Marriage Counselling in Westcliff-on-Sea

Zac Gensberg
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Hello! I love therapy, sitting in either chair. As a therapist, I get to provide support and a kind, empathetic ear; I get to witness hard work, growth and passion from those taking their wellbeing into their hands, and I get to be myself. As a client, I've learned many things about myself, I've learned how to communicate, and overcome my own fears; it is these experiences that lead me to becoming a counsellor.
Hello! I love therapy, sitting in either chair. As a therapist, I get to provide support and a kind, empathetic ear; I get to witness hard work, growth and passion from those taking their wellbeing into their hands, and I get to be myself. As a client, I've learned many things about myself, I've learned how to communicate, and overcome my own fears; it is these experiences that lead me to becoming a counsellor.
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The Spectrum Tree Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I am able to work with children, adolescents, adults, and couples.
I offer a non judgemental, safe and empathetic space, whilst exploring whatever you may bring within your Therapeutic journey. I specialise in working with individuals who are Neurodivergent, and their family members. I have experience working with individuals who are experiencing Loss, anxiety, identity and burnout issues, Imposter syndrome, and much more.
I am able to work with children, adolescents, adults, and couples.
I offer a non judgemental, safe and empathetic space, whilst exploring whatever you may bring within your Therapeutic journey. I specialise in working with individuals who are Neurodivergent, and their family members. I have experience working with individuals who are experiencing Loss, anxiety, identity and burnout issues, Imposter syndrome, and much more.
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Debbie Cooke
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I am a qualified integrative Counsellor. I work from my therapy room in a converted woodshed on a farm in Writtle, my home in Westcliff or online via zoom. My main aim is to provide you with a confidential, warm and safe environment so that you will feel at ease and be able to talk to me about whatever is concerning you. In our 1st session together we will explore your reasons for seeking counselling/therapy and whether we can build a mutual relationship of trust and respect. We can then work towards you developing strategies and coping skills, bringing about effective change to resolve difficulties and enhance your wellbeing.
I am a qualified integrative Counsellor. I work from my therapy room in a converted woodshed on a farm in Writtle, my home in Westcliff or online via zoom. My main aim is to provide you with a confidential, warm and safe environment so that you will feel at ease and be able to talk to me about whatever is concerning you. In our 1st session together we will explore your reasons for seeking counselling/therapy and whether we can build a mutual relationship of trust and respect. We can then work towards you developing strategies and coping skills, bringing about effective change to resolve difficulties and enhance your wellbeing.
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Musonda Mwila
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
With specialist training and clinical experience with a Relate service, I have a strong background in couples therapy, supporting partners through a wide range of relationship challenges.
I offer therapy for relationship and sexual concerns, including communication, intimacy, erection difficulties, painful sex, low desire, and performance anxiety. I also offer therapy for compulsive sexual behaviour or sexual behaviour you find problematic.
With specialist training and clinical experience with a Relate service, I have a strong background in couples therapy, supporting partners through a wide range of relationship challenges.
I offer therapy for relationship and sexual concerns, including communication, intimacy, erection difficulties, painful sex, low desire, and performance anxiety. I also offer therapy for compulsive sexual behaviour or sexual behaviour you find problematic.
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Cindy Yeates
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with children, young people and adults. I provide a safe and trusting space to enable my clients to explore what it is that has brought them to counselling. I believe in empowering my clients so they explore their feelings and experiences, to work towards liberating themselves from these restricting and overwhelming feelings in order to live a happier life, with more self worth and confidence.
I work with children, young people and adults. I provide a safe and trusting space to enable my clients to explore what it is that has brought them to counselling. I believe in empowering my clients so they explore their feelings and experiences, to work towards liberating themselves from these restricting and overwhelming feelings in order to live a happier life, with more self worth and confidence.
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Jenna Harrison
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
No one person is immune to the difficulties, stresses and strains that life can challenge us with. Do you want someone to talk to? To help, to no longer feel alone? Counselling provides you with a safe place where you can feel heard, understood, respected and accepted. We will explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and issues. This can enable us to move forward. To live a life of fulfillment, acceptance to reach your best potential and find peace within that. First session is used to explore what counselling is like in more depth. This enables me to understand your wants and needs for us to move forward together.
