Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Wolverhampton

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psychlarity Consultancy
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Welcome to my profile. I am fortunate to have worked across a range of contexts as well as extensive experience with a numerous clients. As a consultant family and systemic psychotherapist with 25 years experience I specialise in parental alienation, reunification, complex trauma and ptsd, couple therapy, family therapy, eating disorders, child and adult mental health, relationship difficulties, addiction including porn, sex and betrayal. I provide therapy for child to parental violence and repair family systems. Alongside working with courts, solicitors, social care, individual clients I also provide coaching and supervision.
Welcome to my profile. I am fortunate to have worked across a range of contexts as well as extensive experience with a numerous clients. As a consultant family and systemic psychotherapist with 25 years experience I specialise in parental alienation, reunification, complex trauma and ptsd, couple therapy, family therapy, eating disorders, child and adult mental health, relationship difficulties, addiction including porn, sex and betrayal. I provide therapy for child to parental violence and repair family systems. Alongside working with courts, solicitors, social care, individual clients I also provide coaching and supervision.
01902 973074 View 01902 973074
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Matthew Smith
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
Taking the first step towards seeking help is a courageous decision. If you believe that I can be the right counsellor for you or your loved one, please don't hesitate to reach out. Whatever your situation, I will aim to understand, empathise and help you through these problems. My counselling approach is rooted in empathy, respect, and non-judgment, allowing you to explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace in a safe and encouraging environment.
Taking the first step towards seeking help is a courageous decision. If you believe that I can be the right counsellor for you or your loved one, please don't hesitate to reach out. Whatever your situation, I will aim to understand, empathise and help you through these problems. My counselling approach is rooted in empathy, respect, and non-judgment, allowing you to explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace in a safe and encouraging environment.
0121 827 1697 View 0121 827 1697
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The AoC Trust / The Arts of Change Trust
Counsellor, HCPC-Drama Therap.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Creative Arts Therapies & Traditional Talking Therapies. At The AoC Trust we really want to support families needing emotional help; couples trying to save their relationship or an individual looking for professional counselling/therapy in order to work through and heal psychological or social difficulties. If you cannot travel to us we can support you via telephone or video call. We are based in Central Dudley just a few minutes from the town centre and local bus station where we have our own lovely therapeutic rooms and training spaces and provide a fantastic team of registered and qualified therapeutic clinicians.
Creative Arts Therapies & Traditional Talking Therapies. At The AoC Trust we really want to support families needing emotional help; couples trying to save their relationship or an individual looking for professional counselling/therapy in order to work through and heal psychological or social difficulties. If you cannot travel to us we can support you via telephone or video call. We are based in Central Dudley just a few minutes from the town centre and local bus station where we have our own lovely therapeutic rooms and training spaces and provide a fantastic team of registered and qualified therapeutic clinicians.
01384 319264 View 01384 319264
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Kimberley Hackett
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
Fat positive, sex/ kink positive, LGBTQ+ allied, neurodiversity friendly, trauma informed
Life can involve upsetting, stressful, or traumatic events that can impact us in so many ways. You may have anxiety and depression, struggle with low self esteem or have suicidal/intrusive thoughts. You may have problems controlling anger, or struggle with neurodiversity in a neurotypical world. Maybe your thoughts or feelings are impacting relationships around you, or vice versa. Whatever the circumstance, I can help you understand yourself and others in a safe and non-judgmental space, for new or long term troubles. I also offer coping techniques to reduce intensity/frequency of negative thoughts, images, and physical sensations
Fat positive, sex/ kink positive, LGBTQ+ allied, neurodiversity friendly, trauma informed
Life can involve upsetting, stressful, or traumatic events that can impact us in so many ways. You may have anxiety and depression, struggle with low self esteem or have suicidal/intrusive thoughts. You may have problems controlling anger, or struggle with neurodiversity in a neurotypical world. Maybe your thoughts or feelings are impacting relationships around you, or vice versa. Whatever the circumstance, I can help you understand yourself and others in a safe and non-judgmental space, for new or long term troubles. I also offer coping techniques to reduce intensity/frequency of negative thoughts, images, and physical sensations
01922 927074 View 01922 927074

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Laura Jayne Nice
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics.
I have found that interpersonal relationship issues often intersect with deeper themes, such as patterns of relating formed in childhood, feelings of anxiety or overwhelm, identity exploration, or a sense of being stuck. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where we can explore these interconnected areas together and work toward positive change.
