Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in England

I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Psychosexual Therapist working with individuals and couples, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image issues, sexual identity, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, bdsm.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed, or that you're lacking a sense of purpose? Is something holding you back from living the life you want to live? Maybe you are struggling to communicate and connect with your partner? Do you question why you keep repeating the same patterns? My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Psychosexual Therapist working with individuals and couples, with issues around communication, desire/arousal, orgasm, erectile difficulties, vaginal discomfort/pain, trauma, body image issues, sexual identity, menopause, affairs, non monogamous, polyamorous relationships, porn addiction, kink, bdsm.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed, or that you're lacking a sense of purpose? Is something holding you back from living the life you want to live? Maybe you are struggling to communicate and connect with your partner? Do you question why you keep repeating the same patterns? My aim is to help you explore your feelings, thoughts and emotions and the affect they have on your behaviour and mood. I see the therapeutic process as a collaborative one, with us working side-by-side to develop your inner resources, communication skills, improve awareness of yourself, your body and your relationships with others.

Hello, I have enjoyed working as a Clinical Psychologist with adults since 1999 and have gained experience of working effectively with people with a wide range of emotional and behavioural difficulties, including anxiety, anger, mood difficulties, difficulties relating to ourselves and other people, trauma of all kinds, chronic illness and eating difficulties. I have specific training (an Advanced Specialist Diploma in Gender, Sex & Relationship Psychotherapy) and a special interest in working therapeutically with gender diverse (trans), gay and bi people or those who belong to the kink, poly community ( kink aware) or sex workers.
Hello, I have enjoyed working as a Clinical Psychologist with adults since 1999 and have gained experience of working effectively with people with a wide range of emotional and behavioural difficulties, including anxiety, anger, mood difficulties, difficulties relating to ourselves and other people, trauma of all kinds, chronic illness and eating difficulties. I have specific training (an Advanced Specialist Diploma in Gender, Sex & Relationship Psychotherapy) and a special interest in working therapeutically with gender diverse (trans), gay and bi people or those who belong to the kink, poly community ( kink aware) or sex workers.

www.tri-therapy.com
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, COSRT General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Certified as GSRD, Sex+, LGBTQIA+ Kink aware.
As an Integrative Counsellor, Psychosexual & Relationship/Marriage therapist, I weave different therapies to support clients in their uniqueness to manage and heal from struggles that affect their emotional, and mental health & happiness.
Ruptures in one's mental wellness can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, and sexual functioning/ identity concerns that hinder emotional self-esteem and ongoing happiness within and in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a gift on the journey of self-development..Is 2025 the year?
Certified as GSRD, Sex+, LGBTQIA+ Kink aware.
As an Integrative Counsellor, Psychosexual & Relationship/Marriage therapist, I weave different therapies to support clients in their uniqueness to manage and heal from struggles that affect their emotional, and mental health & happiness.
Ruptures in one's mental wellness can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, and sexual functioning/ identity concerns that hinder emotional self-esteem and ongoing happiness within and in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a gift on the journey of self-development..Is 2025 the year?

Sex and Relationships with Jacqueline Jones
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
London W1K
Relationship issues? Problems with intimate relationships, sex, porn, fetish or kink? Would you like to try couples counselling? Does sex feel addictive, painful, boring or give you anxiety? Maybe it isn't as satisfying as it was or as good as it could be? I offer bespoke Sex and Relationship Therapy, which is practical, highly specialist help for relationships and individuals. My training offers clinical sexological expertise. My approach is supportive, warm and welcoming. Why not access support and book a free phone call with me?
Relationship issues? Problems with intimate relationships, sex, porn, fetish or kink? Would you like to try couples counselling? Does sex feel addictive, painful, boring or give you anxiety? Maybe it isn't as satisfying as it was or as good as it could be? I offer bespoke Sex and Relationship Therapy, which is practical, highly specialist help for relationships and individuals. My training offers clinical sexological expertise. My approach is supportive, warm and welcoming. Why not access support and book a free phone call with me?

