Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counselling in England

I work with a wide variety of individuals in order for them to reach their therapeutic goals. I have a clinical interest in motivation and this type of work features in the work I provide. Anxiety tends to be the most common issue I work with, but I assist in a variety of psychological, emotional and behavioural issues as well.
I work with a wide variety of individuals in order for them to reach their therapeutic goals. I have a clinical interest in motivation and this type of work features in the work I provide. Anxiety tends to be the most common issue I work with, but I assist in a variety of psychological, emotional and behavioural issues as well.

Therapy is a journey, it can provide a safe space to explore any issues that you may be experiencing and help you to make sense of your world.
Therapy is a journey, it can provide a safe space to explore any issues that you may be experiencing and help you to make sense of your world.

Hello, my name is Matthew, I am a qualified integrative therapist working in-person in London, and online across the UK. I have the conviction that it is possible to make sense of our lives and doing so makes good sense. Clients I meet often have a sense of despair around aspects of their lives and find themselves being ‘fed up of being fed up’. This despair however can serve as a useful catalyst in the quest for healing and understanding. Therapy is an opportunity to take stock of our lives and work out what we want them to be, to face ourselves head on.
Hello, my name is Matthew, I am a qualified integrative therapist working in-person in London, and online across the UK. I have the conviction that it is possible to make sense of our lives and doing so makes good sense. Clients I meet often have a sense of despair around aspects of their lives and find themselves being ‘fed up of being fed up’. This despair however can serve as a useful catalyst in the quest for healing and understanding. Therapy is an opportunity to take stock of our lives and work out what we want them to be, to face ourselves head on.

The ideal client is of course anyone ready to make real change in their lives, but I work with many seeking to reach that point. Clients see me asking “Why do I feel like this?” Once we have worked through why you do, the next goal is to see how you can change your mindset, rewrite the script so that your attitude to certain situations no longer causes you distress.
The ideal client is of course anyone ready to make real change in their lives, but I work with many seeking to reach that point. Clients see me asking “Why do I feel like this?” Once we have worked through why you do, the next goal is to see how you can change your mindset, rewrite the script so that your attitude to certain situations no longer causes you distress.

I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.

Do you struggle to communicate your needs in a relationship? Maybe you feel like you have never known what your needs are, or that they have become lost on the way. Do you find it difficult to trust others? Or do feel anxious while yearning for closeness with another. Perhaps you find yourself in a different relationship but the same dynamic and don't understand how it has happened again!
Do you struggle to communicate your needs in a relationship? Maybe you feel like you have never known what your needs are, or that they have become lost on the way. Do you find it difficult to trust others? Or do feel anxious while yearning for closeness with another. Perhaps you find yourself in a different relationship but the same dynamic and don't understand how it has happened again!

My ideal client feels stuck or overwhelmed in life. They might be dealing with grief, exploring their identity, or struggling in relationships. They want a safe space to express themselves without judgment. They seek confidence, balance, and peace. They want to understand their emotions and find practical ways to move forward. Most importantly, they seek support to face their challenges and regain hope.
My ideal client feels stuck or overwhelmed in life. They might be dealing with grief, exploring their identity, or struggling in relationships. They want a safe space to express themselves without judgment. They seek confidence, balance, and peace. They want to understand their emotions and find practical ways to move forward. Most importantly, they seek support to face their challenges and regain hope.

Hello, I'm Scott, a Psychosexual & Relationship therapist committed to helping individuals & couples navigate life's challenges. Whether you're dealing with psychosexual concerns, relationship difficulties, mental health or LGBTQI+ issues, I'm here to offer compassionate support tailored to your needs. In our sessions, you'll find a safe, confidential space where empathy & understanding take centre stage. Together, we will explore your thoughts, emotions, relationships, family history, and any past traumas, aiming to uncover the roots of your distress. My goal is to help you find relief & empower you to regain control of your life.
Hello, I'm Scott, a Psychosexual & Relationship therapist committed to helping individuals & couples navigate life's challenges. Whether you're dealing with psychosexual concerns, relationship difficulties, mental health or LGBTQI+ issues, I'm here to offer compassionate support tailored to your needs. In our sessions, you'll find a safe, confidential space where empathy & understanding take centre stage. Together, we will explore your thoughts, emotions, relationships, family history, and any past traumas, aiming to uncover the roots of your distress. My goal is to help you find relief & empower you to regain control of your life.

