Online Counselling for England

Feeling overwhelmed, out of control, repeating or destructive patterns in behaviour and thinking, relationships issues, feeling low, anxious or suffering from grief. I work with a range of mental health difficulties and emotional issues. These can be difficult and distressing times and therapy can, quite literally, be a life-saver. It can also be an exciting and challenging space for personal development, growth and exploration. Therapy will give you an opportunity to be heard without judgment and time to explore anything in a safe space.

As an Accredited EMDR and CBT Therapist, my specialism is helping people rapidly build confidence, resilience, self esteem, skills, strengths and new strategies. I’m passionate about helping people overcome trauma, anxiety, OCD, stress, anger, struggles with relationships, communication, doubt, authenticity, identity, transitions, emotional regulation and wellbeing. My style is practical and encouraging, warm and down to earth. My evidence based approach is firmly rooted in what truly works to help people find lasting freedom. My emphasis is helping you make the changes that’ll make the biggest positive differences to your life.

At times we face struggles as anxiety, loneliness, sadness or an unclear sense of emptiness. Sometimes it maybe a sense of inadequacy, lack of self-esteem, feeling stuck. Sometimes troubles can focus only on certain aspects of your life:family or relationship issues, work stress and burnout, an ADHD diagnosis. Or you may be at an important transition in life and your sense of identity is lost. Counselling and CBT can help you to understand where these issues are originating, alleviate their effects, and start a process towards a more rich and happier life.

Have you faced judgement for simply being yourself? Has your sexuality, identity, gender, and life choices been disapproved of? It's challenging to live with constant questioning from family, friends, or others. We may even begin to question ourselves, wondering if we're "normal," if we're making the right choices, or if we'll ever be accepted. These thoughts can make it difficult to be confident in who we are and to find happiness. My role here is not to aim to fix things or help you feel "normal". Instead, I strive to work alongside you to discover a path that is uniquely yours, empowering you to be yourself and find happiness.

You may have been suffering for a while or perhaps something has happened recently to upset and disrupt your life. You need someone safe to turn to with your feelings, someone who is not going to judge you or feel burdened by your needs. You want to work things out and feel supported. Together we can explore, understand your situation, build on your strengths and increase your capacity and confidence.

I am a queer sex and relationship therapist who provides therapy for individuals, couples and multiple partnered relationships online only. I currently have availability for couples and those in a multiple partnered relationship as well as individuals. As a Clinical Sexologist I help with: Sex: desire & arousal, sexuality, sexual health, sexual function & pain, low-esteem Relationships: intimacy, conflict management, infidelity, life changes and Gender & sexual identity: LGBTQIA+, Kink, gender dysphoria, sex work