Healing from shame, guilt, I use a trauma-informed, kink-positive approach, welcoming all genders, orientations, and backgrounds.
I am a qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist with a postgraduate diploma in clinical sexology and experience with the NHS.
I specialise in sexual dysfunctions, including arousal issues, vaginismus, sexual pain, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, and low or no desire.
I address relationship challenges such as infidelity, conflict, communication, and life transitions like menopause or illness.
My pluralistic approach creates a safe, inclusive space informed by trauma, shame, and neurodiversity to explore intimacy, kinks, and compulsive behaviours.
Healing from shame, guilt, I use a trauma-informed, kink-positive approach, welcoming all genders, orientations, and backgrounds.
I am a qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist with a postgraduate diploma in clinical sexology and experience with the NHS.
I specialise in sexual dysfunctions, including arousal issues, vaginismus, sexual pain, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, and low or no desire.
I address relationship challenges such as infidelity, conflict, communication, and life transitions like menopause or illness.
My pluralistic approach creates a safe, inclusive space informed by trauma, shame, and neurodiversity to explore intimacy, kinks, and compulsive behaviours.

I am a GSRD, sex positive counsellor who can provide a LGBTQ+ focused environment.
I chiefly work with clients who identify as LGBTQIA+ and clients who practice ethical non-monogamy within their relationships, but I have accumulated thousands of hours of experience working with individual clients from all walks of life.
I commonly work with presentations of anxiety, depression and issues around relationships, sexuality and gender.
I am a GSRD, sex positive counsellor who can provide a LGBTQ+ focused environment.
I chiefly work with clients who identify as LGBTQIA+ and clients who practice ethical non-monogamy within their relationships, but I have accumulated thousands of hours of experience working with individual clients from all walks of life.
I commonly work with presentations of anxiety, depression and issues around relationships, sexuality and gender.

David Clifford
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW4
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, I'm David, a relationship therapist, clinical sexologist and counsellor with experience at leading UK sexual health organisations like 56 Dean Street and Controlling Chemsex. I work with individuals facing attachment and relational challenges, anxiety, OCD, sexual anxiety, erectile and ejaculation issues, problematic porn or sex use, kink, LGBTQ concerns, problematic sex involving drugs, sexual trauma, and living with STIs like HIV. For couples, I offer therapy on infidelity, declining intimacy, alternative relationship structures, and communication challenges.
Hello, I'm David, a relationship therapist, clinical sexologist and counsellor with experience at leading UK sexual health organisations like 56 Dean Street and Controlling Chemsex. I work with individuals facing attachment and relational challenges, anxiety, OCD, sexual anxiety, erectile and ejaculation issues, problematic porn or sex use, kink, LGBTQ concerns, problematic sex involving drugs, sexual trauma, and living with STIs like HIV. For couples, I offer therapy on infidelity, declining intimacy, alternative relationship structures, and communication challenges.

This means I combine different approaches to create a therapy experience that is queer and sex positive, kink-affirming and practiced with an open mindset.
Hello! I am based online and in South and East London - I provide LGBTQ+ therapy and counselling for those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, non-binary, queer, questioning, polyamorous, kink, ace etc. I offer short or long term individual therapy for adults and my work is queer positive, sex affirming, collaborative and fluid. I work primarily with individuals within the LGBTQ+ community, however, this is not exclusively. My approach to therapy is fundamentally and ethically built upon anti oppression, reflexivity, safety and trust. Therapy involves change, not conversion.
This means I combine different approaches to create a therapy experience that is queer and sex positive, kink-affirming and practiced with an open mindset.
Hello! I am based online and in South and East London - I provide LGBTQ+ therapy and counselling for those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, non-binary, queer, questioning, polyamorous, kink, ace etc. I offer short or long term individual therapy for adults and my work is queer positive, sex affirming, collaborative and fluid. I work primarily with individuals within the LGBTQ+ community, however, this is not exclusively. My approach to therapy is fundamentally and ethically built upon anti oppression, reflexivity, safety and trust. Therapy involves change, not conversion.