No one person is immune to the difficulties, stresses and strains that life can challenge us with. Do you want someone to talk to? To help, to no longer feel alone? Counselling provides you with a safe place where you can feel heard, understood, respected and accepted. We will explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and issues. This can enable us to move forward. To live a life of fulfillment, acceptance to reach your best potential and find peace within that. First session is used to explore what counselling is like in more depth. This enables me to understand your wants and needs for us to move forward together.
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Yvette White
Counsellor, BACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are coming as a couple, you may feel disconnected, caught in recurring arguments or unsure how to move forward.
Testimonial "I would like to thank you for the recent therapy that I undertook with you. I found you a very empathic listener and felt that you let me express my feelings re issues of my concern in my own way. I found the whole session liberating and rewarding. I was surprised as to how non judgemental you were"
If you are coming as a couple, you may feel disconnected, caught in recurring arguments or unsure how to move forward.
Testimonial "I would like to thank you for the recent therapy that I undertook with you. I found you a very empathic listener and felt that you let me express my feelings re issues of my concern in my own way. I found the whole session liberating and rewarding. I was surprised as to how non judgemental you were"
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Ky Harkins Life Counselling Services
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer counselling to adults and teenagers for various different issues including anxiety, stress, depression, grief and loss, trauma, abuse, panic attacks, OCD, couples counselling etc
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
I offer counselling to adults and teenagers for various different issues including anxiety, stress, depression, grief and loss, trauma, abuse, panic attacks, OCD, couples counselling etc
Most of my clients come to me knowing they are not happy but they don't always know why. Sometimes it is because of the people and circumstances around them and sometimes it is because they keep repeating the same behaviours that are not producing a happy life for them. My job is to help people understand what it is in their lives that they are not happy with, or want to change and to imagine a life with the new changes in it. I work with the client to provide a safe, comfortable environment for them to explore what is going on for them and how they can make the changes to live a happy, fulfilling life.
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Robert J M Dodds
Counsellor
Online Only
Whether you’re with me for counselling, long term psychodynamic therapy, or couple’s counselling, I’ll tailor my approach to meet your needs.
I work with a range of issues including: depression, anxiety, adult ADHD, autistic spectrum disorder, grief, gender and sexual identity, childhood trauma, personality disorders, self harm, and attachment disorders.
Whether you’re with me for counselling, long term psychodynamic therapy, or couple’s counselling, I’ll tailor my approach to meet your needs.
I work with a range of issues including: depression, anxiety, adult ADHD, autistic spectrum disorder, grief, gender and sexual identity, childhood trauma, personality disorders, self harm, and attachment disorders.
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Louise Christie
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I also work with couples who are managing the complexities of modern life, whether it's balancing demanding schedules, working through communication issues, dealing with financial pressures, or navigating the roles we take on within our family structures.
Modern day life can have a profound impact on our emotional wellbeing. The pressures and pace of everyday responsibilities can lead to feelings of depression and anxiety, including panic attacks. These experiences can create a sense of loneliness and disconnection, often causing inner unrest and a loss of connection to ourselves and others.
I also work with couples who are managing the complexities of modern life, whether it's balancing demanding schedules, working through communication issues, dealing with financial pressures, or navigating the roles we take on within our family structures.
Modern day life can have a profound impact on our emotional wellbeing. The pressures and pace of everyday responsibilities can lead to feelings of depression and anxiety, including panic attacks. These experiences can create a sense of loneliness and disconnection, often causing inner unrest and a loss of connection to ourselves and others.
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Wright Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
We may find that we are becoming over defensive from criticism, have fears of being alone, being hurt, of conflict or of your partner engulfing you as a person.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
We may find that we are becoming over defensive from criticism, have fears of being alone, being hurt, of conflict or of your partner engulfing you as a person.
Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by the stresses in life? Feel unable to make decisions? Do you condemn yourself for making the 'wrong' decision? We can be good at condemning ourselves and be our worst critic. Discovering what patterns are happening for us over and over again, and preparing yourself for these, knowing what you can and can't do, can feel empowering. Being able to express yourself knowing that you can be heard without fear, embarrassment or shame but with acceptance of you as a person can be life changing. I can help you look at making changes and find bespoke ways to support and establish a way forward for you.