020 3828 7396 View 020 3828 7396
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Romario Wanliss
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Working with myself in 90min session blocks, we will explore the most important relationship you will ever have, the one with yourself.
Working with myself in 90min session blocks, we will explore the most important relationship you will ever have, the one with yourself.
01562 540769 View 01562 540769
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Jay McCarthy
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am sex worker allied, kink aware, and poly affirming.
The world feels really heavy right now. War, climate crisis, the rise of the far right, skyrocketing bills. And then there's your own personal struggles that you're trying to weather. If you're depressed, burnt out, or feeling overwhelmed, I offer a space to bring all of that - openly - without judgement. I am experienced in counselling LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (inc. autistic, BPD & ADHD) and chronically ill clients. I take a person-centred approach, not seeing you as broken or in need of fixing, but rather supporting you to make sense of what you're going through, and helping you figure out a way forward that really works for you.
I am sex worker allied, kink aware, and poly affirming.
The world feels really heavy right now. War, climate crisis, the rise of the far right, skyrocketing bills. And then there's your own personal struggles that you're trying to weather. If you're depressed, burnt out, or feeling overwhelmed, I offer a space to bring all of that - openly - without judgement. I am experienced in counselling LGBTQ+, neurodivergent (inc. autistic, BPD & ADHD) and chronically ill clients. I take a person-centred approach, not seeing you as broken or in need of fixing, but rather supporting you to make sense of what you're going through, and helping you figure out a way forward that really works for you.
07737 426052 View 07737 426052
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Kaitlyn Hillier
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Online Only
I have experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, interpersonal-relational issues, intimacy, sexuality, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, and personality. I am committed to anti-oppressive practice, freedom from judgement or marginalization, and empowerment. I have experience working with the LGBTQIA + community and with issues relating to Sexuality and Alternative sexual lifestyles. I have underwent specialty training in sex therapy. I also have experience with dreams, symbolism, and depth psychologies.
I have experience working with anxiety, grief, depression, interpersonal-relational issues, intimacy, sexuality, self-confidence, self-esteem, self-awareness, and personality. I am committed to anti-oppressive practice, freedom from judgement or marginalization, and empowerment. I have experience working with the LGBTQIA + community and with issues relating to Sexuality and Alternative sexual lifestyles. I have underwent specialty training in sex therapy. I also have experience with dreams, symbolism, and depth psychologies.
01384 437929 View 01384 437929
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Caroline Taylor
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Imagine what would be possible if you freed yourself from trauma, fear and loss; and instead, there were a possibility of hope and growth? How would it feel if you enjoyed your sex life again after rape or sexual assault? What would it be like if you let go of the grief you have for a loved one, and thought of them with appreciation and love instead of feeling pain and distress? What would happen to your life if you could manage the loss of your baby, or your dearly hoped for child? How would it feel if you were supported as a professional under investigation, or be guided to adjust after a traumatic event in your workplace?
Imagine what would be possible if you freed yourself from trauma, fear and loss; and instead, there were a possibility of hope and growth? How would it feel if you enjoyed your sex life again after rape or sexual assault? What would it be like if you let go of the grief you have for a loved one, and thought of them with appreciation and love instead of feeling pain and distress? What would happen to your life if you could manage the loss of your baby, or your dearly hoped for child? How would it feel if you were supported as a professional under investigation, or be guided to adjust after a traumatic event in your workplace?
020 4572 8469 View 020 4572 8469
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Darren Good
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
What if you accepted every part of yourself, even those you hide from the world? What might be possible? Modern life can be challenging, with its demands, expectations and technology, but self-discovery can lead to learning, growth and a greater sense of ease. I can be your calm companion as you explore the areas of life that need attention, helping you connect with others and feel more belonging. My approach is person-centred and acknowledges how childhood experiences shape our adulthood, so that therapy will partly involve coming to terms with the past and how it affects the present.
What if you accepted every part of yourself, even those you hide from the world? What might be possible? Modern life can be challenging, with its demands, expectations and technology, but self-discovery can lead to learning, growth and a greater sense of ease. I can be your calm companion as you explore the areas of life that need attention, helping you connect with others and feel more belonging. My approach is person-centred and acknowledges how childhood experiences shape our adulthood, so that therapy will partly involve coming to terms with the past and how it affects the present.