City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide
Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
Rosalind Simpson
Individual and Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist
City Dynamic Therapy Dalston Hackney East London N16
Rosalind Simpson is an experienced individual and couples counsellor and psychotherapist based at City Dynamic Therapy in Dalston Hackney East London N16. She offers a range of therapeutic services, including psychosexual (sex) counselling. Rosalind works with clients face-to-face in Hackney East London and worldwide via Zoom, providing support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and relationship and sexual challenges.
A sex-positive and inclusive therapist welcoming individuals and couples
City Dynamic Therapy also offers bespoke 2 or 3 day weekend intensive therapy for individual couples worldwide
Rosalind Simpson is LGBTQ+ friendly and open to polyamory, kink/ consensual BDSM.
Rosalind Simpson
Individual and Couples Counsellor & Psychotherapist
City Dynamic Therapy Dalston Hackney East London N16
Rosalind Simpson is an experienced individual and couples counsellor and psychotherapist based at City Dynamic Therapy in Dalston Hackney East London N16. She offers a range of therapeutic services, including psychosexual (sex) counselling. Rosalind works with clients face-to-face in Hackney East London and worldwide via Zoom, providing support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and relationship and sexual challenges.
A sex-positive and inclusive therapist welcoming individuals and couples

Are you new to kink, experienced, or living a BDSM 24/7 lifestyle? Do you want to talk about this or something else entirely? Do you need guidance and support in opening up your relationship? I can help you negotiate agreements, overcome poly-saturation, jealousy and envy, or work through communications problems.
I work online with people all over the world because my down-to-earth approach to therapy, coupled with my knowledge and experience of kink/BDSM and non-monogamy, are a pretty unique combination. Whatever brings you to therapy, you'll want to work with a therapist who understands and accepts all of you. I work mostly, but not exclusively, with queer, kinky and non-monogamous folk, individually and with partners. I work affirmatively with all genders, sexualities, erotic desires and practices, and relationships between consenting adults.
Are you new to kink, experienced, or living a BDSM 24/7 lifestyle? Do you want to talk about this or something else entirely? Do you need guidance and support in opening up your relationship? I can help you negotiate agreements, overcome poly-saturation, jealousy and envy, or work through communications problems.
I work online with people all over the world because my down-to-earth approach to therapy, coupled with my knowledge and experience of kink/BDSM and non-monogamy, are a pretty unique combination. Whatever brings you to therapy, you'll want to work with a therapist who understands and accepts all of you. I work mostly, but not exclusively, with queer, kinky and non-monogamous folk, individually and with partners. I work affirmatively with all genders, sexualities, erotic desires and practices, and relationships between consenting adults.

Healing and living authentically—free from shame and stigma—is a right, not a privilege. As a trauma-informed therapist, I provide an inclusive, affirming space for LGBTQIA+ individuals, disabled and chronically ill ‘spoonies,’ neurodivergent minds, kink/ENM communities, culturally fluid identities, and those navigating systemic oppression. With deep expertise in trauma recovery, identity exploration, anxiety, and relational dynamics, I can help you process emotions, nurture resilience, and reclaim meaning—because your most authentic life isn’t a luxury. It’s the goal.
Healing and living authentically—free from shame and stigma—is a right, not a privilege. As a trauma-informed therapist, I provide an inclusive, affirming space for LGBTQIA+ individuals, disabled and chronically ill ‘spoonies,’ neurodivergent minds, kink/ENM communities, culturally fluid identities, and those navigating systemic oppression. With deep expertise in trauma recovery, identity exploration, anxiety, and relational dynamics, I can help you process emotions, nurture resilience, and reclaim meaning—because your most authentic life isn’t a luxury. It’s the goal.
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My practice supports Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, Kink Affirmative and Sex Worker Friendly.
I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Sex and Relationship Trainee Therapist. The key to the way I work is in the relationship we build with each other, to facilitate exploring your thinking, feelings and experience. I work in a person centred way which is pluralistic, meaning I have a number of training and experience to draw upon and where I believe that you are the expert in your own feelings and experience, although you may not be feel like an expert in yourself at times.
My practice supports Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, Kink Affirmative and Sex Worker Friendly.
I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Sex and Relationship Trainee Therapist. The key to the way I work is in the relationship we build with each other, to facilitate exploring your thinking, feelings and experience. I work in a person centred way which is pluralistic, meaning I have a number of training and experience to draw upon and where I believe that you are the expert in your own feelings and experience, although you may not be feel like an expert in yourself at times.