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Headgame
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Sport Psych.
London SE18
Welcome! I'm Friendly and Professional Psychologist with extensive experience working internationally across elite sports, performing arts, & business, bringing a holistic approach to enhancing overall well-being. As a qualified counsellor, HCPC registered, & BPS chartered psychologist, I'm dedicated to fostering growth & resilience in my clients worldwide. If you are seeking support in your personal &/or professional life, I collaborate with you to achieve your goals. Together, we'll focus on reducing anxiety, boosting confidence, managing stressors, returning from injury, enhancing performance, & promoting emotional well-being.
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Mamta Ward
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Bromley BR2
I work with people figuring out identity, couples who've drifted into parallel lives, neurodivergent adults tired of translating themselves, and anyone for whom intimacy or desire has become complicated.
I work with individuals and couples across a wide range of needs, with specialist experience in gender and sexual identity exploration, racial and cultural identity, neurodivergence, psychosexual therapy, and ethical non-monogamy. My approach is grounded in lived experience and is integrative, balanced and affirming, with gentle challenge where needed.
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Lorraine Alison Faisal
Counsellor, MBACP
Rainham RM13
How many minutes, hours, days, weeks, months or years have you spent wanting to change the way you live your life? How many different methods have you tried to silence your inner critic ? But failed because self doubt, guilt, anger, shame, procrastination or fear has kept you psychologically paralysed? How many times have you told yourself that you are going to stop your self destructive behaviour, only to find yourself embroiled in the same self defeating habits the next day, week or month? Do you see yourself ebbing further and further away from your life goals, dreams and ambitions?
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HMA Talk Therapy
Counsellor, MSc, UKCP Trainee
Serves Area
If you are feeling lost or overwhelmed by past, present, or future concerns, I can offer a warm, non-judgmental space to explore these experiences at your own pace. I have practiced therapeutically for over 7 years, and I am highly experienced in working across diverse socio-cultural backgrounds and settings- including the NHS and Third-sector organisations. I have a BSc & MSc in Psychology, and I am nearing completion of my Doctoral Training in Counselling Psychology & Psychotherapy. My clinical work is confidentially and robustly supported by a highly qualified and experienced Clinical Supervisior.
If you are feeling lost or overwhelmed by past, present, or future concerns, I can offer a warm, non-judgmental space to explore these experiences at your own pace. I have practiced therapeutically for over 7 years, and I am highly experienced in working across diverse socio-cultural backgrounds and settings- including the NHS and Third-sector organisations. I have a BSc & MSc in Psychology, and I am nearing completion of my Doctoral Training in Counselling Psychology & Psychotherapy. My clinical work is confidentially and robustly supported by a highly qualified and experienced Clinical Supervisior.
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BVY Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello I’m Michelle an integrative Counsellor who has experience working internationally with clients who struggle with Stress and Anxiety, coping with Addictions and intimacy related issues. I also have experience working with motivation, self esteem and confidence. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.
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Maria Kirby
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Waitlist for new clients
Working with individuals (16+) and couples, I provide warm, non-judgemental, compassionate therapy in a confidential space - online or in person from a dedicated consulting room at my Chelmsford home - to support you in an exploration towards insight, resilience and a freer, more positive way of living.
Making sense of past and present experiences, emotions and relationships can support change. By building trust in a safe, therapeutic relationship we can explore your thoughts, feelings, unconscious processes and how they influence life. A Masters in psychodynamic therapy and training in Internal Family Systems and NeuroAffective Touch underpin my practice.
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Matt Goss
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Faversham ME13
I’m an experienced therapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy [BACP]. I offer a supportive, safe and confidential space where clients are helped to explore and understand difficulties arising from past or present experiences. I am located in Faversham and work with all ages (including children and adolescents) carrying out short term and long term therapy. I offer a free initial telephone consultation and if you wish to proceed with therapy I can arrange a face to face appointment within a week. Day & evening appointments are available.
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At Pro Comfort Counselling, individuals, couples, and families can access support for emotional difficulties, relationship strain, anxiety, panic, low mood, family conflict, and periods of personal or professional transition.