0161 524 3376 View 0161 524 3376
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Alex Jamie Monteith
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
Do you feel like you have no one to turn to? Someone who would really understand and see your difficulties? Maybe you feel anxious, stressed and stuck? Like something needs to change but you don't know where to start? My name is Alex, I'm an Integrative counsellor, here to listen, to offer you a place to be heard and to start helping you make changes to your life to make it work for you. Throughout the sessions, I offer a caring, accepting and gentle approach as you explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences. I won't tell you what to do, but I'm there to help you find out what you need.
Do you feel like you have no one to turn to? Someone who would really understand and see your difficulties? Maybe you feel anxious, stressed and stuck? Like something needs to change but you don't know where to start? My name is Alex, I'm an Integrative counsellor, here to listen, to offer you a place to be heard and to start helping you make changes to your life to make it work for you. Throughout the sessions, I offer a caring, accepting and gentle approach as you explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences. I won't tell you what to do, but I'm there to help you find out what you need.
01299 666657 View 01299 666657
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Heather Sanderson
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are a student, please ask about concessions. I work from the premise that we don’t have “bad parts,” but we can become unbalanced, and that imbalance can make life feel difficult. By remaining curious, we can explore every part of you. I work with both individuals and couples, helping you navigate recurring patterns and the stuck or hard-to-talk-about places. Individuals: £45, Couples: £60. Ask about concessions.
If you are a student, please ask about concessions. I work from the premise that we don’t have “bad parts,” but we can become unbalanced, and that imbalance can make life feel difficult. By remaining curious, we can explore every part of you. I work with both individuals and couples, helping you navigate recurring patterns and the stuck or hard-to-talk-about places. Individuals: £45, Couples: £60. Ask about concessions.
01235 426913 View 01235 426913
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Neil Hall
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Anyone can access counselling for any reason, there is no ideal client, someone who is willing to explore their inner world and is committed to making positive changes in their life, might get the most out of working with me. If you struggle with issues, such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or self-doubt, feel stuck or overwhelmed and may not know how to move forward or might just be looking to develop as a person.
Anyone can access counselling for any reason, there is no ideal client, someone who is willing to explore their inner world and is committed to making positive changes in their life, might get the most out of working with me. If you struggle with issues, such as anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or self-doubt, feel stuck or overwhelmed and may not know how to move forward or might just be looking to develop as a person.
01922 664907 View 01922 664907
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Miles Dorfman - Therapist and ADHD Specialist
Psychotherapist, MA, BACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling stuck? Low? I work with individuals around ADHD, relationship concerns, depression, anxiety, self-development, social anxiety, and more. In my structured yet warm approach, I equip you with the tools to recognise and challenge your issues, instead of just putting a plaster on the symptoms. While working to uncover, challenge and dissolve unhelpful cognitions, we will also identify suboptimal aspects of your present life that are changeable, and work together to strategise forward.
Feeling stuck? Low? I work with individuals around ADHD, relationship concerns, depression, anxiety, self-development, social anxiety, and more. In my structured yet warm approach, I equip you with the tools to recognise and challenge your issues, instead of just putting a plaster on the symptoms. While working to uncover, challenge and dissolve unhelpful cognitions, we will also identify suboptimal aspects of your present life that are changeable, and work together to strategise forward.
020 3697 6940 View 020 3697 6940
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Gavin McDonald
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you feeling lost? Doing things that don't fit who you are? Or does it feel like you just don't know yourself anymore? I can help you find yourself again. You can't follow the same old script, you have to dare to write your own story: exploring, questioning, and embracing every part of who you are. Self-discovery is an advenrure whether it's about defying norms, fighting for your own survival or searching for clarity, transformation, and connection. You don't have to wait I'm here to help you write your story - Book: www.lpg.scot/book-gavin
Are you feeling lost? Doing things that don't fit who you are? Or does it feel like you just don't know yourself anymore? I can help you find yourself again. You can't follow the same old script, you have to dare to write your own story: exploring, questioning, and embracing every part of who you are. Self-discovery is an advenrure whether it's about defying norms, fighting for your own survival or searching for clarity, transformation, and connection. You don't have to wait I'm here to help you write your story - Book: www.lpg.scot/book-gavin
0141 483 7489 View 0141 483 7489
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Sophie Bryson
Counsellor, MBABCP
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with clients of any gender on issues such as orgasm issues, erection problems, premature/early ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain and penetration problems (e.g. vaginismus, vestibulodynia, vulvodynia), compulsive sexual behaviour, gender identity, kink and fetish exploration, this list isn't exhaustive so please reach out to hear more.