I am an LGBTQ+ affirmative, Sex positive, Chemsex aware and Sex worker aware therapist and I consistently strive to help clients understand and accept their own unique and individual place in the world.
Right now you may feel desperate, lost, empty, stressed, anxious or fed up. Whatever difficulty has prompted you to seek Counselling does not define who are you are and the journey you want to take in life. Together we will explore your feelings of being stuck, alone or in darkness as you strengthen your own resources to create greater wellbeing, resilience and satisfaction. No person is the same or brings identical experiences but frequent issues I work with include depression, anxiety, loss & bereavement, trauma, suicidal thoughts, work or school stress and relationship tensions. I work with clients aged 13+ and with Couples.
I am an LGBTQ+ affirmative, Sex positive, Chemsex aware and Sex worker aware therapist and I consistently strive to help clients understand and accept their own unique and individual place in the world.
Right now you may feel desperate, lost, empty, stressed, anxious or fed up. Whatever difficulty has prompted you to seek Counselling does not define who are you are and the journey you want to take in life. Together we will explore your feelings of being stuck, alone or in darkness as you strengthen your own resources to create greater wellbeing, resilience and satisfaction. No person is the same or brings identical experiences but frequent issues I work with include depression, anxiety, loss & bereavement, trauma, suicidal thoughts, work or school stress and relationship tensions. I work with clients aged 13+ and with Couples.

I have been supporting men's sexual health, self-identity & wellbeing for over 30 years. I integrate specialist sexual health & HIV nursing experience, alongside evidence-based sex therapy for men struggling with problem sexual behaviours. I offer a safe and supportive environment to explore sexual urges, thoughts and behaviours with the aim to better understand, and make the changes you want.
I have been supporting men's sexual health, self-identity & wellbeing for over 30 years. I integrate specialist sexual health & HIV nursing experience, alongside evidence-based sex therapy for men struggling with problem sexual behaviours. I offer a safe and supportive environment to explore sexual urges, thoughts and behaviours with the aim to better understand, and make the changes you want.

Hello, I'm Claudia (she/her), a person centered psychotherapist and sexologist in training, with a passion for justice and equality. I aim to create a safe and affirming space for individuals of diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ individuals, those exploring kink or polyamory, and anyone navigating questions of gender, sexuality, or identity. I approach therapy with gentleness and a genuine curiosity about the vast spectrum of human experiences. I am here to support you as you journey through your unique story, at your own pace. When you feel stuck or uncertain, I use active, compassionate listening to guide you forward.
Hello, I'm Claudia (she/her), a person centered psychotherapist and sexologist in training, with a passion for justice and equality. I aim to create a safe and affirming space for individuals of diverse backgrounds, including LGBTQIA+ individuals, those exploring kink or polyamory, and anyone navigating questions of gender, sexuality, or identity. I approach therapy with gentleness and a genuine curiosity about the vast spectrum of human experiences. I am here to support you as you journey through your unique story, at your own pace. When you feel stuck or uncertain, I use active, compassionate listening to guide you forward.