Support is offered through an integrative approach adapted to the situation. Depending on the client’s needs, the work may draw on CBT, ACT, and systemic or relational perspectives. All services offered under the name Pro Comfort Counselling are provided exclusively by founder psychologist Marian Claudiu Ciuhan, MBPsS.
At Pro Comfort Counselling, individuals, couples, and families can access support for emotional difficulties, relationship strain, anxiety, panic, low mood, family conflict, and periods of personal or professional transition.
Support is offered through an integrative approach adapted to the situation. Depending on the client’s needs, the work may draw on CBT, ACT, and systemic or relational perspectives. All services offered under the name Pro Comfort Counselling are provided exclusively by founder psychologist Marian Claudiu Ciuhan, MBPsS.
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Selin Akarsu - OCD Specialist & Couples Therapist
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialise in OCD and couples therapy, with a clear, structured approach to both.
I am an experienced and accredited CBT and Couples Psychotherapist with over a decade of NHS, schools and the third sector. I act as a guest lecturer part-time on graduate university programmes and offer supervision for qualified and trainee therapists. I specialise in couples therapy, OCD, self esteem, body image, anxiety disorders and trauma.
I specialise in OCD and couples therapy, with a clear, structured approach to both.
I am an experienced and accredited CBT and Couples Psychotherapist with over a decade of NHS, schools and the third sector. I act as a guest lecturer part-time on graduate university programmes and offer supervision for qualified and trainee therapists. I specialise in couples therapy, OCD, self esteem, body image, anxiety disorders and trauma.
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FAQ - Marriage Counselling
What issues does marriage counselling help with?
Marriage counselling can address common relationship concerns, including ongoing conflict, communication challenges, emotional distance, or difficulty making decisions together. It may also be helpful for couples who are not currently experiencing major problems but want to prepare for future life changes. For more specific concerns affecting one individual in the relationship, such as trauma, depression, or significant substance use concerns, individual therapy may be more appropriate than marriage counselling.

When is the right time to start marriage counselling?
There is no single “right” time to start marriage counselling, but certain signs may suggest that counselling could be helpful. For example, a couple may benefit from counselling if many conversations end in conflict, if negative interactions are becoming more frequent, or if relationship stress is affecting other areas of life, such as sleep, work, parenting, or friendships. Some couples also seek counselling proactively. Premarital counselling, for instance, allows couples to discuss communication styles, finances, family dynamics, and future goals before getting married. Other couples may start counselling before a major life change, such as becoming parents, relocating, or navigating a stressful career transition.

Is marriage counselling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Marriage counselling may still help even if one partner is more hesitant to attend, as long as both people are ultimately willing to participate in sessions. Once counselling is underway, the more hesitant partner may become more open to sessions that can strengthen the relationship and build coping skills and communication strategies. If one partner refuses to attend, individual therapy may still help the other partner understand their needs, set boundaries, and decide how to approach the relationship.

Is online marriage counselling as effective as in-person?
There are differing opinions on the best format for marriage counselling. While some studies show that online marriage counselling can be as effective as in-person counselling, some argue that in-person counselling is more effective because it allows the therapist to better pick up on context and body language cues. In addition, in-person counselling may be a better fit for couples who are working through high-conflict issues. Ultimately, the “best” format depends on the couple’s specific needs and concerns.

What is faith-based marriage counselling and how is it different?
Faith-based marriage counselling incorporates a couple’s religious or spiritual beliefs into counselling. It may be a good fit for couples who want to discuss their relationship, values, and marriage within the context of their faith. For example, Christian marriage counselling may appeal to couples who want a counsellor familiar with Christian beliefs about marriage. Other forms of faith-based counselling may incorporate Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, or other religious perspectives into sessions.

How much does marriage counselling cost and is it covered by insurance?
Marriage counselling is usually paid for privately in Great Britain, rather than through the NHS, and sessions often cost around £60 to £120 or more. Fees depend on location, with costs generally higher in the London area, as well as counsellor experience, session length, and practice setting. However, lower-cost options may be available through sliding scale fees, which adjust the cost of counselling based on income, as well as through community clinics or non-profit organisations that offer reduced-cost services.