I provide focused therapy that will help you to see your patterns and emotions as well as moral and ethical challenges arising from interpersonal and social contexts better, to then allow you to change them. Obstacles to change are very subtle, often almost invisible. Self-awareness can redirect your energies to creating more positive states of mind. We will work on how ethical and moral dilemmas arise between people, how this interacts with different life experiences that impact your personality and how that then affects your psychological well being.
I provide focused therapy that will help you to see your patterns and emotions as well as moral and ethical challenges arising from interpersonal and social contexts better, to then allow you to change them. Obstacles to change are very subtle, often almost invisible. Self-awareness can redirect your energies to creating more positive states of mind. We will work on how ethical and moral dilemmas arise between people, how this interacts with different life experiences that impact your personality and how that then affects your psychological well being.

Have you ever felt that nobody really gets you? Have you ever been thinking I just do not fit in? If only someone would understand you! I know how lonely that can feel. When we find ourselves making the same mistakes over and over again despite following advice from our family or friends, its time to reach out to someone who can give you a better understanding why do we make the choices we make and how can we break the cycle of bad decisions.
Have you ever felt that nobody really gets you? Have you ever been thinking I just do not fit in? If only someone would understand you! I know how lonely that can feel. When we find ourselves making the same mistakes over and over again despite following advice from our family or friends, its time to reach out to someone who can give you a better understanding why do we make the choices we make and how can we break the cycle of bad decisions.

I offer an empathic, safe and honest space for you to explore whatever you bring and whatever you discover. It’s your journey, my job is to be at your side as you make it. I am qualified in Integrative counselling and psychotherapy and Gestalt counselling. This all means I am skilled at working flexibly and at finding the best fit of therapy for you.
I offer an empathic, safe and honest space for you to explore whatever you bring and whatever you discover. It’s your journey, my job is to be at your side as you make it. I am qualified in Integrative counselling and psychotherapy and Gestalt counselling. This all means I am skilled at working flexibly and at finding the best fit of therapy for you.
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I am a qualified Psychotherapist with degrees in number of different therapeutic modalities and over 20 years experience in Family and Children Services and private practice. I use effective evidence-based techniques, practices and therapeutic skills to tailor-make my approach. I use active-directive psychotherapy that promotes change by helping clients to identify, confront, and change their self-defeating thoughts and beliefs. I have extensive experience working with attachment, Childhood trauma and family relationships and in the treatment of many mental and emotional disturbances.
I am a qualified Psychotherapist with degrees in number of different therapeutic modalities and over 20 years experience in Family and Children Services and private practice. I use effective evidence-based techniques, practices and therapeutic skills to tailor-make my approach. I use active-directive psychotherapy that promotes change by helping clients to identify, confront, and change their self-defeating thoughts and beliefs. I have extensive experience working with attachment, Childhood trauma and family relationships and in the treatment of many mental and emotional disturbances.

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Hi - are you feeling stuck? Repeating the same patterns of behaviour again and again in your life or relationship and going around in circles? Do you feel a lack of love/respect from your partner or someone close to you? Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue? Perhaps trauma, life changes, neurodiversity (adhd/asc) or difficult times have led to anxiety/depression, the trust has gone, or you're feeling sad, angry, lonely, numb, or not sure what you feel anymore? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space helping individuals, couples, enm and neurodiverse relationships gain confidence to change and improve wellbeing.
Hi - are you feeling stuck? Repeating the same patterns of behaviour again and again in your life or relationship and going around in circles? Do you feel a lack of love/respect from your partner or someone close to you? Is sex/intimacy or compulsive sexual behaviour an issue? Perhaps trauma, life changes, neurodiversity (adhd/asc) or difficult times have led to anxiety/depression, the trust has gone, or you're feeling sad, angry, lonely, numb, or not sure what you feel anymore? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space helping individuals, couples, enm and neurodiverse relationships gain confidence to change and improve wellbeing.

Do you have problems getting up in the mornings, eating? Do you have issues with your self worth? Does everyone else seem to have a better life than you? Have you got mental health difficulties? Addiction including sexual addiction? Problems with understanding or accepting who you are?
Do you have problems getting up in the mornings, eating? Do you have issues with your self worth? Does everyone else seem to have a better life than you? Have you got mental health difficulties? Addiction including sexual addiction? Problems with understanding or accepting who you are?

All are welcome, however I have particular experience in working with young adults, and those experiencing change as a result of significant life shift (bereavement, a new job, leaving home, the end of a relationship), and how that relates to new identities, confidence, autonomy and relationships . I see our minds and emotions as deeply connected to our bodies, our environments and our lived experiences, and bring a whole life attitude to my counselling work. I am LGBTQIA+ friendly, and experienced with neurodivergence.
All are welcome, however I have particular experience in working with young adults, and those experiencing change as a result of significant life shift (bereavement, a new job, leaving home, the end of a relationship), and how that relates to new identities, confidence, autonomy and relationships . I see our minds and emotions as deeply connected to our bodies, our environments and our lived experiences, and bring a whole life attitude to my counselling work. I am LGBTQIA+ friendly, and experienced with neurodivergence.