I am a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, a Clinical Sexologist and a Relationship Therapist. I understand that therapy can be daunting, especially when discussing intimacy and sexual issues. Creating a safe, non-judgmental space is central to my work, allowing you to explore your experiences openly. Psycho-sexual therapy can support emotional wellbeing, strengthen relationships and enhance your sex life. My integrative approach tailors interventions to the individual's needs, helping individuals, couples and intimate partners gain deeper insight into themselves, their bodies, and their connection to sex.
I work with clients of any gender on issues such as orgasm issues, erection problems, premature/early ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain and penetration problems (e.g. vaginismus, vestibulodynia, vulvodynia), compulsive sexual behaviour, gender identity, kink and fetish exploration, this list isn't exhaustive so please reach out to hear more.
I am a Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, a Clinical Sexologist and a Relationship Therapist. I understand that therapy can be daunting, especially when discussing intimacy and sexual issues. Creating a safe, non-judgmental space is central to my work, allowing you to explore your experiences openly. Psycho-sexual therapy can support emotional wellbeing, strengthen relationships and enhance your sex life. My integrative approach tailors interventions to the individual's needs, helping individuals, couples and intimate partners gain deeper insight into themselves, their bodies, and their connection to sex.
0131 381 3520 View 0131 381 3520
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Steven Curic MBACP Psychotherapeutic Counsellor
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Online Only
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and Clinical Supervisor and Accredited/Registered member of BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and Prof/Accred member of NCPS (National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society). I am also a BUPA Recognised and Fee Assured Mental Health and Well-being Practitioner and registered as a Health Provider with Nuffield Health, Aviva, AXA PPP and Vitality. My work experience includes working with minority, multicultural, neurodiverse and LGBTQ+ clients and the provision of Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity (GSRD) affirmative therapy.
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and Clinical Supervisor and Accredited/Registered member of BACP (British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy) and Prof/Accred member of NCPS (National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society). I am also a BUPA Recognised and Fee Assured Mental Health and Well-being Practitioner and registered as a Health Provider with Nuffield Health, Aviva, AXA PPP and Vitality. My work experience includes working with minority, multicultural, neurodiverse and LGBTQ+ clients and the provision of Gender, Sexuality & Relationship Diversity (GSRD) affirmative therapy.
020 8129 6867 View 020 8129 6867
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Paul James Wheatley
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Hello my name is Paul James Wheatley and I am a fully qualified and accredited male psychotherapist registered with the UKCP. I am also a counsellor and a fully registered member of the BACP which means I abide by there professional ethics and codes of conduct. I am also a member of UPCS. I have insurance and a full DBS.
Hello my name is Paul James Wheatley and I am a fully qualified and accredited male psychotherapist registered with the UKCP. I am also a counsellor and a fully registered member of the BACP which means I abide by there professional ethics and codes of conduct. I am also a member of UPCS. I have insurance and a full DBS.
01785 336035 View 01785 336035
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Michael F Harris
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I'm Michael, a fully qualified therapist, governed by BACP, NCPS & BPS accredited counselling bodies. I offer Life and Wellness therapy in Bristol (and beyond) to individuals, couples, groups and companies. My Bristol Counselling practice (and beyond) is online, or by telephone, across English-speaking time zones, at a schedule that works for you. I help you find your Blazing Soul - balance and direction, clarity and focus, increased confidence and self-esteem, and improved mental, physical and emotional wealth.
I'm Michael, a fully qualified therapist, governed by BACP, NCPS & BPS accredited counselling bodies. I offer Life and Wellness therapy in Bristol (and beyond) to individuals, couples, groups and companies. My Bristol Counselling practice (and beyond) is online, or by telephone, across English-speaking time zones, at a schedule that works for you. I help you find your Blazing Soul - balance and direction, clarity and focus, increased confidence and self-esteem, and improved mental, physical and emotional wealth.
01454 803912 View 01454 803912
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Natalie Kumar
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
I am a registered trauma-informed integrative and creative counsellor and an advanced EFT practitioner. I am certified in working therapeutically with trauma, working therapeutically with children and young people, facilitating CISD, and facilitating group therapy. Experienced with neurodivergence, bereavement, sight loss, and relationship difficulties, I can gently support clients through significant life changes.
I am a registered trauma-informed integrative and creative counsellor and an advanced EFT practitioner. I am certified in working therapeutically with trauma, working therapeutically with children and young people, facilitating CISD, and facilitating group therapy. Experienced with neurodivergence, bereavement, sight loss, and relationship difficulties, I can gently support clients through significant life changes.
0121 816 1197 View 0121 816 1197
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.