties you are experiencing, understand and explore different ways you can overcome these challenges and move forward. I aim to create a confidential and safe place where you feel able to talk about these issues in a non-shaming way. I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
01227 931733 View 01227 931733
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