Specialising in anxiety, stress, depression, addiction, anger, trauma, relationships, life stage challenges, sexuality issues, and neurodiversity.
I have worked with a wide variety of diverse clients on issues ranging from exploring and expressing identity, cultural challenges, polyamory, kink, body image and issues around race, gender, sexuality and masculinity.
I was previously an entrepreneur, coach and business director and also work with people who are facing challenges around meaning, purpose and direction in life.
I work with adults and young people. I also offer therapy in Urdu and Hindi.
Specialising in anxiety, stress, depression, addiction, anger, trauma, relationships, life stage challenges, sexuality issues, and neurodiversity.
I have worked with a wide variety of diverse clients on issues ranging from exploring and expressing identity, cultural challenges, polyamory, kink, body image and issues around race, gender, sexuality and masculinity.
I was previously an entrepreneur, coach and business director and also work with people who are facing challenges around meaning, purpose and direction in life.
I work with adults and young people. I also offer therapy in Urdu and Hindi.

If you are feeling stuck in certain behaviours or emotional responses I can work with you to support growth and change. I will endeavour to work with all of your intersections: culture, origins, and gender/sexual creativity. Sex positive, I have facilitated clients, including students, who identify as gender queer, trans and pansexual, tackling depression and anxiety amongst other issues.
If you are feeling stuck in certain behaviours or emotional responses I can work with you to support growth and change. I will endeavour to work with all of your intersections: culture, origins, and gender/sexual creativity. Sex positive, I have facilitated clients, including students, who identify as gender queer, trans and pansexual, tackling depression and anxiety amongst other issues.

I am knowledgeable about the sex industry and can help with issues related to sexual difficulties, identity, exploring sexuality, alternative/open relationships, kink, BDSM.
I hear from clients so many times how they feel defected, unlovable and unworthy. I’m here to tell you that its ok to be you! The first step is reaching out for help. The second step is being brave enough to let me walk alongside you through the difficult feelings that you have been carrying for so long. We will get to the other side of healing together. I am a open-minded counsellor, sex-positive, LGBTQIA+, Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity (GSRD) affirming. Also working with clients who are diagnosed or self-diagnosed as neurodivergent (ASD, OCD, ADHD).
I am knowledgeable about the sex industry and can help with issues related to sexual difficulties, identity, exploring sexuality, alternative/open relationships, kink, BDSM.
I hear from clients so many times how they feel defected, unlovable and unworthy. I’m here to tell you that its ok to be you! The first step is reaching out for help. The second step is being brave enough to let me walk alongside you through the difficult feelings that you have been carrying for so long. We will get to the other side of healing together. I am a open-minded counsellor, sex-positive, LGBTQIA+, Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity (GSRD) affirming. Also working with clients who are diagnosed or self-diagnosed as neurodivergent (ASD, OCD, ADHD).

I'm a psychodynamic therapist working primarily with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships. I am sex positive and specialise in Gender, Sexuality and Relationship diversity, meaning I'm LGBTQIA+ inclusive, BDSM/ Kink conscious, polyamorous/non-monogamous aware and sex worker allied. I have extensive experience working with difficulties such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, poor body image, internalised shame, stigmatisation due to being a sex worker, fear of intimacy, self-harm, trauma and childhood abuse.
I'm a psychodynamic therapist working primarily with issues related to sex, intimacy and relationships. I am sex positive and specialise in Gender, Sexuality and Relationship diversity, meaning I'm LGBTQIA+ inclusive, BDSM/ Kink conscious, polyamorous/non-monogamous aware and sex worker allied. I have extensive experience working with difficulties such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, poor body image, internalised shame, stigmatisation due to being a sex worker, fear of intimacy, self-harm, trauma and childhood abuse.

Alvaro Navarro Psychosexual/Relationship Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Online Only
Most of us will experience sexual and relationship difficulties at some point in our lives and yet it can still be very challenging and embarrassing discussing them. Talking to an experienced and qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist can help you identify the difficulties you are experiencing, understand and explore different ways you can overcome these challenges and move forward. I aim to create a confidential and safe place where you feel able to talk about these issues in a non-shaming way. I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
Most of us will experience sexual and relationship difficulties at some point in our lives and yet it can still be very challenging and embarrassing discussing them. Talking to an experienced and qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist can help you identify the difficulties you are experiencing, understand and explore different ways you can overcome these challenges and move forward. I aim to create a confidential and safe place where you feel able to talk about these issues in a non-shaming way. I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.