I am a qualified relationship therapist. I help couples who have challenges getting along. Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn. If your world has been rocked by a discovery about your partner or you are living with secrecy that is weighing you down I can help you work through it.
You might need to explore some difficult issues and we can do that with you as a couple or individually. I recognize these can be difficult problems to share, it’s not easy, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up.
I am a qualified relationship therapist. I help couples who have challenges getting along. Maybe you are arguing all the time or perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn. If your world has been rocked by a discovery about your partner or you are living with secrecy that is weighing you down I can help you work through it.
You might need to explore some difficult issues and we can do that with you as a couple or individually. I recognize these can be difficult problems to share, it’s not easy, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up.

You've found your way here, welcome. We can struggle tremendously in trying to contend with life’s challenges alone. As daunting as it can sometimes feel, asking for support can feel freeing in itself. I’m yet to know exactly what has brought you here but I trust you are here for a reason. Maybe you are feeling disconnected from yourself, experiencing relationship difficulties, or going through huge changes. Our reasons for seeking counselling support may differ but we all want to feel heard, valued and appreciated in who we are and what we have to share and that is what I trust you will feel in the space I am offering you.
You've found your way here, welcome. We can struggle tremendously in trying to contend with life’s challenges alone. As daunting as it can sometimes feel, asking for support can feel freeing in itself. I’m yet to know exactly what has brought you here but I trust you are here for a reason. Maybe you are feeling disconnected from yourself, experiencing relationship difficulties, or going through huge changes. Our reasons for seeking counselling support may differ but we all want to feel heard, valued and appreciated in who we are and what we have to share and that is what I trust you will feel in the space I am offering you.

As a Professor of psychology with academic expertise on men, masculinities, sex and relationships, I provide bespoke therapy for men’s needs. Men prefer a less emotional, no-nonsense approach to counselling. My approach is thus problem-centered, solution-focused, with practical application and flexible session lengths. My expertise is to help men with relationship problems, particularly concerning relationshp issues (and couples counseling), issues of sex, sexuality, erectile problems, cheating, sexually opening up relationships and multiple issues related to men, adolescents, and masculinities.
As a Professor of psychology with academic expertise on men, masculinities, sex and relationships, I provide bespoke therapy for men’s needs. Men prefer a less emotional, no-nonsense approach to counselling. My approach is thus problem-centered, solution-focused, with practical application and flexible session lengths. My expertise is to help men with relationship problems, particularly concerning relationshp issues (and couples counseling), issues of sex, sexuality, erectile problems, cheating, sexually opening up relationships and multiple issues related to men, adolescents, and masculinities.

I support individuals, couples, and throuples, who are experiencing relationship and/or sexual issues. I also work with adults to resolve family and friendship difficulties. I am warm, present, and enjoy enabling people to find ways to have closer and happier relationships. Alongside private practice, I work for Relate, and have over 15 years experience helping people to feel more comfortable talking about sex and relationships. I take a biopsychosocial approach, working with at the whole person/people and their relational dynamics. I welcome all sexualities, genders, neurodivergence, and faiths (or non).
I support individuals, couples, and throuples, who are experiencing relationship and/or sexual issues. I also work with adults to resolve family and friendship difficulties. I am warm, present, and enjoy enabling people to find ways to have closer and happier relationships. Alongside private practice, I work for Relate, and have over 15 years experience helping people to feel more comfortable talking about sex and relationships. I take a biopsychosocial approach, working with at the whole person/people and their relational dynamics. I welcome all sexualities, genders, neurodivergence, and faiths (or non).

My name is Kate Alliss and I am a qualified and experienced counsellor based in Stourbridge, West Midlands. I will offer you a safe space to talk confidentially about your difficulties without fear of being judged, with empathy and with understanding. When we experience difficult times in our lives, we often struggle to understand our emotions and often find it hard to cope with our day to day lives. By working with you I will try to help you make sense of your thoughts, feelings, responses and reactions to overcome the obstacles in your life that prevent you from feeling happy and fulfilled.
My name is Kate Alliss and I am a qualified and experienced counsellor based in Stourbridge, West Midlands. I will offer you a safe space to talk confidentially about your difficulties without fear of being judged, with empathy and with understanding. When we experience difficult times in our lives, we often struggle to understand our emotions and often find it hard to cope with our day to day lives. By working with you I will try to help you make sense of your thoughts, feelings, responses and reactions to overcome the obstacles in your life that prevent you from feeling happy and fulfilled.